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FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 10:07pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
plz just put the price as I listed it. We all have different view & I don't disagree with other ppl's view but let's just be real here. State ur price.
Do you mean the price for each or for all...
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 9:23pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
let me list the things need & someone should help put the cost.

1. Drinks & cash for introducetion
2. Bride & groom traditional wears
3. The list giving by the bride's ppl
4. Traditional wedding food & drinks
5. Wedding ring
6. Cloths for the bride's parent
7. Printing of wedding cards
8. The bride price
9. Cake
10.White wedding cloths, bag & shoe
11.Canopy & chairs for traditional marriage
12.Rantage of hull for white wedding
13.Decoration of hull
14.Food & drinks for white wedding
15.Gift items for slovenias.

Ok someone should cost the items I have listted & let see what the total cost will be.
this list plenty oooo... the list really need money... big money for that matter...
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 9:13pm On Oct 19, 2014
chlowi:
Bro? shocked am female grin
sorry abt it... I check ur pic N ur hip is just so sexy... nice one
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 7:34pm On Oct 19, 2014
chlowi:
Are you for Real? Is that nt too much? Just for a celebration? Is he Dangote's son? If he spends such huge sum, what happens to cost of living etc when the family becomes large?

Haba, Bia Nwoke, someone said 200k, my take is 500 (intro,trad, court, white) as a young man who is starting life , I'd rather you invest that 1.5 or 2m into bizness /or open a good business for your wife if she ain't working.

I'd rather lavish such amount on my anniversary!!!
you have a point bro..
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 6:04pm On Oct 19, 2014
Few hours from now which is precisely tomorrow... The fate of so many shall be known... Some will be so filled with joy by receiving or seeing their their call up number and some will be depressed just to know they won't make batch C 2014... due to one reason or the other... its going to be mixed feelings tomorrow... I pray you all get your call up number.

I noticed that the thread is kind of slow since yesterday because so many are still filled with anxiety, patiently waiting for tomorrow. I bet you this thread will move with the speed of light tomorrow with so many complains and so many congratulatory messages.

Let's just keep our fingers crossed and hope for good news tomorrow...

Happy Sunday!
EducationRe: As A Christain Will You Prefer To Cheat in order to Pass Or To Fail Honourably by butanep(op): 5:30pm On Oct 19, 2014
podosci:
Dont be used to failure oooo.....its a bad disease oooooo,,please endeavour to change ur mindset
I forbid this your failure syndrone
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2014
Odilafta:
If you're waiting to make enough money before settling down,you would get to 55years and still remain single..

With the kind of money you have already,a traditional,white and honeymoon can be covered and you would still have change,that-s of course if you don't want to feed the nation
are u serious
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 2:01pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
like I said, its my opinion if u have a different opinion from mine, u can state ur own opinion.

And what is ur biz if i dictate what I want to my man. I can dictate putting in consideration what he can afford there are some men that are willing to give a woman anything she wants as much as then can afford it & not going into debt. That u can't afford a wedding of 1.5 or 2m does not mean that some other person can't afford that. If I can afford 1m for my wedding then I see no reason why my husband can not afford 1.5m or 2m.

People are different, some will even give a wedding of 5m and above.
so you will advise your husband to through in 5m naira for a wedding... Na waa oooo
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 1:58pm On Oct 19, 2014
iykedare:
Marriage for two. Bills for one.
Guy I tire ooo... where two want to marry and one person is paying the bills...
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 1:56pm On Oct 19, 2014
real22:
My own opinion. You should have a stable job or a good source of income. You should be able to rent a good apartment for ur new family & at least give your wife #30k to #40k every month for the up keep of the house.

Then for the marriage plan form introduction to traditional to white wedding have a budget of 1.5m to 2m naira.
Babe I hail oooo... This your plan nor be hear ooo... 2m naira as budget for wedding... I think 2m naira budget plan for wedding is just too much for an average....
FamilyRe: How Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 1:31pm On Oct 19, 2014
lomaxx:
What investments do you have on ground?

Do you have SOURCES of income?
yea... I do but those not really pay that much...
EducationAs A Christain Will You Prefer To Cheat in order to Pass Or To Fail Honourably by butanep(op): 1:19pm On Oct 19, 2014
As a christian what will you do when you are in an examination hall and found out the question that came out was far from what you read... and the implication is that, failure is just waiting for you if you decide to submit like that... The questions where just strange to you that you couldn't answer them...
You observe that there is a guy close to you that have answers to the question and you re very sure the answers is correct. You found out that, he is sharing to whoever is interested.

What will you do as a true christian in such situation? Will you prefer to cheat to pass OR fail honorably.
FamilyHow Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 8:59am On Oct 19, 2014
This issues has been bothering me for some time now... I keep asking my self how much do I need to have as reserve before I settle down for a woman. When I imagine the cost of getting married this modern era, I just begin to tell my self I have to work more harder to save more money.
From the point of introduction, to the point of traditional marriage to white wedding to reception to even honey moon... I know all these will cost alot, so I just keep wondering how muchdo a man need on an average to run all this expenses and settle down. " To be a man is not easy shall".
I ve less than a million naira in my account, but above 500k and my friend keep telling me am good to go to settle down... not that an old ooo, am still in my late 20's. I get angry with him because I think he is just clueless. I do estimate that a man should have at least a million naira before he think of settling down.

So what's your opinion about the amount a guy need to settle down and do an average wedding plans?
RomanceHow Much To A Man Really Need To Settle Down. by butanep(op): 8:33am On Oct 19, 2014
This issues has been bothering me for some time now... I keep asking my self how much do I need to have as reserve before I settle down for a woman. When I imagine the cost of getting married this modern era, I just begin to tell my self I have to work more harder to save more money.
From the point of introduction, to the point of traditional marriage to white wedding to reception to even honey moon... I know all these will cost alot, so I just keep wondering how muchdo a man need on an average to run all this expenses and settle down. " To be a man is not easy shall".
I ve less than a million naira in my account, but above 500k and my friend keep telling me am good to go to settle down... not that an old ooo, am still in my late 20's. I get angry with him because I think he is just clueless. I do estimate that a man should have at least a million naira before he think of settling down.

So what's your opinion about the amount a guy need to settle down and do an average wedding plans?
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 8:18am On Oct 19, 2014
Horlawoomey:
The anxiety is becoming too much for me that I can't just be alone in a place without thinking of NYSC.
I thought is all about NYSC.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 6:02am On Oct 19, 2014
sodiqyinka:
Printing of Call up letters by those that paid in 9days.

Collection of Call up letters for those that didnt pay in 10days.

Batch C 2014 Orientation Camps open in 16days.

Happy sunday guys. The time is near.
very close my guy... every of my dream of recent is about NYSC...let the day come for my anxiety to come to an end...
I greet you man...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 5:57am On Oct 19, 2014
ridimic1:
thanks butanep...not all d list i uploaded..im having problem uploading some but wil try lera .lol i don send u mail oya reply

ya unibenites always like practising love to dia felows....its jus an acquired comrade spirit from 100l
Baba I greet you. I ve. Replied your mail... Na Man you be. keep the good work...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 7:44pm On Oct 18, 2014
raystar96:
@sodiqyinka,u are simply outstanding on this page.....NYSC needs 2 present u with an Astonishing Award for ur Excellent perfomance on this trend.i just have some few question to ask sir...(1)is it possible for me to work with NNPC considering NYSC posting polices?....(2)Is it true dat corpers salaries have been increasedhuh.cheers
it is very possible to work with NNPC... But it will be easier if you ve an insider in the company that ve to influence it... the company will ve to request for you through ur influence inside... it is easier for those who study engineering or sciences...


For allowee I don't think it has been increases... I know there are plans to increase it but it has not been effected...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 7:18pm On Oct 18, 2014
abumuhd:
@butanep call up number not letter. @ Akerry in order to draww attention and get quick reply
I though as much...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 6:22pm On Oct 18, 2014
abumuhd:
Hey all. Please did any one receive call up letter today 2ru sms or email ??because dey said thoz dat paid and havnt received yet wil get their own by weekends b4 monday
do you mean call up no or call up letter?
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 5:39pm On Oct 18, 2014
psymonds:
I WAS DEEPLY TOUCHED BY THIS.
I WISH GREAT MAKURDIANS CAN BORROW A LEAF FROM DIS GREAT SHOW OF LOVE. THUMBS UP TO THE POSTER FOR BEING VERY OBSERVANT AND TO THE QUOTED FOR DISPLAYING SUCH BROTHERLY ATTITUDE OF UNITY.
Na soo...
RomanceRe: What Is The Dumbest Lie Your Ex Ever Told You? by butanep(m): 3:24pm On Oct 18, 2014
Women N lies
My first ex told me she hate sex with passion but by the time we started, I was the one running from sex... Na lie, she actually liked sex.

Baby don't leave me because I can't do without you... that na big lie... because she actually tell more than 5 guyz that...


I ve like 6 guyz wooing me when I meet you but there is something special I saw about you... Story... You were actually better than the rest...

I don't allow the mere words of women make me feel ontop the world because most of them a liers.

Women mouth are full with lies since 1900
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 10:22am On Oct 18, 2014
Tnot:
Thanks
u re welcome
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 9:44am On Oct 18, 2014
ridimic1:
uniben
@ ridimic1[color=#000099][/color] you are just simply the best... just deserve a wine in this forum... I cut hand for you... uploading the full uniben list pasted was a nice job... you didn't just go there to check yours but to bring it to others... Baba na woman born you.
You have prove yourself outstanding in this house. Some people go there to check their but you took the pain to snap and ur MB to upload it... I greet you. That is a true UNIBEN blood... UNIBEN student allow their brothers keeper since 1970. Am proud to rep UNIBN. Weldone job.
Guy box me ur pin or no
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 9:19am On Oct 18, 2014
Tnot:
Ok guys, good morning to you all... I think I've got to ask this question before its to late.
I did a change of name since 2011 and I have a affidavit. Do I have to publish it in newspaper?
of course now... for the general public to know... affidavit alone is not enough... you have to publish it in one of the National Newspapers and get a copy of it for some certain reasons...Any application you intend to seek for, a photocopy of that page must be enclosed.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 9:11am On Oct 18, 2014
promise2020:
which school is that? Is it realy true that influencin our posting will end today? What is stil holdin unical from pastin dis list
it ought to end today... some certain persons are saying it has been extended to 22nd which I ve nt confirm.
Just make sure the person is realible because it's very difficult @ this time.
tunmmyunited:
True talk..... I removed my head dressing 4 Sodigyinka.......
I know him... I ve been following this thread for long. What I was trying to say is that the normal influencing of posting ought to end today...I ve nt confirm if it has been extended but I will tell you that 60% of posting that will be done from on monday might fail except the person doing it is very influential.
Am saying it so that some persons will be careful about giving their money or trust to someone that is not reliable...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 9:02am On Oct 18, 2014
promise2020:
which school is that? Is it realy true that influencin our posting will end today? What is stil holdin unical from pastin dis list
it ought to end today... some certain persons are saying it has been extended to 22nd which I ve nt confirm.
Just make sure the person is realible because it's very difficult @ this time.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 8:57am On Oct 18, 2014
emeka51:
My brother I believe you're very new here. I Myself,sodiqyinka and some other great dude here are the pioneer members of this great thread. The integrity of sodiqyinka have been tested soo many times here and he had lived up to expectation. So my brother your may be correct but sodiqyinka is more correct.
Pls all those with post here should come out and state they positions.
I remain my humble self Emeka51 the financial sec of this great house.
No problem... New or Old... am not arguing with anybody.. what am trying to say is for certain people not to fall into the hands of 419... anybody that can still influence ur posting now, should be a big person in NYSC.
Just get the message...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 11:03pm On Oct 17, 2014
sodiqyinka:
Not true sir. Concessional posting was extended till 22nd because of PCMs issues. Cheers
who is telling you that... I have aunty working there my guy... There reserved certain slot for some certain influential personal candidate which is to be filled and concluded by monday... But for the ordinary influencing of posting, it ends tonight... except your papa na Major General...
After that Monday, everything about posting influence end... am just telling you bro...make anybody nor go eat your Money
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 10:52pm On Oct 17, 2014
Sashafm:
how authentic is your source?
I got the information from somebody in NYSC Abuja... it's so authentic...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 10:20pm On Oct 17, 2014
Influencing your posting Ends by 12 midnight today. After today, there is hardly anything anybody can do to influence your posting except the person na Goodluck himself... Don't be deceived by anyone who still tell you something can be done...
The arrangement for posting will be concluded to night and call up letter will start coming out as from 23\24th for those that paid the said amount...
Patiently waiting...
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by butanep(m): 6:30pm On Oct 17, 2014
tawa89:
Thanks boss...
you are most highly welcome...

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