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bist:
"Go ye into thy camp and phucketh some women, be ye armed with dyck n words, and thou shall be cald PooSea crook"

you mean today sunday? Did you pay for the 4k registration fee?

derespect:
I have received my call up number too. Thank God am now one of d latest corpers in town.

are you serious? When did you get the message? Did you pay for the 4k registration?

Mondisweets:
What she is doing is not right but i agree with you, he really needs to get a job

Men really need money to make a good home.

tatiana009:
Both of them are wrong, why will he deny his wife sex! If a woman denies her husband sex because she's not happy or whatever everyone will blame her so we should do the same here. She's also wrong for selling him the food, whatever belongs to the wife belongs to the husband and vice versa.

They should address the real problems which are him withholding sex and his lack of lack of income. Let him start a biz no matter how small, the wife can contribute for him to do that . Also let him resume his duties as a husband by giving her sex immediately even if the business isn't up yet.

By the way whatever money he is using to buy the good from her why didn't he give her that to buy groceries to begin with? Maybe the wife noticed him hiding money and that's why she asks him to buy the food. Let both parties just be honest

I am not supporting the man but the woman went too far buy selling food for the husband...for the man, I think it's hard time he wake up from his sleep and get a job.

Mondisweets:
Im sorry this is too funny
This man better hustle fast o
Honestly, if this guy can buy cooked food from his wife, surely he still can afford to but some groceries in the house. He should be doing that instead.

am telling you... The man case is really serious... he might start paying to sleep in the house.

Ochillary:
And chelsea fans with their smelly mouth

your mouth must be smelling as well...

theLORDreigns:
There was an obvious breach in communication between husband & wife which you (& I) may never get to know the full details about, considering you only just stumbled on the couple this morning after your church service.

If the husband paid for the very first meal his wife sold to him then he called her bluff, started a trend & should be prepared to follow through (or beg his way out, which is what he's currently doing).

I wish them a happy reconciliation.

Hmm... Me too

Richy4:
My take on this issue is that no condition is permanent.

If he gets a very good job tomorrow, will she have the guts to as for financial assistant from him

I don't think so... the woman mind shall

theLORDreigns:
Free food? How will his wife buy cooking ingredients without money?

If he doesn't want to buy food from his wife, he should at least provide the money she would use in cooking the food.



Different strokes for different folks.
He started off wrongly by paying for the first meal she sold to him...

Are you supporting the woman demanding money from her husband for food?

Congrat dear. Its not an easy task.
If it's UNIBEN, that 4.5 CGPA, they go slash that GP to fall in 2.1. Narrow escape GP, can hardly get first class in UNIBEN...
I will just say she was just favoured. Some person much have gotten scuh GP but it was not given to them... favor is what make the dept consider her...
Congrat all the way...

There is nothing a woman can't do. I was surprised to hear that a woman sold food for her husband because he didn't provide money for food.
This happen today as I was coming from church. The issue so interest me that I wanted to know the rational behind such act. I didn't want to jump into irrational conclusion, so I decide to know in details.
Source close to the woman said the man has lost his Job for year and has been sustaining via the woman. I also gathered from a close source that the man recently refused to have sex with the woman. Reason because he is not happy with his present situation. The woman became unhappy, feeling the man is cheating on him, but I don't know how true the accusation levied on the man is...
Since the woman is now the bread winner of the house, he refused to give the man food for days and after much apology, she decide to sell her food for her husband.
The husband said he is tired of buying food from his own wife, so he decide to call other to beg his wife to allow him get assess to free food before he get a job.
I was surprised about the development. What do you see about this... Is the woman right or wrong?

Pant keee... pant is for the older men while boxers is for the fresh young dude like us. With boxers, there is free flow of air in and out of the John Thomas and it can also exercise it self by erecting and relaxing without any hindrance...
Boxers is the surest for guys... we give the pants to the ladies

Most of you guyz don't understand the meaning of IRRESPONSIBLE... please check your dictionary very well.
Any one that can't take responsibility of his\her duty or duties is irresponsible...be it a man or woman...
The main role of a man is to take proper care of the family... by simply providing the basic need of the family. So I see no reason where a full fleshed able body man can't provide the basic need for the family. Women are there to assist the family but not to take full charge...
How can a woman provide the money I use to eat, pay for rent and cloth my self... God forbid bad thing...Not when am alive. [/b]I must take charge of my family by providing the basic needs and my wife will be there to assist me not the reverse.
[b]I repeat, any man that can't provide the basic need of the family is not only irresponsible but a failure.. there might also be other reasons that can make a man irresponsible but this is the MAIN reason.

Rapsainot: there are some circumstances in which an able man won't be able to cater for his family.

so mention some of the circumstances where an able man can't provide, if not what I ve mention above...

Rapsainot: stop misquoting the Bible in this type of situation, what if he was sacked?

That means you can't read very well. Read the piece, you will see the conditions...

sexybash: Oluwa naputam any man dat refuse to provide for the family
Most times women aid and abet this men to do poo
You give birth to the first child he doesn't take responsibility
Do not take in for the second :-/
Suse the damn contraceptive. Some men are internally useless
If you can't take care of kids then you don't deserve one
Simple

are useless when they are irresponsible for no concrete reason... you re kind of harsh on men

Rapsainot: There are some men that fall into this due to one thing or the other, yet they still tend to be more responsible than those that can even provide in excess

so mention the things that make then fall into the category... any full fleshed able man that can't provide such basic need is a total failure, no matter what... He is not worth to be called a man. He should ve been in his father's house... as far you can provide for your family... that's a step to responsibility... Get it clear...

Joenice: I am in consummate accord with your piece. A woman who cannot cook is not only irresponsible but also cannot make a good wife. I am so surprised that some young women here do not totally agree with this fact. The society is indeed in trouble.

am telling you bro... some guys are even supporting the ladies... I wish them a "cookless" wife...

Any man that can't provide the basic need( food, clothing and shelter) for his family is highly irresponsible and not also fit to be called a Man. Tradition demands that Men should take care of their family( wife and children) and also provide the basic need for them so the family can boast of a healthy and brighter generation.
The only exception to this is when the man is an handicap or disable or lost his job due to one reason or the other. But for a full fleshed able body man that can't provide the basic need of the family is worth nothing and grossly irresponsible. Infact he is a failure to manhood...
The Man is ought to be the head and bread winner of the home no matter how influential or rich the woman is... the man is ought to take responsibility while the woman is there to assist when crisis arise in the family. So when a man fail in taking responsibility by providing for his family, it simply means, the man has wasted over 15 to 20 years of his youthful period.
I wonder the type of generation such kind of man will produce, because the main factor that bring up a bright and healthy family lies primarily on the potentials of the man. Therefore an irresponsible man might end up producing an irresponsible family at the end, because such family will never live a happy life except with God intervention.
This is the reason while it become very necessary for a man to be resourceful in his youthful age by either going to school or learning a vocation or a trade, because with these the man can at least end a better life and produce a healthy family with great ambitions
Show me the caliber of a family and the nature of life the wife and children are living... I will tell you how responsible the man is...

koyyes: You are missing the point. But i understand you.

I understand you too

koyyes: Because every woman is that fortunate to have a job close to home and makes her close by 4pm abi? Can't you see that your rule cannot apply to others? No be age dey make woman old,na suffer head husband.

Coming home late does not make a woman financially buoyant as well... Coming home late is not a criteria that one is living a good life...

doofanc: wosai!!!! its all noise I tell your empty, clanging cymbals. As I said previously, its more of a show off thing. Many of them actually finished cooking for hubby before coming online to type trash.

Is it CONCEIVABLE that an African wife will open her mouth and say she can't cook? Abegiii

it's a big shame for a woman not to know how to cook... That woman should hid just hid somewhere because, it's a show of shame...

koyyes: I won't argue with you..you've spoken like a responsible man. But what will you say about women who work and close late,do you expect them to cook all the time like housewives? haba!

why will a woman come late home... what kind of work is she doing? when other women start taking advantage of the vacuum, she will start coming early...

Jasi7: Na luv wey u dey put inside d food dey make am sweet pass anytin abi....

Secondly,,,he must b very lucky havin u

the lady say she cooks with lot of love... so love is now species or ingredient to make food sweet...
The lady don't knwo how to cook...

plendil: So what if the wife provides the money?

A man that can't provide food for the family is likewise irresponsible... gbam...

olaeffect: and they now go from place to place seeking for spiritual help. Correct me if I am wrong, their is no place in the world (no culture exiting or extinct) that does not glory in their "women" being good cooks.

If you can't cook and you expect your husband to cook for you always; your days of being married are number. Don't let any body deceive you.

let them know... I pity any woman who still justify her inability to cook simple meal... I keep laughing them... Nemesis is waiting for them...

olaeffect: and they now go from place to place seeking for spiritual help. Correct me if I am wrong, their is no place in the world (no culture exiting or extinct) that does not glory in their "women" being good cooks.

If you can't cook and you expect your husband to cook for you always; your days of being married are number. Don't let any body deceive you.

let them know

xoxogirl: even u??

Please would u give ur daughters this archaic advice

my daughter must know how to cook because I must marry a woman that know how to cook ie that is responsible. Only responsible women produce responsible daughters...

Nsonaso:
GBAM with capital LETTERS

NA SOO

I just pity a man who marry a woman that can't cook... no matter what... the home must become polygamous... because they will definitely be an intruder...

drnoel: U would know won't u. U empty vessel making the most noise.

am too big to exchange words with you... Happy independence...