sampitts: I didnt mean physical fight pls, & if u noticed, i said to some extend

why should the ladies fight for guys that are only interested in them becuase of s.....ex. ?

This your English is more complicated than the thread itself

The man is confused , the babe set pass the bride sef women so appealing and tempting , God lead dis man not into temptation so that he does not get denied of p.......unny by his bride after dis...

I laugh in chinese , why won't guys Like ladies that fight over them when it is only ladies that are stu..pid and F..o0lish that will stoop so low to start throwing fist on each other because of a guy that probably has more females hovering around him..I bet most guys will never throw fist on each other over a lady..

Hmmm this your English deserves an apology

Since she has a low self esteem about her self...she is not pretty .. And never will until she change her mindset

Laughing in chinese it is a mans world singing JAMEs Brown it is a mans world...........

Abegi make I hear word ......clueless people

No thought really.... I only have one partner nothing to worry about...just me and her...I can vouch for her without fear and she can do same for me..

Why d babe set pass the bridegroom wife ... It is enough for the bride to be angry see ikebe wey set...women so appealing ...dis is temptation

SUPEr STORY

Are you serious ?

Forget the girl , she has no interest in you she is only interested in what she can get from you ....so because u are asking her out she now start demanding from you ... And u op why must you promise her recharge card when you know u can't deliver sometimes guys like you look for ladies trouble and here u are complaining on nairaland to everyone hoping that everybody will condemn the girl and u looking like a saint .... You are a moongoose op

I don't believe this story , op you are speaking hog wash

lorretta u: Guys who ppl have to stop being shallow.sometimes a girl loses her virginity by force or abuse or didn't knw better when she gave it to the wrong man.that doesn't mean she can't change her thinking and decide to keep her self to the man who marries her,does that mean she doesn't deserve respect?u ppl make me wonder the kind of brains u have.and besides how abt respecting urselves?or u think sleeping around is permissible for men.it's d sam sin if u guyz don't knw.and God doesn't forgive u guys easier,infact ur judgement will be harsh for luring these innocent ones to sin.thank u

who be dis one port comot hia jooor

basadenet:
How would you know if she is a virgin or not? is it not by testing or do you have any other way of knowing, if yes, please let us know.

I tire oo is it not by testing I will know if she is a virgin ...

190:


You call it loosers

we call it test riding and getting to know everything about our perfect one!

ask yourself millions of people getting married everyday arent they having s-e-x

your types wanna close your legs but want a rangerover from your man

you go wait tey - day never break for your head

don't mind her jooor she does not know anything I bet na smally girl wey just they start life .let her ask her seniors that have been there

190:


You call it loosers

we call it test riding and getting to know everything about our perfect one!

ask yourself millions of people getting married everyday arent they having s-e-x

your types wanna close your legs but want a rangerover from your man

you go wait tey - day never break for your head

@190 bruv I feel you man, don't waste your time explaining jack , guys know women for who they are .. Women are very emotional ... Men can sweet talk them into giving up anything of theirs e.g p........unny women are weak in matters of the heart..

BarryX: Sincerely, i don't want to test before marriage whether She's a chassis or Tokunbo (pardon my choice of words attributing the women folk which includes our Mothers and our Sisters to cars sounds rude and degrading but...). I want to deprive myself of sex at least for the courting period if only she reciprocates prior to the honeymoon. Cos from my experience ,the moment is best enjoyed when the Thing is delayed, it's likened to saving the best urge for last. It's a SWEET MOMENT to savour

yea right best of luck to you ... If most of the men that are married knew how many guys that have slept with their wives before they married them I bet many men will ...........let me keep my mouth shut

Op the major reason guys are getting married is to have kids and they lay more emphasis on sex than to have kids sef .... These days boyfriend / Girlfriend thingy is very expensive for Guys to maintain and most ladies will not open ya.......nnnsh for a Guy that is not proving himself Financially no money no love ..means no sex either so guys have sharpened up to get free regular sex from this ladies they go into marriage . Not forgetting that for a lady to take you very seriously u need to tell them that MAGIC word .... MARRIAGE yea that is what they want to hear from guys and you have to to keep repeating that word Marriage over and over again. in situations like this both parties wins GUY gets free sex as he so desires and ladies get the to wear the magic ring of bondage ... Well this is just the beginning...

Second goaaal to dortmund lewandowsy goal

gree-die:

d wife is an adult and will be a better administrator of his estate but if he has grown children, den one of dem can be.

the children should be the next of kin and never should the wife be , this way the wife is protected by the children r u trying to tell me they will throw or abandon their mother if they are next of kin but if the woman is next of kin and she re marries don't you think the kids might lose out , some women are gullible and can do anything just to please a man by giving out all they own to the new boyfriend or husband once again the children should be next of kin

You seem to have a very low self esteem , it is un lady like , sometimes people you love don't want you and those you don't want tend to love you .. My advice know what you desire in a guy make up your mind about him and go for him life is about taking chances don't be afraid of failure or rejection it will only make you stronger and wiser

What do u expect when all the ladies think about is marriage , it is all about taking chances ...

kofsy:
Lol! He's not my hubby jor... I'm not married (he's my aunt hubby). From my own perspective I think a man"s wife should be his next of kin. But my aunt is fighting for her space in the home. God forbid, if anything happens to the hubby, his family may come and chase her out and start claiming properties And with his kind of family I know they can do it cos they don't like my aunt they never wanted their son to marry her cos she's a christain and they are muslims. Even my family don't want my aunt to marry the guy, but she insisted. Sincerely, I'm scared of these muslims o, they can do and undo when it comes to fighting over a
dead man's property; especially when they don't like the wife.

@kofsy this is NKan be , as far as am concerned the children should be the next of kin and not the wife. the bible has said it light and darkness should not cross path since your aunt choose to pitch her tenth in the devils den then her problem just began why should a christian lady marry a muslim man for Gods sake ? This is so wrong muslim people vex if una wan vex christian should marry christian and muslim should marry muslim ...

Oohrhii:

Yes!! maybe the context was not right.. it should have been every guy has the potential to cheat. Una no dey see wetin una sef dey wear.. wetin man go do

I am a man..and this is a fact..so wake up gurl.

@OP its your choice..you can choose to stay to marry the one you love or bounce in search for a saint in which case end time is near..so you will meet Jesus soon(He is the only saint i know).

Learn from Annie Idibia. She waited even After 5 kids outside.. She eventually ended in dubai with Prado and porche.

thank you jooor correct advice @op be like annie idibia don't gree for that rubbish girl to take your man from you do your thingy and talk with your man on what plans he has for the pregnant girl me I suggest when the girl deliver your boyfriend should dumb that yeye pregnant gir and be a dad to the baby because the baby is innocent in all of this ...it is a mans world men must cheat ladies can not do anything about a cheating man laffing in greek singing james brown hahaha it is a mans world indeed babe don't die please life is a b ........itch .. Don't allow her F......uck you up

gree-die:

this.

i cant fathom why nigerian men think this way.... too bad. erm ideally, it should be d wife but she shouldn't make an issue out of it, she should be tactful.

@greedie why should it be the wife ? Y not the children

tellwisdom: Next of kin being the wife??---GOD FORBID ...It has to be my mama or my papa

ignorant MoonGoose that's what you are ??

Amelian: Your aunt is making a huge mistake fighting about next of kin with her husband .. The more, she fights him, he will start thinking she is planning to kill him and inherit his properties or bank accounts... She should relax, talk to him subtly on why he still chose his brother when. He has children..issues like this , we use wisdom and tact in handling it... Not fight or by force.... And lastly she shud pray abt it.. And also does she have her own business? Or is she working?

thank you amelian good advice from u and op your children should be your husbands next of kin not even you should be next , your children should be the next of kin . I think your hubby does not trust you and he has doubts about the partenity of those kids op there is fire in your house better do something fast I suggest talk wiv Him to know why his brother and not your first son is next of kin