@op you married a very BAD market . Sometimes in life u have to learn to manage what u use your hand to buy divorce is not an option anyways sorry for ur predicament manage her like that and bear whatever your eye see with her it is all part of being married enjoy . Godspeed to u .

@op mind your business you hear ..

byvan:

Why can't you let this woman know that she can't keep this exes because you are not comfortAble with them,if she refuses,password your phones as well.Don't cheatoooooo,but stArt acting suspicious and carefree,see what she ll do.If this woman feel anything for you,you ll definitely see her worries,let's see what happens......


You are a man,damn it!!!just know what's going on In that phone,no man has the right to still flirt with your wife while under your roof.Put your foot down here please.......

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Babz temmy:
Somebody finally gets my point. Y password like am her boyfriend.
I dont av contact of a single ex of mine on my phone.

@ op your wife must be a very dodgy woman for passwording her fone from u I bet u she is hiding somthing from u but don't go nosing into her fone cuz heart attack will catch u

byvan: I wonder what kind of marriages people indulge in these dAys,can't she loose contact with these exes,if it makes her husband paranoid??Why keeping the exes contacts,is that necessary??well nah, una know as una dey take live,may be you chAt with your ex too,if you do,she has a right to retain hers.Marriage is simple but people just love complications,why?......pass word phone ke?


All these you ll give yourself heart ache advice sef,what's wrong with couple going through each others phones.To each his own sha.

I tire o all this wives that keep keeping exs I wonder if they have plans of going back to this exs after getting married to another man

tellwisdom:

Please stop encouraging these foolliish gurls with money...Punnani is free

how is it freee ?

Hmmm@ op don't bother yourself about her her past and stop being paranoid by looking through her phone u will give urself heart attack by what u might find stop reading her messages before u kill yourself because of a woman because u will end up destroying your family and resent her .

mysticgal: butta you are posting in every topic,hmmm some make sense and some dont.dont mind me

my dear have u not seen were a girl will be giving a guy terms and conditions before dating him at the start of a relationship . Some define their relationship before theey even start

Pacify: From your comments, there are two likely possibilities:

According to you: ...which I told her we should meet at my place on Sunday and since then she's almost killed me with billing

1. She probably must have seen things in your house to spur that greed in her. Believe me, I once had a girl like that.

2. She probably must have been pushed by friends or acquaintaces and might also want to get a quick bite at you before she runs off.

Finally, I think her attitude does not describe her as a virgin...oboy, that girl eye don tear!

I agree wiv u on dis and like u said that girl is not a virgin she just want to bite her last cherry and run off . Girls

U should have. So that both have could have a clearly defined relationship instead of waiting till now and u end up getting none. its better u discuss wiv her concerning ur not getting none and make up ur mind about her instead of sulking on her and u become fustrated to lack of no s ...............E....................................X

To hell wit whoever gives ultimatum in a relationship . Is it by force ?

Some girls r like that if u have the desire to give give to her don't quit the relationship on a silly excuse that she refused offering u sex . I always advise guys when going into relationship both parties should declare their intentions right from d beginning of d relationship by intention I mean what u both want to derive from d relationship . I bet u bfore u went into d relationship I have this feeling she told u no sex and u agreed y r u complaining ?

Your are right cowgurl there is a conspiracy against married women in Nigerias corporate sector of today I think most companies prefer single ladies with the reason best known to them . Of what use is your degree if at the day a woman ends up in a mans house as a house wife ?

KateSpade:

neither, I realized I don't want to marry him and it felt like we were heading in that direction

op do u still have feelings for him

akinreals: OP, pele, i think i am very guilty of thiis habit, may be because i am d last born in my family, my wife is over pampering me and i am always appreciating her, she cut my nails, shave every shaveable corner in my body, atimes when i come back from d office and very tired, i will go to bed straight without even removing my shoes, she will remore everything, feed me, beg me to take my bath and also beg me to take some drugs. I hardly allow her to go out or travel because i will miss her so badly. Ashake mi, my jewel of inestimable value, i really appreciate u. Thanks for being my mother. I will forever love u. May the good Lord keep u for me and our children. Love u loads.

r u sure ur wifee is not ur slave

Sijo01: You brokeup with him because of the distance or because you'v gotten a replacement Clearify!

Good question babe

ITbomb: Let me put it in a way people will understand
6 yrs ago , I was that sweet girl toasted by many , now age has caught up with me n this guy is my only hope .
Help me beg am to marry me

bruv u too harsh ? U fit make woman jump inside Lagoon

Mind ur damn business its their life let them live it anyhow they want on the day of judgement will u cry for them ?

Darlene babe: hmmmm butta i noticed u re a man, i undastand but atyms d truth is bitter. anyway hi five.

babe its all good apologies for our misunderstandings remain sweet .

Mz nAirA: ok. But since u have been in love before u should know what I mean (I dnt mean lust... True sincere love). Besides I only need your advice nothing else

my advice to u regarding this issue is. Avoid him decently don't make it obvious and step back and watch you will be surprised by your findings trust me babe ur answers will surface and there on u can make ur decisions

Mz nAirA: means I should block all connections and communications with him ?

yes pls do that .

Mz nAirA: and you are still in love ?

that's private

Darlene babe: hmmmm na wa. she didnt say she is poor. advice she need

hope u r being sarcastic read my post again for easy clarification

Mz nAirA: what if it was clearly defined at d start but somethings happened along the way ? Can I ask a question have you ever been in love ?

of course I have ,

When will some ladies ever learn why go into a relationship that's not clearly defined from the beginning even when u know there's no road there u stay put is it by force to remain wit a man that is not serious about marrying you ? And the bobo keeps enjjoying wat is meant for another man

Another poor girl trapped in a dead end toxic relationship hope he has not given u a keyholder as ring in the name of relationship.

rokiatu:

Is ok love I am now tamed. Love changes people.

y won't u be tamed before nko ?

rokiatu:

You are so wrong...I break hearts not the other way round.

Good for u and clap for yourself I pity poor innocent guys that will end up with heart breaks because of ladies like u

rokiatu:

Shut up and stop throwing shame at peeps. Don't you have anything better to say?

As long as he love her and he believe in marriage he's sure gonna marry her.

can u listen to yourself that's y ladies like u end up with a broken heart .

rokiatu:

Is the same as desperate love. If he truly love you like you love him you have nothing to worry about because he will marry you at the end of the day.

shame on u too hw did u know he will marry her at the end of d day ?

Darlene babe: mistake ladies make,u seem desperate, take things easy. there is more to marriage dan dating

shame on u y should u say she is desperate there Is nothing desperate about wanting to be with d guy she loves