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FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by byvan03: 12:38pm On Jul 23, 2016
bukatyne:
Lol @ cholesterol booster grin
I tell you!
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by byvan03: 12:29pm On Jul 23, 2016
bukatyne:
Is Abacha really unhealthy?

Cc: Cococandy
The quantity of palm oil it takes to give it that face lift is worrying. It's a cholesterol booster, serious one.
FamilyRe: Two Wasted Months Of Marriage by byvan03: 11:13am On Jul 23, 2016
I will advise you to mind your business and let family members sort the issue. Only those inside the marriage know where the rain started beating them, just forget everything you think you know. Only the insiders ever know the true story.
EventsRe: Kano Women Register For Mass Wedding (photo) by byvan03: 10:06am On Jul 23, 2016
Mmmtttccchhhheeeewwwww!!!
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by byvan03: 7:21am On Jul 23, 2016
Roland17:
Madam abeg forget that "grossly unhealthy" talk for this "abacha"..sebi na u wen dey see am chop fit complain, me wen be "Mr. Healthy eating" never smell am for years not to talk chop, if i fit chop am for seven days straight i no mind, na gym go clear the rest grin grin grin
grin grin grin seven days straight? nah die be that.
CelebritiesRe: Zainab: I'm Married To Wizkid Spiritually by byvan03: 9:34pm On Jul 22, 2016
Some girls are real public assault!!
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by byvan03: 9:14pm On Jul 22, 2016
cococandy:
cry cry
Coco who beat you? cheesy
FamilyRe: How Many Children Do You Think Is Ideal For A Family In This Current Economy? by byvan03: 7:28pm On Jul 22, 2016
No kid is more favourable with his horrible regime.
FashionRe: Free Online Makeup Training With Moma!! by byvan03: 5:41pm On Jul 22, 2016
**jotting **
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by byvan03: 4:31pm On Jul 22, 2016
Tasty and grossly unhealthy embarassed.

FashionRe: Free Online Makeup Training With Moma!! by byvan03: 12:36pm On Jul 22, 2016
Am very interested, here to learn.
FashionRe: New arrivals...Waist trainers, Post Partum Belts And Kiddies. by byvan03(op): 12:32pm On Jul 22, 2016
Thanks for pms and orders, happy weekend all!!
FamilyRe: Am I A Bad Person? by byvan03: 8:20am On Jul 22, 2016
shrtermjbseeker:
what happened was that it was no more wishful thinking. I got pregnant and had a child and saw the difference between "theory and practical".
You are actually very normal! Vast difference between theory and practical. A lot of women are scared of pregnancy when reality takes over fantasy.


It's funny how some people here attribute everything to trauma or not telling the whole story. You are able to feel that way because you chose to think beyond norms. Child care is no child 's play. You are a good person for not popping out kids for birthing sake, you worry because you care.
LiteratureRe: She Slept In The Kitchen And Won My Heart - Chukwuba Chiluba by byvan03: 10:50am On Jul 20, 2016
MissRike:
Nonsense! I'm pretty sure the woman/lady just pretended so as to get what she wanted, no be womenhuh
I wonder if that obviously deranged fellow is what any sane woman would want.
LiteratureRe: She Slept In The Kitchen And Won My Heart - Chukwuba Chiluba by byvan03: 10:34am On Jul 20, 2016
MissRike:
I can never pass such stewpeed tests lailai.

How would a man shout at me unnecessarily in public and I'll go back to apologize........ I smell desperation!

The 2nd one, I may or may not pass it....... I can only pass it if the guy is worth it coz there are some stingy guys out there!

The 3rd one.....No! Like never! On the floor with no mat or mackintoshhuh Just because I wanna pass a "yeye" fornication test? NEVER!
grin grin real fornication test.
FamilyRe: See What Happened To The Woman That Gave Birth To 11 Baby girls At Once by byvan03: 9:10am On Jul 20, 2016
That stomach is ruined for life cry.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by byvan03: 12:21am On Jul 20, 2016
@ Otonzy copied, you can put down your number now if you wish. Thanks dear, I didn't quote you to make editing easier.
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by byvan03: 8:02pm On Jul 19, 2016
She sleeps because she is tired!!! Switch roles with her for a day and see if you won't sleep more than she does. Hope you clean up well too before diving the sack. Have you even spoken to her about it?
FamilyRe: Please Fellow Nairalanders I,need A Candid Adivce About My Girl Friend by byvan03:
" she lured me" and this doesn't sound silly to you? Better go take care of your responsibilities, obviously you are married, you just don't know it yet cheesy.


Just don't kill another man's daughter while beating her to submission undecided.
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by byvan03: 4:37pm On Jul 19, 2016
imurboss:
beevan,longest time. How are the boys grin
My dear dem deyooo, how your platoon? grin where una go sef?
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by byvan03: 4:15pm On Jul 19, 2016
Good day ladies!!

Otonzy I want to chat with you privately if you don't mind, how do I get in touch?
FamilyRe: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by byvan03: 5:59pm On Jul 18, 2016
Wow!!! So this thread still dey.
FashionRe: New arrivals...Waist trainers, Post Partum Belts And Kiddies. by byvan03(op):
Contact for you genuine coral beads. Available for sale and hire.

FamilyRe: How Can I Help by byvan03: 9:17pm On Jul 17, 2016
Kimoni:
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/disgusted.gif
Lol,every tribe get their own, no too worry yourself.
FamilyRe: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by byvan03: 9:16pm On Jul 17, 2016
Lightening:
Even after tens of people that have either experienced same or witnessed have corroborated it? Keep living in fools paradise. Hope this same empty ego that is making you and cocoandy cast aspersion on this story will not give you the experience the lady is now regretting.
Wetin dey frustrate you like this? Must you cry more than the bereaved? Nah my ego kill you for your first life? Please go and answer where you are called undecided.
FamilyRe: Guys How Many Kids Wuld You Luv 2 Hav If This Practice Becomes Instituted? by byvan03: 7:33pm On Jul 17, 2016
This is really cool! cheesy
FamilyRe: How Can I Help by byvan03: 7:07pm On Jul 17, 2016
EfemenaXY:
Lord have mercy. embarassed undecided

Bia, on a lighter note, what does "epp" mean?

I've read countless expressions about it...
grin grin grin.



It means " help", mimicking the Yoruba accent where "H" is always silent. E.G House /haus/ = /aus/ grin grin.
FamilyRe: How Can I Help by byvan03: 6:58pm On Jul 17, 2016
EfemenaXY:
All I see here is the typical example of a man using the kids to punish / exact revenge on the woman, irrespective of whether he's capable of looking after them or not.

What I don't get are the implications possible implications to Ada for getting involved in this case? The school's HM's response was nonchalant to say the least. She's trying to do a good deed but at the same time her safety is important, as well as her not being caught in the middle or losing her job because of this.

What's the normal protocol for cases like this?
To be honest with you, there are no protocols for such cases as the feeble authorities might not even deem this a case. No one will consider it serious if the kids aren't severely injured or dead yet. Even the police won't want to get involved and yes, there might be unfavourable implications for Ada just for getting involved.

It's not unusual for men around here, it's their best shot at spite towards their estranged wife. They snatch these kids from their mothers and end up rotating them from one cruel aunt/uncle's house to another.
FamilyRe: How Can I Help by byvan03: 6:01pm On Jul 17, 2016
EfemenaXY:
Bless you girl.

I think you should follow your instincts and contact both parents - especially their mother. We're talking about vulnerable minors here.

I'm assuming the dad pays their school fees? I can't make head or tails of this issue. Over here one quick call to social services will get any negligent parent to sit up.

In the meantime, do keep us updated on what's going on.

cc: Ifyalways, Onegai, Byvan03, thorpido.
Thanks for bringing me back to this thread. This situation is really dire as anything could go wrong when minors are left unsupervised. It's obvious this man lacks character as his attitude towards the kids' welfare is unconnected with his marital status. I really pray her meeting with the man yields a better outcome .


Adaobi12 I await your update, keep up the good work.
FamilyRe: Woman Who 'Lost' Her Husband Due To Her Ego Laments: There Is No Benefit In Prid by byvan03: 5:47pm On Jul 17, 2016
Another fake asse*d story specially prepared to console the afflicted cheesy cheesy.
CrimeRe: Abandoned Baby Rescued By NSCDC In Rivers (photo) by byvan03: 9:55am On Jul 17, 2016
They should make these kids easier to adopt after a psychological and financial evaluation of the to be parents.
FamilyRe: Rate Of Pregnancy These Days Quite Alarming!! by byvan03: 9:41am On Jul 17, 2016
To think family planning is almost free, nawaooh for people.

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