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FamilyRe: 4 Categories Of Women & Their Views On Bride Price by byvan03:
postmann:
To each his own, but perhaps your tenet on marriage would shed more light to understanding your views on bride price.
People get hitched because they want to forge a life with the one they love . It's not a favour to either party, so I can never understand the purpose of the list. It makes it look more of a commercial activity , where the buyer expects to derive maximum utility from goods purchased undecided.
FamilyRe: 4 Categories Of Women & Their Views On Bride Price by byvan03: 3:16pm On Aug 07, 2016
I don't see how giving out a list and a few farm animals = honour for any woman . I really do hate the concept of bride price, a tradition that neither had usefulness nor purpose undecided.
FamilyRe: Please Help A Sister Out,hubby Is Making Life Miserable To Me by byvan03: 1:28pm On Aug 07, 2016
You are still young, you don't have a child with this man because your God is offering you a second chance. Take it while you can, carve a new life for yourself.
FamilyRe: My Husband Has A Child With Another Woman by byvan03: 1:14pm On Aug 07, 2016
Please take cococandy 's advice seriously.
FamilyRe: My Husband Has A Child With Another Woman by byvan03: 1:11pm On Aug 07, 2016
Just make sure he isn't returning sun beaten and dew headed to eat up the little resources you are managing to care for yourself and your son.


I keep thinking that his pledge of love is because he is returning broke!! I think the woman wants to kick him out and that's why he remembered you. He is not an honest man, so obviously isn't worth anymore sacrifice. At the end of the day, it's your life. There is no love here, just take the route that will benefit you more. Forget your sister and mum's begging, only logical thinking will do you good here. Don't land from frying pan to fire and please forget the single man toasting you for now till you get your life fully on track.
CrimeRe: Uzoamaka Chukwu Who Was Flogged In Ebonyi For Sex Act - Photos by byvan03: 12:34pm On Aug 07, 2016
I knew that no sane dad will expose her daughter's unclothedness to the public undecided.
CrimeRe: Woman Murders Her Co-wife Children In Kastina (Graphics photo) by byvan03: 6:58pm On Aug 06, 2016
She is obviously insane, nobody in her right senses will do this . Mental health should be taken seriously.
FamilyRe: Bride Price And Dignity, An Eye Opener. by byvan03: 2:00pm On Aug 06, 2016
It should be abolished.
ComputersRe: What Kind Of Laptop Can I Get For My 8year Old Nephew And Where by byvan03: 1:54pm On Aug 06, 2016
sammieddi:
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How much is the smart tab for kids?
RomanceRe: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by byvan03: 6:57pm On Aug 04, 2016
worriedgirl:
@byvan03
@missmossy

I appreciate your contributions... I really wanted to keep mute but it seems talking is a better option, so that we can sort things out and avoid future problems
Mute means yes to so many men, he hugged you and you kept mute. Next will be a kiss,if you keep mute, next time will be to go all the way since you are practically frozen in his presence. End this now and don't ruin your great prospects due to unbridled crush/friendship/naivety.
BusinessRe: Best Business To Invest My 200k by byvan03: 6:12pm On Aug 04, 2016
Better not throw your 200k into online whatever to avoid high BP.
RomanceRe: My Friend's Wife Did A Secret Abortion And He Wants A Divorce.. by byvan03: 6:06pm On Aug 04, 2016
ZeeAfrica:
i dnt like agreeing with ppl here, bt on dis one, m gona go wit u
wink smiley
RomanceRe: My Friend's Wife Did A Secret Abortion And He Wants A Divorce.. by byvan03: 5:54pm On Aug 04, 2016
I guess shipping off his kids to his sister that will get tired of them soon is the solution, he obviously can't even carter for them. I doubt if the woman did that just for the sake of looking good.
RomanceRe: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by byvan03: 5:45pm On Aug 04, 2016
A lady without boundary is like a city without walls. Tell Mr lecturer that you can't date a married man, otherwise you are interested if you really can't tell him that.
FamilyRe: If Your Parents Were To Be Divorced, Who Would You Go With Mum Or Dad? by byvan03: 5:34pm On Aug 04, 2016
I dey go with my mama biko.
FamilyRe: My Traditional Marriage. by byvan03: 5:30pm On Aug 04, 2016
Congratulations!
FashionRe: Gluta Range Of Soap By Wink White by byvan03(op): 2:27pm On Aug 04, 2016
Available!
FashionRe: New arrivals...Waist trainers, Post Partum Belts And Kiddies. by byvan03(op): 2:23pm On Aug 04, 2016
6xl now available!
FamilyRe: If Na You Wetin You Go Do? #mypalmchatexperience by byvan03: 3:09pm On Aug 03, 2016
Help her if you can and forget, still maintain a good distance from them.
FashionRe: Lingerie! A Must Have! by byvan03: 2:57pm On Aug 03, 2016
edwife:
I love my African movies but crime and detective are my favourites. Law and order (SVU),csi,criminal mind,crime stories and snapped keep me glue.
They don't offer enough suspense to keep me glued, I love criminal minds and snapped. I watch a lot of season movies too, watching Alias now.
CelebritiesRe: Eniola Badmus: "We All Can't Be Slim, Some People Are Destined To Be Big" by byvan03: 10:48am On Aug 03, 2016
Fat and making money is always better than slim and broke. If your slim no help you , then you gat to cut this babe some slack, everyone won't be slim.
CrimeRe: Angel Obrien Ibekwe Shot Dead At IMSU Gate By Cultists - Photos by byvan03: 12:12am On Aug 03, 2016
Hurts so bad, how can his parents bear this ?cry cry.
FamilyRe: My Step-father Is Making Me Think Of Suicide by byvan03: 8:21pm On Aug 02, 2016
glamoured:
I don't really know my dad's people, but I sometimes stay with my mom's relations in school and sometimes visit at their homes
There is no suffering that is not known to man. Just get creative, appreciate the little help you get from relatives and start thinking of how to stand on your feet.
FamilyRe: My Step-father Is Making Me Think Of Suicide by byvan03: 7:43pm On Aug 02, 2016
What of your mum or dad's relatives? You know that this man is not related to you anymore right? You have to forge a life without him.
FashionRe: Meet The Most Handsome Man In The World by byvan03: 7:11pm On Aug 02, 2016
Bradley Cooper looks better, he looks good though.
FamilyRe: Share Your Birth Control/family Planning Experience by byvan03: 5:30pm On Aug 02, 2016
Taking emergency contraceptive as a family planning method is not encouraged at all. She should go for IUCD or implanon. Implanon doesn't sit well with everyone, some could barely survive a month on implanon. Some can't conceive while breastfeeding though.
FamilyRe: In The Event Of Divorce, Who Takes Custody Of The Children? by byvan03: 3:22pm On Aug 02, 2016
cococandy:
I don't remember seeing the adaobi's thread but I'm quite sure it's only one out of the very many that don't even make the news.

I've said it before and keep saying, any human being who thinks they can take my underage child/ren from me should be prepared to murder me first. Because that's the only way I'm letting go. I read these stories about the moms who aren't with their little kids for years and I wonder how they sleep at night. I can't.

Me give up my child to become someone's object of venting their frustrations on just to satisfy a chauvinist culture that only caters to the man's ego but care nothing for the wellbeing of the little ones in question.

Odiegwu.

The same people that froth at the mouth when you mention men and childcare in the same sentence are the same that will suddenly support the man having the kids in the case of a divorce.

Until they are ready to nurse babies like moms do, there's no question that about little kids going to their moms. One can't and shouldn't stupidly jeopardize the little kids to satisfy egos or be politically correct.
When they are readying for child care, we will know. Until then we ain't using our babies as a social experiment.
If the kids are teenagers, I won't bother because they will be wherever they want to be. No be only take my kids undecided.
FamilyRe: In The Event Of Divorce, Who Takes Custody Of The Children? by byvan03: 3:19pm On Aug 02, 2016
cococandy:
I don't remember seeing the adaobi's thread but I'm quite sure it's only one out of the very many that don't even make the news.

I've said it before and keep saying, any human being who thinks they can take my underage child/ren from me should be prepared to murder me first. Because that's the only way I'm letting go. I read these stories about the moms who aren't with their little kids for years and I wonder how they sleep at night. I can't.

Me give up my child to become someone's object of venting their frustrations on just to satisfy a chauvinist culture that only caters to the man's ego but care nothing for the wellbeing of the little ones in question.

Odiegwu.
FamilyRe: How Do I Explain To A 1 Year Old That The Economy Is Bad..... by byvan03: 1:06pm On Aug 02, 2016
kolaa007:
I like that word Legal... trying my best jare
Don't be discouraged, just take it one day at a time. Tell your spouse to put her hands on deck too, blessings can come from either of you.
FamilyRe: How Do I Explain To A 1 Year Old That The Economy Is Bad..... by byvan03: 12:49pm On Aug 02, 2016
kolaa007:
No vex Bro maybe I should rephrase my statement in hausa igbo or hausa abi you want it in Chinese?
You don't need to rephrase, go out there and render any service you can and feed your child. Fry akara if you have to, don't go telling a child less than a year that there is no food. You brought him here, so do anything legal you can to keep him fed.
FamilyRe: Am So Confuse, Pls Advise Me by byvan03: 12:43pm On Aug 02, 2016
I can imagine what you are going through but please manage and keep the child. Go for a more reliable contraceptive method after birth, failure rate is too high with oral contraceptive.

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