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LOL Wetin una dey try open bullet collection agency or wetin?

Yeah, very deep. LMAO Tupac is

yeah of course I think many parents would do it if it helps. Why? I think some of it has to do with money. poverty drives people mad. They have spent so much money helping their kids get where they are now and failing is not an acceptable option.

And my wild guess is that she hasn't exactly done much to help him do better. Unless issuing ultimatums and comparing me to yahoo-yahoo millionaires count as help? J/k

sistawoman:
Then that dear is their dumbass. I wont be with a man not utilizing his full potential.

Why dont you ask the poster what she has done to help him do better? He did not volunteer that information in his original posting.

Ha ha ha don't be silly. You, dear, should know that even the smartest of people reason like dumbasses when stupid bodily chemicals get in the way. And who is to say someone is dumb or not dumb for choosing to be with someone she loves? I refuse to judge.

Like I said earlier, I'm not disagreeing with your advise.  Even if I give her the benefit of my doubt, I feel she went about it the wrong way.

Besides, he is not tying her ass down. I know plenty of women who are with men who don't utilize their full potential, so don't feed me that story.

If she is going to keep whining about him getting another job, then what has she done to help him find another job, other than comparing him to rich men or issuing heartbreaking ultimatums.

So are we now pulling possible hypotheses out of our asses instead of giving advise based on the information we are given?

I have read the post and given advise accordingly.  If giving advise on this forum operates on your philosophy, we would be waiting many years for "other sides" of stories that would never appear.

Dude said "However, i have called her to order , making her understd my goals matching it with my resources as a bases for my action and that if she love me she should bear with me afterall she is still working"

We can ask him to elaborate, but until then . . .

sistawoman:
Your girl presents a good arguement and asks you to try a different route that will get you were you are going faster and you say good ridance to her.  Maybe she has a way that you dont have to work your ass but still make more money.  You say good ridance.

Well then you get what you deserve.

No woman wants to be with a man who is not using his full potential.  It will pull her down.

My girl has not presented a good argument.   She has mad me feel inferior to other men, even after I warned her.   I have a plan and am working to better myself with the resources I currently have available to me.  My job is not a dead end, it is only a means to a better future.  An understanding woman would reason with me and continue to encourage me to pursue my goals.   A girl looking for a quick fix (like the one mentioned above) would issue a red card and walk out of my life.
What way does she have that I don't have to work my ass off.  LOL?  Is she plucking money off a tree in her frontyard or something else of that nature?  Yeah right.

I agree with what you are saying, don't get me wrong.  If indeed it's true what you are saying, she went about it the wrong way.  IMHO.
The dude has not complained about not having any peace of mind. Money helps but it would not suddenly alleviate other problems the relationship would face. Would she again issue another ultimatum and decide to walk out of his life?

Oh really?  Why does she feel the need to be mad at him for limiting his spending?   Comparisons to other rich men in the neighborhood? If my girlfriend gives me an ultimatum while I am working my ass off, I would be glad to break up with her.   Good ridance to rubbish. She hasn't shown the tendency to be understanding about the dude's plans. Instead she issues a deadline to walk out of his life.

LOL oh please abeg sistawoman you and these tales gan paa paa.  One who wants to better you should not continually make you feel incapable as a man.  If I were to agree with your theory, then what he needs is encouragement, not putdowns or ultimatums for breakup.

sillyme:
this is a serious dilemma.

thanks guys. keep the advice coming.

dilemma ko, ile elemu ni.

I am glad you don't wear the fucking pants in this relationship. Avoid her by all means possible.

If you run into her at church, a polite "hi" won't hurt. But after that keep it moving.

Sillyme stop creating silly threads.