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lol funny

Secretz:
@ Poster, what happens if he dumps you and your plan for him to come and 'beg' you back fails?

And it will surely fail after she tries oreofemi's "idea" . What a wise rat.

"Disgraced"     LHOLHOLHO @ Seun

oreofemi:
which pardon are u begging for, are u sure u are ok? who should suck their thumb, i am sure u have a problem.

Oh really? Explain

Both can be really deadly. Deception can be a cruel tool. You fall in love with a babe only to find out she's not who she says she is.

angelgirl1:
What I was trying to accomplish was to relieve him the guilt of not having the time to spend. But I guess there is no solution but to stick with him even in this hard time.

Don't you think he would feel guilty for breaking your heart?  And if you have a heart you should feel even worse for tricking him into breaking up with you.

Strong couples find ways to work through the lows when the going gets tough.

oreofemi:
what is what? must you curse everybody u see, u really need to control it

I beg your pardon?

Go and suck your thumb.

oreofemi:
are you ok, is she not asking for ideas, what is ur own, it looks like u need medicine for u to stop cursing, pls dont swear me u know me before

what?

oreofemi:
fake up a relationship and let him meet you ontop of another man, ogbon o le tan laye ka wa lo si orun.

You better grow the forkk up before some little boy knocks you up and ruins your life. I hope you are smarter than this cyber stupidity of yours.

I don't see a problem ma'am? Could it be that you are jealous of his mother? You want this man to yourself but his mother his attachment to his mother is pissing you off? What happens after marriage? Are you going to ban him from even visiting her?
Plenty men with strong ties to their moms. It's not a new thing.
Parents are important figures in Nigerian culture. Having parental approval gives a lot of us a much needed peace of mind.

Apart from that.  Doesn't dumping him automatically defeat the purpose of actually spending time together, since you would most likely not see as much of him when you break up?

You want to dumpb him, but you want him to dump you instead so he can feel guilty and miserable for leaving you.
Dude hasn't complained that you are stressing him out, or that he can't handle having you in his life while he works.  You won't be the first nor will you be the last couples to start a career while in a relationship.

There is something up your sleeve that you are not confessing.

Is this your way of saying you wan to test the waters and then come back later?

Officiating is getting on my nerves. A non-call when Kobe was trippped has been upgraded to a Flagrant. A technical foul call on Howard now rescinded. Why don't they hire competent referees? FFS

JeSoul:
As a sidenote I am disgusted at the shameless lusting of the NBA for a Lebron-Kobe finals could they be any more brazen about it?

and I am the only one who finds those muppet Lebron vs Kobe commercials anything but funny?

Like effing duh. You know some of it is rigged when LeCrabDribble trips himself and a defender backing off the play is called for a foul.

The NBA: It's AMAZING!

Where is moonstone.  Do you ever win at anything?  Even your ManU is getting probed.

Moonstone:
Nuggets and Lakers again tonight - Hmmmmmm, I don't have time for that one today - I'm too busy supporting my babies to even think of b-ball today.

We thank God we thank God. WE can do without your bad luck today.

Lol I think he prefers to have a girl who's a member of the itty bitty titty committee

she don't luv u like that bru

O ye of little faith. Have no fear. Try as much as possible to get closer to God. Pray more, read your bible more, etcet

all my days here in the states, this country has taught the African American to despise the African.

The country tries to teach people a lot of sheet.  The country also gives you a very good opportunity to educate yourself.  Your education has allowed you to make better informed decisions, I think.

the stereotypes, of American TV, the man eating jungle people. the worst of the worst. and my rebellion and my independence in my thoughts as made me even as a child to gravitate towards Africa my original homeland.

Similarly, the stereotypes of American TV about the black gangster rapper who demeans women, the brainless twats who sell crack to kids, and the lazy dolts who think their only way out of the ghetto is by dribbling a ball has not caused me to alienate my African American brothers and sisters.

now for their to be racism for African toward black Americans continues the cycle,

Black on black criminality is nothing new, sweetie.  Not even in your beloved America among your own people.

yet and still our black American culture has infiltrated your land in our music, movies and stars.

Infiltration, sure.  Anything with that muchh exposure has the potential to infiltrate.  But has it impacted us positively.  Have your music and movie stars been positive role models to the young generation?  You can argue yes and no.  Your choice.

yet, i am despised. its very confusing. we are the same just separated my water. so don't spit fire. i chose not to. its not worth it. we need communication to bridge the gap.

We need understanding and patience as well. 

SMH Ibukun . The relationship might as well be a done deal since you have concluded he is yours no matter what. Can he not make that life altering decision like a real man should? I mean step way from the keyboard and think about what you said. You have only dated for 10 months. Do you think that grants you a right to a ring? Even five-year long relationships dissolve easily when push comes to shove.

ROFL You people won't kill me

Ibukun O:
Spirit of Wine, the last thing I am is Aktha. I have read your posts and even though you seem to be giving advice i sense the bitterness in your response. That word shows the pure form of ignorance. I could bash you with, but its mos def is not my style. You will make your own judgments on the slave trade? How could you? Have you studied? Do you know where it began and how? By whom? And why? And as a result the continent has gone into starvation and poverty? How about this are you a Christian? A religion left to you by my slave masters? See I'm only trying to shed light and in return gain some insight. Now I needed opinions of his people to see what I was getting myself into. And yet again, i will state this, I know he is mine. I know that we will be together whether his mum approves or not. I have been the only woman that has lasted longer than 2 weeks. We've been together for 10 months. He never leaves my side and i keep him intrigued. We talk and laugh, we kiss and cuddle. I lay in his arms throughout the night and if I move away he drags me back. We share our most intimate thoughts and i have his back through the pits of hell. Again, he's mine. I am only trying to be respectful of her. Cause see that's what I was taught, even thought you may call me Aktha. My folks and my environment was very much like his growing up as a child. I am from Louisiana and I had 3 generations of my family in my life and a big family it was both sides maternal and paternal. Did i mention that we had a lot in common. Another reason we are so tight. I have no issues with his cousins and brothers. He has already told his mum about me and they debate about the age, but he's very respectful even though he stands his ground. I just don't need nor want anyones feelings to be damaged. I want to get along with her and respect her as my own mother. Because of my love for him. I don't want any additional stress for him, the world places enough on our backs.

I was going to spit fiyah to calm you down, but I'm going to hold off on that.
I see that Akata word has pissed you off. It's just our way of calling you an African American so don't let it get to you.
Again, don't lecture me on the slave trade and what it's done to your people. You are trying to shove your opinions down my throat and I disagree with you.

From your love wan tin tin you sound very possessive and a bit controlling. If you lose this man it might be by your own doing.

lawlawlaw when did you become akata ogberi

Heard this story yesterday

Paramedics were called to Tyson's Phoenix home at around 10:30 this morning when his 7-year-old son found the young girl hanging from a treadmill by its power cable.


Awful tragedy. Parents should not have to bury their children.

Guy, there are so many signs

bluespice:
this is what happens when folks go on a binge drinking session n get access to the internet

LHOLHOLHO

ievbuomw:
LOL
But your are screwing a chick in London? Eyaaaaaaa You ARE a fool.

Way to call a spade a spade.  I couldn't have said it any better.  

Lol Lamidi's second wife is romancing another man on him while he's busy having a good old fashioned time with his white girl.

I think she will carry this checklist in her purse everywhere she goes. ooo serious pshtiue

bluespice:
. . . . and he's a gay


can someone pass my lighter pls

i know i said to ignore it i just had to talk

Naughty role model.


He is a hypocrite. Sorry, I couldn't help it.

bluespice:
. . . .or in the shape of flashlights
do urself a favour n ignore this thing
it pays i tell ya

You' are right.  If I continue to grant him the attention he would feed off it.

biola44:
find it hard 2 believe even educated pple promote racism, 4 me - no wahala with any tribe so far d person is reasonable

We nawt promoting racism.  Only trying to explain why her boyfriend is feeding her the blues