₦airaland Forum

God is really calling the saints home

His saints are departing this evil world every now and then

Oh lord I pray when it’s my turn may I not be found wanting

1Sharon:
The thing I don't understand with Nigeria is , why is it that the husband gets to circumvent the doctors orders and decisions

What about what the woman wants??

Does her opinion on her own body not matter?

I've read quite a few topics on Nigerian men trying to circumvent a doctors decisions on their wives choice of birth. A doctor will advice on CS. The husband will come out to insist on VD!!

torrrr
I’ve asked my self same thing!

mizz2posh:
I'm also here In Canada, and I'm alot happier and enjoying my life here, don't use your situation to judge how other people's reality will be.

God bless you for your input
Imagine he’s suffering from depression and depressing people aspiring to come over with his comments.

I don reach there finish
My spirit is there sef, it’s remaining my flesh to join!

cococandy:
Everyone is different and they will have different preferences. I actually love Canada. There’s nothing like a serene calm environment. Can’t beat it

As in… some of us live boring lives here In naija
Someone like me I don’t even have close friends in naija
Like I can stay 6months and im not visiting anyone, neither is anyone visiting me..
I love serene and tranquil environment devoid of noises

I don’t like partying, if you invite me for your occasion, I won’t honor it
So imagine someone of my nature being depressed?

Kole werk!

Yettttttunde:
Iam 37 now at 27 I did cs wen I gave birth to my first child ,I was stigmatized by my own husband and i felt very bad about it.he told me that his sister's have never done anything like that wen they were birthing children I felt so bad and angry but thank God it was successful.i gave birth to the 2nd born and 3rd born through normal delivery.God took control.inhave stopped.let me take care of the beautiful 3 that God gave to me.

this is sad
The one who was supposed to comfort you stigmatized you?

Well in all thank God for safe delivery and for your kids

It’s well with your family

I will also like to add
Pls if I were to choose cs in naija and abroad I’ll prefer abroad cos how do you explain a doctor removing the woman’s kidney or forgetting gauze or surgical blade in the woman’s body?

Niaja is still far behind that’s why our politicians fly abroad for even ordinary eye checkup

Myer:
1. The birth-pang of natural birth is symbolic.
It normally should change a woman forever. It's a NDE that should make one put life and legacy in perspective.
It's difficult not to care for such a child when you know the cost of delivering them.

2. Nigerians don't appreciate CS. In Nigeria CS is also a NDE as some doctors can easily botch the process carelessly. Of course there's the cost implications.
However where it is painless, some mothers don't get that sense of essence of child-birth that instils a sense of purpose, legacy and responsibility into a woman.

I hope this helps.

lmao
Cs painless??
Do you know we have epidural Vaginal birth

The woman won’t feel the pangs of childbirth as they inject her spine

Cs comes with its own pains esp after the woman has come around from the theatre.

DenreleDave:
Does women mock women that gave birth through Cs again?

If it is true, then women are the most thoughtless being in the womanhood of the universe... Like who makes a mockery of such

This is the first time I'm hearing such in my life ooo

they do this a lot
Esp people in the rural areas!

MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?

that’s black man mentality for you!

A quick one!

I had a patient who had pre-eclampsia during her pregnancy, she’s a primigravida.
She was advised to carry out a selective ceaseran to avoid further complications prior to delivery

Her hubby blantly refused !

What was his reason? He said In his village no one deliveres thru that means and his wife won’t be the first.

She went into labour and for 4days she was in pains and labour was not progressing at all, she was stuck at 2 cervix dilation…

Atlast she went into epileptic shock and upon insertion baby had passed the meconuim already which was a very bad sign

Now it became a need for emergency CS!
It was the hubby’s sister that signed the form to commence surgery saying God forbid the lady wouldn’t die!

The hubby was looking like a lost puppy and crying crocodile tears while his wife battled for her life!

That day was hot for all of us as all the hcp had to rally around this woman in the theatre to save her life.

Thank God she delivered and the baby was resuscitated and later transferred for further treatment

Guess what the hubby was doing while we were operating on the wife, he went and called all this church ministry people to come to start kabashing in the Hospital, thereby causing Comotion with their noise

Our Md had to beckon on the gateman to walk them out!

What was the hubby’s gain? He spent more money for ER CS with advanced treatment for the child at the expense of the woman’s life!


Hmmm our problem in Nigeria is pure illiteracy and ignorance!

DaddyCoool:
Since he offered to be with the children, let him. While helping from a distance, sort yourself out and also find out how marketable you are in the dating scene - maybe you'll hook a better guy

I don’t quite agree to this advice.

The man might end up abusing those children or molesting them out of frustration and spite for the woman

Someone that can’t fend for himself, what if he decides to sell the children?

From op’s write up she said her first child is meant to start school but no money, this means she has 1 toddler and a baby with her!

She can drop the kids for his parents though or hers if they’re alive!

SonOfHercules:
I just called the gal say I dey my papa shrine,say if she no send my t.fare. she go get accident.
Since the lady Neva pick call.
Me wet don't tie white wrapper like IFA come tie red cloth for onions.
I dey take pics make I send her for Whatsapp.
She Neva see craze ooo.

guy!

LWKMD!!!!! 🤣

DAramis:
Thanks.

The 3 agencies that was dropped, only 2 has functional websites... I think the idea of the agency paying for the CBT test would be preferable (if it ends up that she can't afford the fee).

The cv aspect is to enable her to draft adequate one that can enable her attract the agencies with respect to job opportunities. You can redact the cv to protect some information of yours (IE removing some personal informations you wish not to share or changing it).

Thanks once more for the reply. PM sent.
You can drop other agencies name you know of... Just trying to get various options to explore.

hello 👋
Pls I just pm’d you so I can get soft copy for the foreign cv
So I can edit mine
I’m a nurse bsc and plan on working abroad too

Catfish pepper soup and white rice
With scent leaf 🍃

flexyrule:
They will someday meet at the wedding of one of theirs.

They'll shake hands, drink and merry like all of these never happened.

Riff-raffs with less than a dollar in their Kuda accounts will spend all day and night insulting themselves here.

this is so true o

Chaii

This is so funny asf!
This personal aide just destroyed Shettima with his jabs
Ahswear he thought he was the only one that could throw one

When throwing jabs be careful of how you throw them at so as not to backfire!


He did it to Osinbanjo and that one never replied him cos he’s a gentle man and a man of God!

This Atiku’s personal aid is up for Vawulence

I don’t believe this stats is even real
with the the dollar exchange rates now
A lot of businesses packed up
So how did it happen?

It’s a pity
I’ve fallen victim to these NFA’s before.
Made away with my gadgets atm and a lot other stuffs
Cleared my account
Made me start life all over

Nd to make it seem worse…

It was a woman !

I involved police but they couldn’t nab her and her gang of thieves.

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

normal thing
There’s a saying that goes
The enemy of my friend is also my enemy

If you’re a friend to my enemy, that makes you frenemy!!

Periodtt

And who’s this??

Kaycee54321:
It starts with the little things people see as "normal" in Nigeria:

- You drink sachet "pure" water and dump the sachet on the road like a retard.

- You crack boiled groundnuts along the road, chewing and leaving a groundnut shell trail like a bush animal.

- You cross the express running like a confused chicken when there's an overhead pedestrian bridge few metres away from you.

- You bring out your wa.nker and piss in the nearest gutter like a baboon when you're pressed...

- And many more.

It's not magic - We are the streets.

bro you’re funny 😆
It’s the confused chicken for me lmao

tollyboy5:
Nigerians are very dirty. What makes an untarred road dirty? you road has not been tarred doesn't mean it should look dirty. Cleanliness is next to godliness. ungodly people cant do well in their community.

bro even the tarred roads in naija is still very dirty

They will heap dustbins and all manner of filth on the tarred roads with flies buzzing everywhere
It’s always an eye sore

Nigerians are just plainly dirty and wicked!

They don’t like good thing

Ordinary Cotonou you won’t see such !

Raydos:
This is not only in Nigeria, This applies to every African countries,

Anywhere you see a white person, There are 97% chances that the place will be organized and clean

But anywhere you see a Black person, There are 100% chances it's gonna be a slum

Even far out of African down to the carribeans which is mostly habited by black people, It's also sh*thole, Even the most dangerous and dirty part of America are where black people live, they call it "HOOD

it’s mostly Nigeria op
If you reach ordinary Cotonou
You will fall In love with their roads….
I do tell people around me that I’ve not seen any beautiful city or place in Nigeria that’s overseas standard cos I’ve been privileged to travel out abroad in my younger years.

The situation report of the country isn’t even funny at all

Nigerians are managing and enduring
Smelly roads everywhere
You can’t even breath good air for once

Except in your apartment

Hmmmmm 😔

Reno is taking this personal and too far now
What if he Reno doesn’t make it till 2031 and co as he claims
He’s not God
Reno pls drink water and be calming down o

shegra58:
so if level wan change na the lowest rank of political post e go be

Most of those counselor no get 1 million naira

don’t even go far sef
There’s one of my neighbors here that’s also one.
Rent of ordinary 500k wet Dey increase to 800k He said he can’t afford it
Their salary is not more than 100k plus sef

Funny lots!!

Both the wailers and the jubilators or wahevaa

Weather you’re overseas supporting or opposing it or wherever

Know this!

Everybody go collect
Directly or indirectly!!
Ire o

N2B2:
Don't pay the ruling party trolls any mind. Go about your day, and rest easy.

Suffering is not a respecter of tribe or political affiliations. It'll touch everyone, including the ruling party trolls and their families.

If a NLer begs you for help in the next 4 years, remember to first check their post history. They must enjoy the fruits of their votes.

well said!
E go touch eiiboddiiii
No need to laud am
E don Dey touch

Well Yul is not even of a notable character
So him supporting the president isn’t surprising..
Even his family are tired of his stubborn character
He’s building up his political career
I won’t be surprised if he later joins Apc
Nothing can shock me again
Meanwhile check my profile if you’re interested in getting the palm

2009
Malaysia
On hols trip with my family
And then again in 2011
Same country…
‘‘Twas so much fun
One of my child hood best memories….
Forget overseas is beautiful
Naija is lagging behind
A place with constant light, good roads, cheap foods and luxurious foods
Sea foods in abundance too…
Exquisite cuisine …
Beautiful roads
Sweet weather with 247 air conditioning
If you go far, u will weep 😪 for naija…

mignone:
Hmmm... It's so bad o.
Two weeks ago, food items were sold on credit at my workplace cos we're still expecting our May pay till now. A no of colleagues lamented dt neighbours trailed them to their houses with different sizes of bowls, begging for little portions of foodstuff.

A neighbour who sells biscuits, drinks, sausage rolls&co also said same of how random passersby will stop to beg for something to eat. Whereas, most of those items only av about N50 - 100 profit in a dozen.
I witnessed it in just a few hours I spent with her last week.

all what you’ve said is plain truth!
Naija which way??
The level now is God abeg
I need not mention the way people are falling dead everyday
It’s that bad…