I won’t lie this issue is quite complicated…
But just quietly send her back home than for you to start maltreating her and then injure her
I’ve seen such situations…
This was a 10yr old child also a niece, the girl child was also a niece to this couples.
She misbehaved a lot and the wife of this man was pregnant at the time
She lost it and beat the hubby’s niece a lot
The girl on her own didn’t have proper upbringing plus some spiritual problems
So they just had to let her go
So pls take her back home let her own parents train them before your wife will loose her temper one day and hurt the child badly

BlissGod:


You’re just a stupid man, I don’t know you but you Sound like one cocky piece of crap. Your stupid ego will soon scatter your marriage, just 300k that you’re here looking for gratitude a woman that could have lost her life in childbirth or worse.

A woman who has sacrificed her body to give you two kids. You are the problem of your marriage. Imagine using the word taming your wife as if she’s a dog you dey tame. Your wife might be going thru post depression of childbirth. Instead of sorting things out you’re here typing rubbish to talk nonsense about her. So let’s hate her now.

God bless you for this truth you’ve spoken
The man is just wicked @op no regard or respect for human life
What if she had died?
What if after spending the 300k you lost her and the baby?
Most men don’t understand and don’t want to understand what women go through to bring another living into the world
So sad….

Hmmmm
When I was about 19 I had this guy overseas that I was dating and was saying he would bring me over and marry me once He settles somethings and stuff …
Most times he would video call me and tell me to send him my nudes
He tried to coerce me even sometimes to send it without my face showing
Omorrr I never fell for it nor obliged cos I was scared asf!
Just imagine if I has done that nonsense by now my videos would have been out cos I and him are no longer an item
It’s good to have sense and fear of God
It saves lives!

silvoclaira:
Lies. Its you!
Its your mum and you. Your mum is a smarter one. She just saved her company from your poison.
(we go chase you OP from Nairaland)

HURRAY! Let's join the company staffs to celebrate the rubbing of sh!t on the OP's face. Thats why you are always here in Nairaland, jobless typing BS
BTW your mum likes you, but she has to save the company from your troubles

I think the op is Iyaebe
Someone has mentioned dis before severally

emmeyen:
For every man that decided to attack a scared woman who probably did the only thing she thought was right after being beaten and humiliated by a drunk man, you people are simply mad! As in raving mad! May the likes of OP's husband befall your siblings or daughters. If you don't have money as a man, have good character. You cannot lack both and be shouting bruised ego. God punish that ego that will make you raise your hand on an hardworking woman who decided to take up the responsibilities of the home. And it's because she is doing it well, that's why he has the guts to go and drink. Nobody is advising that woman to run from the monster her husband has become till he is back to his senses. The he-goats are busy claiming she denied him sex. When he comes back smelling like a hippo after drinking, what is she supposed to do? Take her bath and lie down for him to climb?

Madam! Do you have male relatives? Put them in the know of who your husband has become, let them come and warn him not to raise his hands on you again. And be on the look out, if he doesn't change, biko carry your things and leave before he kills you and start blaming the devil. Stop feeling guilty. Else he will capitalise on that guilt and bring more drama. If he has ego, he should go and work! even if na to carry blocks for head. Real men work to provide for their family. Not going about sulking and beating their wives.

God bless you for this

Mummyfour:
strong words there...

Funny enough, such men feel that one day their children will look for them, forgive him and it will all end in praise.

This particular man I am talking about, his wife and children even try to reach out to him no matter what, but he rebuffs them.

I wish he can read what you just posted.
Whatever a man sows, that he will reap

Surely!

Mummyfour:
I know a man that could not cope and ran away abandoning his wife and children.

the man is evil and his kids will never forgive him
What biz does he have getting married and bringing innocent children to the world when he knows he won’t be capable of doing the needful
His own is finished!

saintbillion:

What can I do sir? How can I apply for redeployment without going to camp?

it requires money o
I did for my lil bro
Spent 70k
But u shld have run it before they posted you
Now u can’t escape the camp

saintbillion:

What can I do sir? How can I apply for redeployment without going to camp?

it requires money o
I did for my lil bro
Spent 70k

Shinjawestern:
Na female toilets dey always dirty pass..

U wil see them outside behaving like people who don't go to toilet...

you re so very very correct
I schooled in a private uni and I can tell you that my hostel toilet was the worst of its kind
Abortion blood always littered on the ground, poo, urine, vomit and all sorts of abominable
The cleaners were always laying heavily curses
Omorrr it was dat bad
If you’re bathing and your soap dish, or sponge mistakenly falls to the ground then e don be be dat
Even if you just bought a new one, once it touches the ground you leave it there

Haaaa I don’t want to recount and these girls would come out with plenty makeup, expensive hairs and shiny clothes looking angelic


The story long …

JohnBoscoKing:
Op, your friend has done well if only he can strategize well and get back to his feet strong. Let me tell you to be a contract staff in a bank is frustrated where you will be kept on a stipend called salary for years without increment. I took such decision in January 2010 while I resigned from my bank work as Transaction banking officer (contact staff) in the defunct BankPHB with a salary of #65,000 then. Though it wasn't easy at first seeing myself jobless but thanks to my family they really help me a lot along the line I engaged myself in an engineering vocational training where I learned fabrication engineering for a period of six months in Lagos Immediately I finished the training I got employed in one oil and gas engineering services in lagos with a monthly salary of #157,000 with daily performance bonus of 15%. Today I am happy I took that decision never regret it. If you are in lagos please let him move in with you and tell him to engage himself in a vocational training in engineering field he will be back on his feet strong.

hello
Pls where in Lagos did you learn this course?
And how lucrative is it?
I mean if one was to relocate outside the country can you use it to secure a job overseas??

DrAda:


That is the beauty of medicine and life in general. Nothing is ever fixed. If an intervention leads to a positive outcome in majority of people, it is more than enough to be recommended as the standard practice. Breastfeeding protects against these diseases in majority of babies. What you have experienced are outliers

I agree

DrAda:


Great. There are other lesser known benefits as well. The mothers are protected from cancers. The kids are protected from allergies and their lips well-defined and sculptured.

i doubt the allergy and respiratory infections protection
I’ve seen cases where babies and exclusively breastfed and still end up with common cold, cough, pneumonia etc

Goalnaldo:
Your pictures or you know what we commonly say on nairaland

or I don’t believe it! 🤣

Lama70:


You will tell me about your sponsored ads when I can spare the time later.

Meanwhile, keep basking in the glory of God, and don't forget to send your 5% to the man who has spared a prayer for your business. Lol.

kikikikikii
Thanks for your good wishes
Anyways I’m always here to answer any of your questions …
For the 10% to the person responsible for prayers
Why do I have a feeling you know me personally lolllll

Ps: I’m a strong believer in the 10%, I wouldn’t want to bore you with sharing my testimony after some failures/ series of events in the past…

No matter what we don’t know which of our seeds that we castes that’s working for us …

God is ever faithful!

Lama70:



Oh, thanks so much for this info. It's been a long time. Nafdac messed my plans to register it for distribution in Nigeria, 2006.
What they requested was so much and the Ghanaian owner was not willing to be part of the registration.
I remember him clearly. A young man in his late 20s that time . He told me then that he was selling one million pieces of it every three months on the average.

Hope your business is moving Candi?

wow the young man is into so much money 💰
Nigeria and their rules knows how to frustrate someone’s dream sha

Yes thanks for asking, business is moving well
Just need to get on back to my sponsored ads via SM, it’s been a while I ventured that path….

Lama70:
Get "Mercy Cream". It used to come from Ghana back then. But very effective against all skin infections.

no more original as before, Nigerians are now doing theirs under bridge at trade fair

I’ve used all and more… you don’t add ship
I’ve sailed on one before
The great sea that leads to Australia in between the Asian continent
That asides … it was though my parents affluence….
Some great things die when a benefactor is no more…

It’s our prayer to do same for our children and much more than our parents did for us
Shalom.

Enice:
I have seen where a cow killed someone. Does it mean the cow should not be eaten?

but the cow didn’t chew the person right?
What of it’s a very big python or some other carnivore that swallowed/killed someone and then it’s being killed and then later eaten?
Is it right??

BadMaster:

The question is, how long is this stability in electricity going to last? We have been enjoying at least 23hours of light for a few weeks now. But my worry is, no one really knows why the sudden improvement. Is it that the dams are filled as a result of rainfall and consequently, we are now enjoying light? Or is there another reason? No one can say for sure.

I believe it’s because of the rainfall
Hence the constant light…
They know wah they’re doing
Let’s see if they keep giving us light when we enter dry season….

Wodu89:




Hahaha. You made my day. I like the way you write.

😊 thanks

I realized I’ve had very few fake wannabe friends
Reason is cos I cut them off before they could get to me
This is the reason why spirit of discernment is good
With the help of the Holy Spirit you can always tell when someone is fake and would hurt you in the nearest future
I saw these signs, cut them off and then they came back at me by attacking my mom
I was confused cos my mum ain’t their mate so why attacking the woman?!
Then I realized the envy all along

There’s one my ex course mate I reunited with the drug addict
We were chatting well
Then I complemented her that she’s adding too much weight and she needed to work on herself
I told her I understand cos it was Covid-19 period and everyone was locked in and getting fat

Omorr you needed to see the way this werey attacked me o
Saying no wonder my status nowadays focused around weight gain and fat people
That im body shaming her
That do I have a serious boyfriend? Talk more of husband?
No manner of insult this Igbo smoke dint give me

I reminded her that she was hurling insults at me meanwhile she is older than me with almost 5 years and still single asf…
Meanwhile I was to be engaged soon… she was still shocked and processing the info

Then I blocked her sorry ass.

She’s in her late 20’s now and still single asf and struggling…she used to sleep around in school so no one takes her serious….

Her story long, always missing lectures, I was taking notes for her and always defending her while others gossiped bout her in class
She later dropped out of med school…
I really regretted reuniting with her….

Skyview01:


Responsibilities no dey end.
Also, when i go out, i get lots of phonecalls, daddy where are you? When are you coming back.

Sometimes i like to travel and vacation alone which i will start this year.

hmmm
With this your comment your zodiac birth sign might be Gemini ♊️
Most of them love adventures and like to change environ….
Well if you had the money you could plan this vacay together with your family

MikeBetty:
where are you from? Are you Igbo to spew this trash? If you are onye Igbo, you deserve 30 lashes. Ifeanyi is not and can never be unisex. Ifeanyi is short name for Ifeanyichukwu. Which woman dey answer Ifeanyichukwu for your village?

this wan weak me
I’ve never heard a female bearing the name

Still on lamentations??
Lord have mercy, hope when we get to Thessalonians we would be able to breathe o oloun

FxMasterz:


I can see that you're already deep in white garment practices. You're probably a strong leader there. Nothing I tell you would move you because your belief in the things you do is deeply entrenched.

Now, let me answer your Questions.

1. The raised hands of Moses was what God intended to use at that point in time to bring victory to Israel. God wanted him in one way or the other to participate in that battle and make the Israelites know for certain that their swords was not responsible for their victory.

Psalm 44:3

For they got not the land in possession by their own sword, neither did their own arm save them: but thy right hand, and thine arm, and the light of thy countenance, because thou hadst a favour unto them."

The message was very clear. Moses also got to understand that he is not self-sufficient. Take note of the fact that it was just a one-time occurrence. It never happened again. They didn't make it a rule for regular war practice. It was simply a message and it remained so. Do not compare this event with regular practices of the white garment churches.

2. When Elisha told the king Jehoash to hit the ground with his arrows in 2kings 13, remember that in verse 16, the prophet put his hands on the king's hands. This is the important part of that passage because the prophet was about to give the king a prophetic prayer that he was not worthy of. The king like his father was not serving God but he wanted to benefit from God. Rather than issue him a word of prophesy for Victory, the prophet can only offer up prophetic prayers and he must use his own hands to decide his own fate. That's exactly what happened. Any victory the king got was not because he was worthy but because God decided to overlook his deeds and have respect to the prophet and his anointing. However, by striking the ground just 3 times, he sealed his own fate. This does not justify anything that white garment churches do.

3. Jesus spitting on the ground was as He was directed to do at that particular moment for that particular man. The man was born blind. Tradition has it that he did not even have eyes. As in there were no eyes in those sockets. It was all skin covering that part of his face. The miracle in that John 10 was a special miracle. Jesus was literally creating new eyes in order to give sight to that man. What He did there was as instructed by the Holy Spirit. Remember He said, "I can of my own self do nothing." The actions were just for that particular occasion. The disciples who took up the ministry after Christ didn't make anything of it. Their activities are fully recorded in the book of Acts. They never had to indulge in any of those things you guys do to cast out devils, heal the sick, make the lame to walk or even raise the dead. The church had existed for almost 2,000yrs before white garment churches came into being. Those practices of yours never existed in christiendom. What do you think you know better than the Apostles?

Jesus is our ultimate example, and the Bible is our guide. Do it the way they did it. You would have the same results they had. It's just as simple as that. Why burn candles or wash anyone's head in rivers? Are you herbalists?

4. The blood flow from the woman with the issue of blood was not responsible for drawing power from the Lord Jesus. It was her faith. Through her faith, power was released from the Lord for her healing, and Christ knew that power got out of Him. Her menstrual blood didn't defile Jesus or spoil His anointing. I'm aware that you guys have
certain restrictions for women during their mensural periods. Like a herbalist, you think a touch from them would spoil things. It was not so with Christ. He was glad the woman touched Him. He approved of the touch and said "daughter, be not afraid, your faith has made you whole." If mensuration does not constitute a pollution to the Apostles of Christ (Acts 15}, why should it matter to any part of the body of Christ? Except that part has another Lord which is not Jesus.

See, the Bible is plain and straight forward. Trying to use unrelated scriptures to justify weird practices does not bring you into any good standing before God.

Even Paul who brought the gospel to us gentiles said be ye my imitators as I am of Christ Jesus. 1Cor. 11;1-2 (Paraphrased).

Tell me who you're imitating with your strange practices because it's obviously not the Lord Jesus, neither Paul nor any othe Apostles of the Lamb.

God bless you for this
You really understand the word of God which is the pure truth!

This country makes me laugh Ahswear
This one is not news naa
is it today?
Can they please address the issue of ghost workers first
A lot of civil ghost workers eating awoof money upandan
I even saw where a primary school bursar is earning over 200k in benue state
Nothing anyone for teh me
Corruption has eaten very deep and all this our leaders are aware they just tend to play blind

tonywonder:


It's more than infatuation.... The man truly loves the woman despite her weakness! Some men can love a woman like that but it's very few men that can love that way!

Most men won't tolerate their wives sleeping around with different men not to talk about her giving birth to various children out of wedlock.

hmmmm
You’re right
But I thought infatuation is a kind of love
Should we call it obsession then?
Cos all of them is actually categorised under love
But if you say it’s true love then maybe it is….

Osashalom:
My sister this one over weak me. That woman is going around with multiple demons. I really pity both of them chaiiiiiiii this dey happen oo.... I like the way you gist, I wish you are in my city, I would have make you my gist mate. Happy Sunday to you and all yours.

kikikiii thanks 😊 I wish you the same
No b small multiple demons lmaoo

Amayabor1:


That is not true. A growth like this doesn't need drugs. For this kind of growth, it is to remove a part of it or remove the whole growth and send to the lab so they can use microscope to look at it.

Drugs are not used to treat growths like this. You don't even need CT scan or xray for this op's growth.

true and after excision a histology would be needed to be carried out on the specimen

Omohhh Iran that did not see food to eat is sullying ammunition
It’s okay……

Osashalom:
Sorry the second part of your comment, is it happening real life or Nollywood?

hmmm it’s real life story o
Let me gist you

The woman nd her hubby her wealthy, they travel round the world with the kids for holiday and all…
Now the hubby came to my bishop that’s the founder of my church and was crying bitterly saying he needed a miracle for his wife
And he was asked if she was sick?
He said it’s the sickness of sleeping around and drinking
The man says his wife is a drunk and always falls to the gutter and after which young boys will pick her up and wash her up and sometimes molest her body cos she’s very pretty
When he’s in the country; if he waits up for her and she’s not yet home he will just stroll to the street gutter and see her lying dere den carry her home and clean her up.
He says the worse is that she sleeps with different men and she bore him four children in which none are his.

How did he know? It’s anytime he travels out for a business meeting after coming back for some few months she’s already with a baby bump.

Omohhh guy u need to see the way this man was shedding tears like a child and crying 😢
He says she’s currently pregnant for the 5th child and he feels he’s not the owner of the child as he just got back from travel.

That my Go shld pls deliver his wife cos he knows it’s not ordinary and he loves her so much and didn’t want to loose her.

Our Go said he was confused that he wanted to tell the man that she can be delivered and also wanted to tell the man to leave the lady and run out of the marriage.

Omorrr congregation stood still that sunday
Everyone was bewildered
I’m a lady but I wouldn’t advise that man if he was my relative to remain in that marriage, I mean that’s not love ….

Seems the man was infatuated cos I don’t understand it