Politics › Re: Amaechi: Some People Will Blame Buhari If They Can’t Get Pregnant by calcal: 4:51pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
When asked if the All Progressives Congress did not know about the challenges when it promised to deliver “change” to Nigeria, Amaechi said they didn’t know the magnitude of the rot. Any educated idiot is supposed to know that a country of 200M population, with no manufacturing, no agriculture, cannot survive in this 21 st century. |
Family › Re: 17 Years Of Meeting My Wife by calcal: 4:36pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
God will continue to bless this Union.
Congratulation! |
Politics › Re: Uche Nwosu Kidnapped In Church By Imo Government House Security Officials (Video by calcal: 4:32pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Very bad indeed
anyway, it is turn by turn |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Gives Lady Freezer For Christmas (Video) by calcal: 2:35pm On Dec 26, 2021 |
Sanwo-Olu wa sere padi mi!
Continue with the distribution maybe it will reach my friends too. |
Investment › Re: Please Who Will Borrow Me Money To Start Crypto by calcal: 2:57am On Dec 26, 2021 |
Leonartello: You don't need anybody to lend you money to start investing in crypto when you can get free 1million lovecoins worth #876,000. All you have to do is sign up using my referral link on my signature and confirm your email to receive your 1million love coins. Go to pancakeswap and swap the lovecoins for Usdt and sell to exchanges or peer to peer on binance. That 's all. It sounds like a scam |
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Jokes Etc › Re: Different Types Of People You Might Come Across On Christmas Day by calcal: 10:04pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
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Business › Re: Man Strips To His Boxers In A Lagos Bank To Demand For His Money (Video) by calcal: 9:51pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
safetyboot: BANKS ARE CLAIMING "NO CASH" BECAUSE OF CHRISTMAS WITHDRAWAL & SPENDING The code need to be modified IF <empty> No transaction Else That should solve the issue. or do we still need to call the Indians to that for us? |
Celebrities › Re: Emma Nyra 'Collapses' As Family Gifts Her A Range Rover For Christmas (Video) by calcal: 9:35pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
olioxx: Looking at the third image, I ask myself why can't ladies learn to dress decently? Imagine say breeze blow that gown up nah... Clout chaser dem!!! SMH na wa for you oo, weytin dey there? no be flesh? |
Celebrities › Re: My Mansion Is Worth N500M — Blessing Okoro Finally Becomes A Land Lady (Photos) by calcal: 9:17pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Congrat, enjoy |
Health › Re: Black Soot: Early Morning Weather Condition In Rivers State by calcal: 9:15pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
They need to relocate to the north. ONE Nigeria |
Culture › Re: Dancing Igbo Egedege Music With My Russian Girlfriend by calcal: 9:04pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
Lovely,
желаю счастья и крепкого здоровья |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Empowers 1,786 Farmers With ₦3.6 Billion by calcal: 5:15pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
The funny is that all my friends and extended family are in Lagos but none of them ever benefited from any of these empowerment programs even though they always apply. |
Politics › Re: Oil Discovery In Bauchi, Gombe Will Cut Niger-Delta Political Power - Buhari by calcal: 3:20pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
slivertongue: Buhari's incendiary remarks show he is against nigeria's unity Buhari, Kanu, and Igboho have similar agendas. Bubu is telling us, you guys can go to hell, we have our own oil and we can live without you people. and some idiots here are shouting ONE ZOO |
Crime › Re: Lagos Residents Scramble To Pick Stolen Money: Video by calcal: 3:11pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
It is normal, it shows respect for money. |
Celebrities › Re: Anita Joseph's Husband Hugs Her Curvy Backside In Christmas Photos by calcal: 3:03pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
The man tried sha to lift that otete |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Dangote Begins Recruitment Drive Across Nigeria’s Tertiary Institutions by calcal: 3:01pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
we’ll now send them abroad for training so, no institution qualified to train common low-class workers on refinery operation in the zoo? most people that work in the refinery in developed countries are high school graduates. what are you doing at the refinery? most stuff is automated, just monitor the flow. to monitor the operation you need first-class graduates? If a pump breaks down, the first class won't be able to repair the pump because they need the tools to do so. in which non is available. you will find out that they won't be able to indicate runout because of a lack of tools. That refinery day is numbered. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Wife Just Got A Job by calcal: 2:46pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
uthlaw: Why can't you open a shop for her to be selling foodstuffs...must both of you work under person in the name of not staying at home? Selling foodstuff belittle the guy. |
Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo Looks Stunning In Christmas Photos by calcal: 2:36pm On Dec 25, 2021 |
pretydiva: At 44 you still no wan get sense? Must you reveal your thigh? I wonder the kinda upbringing she's giving her daughter That is what she has to offer, she is doing the right thing to feed her daughter. well done, those Iyabos are always good in dog game |
Politics › Re: Remodeled Badagry Slave Market Reaches 95% Completion Stage by calcal: 3:53am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Caboceer: Your generation for be crackhead for USA
Idiat Crackhead in the USA is living, enjoying a better life than your millionaires in the zoo |
Food › Re: Times Are Really Hard For Most People by calcal: 3:43am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Analyst7: Those politicians go call ur complain propaganda Nothing is working in this country Protest with good planning is a good place to start You will be killed if you protest, so stay indoor. |
Family › Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by calcal: 12:02am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Or11: The question is for married women. What is/are the reasons that you would avoid or refuse sex with your husband?
My wife's own is when I get lazy at home and I don't help in the house chores e.g cleaning, cooking, bathing the kids etc. She won't fight with me or argue but when I touch her like this, she will find a meaningful excuse. She's tired, not in the mood, headache, tomorrow, I need to shower first and I'm too lazy now etc. I found out myself that it was when I helped at home that there were no excuses, it's always a happy ending. You are not a civilized person, you have a great wife. She is not your slave that will continue to do all the house chores without any help from you. |
Family › Re: How Do I Handle My Problematic Father? by calcal: 11:54pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Backwardness Supreme145: Good day Nairalanders, there have been a lingering cold war in my family between my parents and it has created a tension in my family that as the first son I'm running out of options on how to dunce this tension. My parents have been married for almost 30 years and just like another has been full of ups and downs.
I will try not to sound biased but my dad's authoritarian nature has caused a serious crack in my our family and made my mom a very unhappy woman that is just enduring the marriage for the sake of her children. Instead of the children to find solace in our home we all prefer to be far away due to the continuous rift between our parents. My dad has never laid his hands on our mom but constantly talks down on her even in front of the kids, and knowing my father you would rather prefer to be mended with 2x2 plank rather than my father letting his tongue lose on you. His mouth is filled with venom.
A while ago one of my siblings got a job as a cashier in a bet shop without my father's knowledge, we kept it away from him because we knew very well he would object because he hated anything bet. My mom on the other hand knowing fully well that the boy has been idle for a while gave her consent reluctantly. My dad got to know after he observed that the boy was dropping money at home frequently and when he inquired about the source of the money and learnt that he was working in bet shop all hell was let loose.
He called me on phone in school, which he rarely does just to confirm if I was aware which I replied in the affirmative. He said all manner of derogatory things to me, because he felt his position as the head of the home was threatened, he felt we the children was siding my mom to override his authority in the home. My siblings would later call me the following day to complain about how he spoke to my mom, the poor woman cried for days. They said my dad would never see a dime of their money if they get rich even though I know it was childish talk but that's how serious thing are.
Almost all my siblings have grown to hate my dad though they conceal it very well. His tyrannical rule is not helping matters at all, my dad is the kinda father that if you spoil an appliance in the house, it would be in your best interest to repair it before he becomes aware because the funny part is he won't say much to you rather all the aggression would be transfered to my mom. If we use the generator we would have to replace the quantity of fuel that we used. I was sleeping in lecture hall in school, my pop man insisted there was no money and even advised I withdrew from school if I can't cope only to get home to meet the news that he just bought a land lol.
While I don't expect much from him cos I'm of age, I don't like how he keeps alienating himself from my other siblings due to his nonchalant attitude to their warfare. Those kids would spend weeks at home due to non payment of school fees but he would spend hundreds of thousands fixing his car if it breaks down.
My mom called me today in tears, p man just left the house without dropping anything for Xmas, and even a cube of maggi is not at home, and its not as if he doesn't have money, I'm away of the big contracts he's working on at the moment whereas he's been spending on his car putting it in shape for travelling him. And he was the one that told momsi not to process her cassava and sell because she envisaged that something like this would happen.
Now my siblings have been bombarding me with complaints and this is why I preferred to stay back in school instead of traveling home. How should I approach this issue? I can't call a man and tell him how to use his money, I've been struggling to make mine so that I can offset some of the expenses from his shoulder.
I love my dad and I understand his struggles, i know what people without a father figure goes through but how can I stop the hate that is brewing towards him from my siblings? I want our home to be peaceful. Please I need your advice. |
Crime › Re: Police Extort ₦405,000 From UNILAG & YABATECH Students After False Accusation by calcal: 11:10pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bubu again |
Family › Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by calcal: 9:41pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
OP, sincerely you are not normal.
visitors first then others |
Family › Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by calcal: 9:06pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
OP,
Please advise your senior sister not to send money to the zoo again unless in an emergency situation like a hospital bill. She has her life to live and take care of her children. she cannot continue to send her husband money to the zoo.
I have done it in the past nothing good came out of it.
Concerning your only man brother, he is a graduate, the early you forget about him the better and live your own life. don't expect anything good from a money burner. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Reveals New Alliance With China To Create Space Weapons ( Pics) by calcal: 8:50pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Nothing will happen, all na noise as usual. |
Celebrities › Re: Chizzy Alichi Dazzles In Red On Her Birthday (Photos) by calcal: 8:40pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
She is an original Afro. black is beautiful |
Culture › Re: Photos Of The Women Who Have Left Ooni Of Ife by calcal: 4:28pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
kmcutez: Seems the Ooni is impotent. He should try and lose weight and see if that helps. Go try him and tell us after |
Christianity Etc › Re: Six Birds Drop Dead On The Lord's Chosen Altar In Lagos (Pix, Video) by calcal: 2:39pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
scammer |
Romance › Re: Muhammed Alfa Marries Twin Sisters - Adama & Aisha In Bida (Video) by calcal: 2:35pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
The good side of Islam, very nice. |
Culture › Re: Afolasade Ashley Afolakemi: Is New Wife The Cause Of Ooni's Divorce? (Photos) by calcal: 11:32am On Dec 24, 2021 |
NoToPile: So is olori Ashley no longer a single mother? Does the tradition now permit it?
Theres more to this matter, Naomi can't divorce the ooni because he married another wife, she has said so anyway and everybody knows he's a king and can marry plenty wives.
There's another reason the reason they are all silent about, possibly same reason wuraola left.
This her 2017 post means she was engaged to be married to or in a relationship with the ooni if not she wouldn't have the confidence to write Aya oosha etc etc on her page. Mate, the Oba na yahoo Oba. if you don't know, know now. |