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Experience they say is the best teacher



You are right my good sir.

DieRich5:
first nobody has power over me,I learned to live ND do wat I like ND alots of people even my friend's hate me for dat

man has option to rank anyone it's not automatically u rank ur wife above mother but it's different from women cus the man bought u from ur family

your peace of mind is directly tied to whether your wife wants you to......so ur saying women has more power over men in married?

So raising hell when you should be utilising your energy on more productive ventures is your own definition of peace of mind?

Susily:
In a gynocentric society, all these you said holds true but not in a patriarchal society like Nigeria

A man should take care of his kids cos it's his responsibility, but if your wife doesn't want to give you peace in your marriage, RAISE HELL ON HER

There's a reason most wealthy Nigerians prefer to live in Nigeria (High brow areas of this country) than abroad......

Comrade, off mic!

Smartb0y:
At bolded, you can never be 100% sure. Count yourself lucky if you're even 40% sure .

Are you married or have you ever been married?


Go and show a married man your post and you will be charged for manslaughter because he will surely die of laughter

Dliquidmetal:
In my opinion, a woman only has as much power as you give to her. I got principles, my way or highway.

Seems like this weekend is for the bitter truths.

You don't want to compare the person you are entrusting with your future (children, properties) and who will be sharing your bed, most likely in charge of your feeding and can snuff life out of you without raising suspicion if she so wishes to your mother whose input in your life wanes as soon as you hit MID twenties and you think you are now an adult capable of making his own decisions.

Let me tell you what nobody else will, the day you marry, whether you like it or not, your wife automatically rank above your mother and your peace of mind is directly tied to whether your wife wants you to have it or not.

Have you ever seen a married man thrown in prison for neglecting his mother, try that with your wife and kids first and see how fast you will land where you don't want to be.

You think those who are avoiding marriage don't have sense ba, it will clear for your eyes how much power a wife holds

DieRich5:
Ur mother is different ND also AWALT but don't fvckin compare ur wife to ur mother
ur wife family is not ur family nd she gat no right to tell u to send small thing to her family,u only send if u wan to not her telling u

alot of mothers do this shit always trying to put ur dad aside when dere money (women love money) I don see many with my 2 eyes

Man eyes haff seen many things. Mouth, fingers and brain can't find the right letters to put it in words

Would have shared some painful personal experiences with you most especially the one which made me homeless and literally living on the street and how I picked myself back up but our realities are different.

The best motivation is the one you give yourself - Erriga

Meedon:
My bros. e just be like say God just bring this kind talk make people the talk today. My body the shark me since to the serious with my life but I the do anyhow as I come the think am today na so una the write. Bros. please how can I succeed in life. I don't want to be poor in life. This have being bothering me for so long. I get suicidal thoughts at times.

I feel like I'm not doing enough and please how can I get out of my comfort zone?

33k

The series just keep getting better.


I like how they are exploring the inter dynamics of the relationship within the team.... Each man with his own agenda

mayor1814:
SEAL TEAM crew, what's your take on the last episode? especially concerning the twists and drama going on btw Jason, Clay Spenser and Ray Perry. And the Sunny and Davies situation.

Apologies sir.


Like I said we are not ready to have the conversation.

CamusMidas:
Oga leave mother out of this, if a guy can't decide how to appropriately share/give his resources to his parents then he should have his self to blame; I believe we are all grown up and know who actually provide for all our resources while we're growing up.

Some of us have mother's that at least care about us.

Your sweet mother is the only NAWALT you know yet she is in the habit of making you sidestep your old man when it is time for you to send goodies home...... What is the difference between her and your wife who does same to make you spend more on her family than yours?







But we are not ready for this conversation.

You will never know how much inner strength you have wasting away till you leave your comfort zone.



From my own personal experience and in my own opinion........ "Comfort Zone is the antithesis of the Redpill"

My own trick is by always baiting them with the question "What constitute a real woman?" when they are done blabbing..... I deliver the knockout blow "Are you a real woman as you just described?"




Double Standards everywhere you go like MTN

CAPSLOCKED:
THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A REAL MAN IN MY BOOKS. I ONLY KNOW MEN.

WHEN YOU START TO JOIN WOMEN TO CLASSIFY MEN INTO REAL MEN VS ORDINARY MEN, YOU'RE ENABLING THEIR IDIOCY IN EMPLOYING THE "REAL MAN" TAG AS AN EGO BOOST TO MILK MEN AND DEMAND THE MOST FROM MEN WHILE PUSHING SUCH REAL MEN TO THE BRINK OF DEATH IN MEN'S QUESTS TO DO THINGS BEYOND THEIR STRENGTHS FOR WOMEN JUST TO MAINTAIN THE REAL MAN CROWN.

REDPILLERS AND ENLIGHTENED MEN MUST KNOW THIS MILLENNIUM-OLD TRICK, AND SHOULD NEVER FALL FOR IT. IT'S EITHER YOU'RE A MAN OR YOU'RE NOT. IF WOMEN THINK YOU'RE A REAL MAN BEST BELIEVE YOU'RE THE ĮDIOT TO BE EXTORTED UNTIL INFINITY. THIS PERSON IS THE BETA SLAVE THAT BUCKS, WHILE AN ALPHA FUCS.

DON'T BE A REAL MAN. JUST BE A MAN WITH WISDOM, A-GAME, POTENTIAL, CAREER AND GOALS, AND THAT'S ALL YOU NEED.

Go to linked devices as seen in the screenshot.

Dizzyyish:
Ah, I see. Thanks.

Also also, that whatsapp barcode spy thing mentioned earlier; is there a way to prevent it or know if someone did it to you?

He blocked you.


Muted statuses are hidden under a separate folder on the Status section and no, you wouldn't know if you are muted.

Dizzyyish:
If you don't mind me asking, how does this status mute work?
I muted the status of a guy that constantly updated his status, I later noticed his WhatsApp pic was gone and his muted statuses weren't showing up again (wondering if he blocked/deleted my number) Is it possible to know if someone muted you?

Life is already difficult enough as it is, if you ever decide to get married, don't play your marital life at "Legend mode difficulty"

There is a reason why Football matches start with a 0-0 scoreline.




I will not explain!

This is why football matches should always start with 0-0

I ran into a met-on-street female friend of mine this morning and she asked me if she has done anything to offend me because she is no longer seeing my status on WhatsApp.


Told her that she didn't offend me, just that the kind of sexually revealing and other nonsense Tiktok personal videos of hers she usually post aren't the kind of things I want to be seeing on my feed in 2022.


Babe just dey look me as I walked away like I am from the Planet Venus.

I don't like explaining myself but I'd like to make an exception for you as a pioneer of this movement.


If you had taken your time to read my post carefully, I said that I made the move to break up with her because any other way will be fruitless, this girl already made inroads into my personal circle. I wasn't vetting or looking for any long term insurance. I already knew what I'd find.

As logical beings we pride ourselves to be.
We should be reading to comprehend not with defensive mindset looking to pick holes as we are in a litigation room.


All love from here!

ubunja:
now you're out here bugging phones??whats next? Putting a tracker on her car? Flying a drone above her?

Let's not promote these blue pill antics on a red pill thread. These are the convos betas are having. You never quite had this girl's heart to begin with and you knew it, that's why you felt the need to do all that extra work. Such breakups are even a relief for the girl cause she didn't like it here. Let's do better.

Don't forget to add that she is also a mother of two

heartofcity12:
Trust no woman, they’re capable of doing anything. She goes to church or mosque regularly means nothing, her position in these religious places means nothing. Social media also exposes what they’re capable of.

This guy

Only a mentally retarded person will privatise a public toilet then turn around to wonder why people from far and near are violating the privacy of his home to take a dump.






I will not explain!

The current trend on the this street reminds me of a particular Ex in 2017, I have always knew that she was for the street. She made the smart move of integrating herself inside my personal circle at the time so disengaging her was going to be with hard proof or nothing.


Then one particular day, I took her phone for the very first time and put all her calls on auto-record knowing that girls usually don't know jack around modern technology. For the next one week, Knowing all calls are being recorded on her end. I will always end any phone calls with her with the question "Are you cheating on me?" Madam will deny every single time. When she visits me because we usually see every day, I will change the file name of the recordings to hide them from her music player, all these while, I never listened to the recordings nor transfer them to my phone.



After like 8 days, I sat her down and told her to hand over her phone, she asked for time to finish her ongoing task on the phone and quickly deleted her recent call history and messages then gave it to me. I strolled like a boss to the file manager, transferred everything to my phone, adjusted the file settings to .mp4 and started playing sweet melodies.





Smoothest breakup I ever had

Na initial gragra.



You will soon calm down.


What the 100k you saved throughout 2021 can purchase right now is just 60% of its purchasing power a year ago....



Long term savings without investment target is a colossal waste of time.


Penny wise, Pound foolish move

@ your last statement, have you met me before concluding?
Infact if I am to do change of name, Broke will be my registered other name.


The only circumstance that is casting me right now to make people know that I am relatively comfortable is the fact that I rented an apartment late last year and the house was sold just months later before my rent coupled with agreement and commission paid starts running and I am presently seeking for another accommodation without waiting for my refund first.


If girls are not calling you broke, stingy, selfish and the likes, bro, check your pockets, there is a big leakage somewhere

Palazee:
You are very right

Thats why nigerian female always retort to broke shaming tactics in any little situation

Beside no Nigerian guy want to be called Broke

If this is a bar, I will be breaking a couple of bottles in your head right now.


Some people don't learn from imitation, they rather learn from experience and such people should be egged on to their doom not dissuaded.


Me that the more wins I get in life, the more prudent and stoic I become.

My ex turn FWB was even complaining on January 2nd that I was more fun and agreeable when I was semi-broke and living with my dad and brother but now that I am fully independent in all ramifications, my shakara is out of bounds.... Calmly told her to fvck off and stick with her boyfriend alone if she can't cope.




Redpill is an endless journey of self discovery not a destination.

SOZINN:
Wait oh, four months into self development and you want to discard the red pill. Imagine this guy, because you feel you have achieved most of your goals. What the fûck? There is no end, you are stuck with this philosophy for life. I can agree if you want to take a break from all the work and chill but you can't disconnect yourself from the red pill. You just can't, no matter what you accomplish in life.

You want to get out of monk mode and flex life with women, don't you know that's where you need the red pill the most. Oga, there is no quitting the red pill, because the blue pill world will not hesitate to make you suffer if you submit yourself to them. This is not school, there is no graduation. You are not better than any of us here. You will navigate life through the red pill till eternity!!!!

In Soccer, there is a reason why the centre referee is given two cards (Yellow and Red), there is also a reason why minor offences are punished with the yellow card and two minor offences from a particular player are punished with two yellow cards resulting in a red card and consequently, expulsion from the field of play.


Need I tell this community why a very serious offence is punished by a straight red card and immediate expulsion from the field of play, no questions asked.



We are all equipped with Yellow and Red cards to navigate through the ways of the world, brandish your cards where and when appropriate.

That is the only way to make people take you serious.

I am very sure that your male ancestors gave themselves high-fives after your decision

Andremalan731:
A friend with benefit told me yesterday that she wants to stop having sex totally until her wedding night
But want us to remain good friends
She said it’s part of her new year resolution
I wished her goodluck and blocked her.

Hope I didn’t overreact?

You are actually contradicting yourself.

The reason I finally identified as a Redpiller is because I later understood that regardless of the fact that you come across the redpill or not, either consciously or unconsciously, whether you mean it or not, it is either Positive Masculinity (Redpill) or the highway, there is no middle ground.


When you are not maintaining frame, you are simping and vice versa.

So being unpredictable means at times you will consciously simp.

Even the most irredeemable simp will periodically even if it is at rare intervals, act redpill, doesn't that make him redpill?


The stoic male who consciously brings down his frame to act bluepill is also by extension not a simp, he is only being fluid.


Shey you understand now?

Kellzzyy:
Being unpredictable isn't by acting bluepill. That's a wrong advice.
While I agree with you that you need to be fluid and unpredictable, acting bluepill isn't part of it.

Be fluid like water.



Acting like Idi Amin all the time makes you very predictable and predictability breeds familiarity.

Surprise others and yourself in particular by acting bluepill at times, the burns suffered by such acts will keep your redpill lenses sharp and precise when you revert back to frame.


Redpill is a route of endless journey not a destination.

When dealing with your attraction to the opposite sex, time and patience are your greatest allies.


Time to let your self development seeds bear fruits and get your finances in order.

Patience to see that your fixation is borne out of a oneitis scarcity mindset and you deserve better.




Girls I used to crush on as little as three years ago, I don't look at them twice nowadays.

If you don't mind, I am very much interested in knowing your age? This sounds like the ramblings of a teenager, no offence.


Maintaining frame dictate that you don't cower under the frame of other people anyhow.


The least you could have done is pay for what you ate and drank at that outing.... You did yourself a great disservice by allowing her boyfriend who you are not even acquainted to, to clear your bill.


Never let strangers pick your tab, especially not the lover(s) of whoever you have in your crosshairs.

Osas187:
After some minutes her boy friend came,and he paid for all things we ate and drank,I told myfriend that we should be going,he said we should wait for more 30 minute,we later left them dere,the guy follows us to gate with his girl friend,and they both stay with us till we enter bike,she only says good bye to myfriend and she don't say anythings to me.
Her boyfriend wouldn't know that her girlfriend had been dieing for my attention before he arrived,in his face her girl friend his loyal because she don't give a Bleep about her brother friends..

Don't mind him.... He is probably mistaking this thread for Ubnja miseducations pioneer thread.

RAGGA40:
Alaye seriously when if I may asked