₦airaland Forum

firsttymum:
Candyce

firsttymum:
una no go ki person with laugh o...
Of but order? Kikikikikikikikiki

TopeFl:
You don't need a Nigerian visa for the child. You can do visa on entry into Nigeria.

chimafranks:
Pls I have another question. If am currently unemployed does it affect our chances. Though hubby has d full capacity to sponsor the trip. Tnx alot

osat82:
Hello everyone,trust you are all doing good,Thank God I had my baby boy via C-Section on Monday at HNMC,I used Dr Morgan,intially I was pissed about aving a repeat c section but I am glad a did cos my baby weighed 4.4kg,I don't think I could AV survived pushing him out of me. Everything went well,they were not able to give me epidural cos for some reason it wasn't staying so I was put to sleep. So far everything went well I am good and my baby is healthy no complications,I AV paid my bills paid,3k dr fees and 3500 hospital bills and 750 epidural,I was discharged and I got a letter from d hospital stating I AV performed my financial obligations,however I am still expecting the pediatrician's bill,when I called I was told my son's info wasn't yet in their billing system and I should check next week.
But I must say HNMC wasn't nice when it came to giving free things,I was give six 40mls similac,and 10 diapers and a pack of baby wipe. And they wore a top for my baby through out our 2 night stay,the top was old and worn out,I wished I had brought my own stuff from the start.
Anyway boy is doing good Alhamdulilah

Ihebb:
@candyce, I got the info I needed and am working on it. I was advised to go for vacation first so I'll be leaving for new York on the 10th of July. Will call the embassy for the change of intent when I get bk.

Thanks for checking on me. Yeah am cool. Hope u re too?

Ajujuju2:
My sister what am about to say will offend alot of people ao let me start by apologizing in advance.
However i hope we will be wise enought to open our hearts and eyes and ears and learn.

Our biggest problem in thia part of Africa is
A) culture
B) Religion

We are raised as religious people and u often hear statements like : God forbid! I am Christ like and by his grace will deliver like the hebrew woman!
The faith we (especially pentecostals) profess is alittle unreasonable sometimes. How can someone have headache and not take drugs or be sick and say "im strong in Jesus name" when they are obviously in nees of help?

Wasnt it Jesus that gave the doctors their knowledge? Isnt it by Gods grave that science has gotten where it is? Forget that some scientists dnt bliv in God but we all know that the mystery of existence is the grace of grace and healing is all part of that grace.

Culrurally also women look down on other women who have had csections. They see dem as inferioir and unable to bear pain. But guess what: THERE ARE DIVERSE REASONS FOR CSECTION. pain is thr least reason. Some women are created with small uterus, others get gestational diabetes, some babies are breech, some have a cord prolapse (cord around their neck where pushing may strangle the baby) and many more reaons. Why make a woman feel inadequate for smth she has no control over? Y subject the miracles of pregnancy to earthly condenmation??

Oyinbo ppl have sooo accepted cs that they even walk into the OR begging for a section.

We claim to have come into the 21st century, but still have myopic views forced on us by our African heritage.

My sisters if u can birth naturally please do, but if for any reason a life ia dependent on a section, please choose life... Not myth!

#lifenotmyth!

Ajujuju2:
My lil one came today and we are bonding fine.
All i can say is Thank you Jesus.

EvaMD:
Thank you @greatie but which transcript again

Ihebb:
OK nne, I have "heared" you. #injennifasvoice. Tnks for calling me dishonest, may God forgive u honey.

Ihebb:
Greetings everyone. Am new here and I would want concrete and sincere advise. I was given a 2year us visa. I intend to give birth there, even though I didn't tell the VO because I was not askedBut then I want to leave the country in my 4th month,

powermike9999:
Thanks @candyce. She was 1 week pregnant when we got d visa& we didnt even know.

Her passport shows dat she travelled to France abt d time of the holiday we wanted we only had to come back for unavoidable reasons.

I don't plan to have another child after dis i'm sure by d time she delivers d visa wld still have over a year left on it.

I have used mine & i would have wished she goes for a visit before delivery but d exchange rate has spoilt everything. Has any1s visa been cancelled after writing the embassy for change of purpose? Or if she goes without informing them and pays all d bills is it a bad 1?Pls educate me.Abeg.

Thanks.

powermike9999:
God bless u all for sharing very useful info in dis chat room.

Have a US visa for self, wife &2 kids. Got d visa for a holiday/part business in d US which we planned to sincerely go for.

We were supposed to visit france and d US within 1 month but midway into our holiday in france before we could leave for d US, something very urgent came up at my business &i had to rush back wt my family after just a week.

Have gone to d US alone since then for business briefly &i'm back.

Wifey is pregnant now & I want d baby delivered in d US. I intend to write d embassy abt d change of purpose but i have read on a few pages back whr some people re advising against it. I would have wished she goes for a 2 weeks vac before going for d delivery but cos of d exchange rate i cant afford it & all i'm gathering is d money for delivery.

My Question is dat is it advisable dat i write d embassy or not.
Should she just go when she is ready &face d CBP in d US without writing d embassy. Do they cancel visas nowadays when u change d purpose. I have read virtually all d pages on d part 1-4 of dis thread but i need answers based on people's recent experiences.

Thank you.

Porshebabymama:
Good morning mommies and daddies, aunties, uncles and fwends.. With great joy I gladly Inform y'all that baby blaize777 has been discharged after ten days...
Praise the Lord!!!!.


#okbye #

luckyman23:
Please are the bureau de change at the Lagos international airport are still operating?

SlowlybtSurely:
Who sent for you when you were busy discrediting hospitals that mamas here took their time to research? Even when they told you vivianobas made a mistake with the income/resident thingy, you still went on and on, trying to showcase your pseudo smartness and crass stupiidity. I'm sure it gives you so much joy seeing mamas put in difficult situations, cos I've noticed those are the kinda posts that interest you the most.

Guy swerve!

Momo13:
Thanzzzz my silsterr #injenifa'svoice
Pregnant women are mostly confused or angry at nothing!

evemama:
Hello house,
My testimonies plenty.
1) my mum got her visa on monday at abuja, she went with her burden of proofs but itb was not checked. Just 2 questions ( were are u going and why). White paper given to her and Vo is typing, my mama refused to go feeling like d woman never check her plenty papers na security man come explain say no need, u've been given visa!

2) had my beautiful big baby girl same day by 7; 42am at Oakbend by dr F.
After 4yrs of marriage, 2 nasty 1st & 2nd trimester miscarriages. This miracle came. At abt 4 months was diagnosed with gestational diabetes, put on insulin 3 times daily and considered high risk pregnancy. This discouraged me greatly I almost left d American dream, plus had some doctors I originally wanted to use in america who turned me down cos I was on insulin.

LadyGuinivere:
Hahahahaha! No kee me o! The fact that u watch emire de terr me say u be correct someborri
#inpepesticovoice mbok thank ya thank ya! It is good when at least one peson understands the mission even thou e be like mission impossible. God bless us all o!
I only know the answer for twins.
Do the kpekus by 12 in the afternoon /high noon. Off all the ac and fan. Close the windoow. Na the heat go make the somethingto split! Mo na lie?

Ajujuju2:
Ok i thnk we need to research more before speaking authoritatively. No harm meant my dear, but u need to understand the following; especially bcz we are all here to learn and help each other.

Myomectomy is the surgical removal of fibroids from the uterus. It allows the uterus to be left in place and, for some women, makes pregnancy more likely than before. Myomectomy is the preferred fibroid treatment for women who want to become pregnant.

After myomectomy, a cesarean section may be needed for delivery. This depends in part on where and how big the myomectomy incision is.

Therefore d enquirer was right to ask abt VBAC. D reason being that once a surgery has been dne on d uterus most doctors dnt encourage VD bcz d force of pushing cn erupt the earlier suture. So in essence women who hav dne myomectomy hav to do cesarian.

Shes a first time mom bt wants to knw if she cn do VBAC. She knws wht shes asking.

sugah:
We learn everyday. I did not know VBAC refers to surgeries other than cesearean section as well. Thanks.

Veka:
Are there any mamas that didn't use epidural for their first? How was it like? I'm still very undecided if I want to take the Hebrew woman route. I dey fear sha.

Veka:
Are there any mamas that didn't use epidural for their first? How was it like? I'm still very undecided if I want to take the Hebrew woman route. I dey fear sha.

Beryl15:
Naijamama, Tobi12345 & phabulouschy
Why do I feel you're one and the same?

iya01:
Hallo beautiful pple, pls is SSN now compulsory for Passport Application.

nefertitiram:
Otuoke, Bayelsa state