Romance › Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by candygist: 8:52am On Jan 27, 2022 |
lordaltruist: Dear Nairalanders,
I got this job in 2019 and it turns out that now I am the only male senior staff except from the security guard. Way back in 2019 there were 2 other guys but they left in 2020 after our company transferred to a different location and since then, I have been the only male staff other than the security guard whose job is not in internal affairs.
She is actually my senior colleague and way older than myself but over the past year and some months now, we have been so friendly though we don't discuss relationship together or talk anything boyfriend and girlfriend together but something seems to be odd in her look whenever I talk about a girl likewise myself I felt odd when she talks about a guy she flirted with.
In my office every other staff have a nickname for us both even my boss was the one who initiated the nickname because of how close we are and even though I nurse getting under her skirts, I do not have yet the muscle to tell her that and lately I am beginning to like her more as we share everything about ourselves.
I have been to her house and can go to her house at anytime and she was the one who persuaded me to return to the company after I didn't want to return when it relocated and also convince my boss to retain me; sometimes she buys me food in the office likewise myself and always like to have me around her like working together and whenever she needs assistance over a job, she will want me to be the person to help.
I notice she and my other female (married) colleague who work in the same department with us had almost had squabble because of whom I should be assisting and since she's the most senior colleague she won over that one.
She is very single and above her 40s but I don't mind as age does not define my relationship and right now I am growing so fund of her in a way I can't stop imagining and I need your advise on how to relate my feelings and make her confess hers to me.
All criticism and advise will be duly accepted. Don’t ask her out. Just flow with the vibe and use your sense in other to know when to strike. |
Politics › Re: PSC Orders IGP To Deepen Investigations Into Abba Kyari's Link To Hushpuppy by candygist: 8:39am On Jan 27, 2022 |
adecz: HushKyari❗️❗️☺️☺️☺️
Abeg, make FBI dem leave our Super cop alone.
Why dem never catch tRump wey plan coup❓ Na third world country dem dey get harrd-on for..☹️
Nonsense❗️❗️❌❌ No be una wan be third world country for ever ? |
Romance › Re: This Is Why YOUR MOTHER Will Most Definitely HATE YOUR WIFE!! (Photos) by candygist: 12:04am On Jan 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: Don't tell me to that's how your m*omm@ is..  I am surprised when you said women hate themselves..what a piece of nonsense lacking basis..
You know what you are doing...you are teaching these kids who can't think for themself how to despise the female gender..that's what this post is all about... Now what happens next..a blockhead is gonna take you serious then think about what you wrote up there.. If by any chance he takes your word then he's doomed... Why would a sensible person say a woman puts others down to get to her current position..
You know nothing about women mind all you do is random talk and guess.. A smart person ain't gonna take your word.. Experience is the best teacher. So many married Nigerian couples are still together all because of their kids. Many Nigerian women get wahala nd husbands are low key wishing to Jakpa…. |
Romance › Re: This Is Why YOUR MOTHER Will Most Definitely HATE YOUR WIFE!! (Photos) by candygist: 12:03am On Jan 27, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: Don't tell me to that's how your m*omm@ is..  I am surprised when you said women hate themselves..what a piece of nonsense lacking basis..
You know what you are doing...you are teaching these kids who can't think for themself how to despise the female gender..that's what this post is all about... Now what happens next..a blockhead is gonna take you serious then think about what you wrote up there.. If by any chance he takes your word then he's doomed... Why would a sensible person say a woman puts others down to get to her current position..
You know nothing about women mind all you do is random talk and guess.. A smart person ain't gonna take your word.. Experience is the best teacher. So many married Nigerian couples are still together all because of their kids. Many Nigerian women get wahala nd husbands are low key wishing to Jakpa |
Celebrities › Re: Bella Shmurda: I Would Have Still Been At LASU Wining And Dining With Carryovers by candygist: 11:51pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
[quote author= post=109708883]A song glorifying fraud and fraudsters is what you called content filled  A song shouting if you see EFCC, run away, If you see Maga, steal his or her money. A song shouting run am run am run am. Naija youths, which way forward for una Sigh Danceable? Yes, 100% Content filled? content kee am dere!Lol  . It used to be Yahooze back then. Now it's Cashapp!! Orisirisi something. Crime doesn't pay!Dem MANNA da TRUTH in da building. If the truth wanna kill you Nairaland fraudsters and criminals and you hide behind politics to abuse una mothers, na una everlasting wahala be dat. We will keep hitting all ya fraudulent brains with da HARD Truths! Una neva see chomtin, fraudsters everywhere  [/quote]What do American artist sing about if not about pussy, drug and scam ?Cardi B, drake, Kay z despite all this have grammy award. So what’s ur point ? |
Celebrities › Re: Bella Shmurda: I Would Have Still Been At LASU Wining And Dining With Carryovers by candygist: 11:46pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
andysmith123: and what are all these without EDUCATION? What is education to you ? |
Sports › Re: Official: Watford Sign Samuel Kalu by candygist: 10:41pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
latexxbro: Na scam? Just be careful when it comes to anything third party accommodation and rent in Lagos state. |
Sports › Re: Official: Watford Sign Samuel Kalu by candygist: 9:34pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
Hannover: I work in Lagos but I was just told by the company I work for to transfer to Enugu. I just payed my rent yesterday and get the news of the transfer today. The house is a self contained apartment(toilet, bathroom and kitchen ensuite)at Onipanu just after Palmgrove. I need someone who is interested in the apartment to let me know. Pay me the difference and I move. I'll also introduce you to my landlord. Reach me at kaladagreen1983@gmail.com if interested. All this Lagos scam self. |
Crime › Re: Money Laundering: US Court To Sentence Hushpuppi On Valentine’s Day by candygist: 8:30pm On Jan 26, 2022*. Modified: 10:41pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
allahIsAnIDOL: Those of you that think Abba kyari is still in Nigeria are living in another world, trust his pple to hide him in a faraway land. Where else can he be ? Nigeria is the safest place for him. Anywhere outside Nigeria will be very easy for US to arrears him. You think if hush was in Nigeria he would have been arrested but FBI ? |
Romance › Re: What Is The Cost Of Ashawo In Your Area? by candygist: 1:12pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
If you go round the he street of Lagos at night you will understand what portable is saying. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Cost Of Ashawo In Your Area? by candygist: 1:10pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
helinues: I don't think so because in Africa, only a fool fight for the Masses. They won't still appreciate.. Doing the right thing means some would be affected which they might later be Saboteurs.. What is Boko Haram?
Help them instead in any way you can without drawing unnecessary attention to yourself.
Moreover, I don't believe in election but selection.. Appointment stuffs What’s the difference between yourself and the other youths you are bashing ? |
Romance › Re: After Biscuit Na Toto Cheap Pass For This Life” – Portable by candygist: 12:55pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
The guys ain’t far from the truth. Guys, just make this money and all this girls will come as bonuses with the bags. |
Romance › Re: I'm So Addicted To Prostitutes. I Feel Suicidal. by candygist: 12:50pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
guy you have mind o. I had one unprotected sex last year and I’m scared as Bleep for not using condom. Imagine you’ve had unprotected sex with like 40 women  . Una get mind o |
Celebrities › Re: De General: I’m Not A Drug Trafficker, Comedian Cries After Regaining Freedom by candygist: 8:17pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Oghene1st: Laughter trafficker. And you pleaded guilty. Na wa o. Yes, for 14gram of trams. |
Sports › Re: Anthony Martial From Man United To Sevilla Is A Done Deal by candygist: 6:52pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
ifiokjohn: e be like something is doing you in you head. Who is old and wornout? Which player comes to mind ?  |
Travel › Re: Extortion: Protesting Tricycle Operators Ground Commercial Activities In Onitsha by candygist: 12:57pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
[quote author= wwwihy post=109627148] https://punchng.com/extortion-protesting-tricycle-operators-ground-commercial-activities-in-onitsha/[/quote]When I see Igbos complain about thugs in Lagos I laugh at them. You no why? If you’re traveled to places like upper iwaka in anambra, calabar and Warri, you go know say lagos thugs still get coordination compared to thugs from this other states. For example in calabar and anambra, you will see thugs carrying sharp objects like cutlass during work hours just to collect money from motorist. You can’t try that in Lagos. The highest you will see in the hands of Lagos thugs is Cain, Marker and ticket. For Warri thugs dey even carry gun and jazz. |
Technology Market › Limited Stock: Direct UK Used Iphone For Sale. by candygist(op): 9:45am On Jan 24, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Shares Bikini Photos by candygist: 9:40am On Jan 24, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: What a woman can do. . . . A man can do best. 
This wan fine pass the “natural woman” created by any “God”!
Haters goun hate!  You dey insult God be that o |
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Business › Re: I Just Got My Inheritance; I Need Your Advice by candygist: 10:37pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
Nitah1: Use that money 6+8=14m is enough for you and your bro can use that to escape this hell of Fulani republic. Will you be the one to approve their visa ? |
Business › Re: I Just Got My Inheritance; I Need Your Advice by candygist: 10:36pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
CaptalnMitch: I have sure 2odds you can be staking some of your inheritance on You know a fool when you read comment like this  |
Romance › Re: The 6 Little Things That Melts A Woman's Heart by candygist: 10:23pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
All these don’t work for Nigerian women, especially the ladies of this generation. Give them money and they will even disrespect them self on your behalf. |
Culture › Re: Ikeja Installs New Monarch, Begins Traditional Rites For 9-Year Empty Palace by candygist: 1:27pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
mirr: The king go get office for computer village very soon. The office is already in existence but no physical presence. The royal families been collecting dues on a daily for a long time now. |
Crime › Re: Four Killed As Factional NURTW Members Clash In Lagos by candygist: 10:16pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Revolution2022: You no fit dey press phone for some parts of Lagos too.Oshodi obalende. Yes, only at night. But during the day you can. But you can’t press your phone during the day at upper iwaka if you ain’t som of the land. Those boys go beat you on top your phone. |
Technology Market › Re: Discount Samsung S7 Edge And Iphone 7 For Sale. GIVE AWAY PRICE by candygist(op): 8:11pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Engobi: Last price iphone7 65k 32gb. Limited stock available. |
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Romance › Re: .. by candygist: 6:59pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
Hmy520: follow us chop money here I hope nobody falls for this cheap scam. |
Crime › Re: Four Killed As Factional NURTW Members Clash In Lagos by candygist: 6:19pm On Jan 22, 2022 |
nku5: The same party has ruled Lagos since the inception of democracy in 1999 and this is the result. An agberocratic government 
Imagine the tout leader saying that the governor called him and his rival for a peace meeting. People that should be in jail... Funny enough. The thugs in Lagos are more coordinated than the once in Anambra state. As a visitor you can’t play with your phone boldly while passing Upper Iweka Onitsha. Upper iweka is not for the faint |
Romance › Re: Wizkid Super Hot American Girlfriend Showing The World Her Package (PHOTOS) by candygist: 8:52pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
illicit: Starboy
 So what’s wrong with having stretch mark ? |
Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin Pushes Bbnaija’s Queen Away As She Gets Romantic With Him (video) by candygist: 5:28pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
dollynnn: Ubi,woman wrapper Always seen around with ladies And so ? |
Car Talk › Re: What’s The Best Car For Uber/Bolt On A Low Budget? by candygist: 8:22am On Jan 19, 2022 |
1Alex: With your budget, get this (Naija used) and have peace of mind. When it comes to business, run for anything Naija used. |
Romance › Re: This Is Why Men Must Be Protected From Women. My Horrible Experience. by candygist: 10:13pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Felimax: I hope nobody will abuse you. Some things are not just adding up in your story. They said behind every rumour there is an element of truth. A man is a man when he attain a particular stage nobody teaches him what to do, he makes meaningful decision with his life. I use to have a neighbor then in Lagos who will sneak into my house to ask for favours. On a particular night she came she was in her nighties with no undies at all. I gave her what I could afford (not what she requested) and gave her a serious warning never to sneak into my house. I am not claiming a saint but wisdom my dear brother. You would have been able to give her the little you could and warn her not to approach you again, she will dread you for life. It's a man"s world already! Just move on please. You don’t expect him to act the same way you acted. You two weren’t raised the same way. And your scenarios ain’t the same. |