₦airaland Forum

Looks enticing

Yes the road in front of every individual's house belongs to them. It is every house owner's responsibility to manage and maintain roads in front of their house. You have no right to park carelessly in front of people's home cos you don't reside there, they don't know you, you don't maintain it for them, if anything happens they will be held accountable.
Desist from parking carelessly in front of homes you don't reside or know anything about . If you wake up one morning and find 3 cars parked in front of your house for hours, I hope you will cheer the owners of the cars when they come to drive off and even put up a sign "Free parking"

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pocohantas:
I know them. Nothing you wan tell me about Lekki firms wey I no know. 90% are like that.

No structure.
No clear/defined career path.
MD/CEO is king and can hire, fire and owe at will.

Even the way they dress to work, you would know they are unserious. Because how would someone wake on a Monday morning, wear a flowery red gown with blonde weave and say you are going to a serious organisation.

Hilarious, I need to know you

God when

Jimi Agbaje didn't contest again. He's probably fed up, Lol

Herpes as a result of giving head

Wikeee... Dunno why I like this man and Peter Obi.

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kizwid:
Please house, there is job I applied for which required a grade higher than what my holding. Have scales through the first and the second assessment, and been invited for the third assessment. Even if I pass all these assessment, do you think I stand the chance of getting the job?

Please share if you ever have this kind of experience

yes you do stand a chance...Don't relent; you will be offered the job if you do better than other first class candidates or candidates with higher grades, that's if your recruiters are intelligent to know that hiring someone shouldn't be based on only grades. Speaking from experience.....

wonder233:
Where is the lie there? Aren't Nigerians show-off people by nature? Our leaders are a reflection of who we are. The other day British Airways said Nigeria's fare is higher compared to other countries cos we prefer first class.
Nobody wants to admit to suffering, everyone wants to show how much better they are doing than the other person. People even look at rising prices as a test of wealth. Everyone is claiming "class". Nigerians mantra is "let's see who can afford it". Who are we fooling? Go to lounges, exotic restaurants, clubs, hangout spots etc and see the amounts being wasted on a daily. foreign vacation destinations like the Maldives and co are populated by Nigerian visitors.
Go to an average Nigerian party and see for yourself. We don't believe in modesty. How many times have posts of people doing simple weddings made it to nairaland? Why? Cos its an aberration.
A.Y live is 20m per table, yet you won't see space on the day of the program.
Fvvk Nigerians abeg.

Very true. Even Dubai is filled with Nigerians.... it's well

MonkeyMods:
I believed him until I chatted with him on WhatsApp

Eeeh ya, What did he tell you and how did it go? will love to hear feedback.

MonkeyMods:
Another one is Ifeanyi Obike on LinkedIn


Social media Billionaire

Always advertising new businesses that doesn't exist and also seeking attention from gullible job seekers I pity for those that are always flooding his comment section

derecho:
I thought as much but is it the ones from Togo or Benin?

both

derecho:
There must be sth about these cooks from Benin and Togo.
Are they better cooks or what? Or their employers feel safer with them?
Just curious

They're very good chefs with nice recipes. They can cook any meal. The matured ones work more in rich homes.

Amanda002:
they are cheaper

False, they're not cheaper, the matured ones don't work in anyhow homes. they're very good cooks.

Bridge to be closed soon as a result of the fire. Beginning of another traffic for the next 8months.

Mranonymous50:
I've been a nairalander for many years, this predicament prompted this new account. I just like my private life to be private.
I'll be 38 this May. I have a good source of income and live very very comfortably. I used to think getting a wife was gonna be easy when the money comes, but now i realize truly that men that have found good wives don't fully realize how lucky and blessed they are.

I seriously started searching at 33 reason it took me so long was because i wanted to be financially capable before starting a family especially since i belong to the group of men that finds it shameful to ask a woman to contribute talkless of providing, not saying its bad, i just wasn’t raised that way.
I had a serious girlfriend but i was not ready then and no need to bring her into my life to start suffering or delay her so i had to let her go. She isn’t happy today thou, but that's story for another day.

Issue now is i hardly meet decent women, perhaps because of my lifestyle(introvert) or maybe its because i am not interested in marrying from outside of my region(southeast), i will just lose interest and won't like to waste anyone’s time. Trust me when i say I am far far far from being tribalistic but i know what i want and i have my reasons.

i'm super-duper introvert, hardly relate with family talkless of making friends, it takes effort on my part to attend family events talkless of social gatherings. I just enjoy being on my own, i mostly like hanging out at bars which is where i've met most of the women that i've happened to interact with. Trust me when i say i'm not picky but there is no way i can co-exist peacefully with the women i've met there so far. Dating apps are disastrous if you are looking for something serious, the prostitutes have taken over and won't allow serious people find good women. I can't ask family for help because there’s no one to ask. Church? I don't belong to any religion because God does not belong to any religion, i am no atheist, i believe in GOD and GOD has been and will always be wonderful!

The irony is that i am a great personality and anyone i have had close interaction with wants to be my friend but for some reason i just don't keep in touch and it fizzles away.

So there it is good people. Any advice for this senior bachelor? Anyone found themselves in a similar situation in the past and overcame it? Anyone currently experiencing my current situation?

PS: Can the kids please try and keep the noise to a minimum and learn one or two things from mature adults that will have something reasonable to say.

Just try to loosen your mind and broaden your search, and also try to keep up conversation with someone you find interesting. It's also not easy finding a husband. Women go through that too cos this days it's difficult to find a serious man interested in long-term commitment, this generation are just seeking hookups & sexual partners. May God help everyone to find their heart desire, Amen.

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Why push this useless thread to front page? Do whatever you wish to your mother birthgiver and keep drowning in your red pill ocean; your eye go clear!!

So you would prefer sitting at home jobless and waiting for a job that is not yet yours? what is the confusion here? how can this make you confused? Resume at the 50k job , then if you're called for the 108k job you can always resign and move on. Or you dey fear to resign?? i'm trying to wonder what's making you confused here, na wa for you oo

Can someone do a video of Abakaliki NYSC Orientation Camp at Afikpo? Will be nice to see it again after yearsss

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Starzo:
just imagine the nonsense entitlement mentality. A woman that loves a man is not obligated to do anything, not even give him a sex until he marries her but a man that loves a woman should/could move heaven and Earth to please her and make her feel comfortable even if they are not married ABI??

U can all see why young guys detest the way many Nigerian girls think and even call them 'useless' sometimes.

Very self centered and annoyingly entitled leeches.

[/s] see this little boy, all this small boys with their tiny guts, you know nothing about adults relationship.. quote me again at your peril because this is the last response you'll get.

Elxandre:
But a lady that loves you will expect you to open a business for her and bill you abi?
Why not wait till marriage?

A man that doesn't pressurize you for sex is getting it elsewhere most likely. It's your choice to make.

Please don't come with that talk that a man not pressurizing for sex is getting it else way cos that's BS; naija boy mentality, no sex; no relationship, Lol...speak for yourself if you lack self-control cos there are men living without sex in their relationship and they're loving it and their are many that have gotten married without having sex in their relationship.

Regarding the billing you mentioned because you believe relationship is trade by barter, but i'm here to tell you that a matured man will always nurture and take care of what he loves, and if he sees a future with the lady, he will do more.

You're extremely damaged; you need help. I pity for the lady or Man that will settle with you. Now we know where your hate for women came from.

If he is always demanding sex from you and if he never discusses or plans his future with you.

A man that loves you will not pressurize you for sex, because he knows he will get it in marriage. He will always support you no matter how little.

Is this an invite for a palace guard? Shine your eyes ooo

It's funny how this 3 ladies are always available for him. None of them has moved on, they are not in any relationship, they all still enjoy being in the babymama picture. For how long will they all keep sticking around?

what's your take home pay before we advise you?

What's next for them? they will feel sad and depressed.

Why didn't they fly to another country instead? why go back to base to start afresh

Today marks the beginning of lent. Unto dust ye come, unto dust you shall return.

Lol,please come and continue ..Happy to see a pic of my Campus 2; my alma mater