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*scratches head*

I don't even know how to "back" a child. I feel it's not safe. As for the slings and carriers, i'm not too cool with them either. Any other alternative?

I can only see the entrance to the building.

*waiting patiently for other pictures*

Place looks deserted

See Bovi like house boy. Klint da Drunk's child was crying in an adorable way. The parents left him behind.

Cute pictures

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]I beg to concur dude.

If getting turned down turns u off then u should be doing the growing up thingy and not the other way round.

A woman scorned is a woman with a motive, u dont expect them to easily say 'YES' b'cos u whispered into their ears u've got a Msc degree in ur kitty, u are flawless and u cant trade paths in Pluto, it doesnt work that way bruh.

These creatures are sensitive, they think like rats and best way u'd have to roll with them is by behaving like a rat - Just stay sensitive.[/color]

Excuse me!!!

*points a Parabellum-Pistole at him*

I hunger for honeymoon! What the......! This is absolutely beautiful.

uj_sizzle: Back off babe...Ian is mine

In your dreams!

xynerise: Carachukwu, what is Mynd saying?

Honestly, I have no idea

Mynd_44: Yeah right.

Are you uj_sizzle now? *rolls eyes*

Stop derailing! Back to topic...

Why do guys like playing hard to get too? I've been chasing Ian Somerhalder for three years now. Like seriously! Can't he just make up his mind? It's soooo annoying.

Mynd_44: Old news

*yawns*

Stop derailing

I don't flirt. I don't form. Right, uj_sizzle?

uj_sizzle: It's at the top of d page
....beside Google

Oh...I see. Thank ya. Eagle eyes

uj_sizzle: You're now meeting boys up n down shey??

Lol...nooooo! It wasn't planned. Trust me

Ermmm, what's wrong with the search button, Seun? It's missing!

xynerise: At MMA I guess?

MMA gini? He has a profile pic. Remember?

xynerise: What would a man gain in a ''Plastic'' brea'st?

Comfort

xynerise: I hear u . Dey there dey form Julia Roberts, Rhymez send me one Oyibo girl pics yesterday. E say na his.......erm.... coursemate

Rhymez that I saw at Ikeja last weekend. How did he fly?

Matthew briggs: Thank goodness you used the word "some". Because some of us no send or get crazy over bakassi or Manchester. We are more interested in the intrinsic value she carries. Because we know say one day the bakassi and Manchester go become like slippers.

Lol...I hate to generalize. I know there are reasonable men out there. Errrmmm...not all Manchesters will be like slippers o. There is even plastic surgery sef

xynerise: Yet you post rhymez?

I said yes to him within 60 seconds. Ask him

Mynd_44: And who is talking about asking you out in one hour? A guy coming and saying he wants to get to know you better is not asking you out.

Get that

Biko, I don't have power. We are talking about the waiting period to answer a guy's advances. We make friends everyday. Forming over friendship is childish. Who needs time to make acquaintances? But you saying girls who take their time to make important decisions have shambled minds is totally out of it. I know you are a genius and you are fast to make perfect decisions. You do not own their minds. Stop playing the part of jury, judge and executioner in one piece.

Again I say, to each his own!

As for the girls who post guys with no intention to date them or just because they want to start forming Nora Roberts, smh for you. Before you blink your eyes, that dude would go meet another girl. Be careful. Take your time but don't take forever. Some mistakes are dangerous. Shine your eyes. Be smart. If you like him, go for him.

Mynd_44: A guy that comes to you with serious intentions would want to be friends with you first. That's also the only way he can to know who you are and what you can do. Most of the guys who complain about being friend zone do so cos they wanna run away fast without anything holding them back

Some of you lots don't come with a friendship offer. You want a shortcut. Say yes or be doomed! Hian! No wonder there are so many magas these days. I no dey for that kain thing abeg. To each his own. Nuff said!

Mynd_44: Funny thing is that a lot of women come to complain that men are not patient and they don't want them to make their mind when lawd knows that their mind is in shambles and it takes weeks to assemble to make a decision

Roger that! You can say that. It takes me more than an hour. You meet me along the road, ask me out and expects me to say 'yes' within an hour? Like seriously? Na jazz?

Come on, lets be realistic here. If taking my time to make a good decision portrays me as someone whose mind is in shambles, then I agree. I prefer to be tagged than marred. Personally, I don't like tagging someone along for a long time. I can't be posting you here and there. Taking my time even shows that i'm considering the dude. Some of them get a "no" instantly, with a straight face.

Long story cut short. If she is wasting your "precious" time, cut her off. Don't even bother to wait for a week. Decide within an hour. Or maybe 30 seconds. After all, there are lots of options! Una don hear?

uj_sizzle: Funny enough, it's not as if some men don't toast more than one girl at once hoping that one deal will click for them
Try your luck things

Are you telling me? Some of them just want to get under her skirt. Why do they get crazy over a woman's bakkassi and manchester? They immediately hand over their cards and promise her heaven and earth, shaking all over like epileptic leaf. The moment they get tired of her flûîd, they move on to the next victim...and the cycle continues!

uj_sizzle: Friend material and relationship meterial aint the same thing bro esp for a woman who thinks longterm.

My point exactly! God bless you.

You rush in, you might rush out. Take your time but don't take forever. Simple!

Mynd_44: I see someone at the cinema and I wanna be friends so I walk over and comment her on her dress jokingly, a typical Nigerian would look at me and not smile. She will expect me to follow her around the whole place like some damn stalker.

Ontop wetin? Where are you guys meeting these type of girls? Follow her around over a compliment? Is that flirting? When you tell me I look good, I don't take it as a flirt. Anyway, I think i'm odd. Very odd. I need to go out more

Note: Never pass a false compliment just for the sake of building up a conversation. There are better ways. You tell me you love my dress, I smile and say 'thank you'. Then I walk away. You don't expect me to ask for your complimentary card after or start thinking you have feelings for me.

Odunharry: a week is 2 much gan....
At least dy v bn friends b4 d guy decided 2 ask her out...

Some of them just jump at you in the public and ask you out...without any consideration for friendship. They want to marry you right away.

Under a week kwa? Hehehehe. What of girls that are slow emotionally or confused like you said? Any extra week? Something might be holding us back, you know?

Mynd_44: Here is a little thought, "hard to get" is not restricted to when the guy asks the girl out. Merely flirting with girls these days comes with them forming pampers.

Oh and a guy who meets a girl and within an hour asks her out is suspicious. He can start with being friends but even that na war.

Why flirt with a girl you don't have feelings for? Odikwa risky. A-ca-not nice. Ontop wetin na? Why toy with her emotions?

Matthew briggs: LoL at least after 3 dates or 1 week a girl should be able to make up her mind.

Now you are talking.

Odunharry: isnt it foolishness?some play hard 2 get when u move on and dy see u with anoda gal dy bcme jealous.

Foolishness is an under-statement. She is a confused learner

Which brings me to the question, what is the length of 'hard to get'? How many hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades, can you tolerate a girl's 'posting'?

The answer to the question will help a long way. We already know some of you prefer within an hour.

Boy: Will you be my girlfriend?

Girl: (within 10 seconds) Yes

Boy: Will you marry me? (someone you just met)

Girl: Yes. Lets go to the altar tomorrow.

free2ryhme: He said, “The seven governors that said they had left the PDP are all great achievers. They have done well in their respective states and we are proud of them.

“The only grievance we have against them is that if they express the same commitment with which they transformed their states to the PDP, our party would have been greater.

“How can you say Fashola has performed better than our governors? I think the problem is that we don’t go to the media to shout. You need to visit those states and see the kind of development I am talking about.”

Jokers!

If a girl is 'forming' for you, leave her and move on to the next one. Chikena! As simple as Polynomials!

Mynd_44: Note I said woman. We all say first impression don't matter but actually it does. If you talk to someone for an hour, a woman(not girl) would be able to find out a lot about that man except of course she choose to push her nose up and not listen to him or she is trying to find out what tags he is wearing or how much he is worth.

You will be able to see if he is confident, you will see how intelligent he is from the way he replies you and you will know if he is comical if he tries to input jokes, you will know all these from the first convo. The whole, "I will think about it" is whatwomen do to grease their ego and make themselves feel wanted

Ok, lemme speak for myself. I don't know about the women out there. It takes me more than an hour to know if I like a guy enough to date him. We are not talking about friendship here, we are talking about relationship, and in my own case, long-term relationship. It won't take me forever to give an answer. After few days, if I like you enough I would let you know. If I don't, please get off my back.

And lemme add that some men, even after saying "no" to them, they still keep pestering and stalking you. Even when you show all the red signs in the world, they no go gree. Some of you here have done it before or are doing it presently, so you people should stop forming Jack Bauer