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Insecurity is when you are not confident. Over-confidence dey worry me sef. My friends know that. Ask Bibol

alutacontinua:
This thread is the bomb! Brother Mynd is preaching against over-seriousness.

My sister, i tire o. Choi! A-ca-ridiculous!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]What is the difference between jealousy and insecurity?

Give me a convincing answer and I'll log out and go sleep.

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Merrki already defined the type of jealousy i am supporting here. She stated the case of her sister...does it mean she was being insecured? If all the points raised here couldn't convince you...none will. You have made your point clear...mine too.

Someone is spoiling for a fight already and i'm in no mood for it. Not even with this silly headache.

[quote author=Mynd_44]And I keep telling you, do you and I will do me. I don't need to know you, I see your opinions and views and that is enough[/quote]Is this a fight? Hehehehe. A-ca-serious mehn...point taken.

Idowuogbo:

Stop it!

I tell you...

@mynd, you think i'm insecure? Hehehehe. I keep telling you that you don't know me.

lalaosky: For me, if I truly love a lady, I can't move on easily.. NEVER

God bless you. I was beginning to think i was the only one.

*in Bibol's voice*

Some people can lie sha

[quote author=Mynd_44]Perhaps you might learn from me, my last relationship was a sort of long distance one and it got to an extent that I began to see that the girl was not comfy with my absence even though we were head over heels in Love (Killz knew this time). I walked up to her and told her, if she will be happier with another guy who was closer to her then we should call it quits and guess what? She did?

When you learn to be n control of yourself and become an adult, every other thing falls in line[/quote]It does not cost me two seconds to break up a relationship. But if it were to be someone i was madly in love with...no how no how, getting over it would be difficult. I say, getting over...not breaking up. I would remember the scent of his perfume, his best song, his habits etc.

I doubt if you have ever been in love.. Maybe you were just excited.

[quote author=Mynd_44]So why is it so had to believe that some people in this case, me don't get jealous at all?

Do I really seem like the type?[/quote]You are different. We accept. Blessed be your girlfriend.

xynerise: The type of jealousy wasnt specified

Mine was...

So it is very easy to get over breakup from someone you loved deeply. God, i need your help. Never knew it was that easy.

xynerise: Jealousy is the least thing that can cause break-up to me. To some, it can even make them commit suicide and to others, it can make them commit homicide. We are different people with different psychological status. Sexkillz and Ogugua have a different psychological way of handling things so why do some people doubt that?

Who says Jealousy is inevitable?

Suicide ke? We are talking about healthy jealousy here. Why are you guys taking things too far and personal? Chei!

lalaosky: The case of popowaa comes to mynd.. Sorry, comes to mind. Lol

Hahahahahahahaha. I tell you. Awwww memories!!!

*grabs popcorn*

Fever, get out of my body!!!!!

alutacontinua: Coming from a man who cannot stand his lady talking to an ex. No room true true

You are a darling!

Idowuogbo: Character!!!!

lol...

lalaosky and gree-die, can i hug you two?

Idowuogbo: Na... I trust him and we tell eachorra everything.

Abi o. Kini big deal?

ItsModella: This is the truest thing I have read today.

Correct!!!!

Even idowu gets jealous when oahray starts playing around

[quote author=Mynd_44]I see gree-die.....babe, what's your position here? [/quote]Ask her o...pioneer of open relationship. Hehehehe

[quote author=Mynd_44]In that thread about fair and dark guys, I mentioned that you are enamored with him and you denied it but we can see the truth now[/quote]Smh...but why has he not commented on this thread? I saw him viewing. Could it be that....*clears throat*

#lips sealed#

Idowuogbo: Character!

Gosh! Idowu, why na? Why?

They both know i was joking sha. Mynd inclusive.

Lala sweetie, do you get jealous too?

Idowuogbo: Go sis! Tell em!

Badosky!!!! Me i tire for this kain argument o.

sexkillz, i see you o. I heard you don't get jealous. Come let me plant a kiss on your lips. You know you are my next-door neighbour. Let's do some blanket-rolling. Lol...

#na joke o. Pls nobody should quote me. Na joke o. Choi!

Choi! A-ca-interesting mehn

Me, i don't know how to argue o...but all i can say is that THERE IS NO TRUE LOVE WITHOUT JEALOUSY.

Stop forming. Start acting
There has to be a tiny healthy flame of jealousy. A tiny one...no matter what. It is fun.

Note: HEALTHY flame o...not the usual what-were-you-doing-with-that-mgbeke-girl thingy.

onila: that her round hexagonal face

REALITY101: Lol! I don't mind being d 3rd party

Nah...three is crowd.

Hehehehe. Guys need manual to 'toast' babe. Now they also need manual to invite them over for the weekend. Aint we just too special?

The world is surely coming to an end soon.

Who is looking for my wife? She is right here saying hi.

abiL: Hi y'all. I've been so busy.... love you...muuuuaaaah!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Just admit you want him[/quote]Hahahaha. Egbami. Kini problem bobo yi? Se won ran e si mi ni? Hehehe