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The favorites are getting it hard in this worldcup. You may be surprized a team who you never think would even go second round may just win the entire thing.

I have a thing for ripe mangoes, the ones that ripe on the tree ofcourse.

^^ good question

I know. But for now I am finding back the pieces to my broken heart. I know it will mend again and I will be happy with someone once more.

^^ Oh please!!!

It is am oath taken by joining both his and your blood together. Its a oath that lasts forever. . . Together forever. . . Only death can break the oath. . . Its not really advisiable

How on God's earth doing that keep me with him forever? Crap. People's beliefs are so different, World Apart is not even the right phrase to use.

women and men are definately different. good Lord male people are evil 

well. . . i turned a proposal down because of d age diff though he dint look it . . . my reason - i dint want him to b retired when my child clocks 10 . .dat was yrs back tho'. . . I know now dat men dat age (if they aint married yet) are definately lookin for a wife . . so u need to find out wat he wants . . preferably face to face . . .and see how it goes.

Not all of them are looking for wives. I know alot who definately are players until they can stand no more. Standing dont mean literally on their feet, in reference to the third leg

yes they do exist. I have no clue where the fees are concerned. Never been and would never be at any of those clubs. waste of time and hard earned $$$

, next thing you are going to say you enjoy sex better standing. You better start practicing more kisses laying down.

Secondly, if she genuinely doesnt know, I think its easier for you to approach your cousin first before approaching her. you are at a better placed position to command honesty towards her from his part, if this fails, then its you to decide whether to tell your friend or not. If you decide to tell her, dont be harsh and so upfront about it, cause that will just make it seem very suspicious on your end, rather use hints. Or even better, ask her about her marriage and if there are any burdens she would like to share, then i believe you'll be able to take it from there.

All the best.

Thank you very much. I will use this approach. I definately will tell to ease the burden.

I didn't give my girl bday, xmas or otherwise gift this past yr. She understand say I broke. If she doesn't, there is nothing I could do abt it anyways. The first money I get goes to feed my stomach funds. Other things come after

uh?

i would have my child and forget about his sorry a$$, I wouldnt be the only single mother out there. If he wants to stay with mama good for them. I would no longer know any of them.

Look at that. The expert on the topic is asking advice. Some "professionals" dont have a clue eh!

Is this beautiful lady stranded on an Island with a laptop or some smart phone with internet?

the story sounds fabricated to me anyways.

Based on the first line which I didnt read pass. That statement is so true. Feel it, be in it and be it and you will know if its true or not.

Love can and will bring out the best in you when you experience the best of it.

It also can bring out the worse in you when it fails, well not love but the lover. So we all have to be careful when we find it, which brings about another question, how do we prepare to handle if it doesnt work?

I just pretent not to see question #3. Men ALWAYS think of that right? wrong?

It's not a good thing again to marry a virgin? Its a man's responsiblity, who's generally the experienced ones to "teach" his partner about sex. Sex has specific techniques in order to be great, its not a banging "game" it takes skills, patience and love to enjoy a great session. Guys, be patient and gentle with your virgin wives, please!

I would be over-riding his request, I will only do so upon his request.

Please!!!!

Only a real man could and would. There are so many things that could happen why she ended up being pregnant and single. If I was a guy, I'd have to find out the real reasons, if its valid enough ofcourse I would care for the woman and baby with all my heart.

online dating, NO THANKS!!!!

Nothing is wrong having a partner with who is older/younger, but only when yall are both adults.

My problem with this thread is, why do you have to seek love via the world wide web, arent people around you in your corner of the world?

Its not necessary, its just expensive. If you and your spouse can find somewhere that you dont have to pay for to spend a nice time together after the glorious event, as a traditional thing to do after marriage, then go enjoy yourselves. I am not one to spend money uncalled for. Furthermore, what's better than having honeymoon in the comfort of your own divan set?

What I am about to say would be insulting and you requested none of that, hence my opinion will not count.

Love is not dead. People don not just understand what love is and base it too much on feelings.
Or no feeling at all.

I couldnt even read pass the first line of the second paragraph. Statements like that just sickens me. If something is not working in a relationship/marriage, fix it or part. I am going to assume that you want to have sexual relationship with the other woman and stay with your wife, crap crap crap. Never mind me anyways, just ranting because I am fed up with men now based on the statement that sickens me. Carry on nonetheless. shakes head in disbelief and grief

Faithful

Sharp? If you were anything near being sharp, you would have the experience to know if she was a virgin or not when you get the grand opportunity to enter her graceland. What are you questioning, why did you come to the www with this question? You are the only one who knows what's really going on because you are the only one from Nairaland who've experienced her (I hope) so you should have all the answers. You should be even lucky she got her own condoms think her being very careful.

I hope by now you are starting to get better, as its clear that the woman does not want to be in a relationship with you anymore. People should stop forcing for a relationship when one party opt to hop out that is how we set up ourselves to be used and get hurt the most dreaded way. We most times setup ourselves without even noticing. Let her be. If she want to come back, and the door is still opened, forgive, fix the problem and resume. That's how it should go for everyone, not just for one gender.

I am using a laptop myself. I have two of them, one newer than one, on the old one now. I use Avast on the other, but I notice Avast is cool with the site.