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elegungun:
Avoid sugary things and alcoholic drinks, eat more fruits especially watermelon, banana and avocado.
Try to be doing a lot exercises.
You will be fine.

My mum told me about the fruits too.
After seeing my doctor,i did do that.

elkon:
you need to..but anyway i don't think it's the side effect of masturbation... you also need to check on ur intakes like sugars nd starch foods... it's has happened to me before ah d kin face the lady take look me meh

I tell you it can be mad.
Okay thanks.

Davash222:
Maybe that’s a warning not to penetrate. Fuccking another man’s daughter when you’re not married to her is fornication and a sin before God. Go and marry, you’ll have erection in abundance.

Okay.
Thanks

Please help me! I have history of masturbation but i have stopped it by getting myself a gf.
During romance,i get hard but time to penetrate or wear condom it gets flaccid. My gf is understandable and we are going to see a doctor today.
Nairalanders please help me out !

morningstar55:
Being sincere with most naija girls can be draining.
They don't always apply the law of cause and effect

True talk bro.

I was a casanova and a rolling stone. I was a casanova and a rolling stone.

Nairalanders please join me to celebrate my special day. Happy birthday anniversary to me. More wisdom and knowledge i pray.

cosse:
i undastand u 100% bro....same wit me den....it would leave with time but the lady's presence doesn't help at all.once she is out of sight... with time u will forget.......
its not easy ...no matter ur playboy reputation..... especially if u really loved the gal....

I really loved her,irrespective of her flaws

Nanatrendy:
well yh someone who talks too much can be annoying agreed

Yeah very annoying,sumtin that its nt worth mentioning. You hear her saying it

A lady who doesnt control her mouth and rude.

cosse:
lol..crazy dudes above me sha......
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really feel your pain...bro.av gone tru this same thing b4......
the solution is simple.....try staying off her....it might be a bit hard now that u guys are still in college together....u would always bump into her occasionally and ur chest will nw start beating and constricting like crazy .....i understand......am talking from personal experience here o...loved a gal lyk crazy a few years ago...and dem boom she broke up.. felt there was notin more to live for... almost ran into depression(lol..imagine!!).....but bro the answer to ur issue is avoiding her like for months(which is why am glad u soon going for nysc).u will be suprised after a few mnths u would forget abt her.......this includes getting rid of her pixtures....not going to her social media profile.....jst anything that reminds u of her should b avoided.....
its like a deep wound....yea..it hurts like hell now but it would heal with tym

Going through d same shit,the op is going through....i stay in the same lodge with the girl,i see her everyday and my playboy vibes is dead cos i feel in love with her and told her...One of my female friend came around on thursday and d gal came to my room to get sumtin when i saw her,i lost d urge to do stuffs with d other girl.

I need one of this

IamSoProlific:
Hmmmm, I'm highly speechless with the marine thingy,that's if she didn't arrange with the sis to play along. Come to think of it, how daft can people ever get inside this life, she's allowed to cheat but never for you.

Wish we can trade places on this, I sure know how to how stuffs as this better.

The marine sis issue,her marine sis manifested in her ooo.
Well i spoke to her about everything and we cool now.

musicwriter:
Whenever you question any status quo, especially if its a long held belief or system, most people would think you're mad for challenging it. But in reality you're actually the sane one for figuring it out among the ''sheeple''.

Plato said “those who are able to see beyond the shadows and lies of their culture will never be understood, let alone believed, by the masses.”

Yeah, thanks

SchoolZinicc:
You may actually be if the coin is properly flipped. The thing is, you don't go about boring people with your own extra beliefs.
You always see things differently from everyone else could actually be a good thing but, don't bore them or try to make anyone think you are smarter for not considering events same way as everyone else.

In fact, don't talk to them about it at all, only show them when you have a CONFORMABLE different result.

You can't go about telling them that the Bible is not good, when some people read and gain solace from it and you, you have not even written a page of anything with complete meaning.


When you go about arguing about all things and everything without conformable or superior cum different evidence to prove your point, then you may be going insane if you are not there yet.

Thanks i get your point

Yeah true.
I was living and questioning around me and people tag me 'mentally disturbed'.
I switched back and i feel lost in the world of my own.

millionboi2:
hahahaha... hope d bankers Life has also b mxd up?

baba is that one i dont know ooo,i asked her if she told him about the marine stuff,she was like he would run away and she likes him. Imagine!!!

She was i am strong and even her marine sister said so when i spoke to her,that some guys would have left the room but i sat there without fear talking to her.

According to the girl,she said she has placed me and her boyfriend somewhere in her heart, Fallacy shits!!!

She always tell her boyfriend not to cheat unless maga would stop paying,me im done with her and calling shots with her when i get back.

Well,she had sex with the banker he went four rounds that day and told me it was alcohol.

I don't know why girls of nowadays are possessive and insecure......when they are far away they will be looking simple but when they are close in terms of environment,they bring out there true characters.

Just slowly withdraw and act all busy with business,then secretly get a girl.

My case i'm handling now is quite simpler to yours,the girl told me if i leave her she would change my destiny and make my thing stop working,after our first sex should told me about the marine world she belongs too,thinking it was play her sister in the marine world manifested in her,i don see things sha.

She is way to jealous and couldn't stand the sight of another girl in my room,this same girl went to awka and spent two nights in a male banker's house.

I left the school for sometime now to clear my head and seek advice on how to eradicate the menace i brought on myself.

Just slowly withdraw and be cold to her.

UniQue84:
Am sorry but am highly disappointed in you. Just know you are not fit to be called a man, let that sink into your big head. I swear if you were my younger brother not minding the age I hire guyz to beat u up and break some bones.

A lady ask this question... Pls answer: is she feeding you as in ...Na she dey give you food chop, forget about sex we all have sex, cos if at this age sex can be controlling you like this then you are foolish, stupid, valueless, low life guy, and a shame to your mama.

No she ain't feeding me.
Thanks for the words though,it got stuck somewhere.

Mehn,it has been a hell of a week.

I made plans to travel before easter,the same girl begged and cried that I shouldn't leave and I decide to stay just to give it one more shot.

Easter day, we went to market got stuffs,while cooking a guy called and after cooking she said she is going to the guys place, gave me her keys when she opened her bags I saw her toothbrush and few clothes, I wonder how she packed them into such a small bag.
I told her plainly I know you won't come back, she was like she is taking it just in case,that if she would sleep over she would call me. Before she left I made a statement to her "Any decision you make,either breaks or makes things".

She did not come back that Sunday even yesterday neither has she called and I swore never to calk her.
How can someone who said she feels insecure when I'm with other girls go out and sleep over in a guys house,like her plan is to tie me down and she would be free

MariaLavina:
Just keep being her's till she gets tired of you.

I don't think she would be tired o.

Hardrive:
Trapped by a perfectionist is what it is. You might lose your life or she commits suicide. Its all or nothing. Move quickly.

Yeah,thanks

lefulefu:
guy talk true ...are u smashing d babe?

Baba me I dey smash am ooo.
Na my handjob dey off am baba

lefulefu:
she probably used decimal 10:10 on op. Decimal 10:10 is a sort of charm dat diabolical women use on men to turn them to practically zombies. Op knows wat to do but cant do it cos d charm has demoralised him.

Nothing like charm bro.
I'm clearly myself nii,some girls can act like that.
I spoke to her about it, she was like she is fond of me.

Only me can deal with her character,her bf is a Yahoo boy and they see only long vacation.

ubunja:
you basically a slave.

Baba or madam.
That's harsh ooo

annford:
My brother, let's say this your story is true, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, would you want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks or assumes they "own" you? How happy do you really think you'd be in that relationship? you have a Lady in your life and she has a guy in her life, what in the World is wrong with you two? send her away from your life so she doesn't pose a threat to your life if/when both of you have issues....most ladies like this are usually suicidal when a man wants to leave them. Stay faithful to your Lady and if she doesn't want to stay faithful to the man in her life, let that be her problem and not yours. Would you have your girlfriend cheat on you? If you answer yes to that question, then there is a big problem but if no is your answer, then smartly and hastily put the said lady away. Stop the "whatever" you both have been doing in the secret and let her go. Goodluck, Bro.

I don't have a lady in my life though, but I believe in months time I should.
I can't even have visitors or answer calls from my female friends.

Biglittlelois:
It is actually refreshing to know a lady told a guy she owns him till she's tired, it use to be the other way round lol.

Lolz.

Its really crazy ah swear!!!!

After the strike (ASUU),I came back to school, then a particular girl like that where I stay came close.

From that day,she started to staying in my room always and became over possessive of me and she has a boyfriend who is in lagos,while we are in the east.

My female friend came over the other day and she blew up at me oooo. Though we have done stuffs oooo.

She made a statement the other day "That she owns me till when she is tired of me".

What should I do guys?

I won't be surprised in the next few years,Nigerians would be singing "Pharaoh let my people go!!!".

This is just the beginning!!!

Nigerians we are in Egypt now!!!

Fake love Mumu love Animalistic love Bastardized love Idiotic love Mentally unstable love.
Rip shugar

I used razor to write her name on my left hand,like a tattoo.
"Happy" was her name,the "Y" is still on my hand.
the girl is in Germany now.
Crazy lad then.

FukkaFuka:
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Tudu...... Nnaaa Bros , I just eat one plate beside YAS HOTEL Where GT bank dey ! I nearly CRY . infact the Food bill na BROAD DAYLIGHT ROBBERY

lolz my brother.

I have stayed for two weeks now and know how much I spent