malcom1X:


I feel you man.
But all that one na story now, you made it. That's what really matters now.

Yeah I made it.

malcom1X:


Guy wetin be the reason for this, I just want know. Is it that you no settle well for school or what?

It happened that a new vc came in and was like no school fees no quiz, and the lecturers were so mean that they didn’t do another quiz even when we paid our school fees later on, that’s why I went on to write my exams I would get 40something or 30something no quiz to boost it to B or A.

Na so I pack 7 f

malcom1X:
Bro there are lecturers meant for this, he needs to talk to those lecturers.

It is that lecturer that will tell him what he needs to do.

Secondly you need to check your brother why would someone have 5 carryovers?
Is it money, gambling, girls, flexing or cultism.

You need to focus on the main issue rather than beating round the bush...

You need to ask him what the problem is.

For my 200level first semester na 7F, i failed 7 courses but I graduated with my set and my name came out first list, I pray the young guy doesn’t relent, carry over no be death sentence ooo

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

So sorry, heaven knows my elder sister can’t even decided for me now though she is married talked of when I’m married, I would mess her up certainly.

My elder sister is married right now, and there are some discussion I would do with my mom and brother it won’t get to her, she should face her new family and in law

Pierced:
I just pity my Igbo brothers and sisters from the east.

U guys should keep on being obidient until Tinubu start showing u guys shege.

Obi has used u people to give Tinubu presidency....... enjoy Tinubu presidency.

You daft!!!

Omo them need cut your balls. Like God dey save you from hell, you still dey do anyhow.

If you want to live long, let her go. Like wtf! Them tie your eyes.

Only a girl insulting my family I fit kill am talkless of my mom.

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

This gender sef gon!

I understand you have got better plan or honest plan. But rather than telling him save in your bank.

He should use piggy vest or kuda or all those digital saving apps

3kay945:


On the contrary, I believe you're safer in your car than public bus that you don't know the maintenance culture.
I feel safe when driving myself cos I know when to overtake or not and the condition of my vehicle.

That one follow too, but I don’t advice carrying full family inside my personal car on a long journey like that

Omo my condolences. But at the same time somethings ain’t physical some are spiritual.

E fit be village people don attack the guy, based on say him carry motor come house.

And secondly, traveling with family with private car ain’t good.

I understand that cost of transportation is high. But putting all your eggs in one basket is bad.

If I get car and I won travel with my family. It’s either I drive to the east and my wife and kids use public bus or flight or we all use public bus or flight, then look for somebody to drive the motor down to the village

FreeTate

Same thing affecting my elder brother. Betting is very bad, I pray he stops someday

Kill the policeman and imprison his entire family members

Two times I had sex, I had a near death experience and ever since then I don’t have sex and holding myself till marriage.

Luckily, my current gf has the same idea or rather experience on pre marital sex and we both are working tirelessly towards getting married to each other.

Freestyle her and give her space and stop thus begging.

I have never said sorry to my gf and I would never do.

Even when I’m wrong I don’t say “I’m sorry”

Isaachumble:
it is so disheartening that I am in this position.i was among the best graduating student in my set(MARITIME ACADEMY OF NIGERIA, ORON). I completed my compulsory one year NYSC and still struggle to get a job.
I thought I'll finally be able to give my mum a good life for her effort to sponsor me through school despite her poor and struggling financial background. after submitting my CV in so many places I ended up working in motor park for 29k with a very terrible experience, living the house by 6am and coming by 7pm every day.
I was accused of low charge of 80k for delivery that would take up to 3 weeks, but helping the company's account to grow because of low sales,
Now, other competitors out there are always ready to receive those customers,I have been arrested severally by customers which the bill is always on me. My experiences here have been terrible that it was getting me depressed but nothing was forthcoming, I was suspended unjustly because tribe. I am finally quitting for the sake of my life and sanity but I am still grateful to God for the gift of life. NIGERIA WILL BE GREAT AGAIN

If you are in Lagos or anywhere in the world follow or visit Zion ministry

Why should you even have his number at the first place.

Omo once I’m done dating, I’m deleting everything.

Na so I finger one fat girl that time for school. After I finger her my hand dey smell after washing my hands like 5 times, na dettol comot the smell for my hand

Perez99:
Happy new month y'all. I'll go straight to the point. Pls I need your advise.

Yesterday evening (6:10pm) when I came back from work, a friend of mine who live down the street invited me over to his birthday party. So I quickly freshened up and I went for the party.

There was enough drinks (alcohol), smoke and goat meat pepper soup. Although I don't smoke. I only drink and it's occasionally.

After taking few green bottles, I know I would be very hungry later, so I pleaded with my girlfriend to help me prepare jollof rice and meat, that I'm at a friend's party. I sent her 9k to prepare the food.

As at 8:45pm she called me she's already at my house with the food. So I left the party and headed home to open the door in order not to keep her waiting. Her house isn't far, it's just #100 Keke or bike down to my place

She sat on the couch playing game on her phone, I don't understand what came over me, I was under the influence of alcohol. Omoh! Alcohol na bastard.

The next thing I did, I started kissing her which she responded, she knew I was drunk, she could smell alcohol all over me, then she persuaded me to go eat my food before it's get cold and go take my bath.

Before I knew it I pushed her on the couch to lie down while I unzip my trouser, she said I should stop that she's not in the mood, I didn't listen to her, she crossed her legs so tight while struggling with me that I should stop that she's on her period yet I didn't listen to her.

I was forcing & trying to open her legs while she crossed her legs so tight struggling with me. I was almost gaining access Until she said "Peter do you realize you're about to rape me? Please stop"

Omoh! The word rape reset my head, the highness cleared off my eyes immediately. Honestly I didn't even know what I was doing. I knelt down and I begin to apologize to her.

She stood up and left immediately. I called to apologize but she didn't pick my calls. This morning she texted me saying "I thought I was safe whenever I'm with you. You scared me so much that I don't know if I could continue this relationship"

This girl is a beautiful, caring and nice girl and our relationship is just 5 months. I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. She always give me good sex but I don't understand what happened yesterday. Infact I quit alcohol from now henceforth. Shayo na bastard. Please how do I apologize to her.

I thank God when I high my prick no dey stand. E dey don save me from a lot back then in uni

zexy2030:
The solution is from the first principle. Any woman who argues against your control, she already chatting with devil. Women need control. A woman fully controlled by the man, will appreciate his home.

Omo I reason this talk sha, very true

Me wey be traditionalist my Bae knows, I told her go to church and I do my own thing..... we are happy in the relationship, understanding matters sha

Tufiakwa, may my ancestors forbid such girls from coming close to me..... at your age you are indecisive

SIMPlicity at its peak!!!!

Omo this is bad sha. Young and bright boy gone like that.

When all those rich kids, would be watching all this foreign high school movies, where gang and bully is promoted.

My mama know say me I deadly, Na why she no stress put me for boarding house.

Hmm I for don kill anyone wey bully me, me that can stock up anger. And hate intimidation

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Keep the good job, you are doing very well. A very SIMPle with a good heart.

Better be a traditionalist than be an atheist

You are a weak man. And for that she has taking over you

Marry her bro. Simp!!!

Elderly Simp!!!

Omo make person hear word!!! Yen yen.

Na medicine you dey study leave her, if na Pol sci you dey study I for say make you date her

Her papa make she get out. Agree to this and when you get married to her. You will see more demands

eneye1:

Any other cite?

Or Twitter. Don’t have the twitter link