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Good evening, please are you done with your Studies at Anglia Ruskin university?

My wife is coming there this January 2026 @ Chelmsford campus

alozieanselm202:
my dear is not easy oo to save that amount,am here already,a student of Anglia Ruskin university Chelmsford

Do not worry yourself, it happened to my child.

Ensure you do not miss his immunization.

Then there is this small red Yoruba soap not the harsh one oo. My wife was using it to bath the boy and the thing cleared off gradually.

My son's own took up to 4 months to clear completely. But U will notice it clearing off daily.

The boy is cute and handsome now.

Britishcoins:
This happened few weeks ago, it started like heat rashes and after several medications, it was disappeared but the scare refused to change to his original color.

people said it called Nla.

even the baby hair is removing.
I have tried several medications including Yoruba agbo.
it is painless to the baby right but I don't like the color of his skin.
Pls what is the solution?

hi

Do not worry yourself, it happened to my child.

Ensure you do not miss his immunization.

Then there is this small red Yoruba soap not the harsh one oo. My wife was using it to bath the boy and the thing cleared off gradually.

My son's own took up to 4 months to clear completely. But U will notice it clearing off daily.

The boy is cute and handsome now.

Britishcoins:
This happened few weeks ago, it started like heat rashes and after several medications, it was disappeared but the scare refused to change to his original color.

people said it called Nla.

even the baby hair is removing.
I have tried several medications including Yoruba agbo.
it is painless to the baby right but I don't like the color of his skin.
Pls what is the solution?

Stop or die premature.

Our security man in my former work place only confessed to addition of this tramadol on the hospital bed when both of his kidneys failed.

He hids to take it daily for good 3yrs until he became sick , legs and stomach swells.

When medical reports showed that his kidneys were damaged. He now acknowledged what he has been doing in hiding.

A 28 year old young man just died few days afterwards.

So decided for Urself now.

Ehismarkninetee:
I was introduced to Tramadol in 2015 because I complained to him that I wasn’t lasting long during sex. So he prescribed Tm to me. At first I hated the feeling I just took it because it really helped with the early ejaculation.

Fast forward to 2020; I am now fully attended to this evil, it is now holding me by my neck, choking me . But I cannot seem to let go.

Tramadol has taken a lot from me; My pride, my focus, my Looks, my health, my family and most importantly my finances. I have had serious seizures that nearly took my life with my family members as witness. Now they know my situation and they are indeed very disappointed in me.

I had another seizure yesterday but the worst part of it is that it wasn’t only the seizure, I was acting demented with my clothes off. I take nothing less than 1500mg daily.

It has ruined everything because just calculate how much I have to spend for this evil everyday. For example I didn’t miss one last year 2024. It seems am now powerless to this evil. I cannot hustle anymore, I just want to take Tramadol and just lock myself indoors, all my friends have left me behind but am still living with my mum at age 31. Indeed am tired. Am really tired

I need help to stop this. I have prayed, I have tried everything. It’s not working. Please has anyone been in the situation before?? Please help me!!!!!

Please can I use a joint account I have with my wife as proof of funds?

My name and my wife's name are both written as the accounts name.

We have been running a joint account since we got married.

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My dear say what you know.

People earn as high as 8.5m monthly here in Naija.

My out station allowance for a day is far beyond the range of salary you mentioned.

If your not making above 1m, know that some people are making far more than that.

Nazgul:
Name the company that pays such. Nigerian owned company. Most of you guys on this site make claims you can't defend.

If you must know, most entry level jobs in Nigeria today range from between 150k-200k

To even earn 500k sef you'll have spent a considerable number of years and gained relevant experience.

Una go just de argue for nothing.

How many Nigerian owned companies have declared sustained profit in the last 3 years that they want to pay their staffs 1m and above?

For sure my wife is going alone.

Taku555:
Don't discourage him, the wife can't be studying alone na, she must look for a part-time job to support her husband. I would advise her to leave the child back in Nigeria first. Good luck!

#smiles#
Nothing is certain here in Nigeria.

What if things change tomorrow?

Honestey:
If you gets 1.5m monthly income, keep your wife close to enjoy the rest of your life.

God bless you sir!

Am going to give it a try.

Usefulsense:
Op, do not listen to anyone trying to discourage you.

You are a good man who wants the best for his family hence your thinking about sending your family abroad.

If I had listened to people 3 years ago when I was about sending my wife abroad, I and my family won't be where we are today.

For every family that separated abroad, there are tens that survived.

Do not listen to men who cannot keep their wives. Let them not influence you.

Many men who are abroad today sent their wives first. And the families are now together and happy afterwards.

Do not allow vain men to ruin your strategic desire to give your family the best abroad.

My 2 cents, sir.

Thanks for your contribution sir!

"I hope for good but also prepared for the worst"

tunize:
Deep contribution the last paragraph should be taken seriously we don too hear story for this obodo Nigeria

#smiles#
Let me ask you, if I sponsor myself outside with the little savings I have presently, how is my wife and son going to survive while am away?

Am the one doing a better job for now. So resigning and traveling will cause financial hardship for me and them too. Because no one will be sending money to support me while I study.

Inosky:
Sponsor yourself outside, that's if you didn't marry your wife a virgin or plan the whole family relocation. Or You can setup a business for her, with some part of your savings, then bring her after you settle.
The possibility of her cheating on you over there is high like 90%, she may still bring you along after studies to complement your goodwill but your marriage may never be the same, which would lead to divorce/separation.

Thanks a lot brother!

At least I have seen one person who moved the road am about moving through.

I will pull all resources together to achieve this, God being by my side, it shall be successful.

Thanks once more.

Usefulsense:
Don't listen to this loser. He has always been a loser, advising people out of his stupid experience in his own marriage.

Bro, I sent my wife about 3 years ago to Australia. My salary then was a little above 1 million naira net monthly.

She came to Aussie as a student. After 2 years she invited me and our children.

I am now in Australia. The best decision I ever made in my entire life is to leave Nigeria.

If your family mistakenly come ta Australia, bro, they will forever remain grateful to you as my family is to me.

You are still young I suppose, I came into Australia at 48.

Bro, again, if you mistakenly enter Australia, you're made.

Your wife is even a nurse. The much needed nurses.

Ur question is very important! Well am an Engineer, Mechanical.

Also has special trainings and certifications in Data Acquisition.

Physically am technically inclined with my hands.

I don't think these three aspects will fail me if I happen to migrate legally to any country.

Thanks onces more.

Fahvvy:
Let's say you send her abroad and she gets the permanent residence and then you join her, what's next? ...

You want to leave 1.5 mil/month to travel to a place where you're not even sure of $5/hour? ...

Or are you counting on your wife holding the fort till you find your feet abroad? ...

Thanks so much.

I appreciate.

LandMann:
Send her to Germany.

She'll first spend 6-12 months in Nigeria learning German at a very good language school.

Then you can apply for a nursing program in Germany as well as a short language program which she'll take first before starting the nursing program.

With this strategy you'll save on cost cos education there is free.

Alternatively try France or Brazil. Education in France and Brazil there is cheap and sometimes free (scholarship and knowing the language), plus you can join her there when she's through and have a child there that will grant you guys easy citizenship.

Your N1.5m monthly income is less than $1000.

If your eyes are on USA, UK and Canada, you'll need close to $50,000 or more with upfront payment or cash available to spend around $30000 or more.

For Germany, France, Brazil, you'll spend $25,000 or less and cash available to spend around $18,000.

Lastly your wife must be ready to work to support herself during the program.

She cannot depend solely on you.



R

#smiles#

We plan for good but also prepared for the worst.

Nicepoker:
UK. But Buy lots and lots of winter coats because she will surely throw you out of the house

Thanks so much.

ihavesense:
Look at Sweden, Austria, Norway

Thanks alot for your input, I have up to 15m aside, if you can give more insight into other cheaper options, better.

I want to start the process this coming January.

ihavesense:
How much you have up front for this will likely determine which country you can send her too.
Let’s say you have 40m saved already, you can comfortably send her to Canada and she will still need to pick up a job while studying because your 1.5m is around 900usd and it can’t be enough for her and you.
But there are also cheaper options in Europe if you want to explore.

Yes, the plan is for her to get permanent residency, and the family may join later on.

Nigeria is not stable, we may seem to be okay today, but what happens in the next 2 - 3 years is so uncertain.

ihavesense:
I would have suggested Brazil if her course is tech relevant.
But do you plan to join her or what?

Noted!
But did you read where I stated that some money have been saved already?

Well Ur response is appreciated.

CoronaVirusPro:
It’s not possible if you want the nearest minimum for her.

Convert what you earn monthly to USD or GBP, and subtract her accommodation , feeding, personal expense, transport, and your own upkeep in Nigeria too, then you will know it’s not feasible. I did not include tuition cos I want to believe you will clear that before she departs.

Even with her picking up jobs there, it will be extremely careless to embark on such route with what you have.

#smiles#

RealityKings:
The only country she can visit is Lagos city or Ghana

Thanks for the response, but please can you give more insight why you choose Australia.

If possible recommend school you know.

Thanks once again.

jideflash:
australia

I currently work with a multinational company here in Nigeria, I have a son and my wife to take care of.

My wife is a registered nurse.

I want her to travel abroad for further studies, I have some savings already. And I eat. #1.5 m+ monthly.

Please can you suggest best countries she can go for studies and also with prospects of getting permanent residency soonest.

Buy ketoral cream & emcin tablets.

It will clear them off in less than 3wks of daily use.

VersatileVee:
It took me alot of courage to open about this online after so many years. Please help me find a solution.

I wish there is any permanent solution to this skin infection. I've been suffering from this for more than 7years. It's itchy and worsens Whenever I sweat, especially after doing some work under the sun, the infection becomes swollen a bit and I feel pains all over my body because the salt inside the sweat touches the infection. It is very painful like when someone adds salt to a fresh injury!

I recently did a skin endoscopy test and have taken the medication prescribed by the doctor twice but all to no avail. In the past I took so many drugs and rubbed so many antibacterial cream including funbact A but the infection persisted, right now I am feeling heat and can't sleep because of the itch. I wish I can express my pain in voice, I can't even go shirtless in public or do any activity that will result to me sweating, some days I bath four times to avoid it getting worse. I wash my clothes every day and don't wear any one twice before wash but all this has resulted to it getting more worse. I wonder the final solution, please help out!!! I am tired.


I pray God blesses you as you help me out.

My dear, that you do not earn 1m/month doesn't mean people do not earn that.
My colleague earns 1.6m / month.
No senior staff earns less than 700k in were I work.
So talk the one you know.

Panda7:
Even a politician don't earn up to a million monthly and that is not even with an employee job. So shove up your lies begger

Bros, if your not informed, seek for information.
CNG is best and has come to stay in Nigeria.

The company I work for has not less thank 1500 pieces of vehicle, all brand new CNG from India.

Heavy duty trucks is 250 pieces, all use CNG.

I am talking of what we are using presently.

Our power gens are all using CNG now.

The aim is by January 2024, no more use of diesel or petrol in any of our facilities.

mmadu5:
oga go and sit down.. PETROL is highly safer, CNG will not work in Nigeria for many reasons.

I started mine when we were dating, do not ask her, intentionally keep money you know that is more than excess, then tell her the type of soup you want, allow her to use her hand to decide how much to take.

In my case then, I kept #30k, then told her " baby, I kept #30k in the drawer, please confirm you saw it and it's complete" she affirmed, I the said, please can you make so so so soup for me? I will be back around 4pm .

She called back to ask how much she should take, I said " I can't really say now, just decide"

In that case, I have gotten what u wanted.

gentposh:
Pls married men in the house help him out here...

My friend just called men to as me . I am yet to reply him

My brother Nigeria is a country of uncertainties. He should better leave the job and japa oo.

Me I got a job early this year, paying me above #650k monthly. Am already saving it totally towards traveling next year, once my visa click now. I resign and move.

fyzaila:
Japa to go and do what there exactly? It's not as if there is war here.
You have a good job already, why not hold your peace and build your abroad here.

I like your inputs, am in the same shoes with thisan. I earn more than #600k monthly after tax. But I need a backup plan as Nigeria is full of uncertainties.

Please suggest good business one can do apart from all these online stuffs.

Sirmuel1:
450k is huge, especially in this country.

My advice is for you to learn how to save.

Cut down your expenses, don’t spend recklessly, don’t compete with co-workers and don’t try to impress anybody (including women).

Rent an affordable apartment, start up a business.

(Don’t start building any house immediately, because it’s a liability). It will only tie your wealth in one spot.

Imagine building a house with 30-50m in Lagos, only to get at least 2m yearly as a rent. How long will it take to get back the capital

A House is a long term investment + retirement plan.

Start a business first!

Am in the same position with you my dear, I also need some guidance and how to go about it.

Missybeee:
Hi everyone. Please, anyone know an active Canada nursing immigration telegram or watsapp group. I need some guidance pls.

Anyone here going through the Canada nursing working visa route??

Good evening all,

I am 39yrs of age and an Engineer by profession, my wife is 32yrs and a Registered nurse. No child yet. We are looking at relocating to Canada.

Please can experienced people help me with best options for relocation, we do not have much money but we are leaving comfortably.

She wrote IELTS = 6.0 overall band score.

Please experienced people should give me more insights either work or school best options.

Thanks

Hey there,

My name is AyanfeJesu, I am new to BC, but I have been in Canada for a few years and let me just say, I love this weatherrr! Anyway, I would love to meet new people, hangout, and have someone show me around beautiful British Columbia, just wanna exploreee…..bills on me! well, my own bills sha. I reside at Northvan, and I am quite familiar with getting around.

a little about me… early 20s female, student, I love homemade food, a song that sums up my life is Trouble by Avicii, I am a Jesus baby, jovial, I talk a lot when I am excited, I enjoy long walks and okayyy this is giving dating site vibes…lol…you can message me if you are a Nigerian/African living in BC

Thanks to God for you!


In life "never give up, I repeat " NEVER GIVE UP".
My own life changing and miracle call came February 12th 2023 (Sunday Evening) and I resumed work in an international company on the following day.

After working for years in a private firm were I received peanuts as salary.
God lifted me from below #200k to above #600k.

I still lack words to praise and worship Jesus for what he has done.

Never you lose hope, keep pushing n praying, one day yours will come.

Am a testimony.

Khalil1103:
In my previous thread I talked about how worried I was due to the late reply from my employer
https://www.nairaland.com/7636868/please-need-answers-should-worried

So this even I got a called to from them to resume tomorrow. Though they have been try to reach me since on Friday but bad network made it impossible...
Thanks to those that supported me with their advice.i appreciate 🙌🙏