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Like my siggy, Everything we want is on the other side of fear... Drop fear,inhibitions, what ifs, and experience life to the fullest.

Martinez39:
Of course. Do make sure you give your sons and brothers the red pill. It's good for their bodies and it's a service to humanity.

My bro is a lover. As for my sons,I'll teach em CLASS so they watch the kinda women they roll with( and I don't mean that in terms of money)... A king doesn't eat from the trash. They'll attract their kind

Martinez39:
You have started looking for errors like pocohantas. AMAZING!

And you've been watching

bigpriik:
men are getting wiser lolzz i am happy kudos to ubunja,women are getting more powerless by the day its joyous.But many men are are still living in bondage and its still pains me they are not willing to change,
we live in a generation of weak men ,in the past men were emotionally superior but presently it women who are emotionally stronger than men hence the manipulation,in the days of of our forefathers women were under the man control she dares not talk when her husband talks ,she dares not go out of the house without her husband's permission but this 21st century everything has being reversed.
men Suffer in the hands of women today because we have altered the natural setting of social dynamics,imagine a generation where gays now have a say in the society,imagine a world were women are allowed to take part in governance,business,economics creatures who don't have stable emotions smh all these are against the law of nature.Naturally a man is suppose to be in control of the woman that is how nature wants it,we suffer with women today because we allowed women to play the role of men in the society when you try to cheat nature you suffer for it nature can never be cheated.

Thanks to the great ubunja and harddon for opening our eyes,as harddon always say " a man who has no control over his emotions and penis is not ready for relationships "for women will [/s]rearly[s] submitt to him.niggas ,gentlemen stop being emotional with women stop treating women like children they are capable of taking care of themselves they are adults,if you wanna help let it be from your own will not because you were pressured to do so .

if you disobey nature by allowing women control you emotionally you will suffer the consequences nature is real.
women do not fall in love with richmen,gentlemen,nice guys,intelligent men etc women fall in love with men other women desire
ask celebrities, did you remember when Runtown bleeped his rich promoters girlfriend after he proposed to her with a 6 million naira ring ,do you still believe money is all women want money OK,dating is a game the one who cares less is in control.

spread the gospel.meanwhile mancity is loosing.

Its RARELY...

Obascoetubi:
STUPID ADVICE

Seen...now move along

Looks painful... RIP girl

pcguru1:
Share with us, cuz mehn that keeps me up most nights

Its a long walk but in summary just have a mindset of.
"What's the worst that could happen"?

Play out worse case scenarios and imagine how you'd respond in such situations. While at it,try not to get addicted to the paranoia tho.

It's a decision only your sis can make. If she wants to do it fine,if not....She shouldn't be compelled into doing anything.

I think it should take more than a year for a kidney to get so bad as to be replaced ( don't quote me on that o)

pcguru1:
Fear of the unknown is giving me sleepless nights

I overcame mine after a long time. You can too.

kingkakaone:
[/b]The formula is simple but unfortunately people ignore simple things.[b]
If only she can open up to her family about who the bf is and how he insults her, including showing them his messages to buttress her point of cutting off from him I think that would be better.

As for the second guy, she will soon be his next victim if she thinks there's no guy out there who is better than him.

Someone with no ability to make decisions by themselves always end up with thrash when it comes to very important things.

One thing I've noticed is that most ladies who have been in wrong relationships or marriage in the past have a repetitive occurrence of meeting with same men in the future.
Their poor sense of judgement which made them engage in the first place also plays out because their minds have been configured to think all guys are the same.

Lobatan

Leave both of them

Momma probably misses her son. Just give her time,she'll adjust.

In my country,we put the cart before the horse

Great piece.

Apeshy101:
Cc
QueenSuccubus
Catwalq
PrimadonnaO
MariaLavina
Fountainofyouth
AnalQueenluci

I don't swing that way...sorry.

ginovera:

I never talk anything naa

Its gonna hurt for a while until it won't anymore.

P.S; I could teach you how to cope,but you might get addicted

Y.O.L.O bro. Go for gold and be happy.

But remember the 80/20 rule

DanDeeBoss:
Maybe she expected you to write "I admire your writing skill"not "l admire you"

Op,what He said.,.

Backyard Ghana here that if I start trekking early in the morning I will reach my village by night. Someone wee naw keep me against my wish and force me to do ashawo??

Bread and hot akara.
Bread with coconut
Bread with ice cream

I'm either strange or not a woman yet cause I've never feared aging alone. People get lonely even in crowds.

Wahala dey sha

Dust your shoes and move on already swthrt

Cc
Jimmyjames,come and analyse this one.

2dice01:
Then after the initial gra-gra

You will hear

All men are dogs

That girl na olosho

This one loud shaaa

jimyjames:
Very well it's more than our mushy feelings, it has to pass through a lot of stages adjustments compatibility matches disagreement agreement bad times good times moody times happy times etc to shape it to one beautiful piece, every relationship pass through it

A common ground finally..
It was great engaging you.

gerizzim:
Very Tru. wen sm1 stats say am busy, Just know d person hz lost interest in dt relationship. U can't be bizy all d tym to create tym for pple dear to u esp a budding loving relationship.

Na my ex usual language be dat ND I trusted her dt truly she was bizy not knowing dt she was dating sm1 else.

Wen u hear "I am bizy" brk out of dt deceit ND leave d relationship.

My sentiment exactly.

jimyjames:
You like routine, fine the question is can you do it constantly without having a break down from time to time no, why cause you are human you are not 100% at all time , do you laugh when you are supposed to cry? Do you get excited with joy when you are supposed to be sad? Do you feel healthy when you are sick? Don't pretend to be happy calling someone you love everyday, when deep down you feel like not doing it everyday

Love is more than our mushy feelings, its a commitment that has to be fed regardless of how we feel. If they had started with infrequent calls and space that would have been understandable - well at least to me - because that would be the status quo.

People make time for what is important to them. Grill me all you want

Pls can you share the link to your findings of the Tiv view of violence, I'd like to read it. Thank you

jimyjames:
Can I ask you a question? Are you 100% the same all the time? Do you do same thing over and over again everyday without doing it differently sometimes? Humans are not machines that are programed to repeatedly do things the same way over and over again,
Humans have feeling they got emotions,they have bad times, good times, sad moods happy moods, don't expect to date someone for months the person will behave 100% , I personally don't call or pick calls from anyone if am moody

Yes,I like routine. Why change it if it works? He was calling her frequently at first,and stopped. Why start with frequent calls and drop it halfway?

Worthy of note however, is the fact that I'm talking based on my assessment of her side of the story. Surely I'm entitled to my opinion and way of life eh