₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
yar it's, sweet sex

Its RAPE

kingkuntaval:
But do YOU in particular have other life goals/aspirations besides marrying a rich man?

Like I said earlier, any sane woman with a good head on her neck will definitely want to control her own resources. And I Like to think that I have sense

Deepfeel:
Haven't you heard of women who have everything in life and all they desire from a man is just true love? They are thousands of them out there, even here in Nigeria they are rich women who desire a husband that will love them, most of them even enrich this young men and give them money to go pay for their pride prize

They give men money to pay their bride price,even set up something for these men. You know why?

Because they want these men to stand on their own and take up the responsibility of being the providers.
Why do you think a working class woman who can afford life's luxuries will still gush and brag over a cheap gift presented to her by her broke bae?

Deepfeel:
How do you know universally all girls dream of marrying a rich man? A girl that's born with riches with a lot of inheritance will never dream of a man with riches, rather a handsome loving man is what she will dream of, cause she already has all a man can ever give her get my point too

Dreaming of being with a rich guy is what it is - A DREAM.
But being with humble guy is a reality.

Ask all your female friends,sisters,female relations to list out ten attributes of a worthy mate and see if 'rich' won't show up on the lists.

They are usually white..

Deepfeel:
Haven't you heard of women who have everything in life and all they desire from a man is just true love? They are thousands of them out there, even here in Nigeria they are rich women who desire a husband that will love them, most of them even enrich this young men and give them money to go pay for their pride prize

You are missing my point. Dreaming of marrying a rich man and actually marrying a rich man are two different things.
Just like some people desire tall guys or fair guys,but in most cases they end up with something different.

So,universally all girls DREAM of marrying rich men. Now whether they end up with rich men or not is another thing entirely. Do you understand what I'm saying?

ubunja:
My first ever proper job after I left Secondary School was working as a Librarian at a boarding High School for girls from families with money. This school was secluded. Many KMs away from the city.

When I got the job I was broke with no proper clothes and in bad shape. The first school term was pure hell and pure heaven same time. Never before in my life had I seen so many pretty faces in a single place. But never had I felt more invisible. For being new, it really hurt to over-hear the pretty students admire other male teachers who had been there for longer and had better clothes, and were in better shape than me.

But as if by instinct, I did this: by the second school term, I took my salary and improved myself. I cleaned up, got sharp new clothes, ate better. I became the best version of myself. Then I SAT BACK AND CHILLED.

I continued with my Library duties as normal.

Then, sure enough, a few weeks later, a pretty yellow thing started hanging out in the Library far more than was normal. She was very good looking. A solid 9. True many girls were hotter than her, but she was beyond my league out there in the real world.

Eventually this girl asked to enter my office to assist (it was out of bounds for all students except the 3 students who were my assistants whom I had made up my mind not to mess with). After gaining access to the office she would spend the whole afternoon basically doing nothing but laughing at my lame jokes. At last it dawned on me that this girl was throwing green lights! I wasted no time. One fine afternoon I said to her, "You know, I have a crush on you". She giggled.

Long story short, a few days later we were having sex in that same office! And up till she finished Secondary, the following year, we were having regular sex almost every weekend when most teaching staff had gone to the city.

Did I chase the girl? No. I improved myself and she saw, liked and came. It was nice being chosen.

You a school staff having sex with a student... I hope you know what that is?

Deepfeel:
There are thousands of girls who dream of competing with men not living under their riches, there are thousands of girls who dream of being richer than the man they will love to marry, so what are you talking about? Why not dream of achieving what men achieve instead of dreaming of a man who has achieved if you can achieve it yourself, men don't dream of it

Any sensible woman will definitely want to control her own resources, that's a given. I'm talking about desires and wishes, and I reiterate,no woman on earth dreams of ending up with a poor man . Whether she be broke or made.

Deepfeel:
She's just thinking like a typical Nigerian girl, with no dreams or career, her biggest dream in life will be to marry a rich man, instead of dreaming of been rich herself

There's no girl on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor man.

You seem to have too many 'concerns' already and its not healthy.

Never for ever.

ginovera:
You left out "the Nigerian inner circle Mafia".

Black man is not yet recognized for strategic reasoning and intellectual prowess. Talk of religion, jungle justice,thuggery, corruption and the black man is king but organised crime?

We are still a long way off sir

They are from the east.

LillyVal:
SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCE

I don't have any ma'am. I've never been interested.

Here to learn

No its not.

MatthAnn:
Lolzzzz
Flash my line

Trust me ma'am, that's a bad idea cus i never stop at one... Have fun.

ubunja:
unfortunately yes.[/b] Remember men are dogs. They have no standards.[b]

Personally, I don't cheat with a woman less attractive than my GF. That's disrespecting her. Cheating on a woman hurts her but it stings a lot less when the side Chick is of a higher class than the main Chick.

Say no more sir.

MatthAnn:
Haha
Chinsos Chinsos












Never thought about that in the first place ooo

You owe me a drink for the enlightenment then....

MatthAnn:
As in
Is only one person I've seen ooo














Nain go mean say all of them worwor oo

This is social media darling,everyone is fine and rich and intelligent and macho. Don't stress yourself over them,na here their power stop.

ubunja:
you're missing something.

Men fvck faces not pussies.

Even men who cheat with women that fail in comparison with their wives?

Una go wait una go tire,as una say una wan see pics. Almost all the guys don hide, pretending not to see this post.

ubunja:
Because contrary to what Society tells women, Men don't love sex, they love VARIETY.

Figuratively, variety here refers to different women with novel pussy which in turn translates to sex. Or am I missing something?

Jokerman:
And it seems these ladies get pained whenever they reminisce

Hahaha

soberdrunk:
hahahahhahahah!!! Rough play!!! His biggest mistake was doing it in one fell swoop, if his liver isn't strong enough this Nigga will die from alcohol poisoning, first he will go into coma and then its Goodnight Bafana!! The garri they are giving him wont help, all they have to do is keep him in a sitting position and make sure he is hydrated and not choking on his own vomit. In 24-72 hours baba will be back and ready to face his 1 week headache......

See analysis. I hail boss

Kazeemakeem:
Baby catwalq how far

Gallant

A simple - Hello, how was your day today -should get him talking.

So all the corpers cannot contribute funds to repair it?
Una dey wait for govt,na govt dey live there ba?

Leave her alone since you don't want her. You are not under any obligation to like her back because she's liking you. Dey your dey make she dey her dey..

You actually pay a 14yr old to do your chores

Anyways, if she were your child there would definitely be no option of sending her back. So, love her outta the habit, I'd even suggest you be more generous with her,don't just punish her when she steals,explain to her that its wrong. It's not easy but if you're willing, you can do it.

Good luck!!

Congratulations, you have made it in life