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jimyjames:
You don't have to call someone you love everyday or feel entitiled to be called back everyday, to prove you love that person, that's obsession, obsession leads to insecurity / trust issues ,

Most times when we feel something is wrong,it usually is. Its been happening for awhile, even enough to cause her worry.

Now no one can hurt you again lil child....RIP

jimyjames:
He wasn't that busy at first, then boom, uncle is now too busy to call as often as he used to


Yes you don't know what love is, love is not a bed of Roses and no human is perfect you can't just cut off from someone and walk away cause the person no longer calls as often as he or she used to

Life itself is not a bed of roses,that's public knowledge. But how can you claim to love someone and not be able to spare let's say ten minutes outta twenty fours evenly spread throughout the day keeping in touch?
Even a text can suffice and it doesn't even take that long.

Anywayz,different strokes for different folks. Like we both agreed earlier, I know nothing about love.

jimyjames:
1)Not calling as often as he used to due to him being busy is understandable, (b) you can be too busy not to call as often as you used to

2) not calling at all cause his busy is unacceptable (b) you can't be too busy not to call at all

So he wasn't busy at first,then boom,uncle is now too busy to make or take calls

I don't know what love is but I'm sure communication and keeping in touch are involved

jimyjames:
You know nothing about love, so just because a guy stops calling you as often as he first did the only option is to cut off from the relationship, ? who knows the poor guy might be depressed or passing through some moody times, he just can't open up to his girlfriend cause he doesn't want to sound weak and hopeless
People pass through some mood swings time to time, find out what's really happening before cutting someone off completely

You may be right that I know nothing about love,but I know people make time for what is important to them. I repeat, no one is that busy...

Then we won't need the theory of Thomas Malthus to control population.

cooooooks:
Everybody feels they have a right to the behaviour of Nigerian women?? He should mind his own business and leave them alone.

There are bucket loads of women who do NOT do any of these things. He should marry those.

What is he doing at this girl's IG page by the way.

One big jar of Vaseline for you

Your number 10 is your lever to move,use it.

No one is 'that busy'. Stop calling him too. If he notices, fine but if he doesn't, garb yourself with dignity and move on.

Its gonna sting a lil though,but you'll be fine. You is a beautiful chick,always know that.

Blackivy27:
my first boyfriend.
he can talk very sweetly. I wish i listened to my momma.

Take heart dear. You are welcome to the club eh .

But seriously though, both genders cheat. Its an individual thingy.

Blackivy27:
Then why the fake promises.
I'll never make you cry
I'll never cheat
Sugar coated tongues dripping honey.
honesty's better than the heartbreak that follows.

Person tell you all these things and afraid no hold you,you no run

There's enough tension in the world already. No need for this BS propaganda at all.

Happy birthday to you. I wish you all the joy and happiness your heart can contain.

Olorunnim:
You see this ya eyes ehnn.

Na gift

Gbola..hon

Officialgarri:
Next time, your question should be the other way round. Like
"Which of these punishments did you not serve? "

Uncle serve all of them sha

Op none of em,obedient student I was.

Leave her alone and go your way. Lobatan.

kingkakaone:
One crook brought this to me too.
He said I should invest 50k to get 150k in 35 mins.

I asked him how and he said they collect money and exchange it with foreign currencies to make a 10% profit.

He said I would be transferred 3% of the profit and that's all.

I asked him if he knew how much is 3% of 50k and he couldn't answer. I told him how will he tell me to invest when he doesn't know how to calculate.

Finally, I told him to go back and learn more on how to scam people.

The 00 are silent

Only if he wants to be won.

Truthsbitter:
You've got good intuitive sense

10Q

Don't go round fire expecting not to sweat..

Aura... Can't capture it with words and has nothing to do with looks.

No,you are not alone,una plenty for here but I no want mention names..

Sure

Cuteify:
That has been my prayer, I keep believing it would get better but it's not just working. My Faith is faint right now. But I still believe in God

Babe look for a strong church and adhere... God is your best bet right now dear.

Everything is gonna work out,just chill and hold on to God dear.

If you think its a generational problem then it most likely is - power of the mind - but Suicide is never an option. Draw closer to God,there's nothing too difficult for Him.

Your worries are understood but don't give up,everything will fall into place in time.

151487made:
Ever since i lost former roommate to suicide, then i gave up on humanity.

Go back and pick it up. The onus is on us to restore humanity.

I'll know I've found a friend for life

bigpicture001:
Y...?

It can only be experienced bro.