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Nodogragra4me:Oga “winner”, Is there a need to attack those who disagree with you on this thread? Why do you have such a strong urge to defend your “winners” agenda above the overall interest of the kingdom? The people you are attacking are your siblings in Christ and it is ok to disagree with a sibling on principle but do so in love, I beseech you. Saying someone is too shallow is an affront and does not convey the temperance or love of Christ. Please measure your words and think ‘Kingdom’ when you choose your battles |
Goshen360:Long time no speak, sir! Trust you are well. Thanks for hitting the nail on the head as always. There should be no competition in the Body....but like Bishop, like members. |
OP, I like that you make yourself interesting by exposing your mind to rare adventure. Well done and Thanks for sharing your Lovely photos �� |
Arielle:This interview changed my view about him too. The Biafra agitation is justifiable and I like his non-violent approach. He is also now pursuing an inclusive agenda so he just won a supporter in me. I am a Yoruba man that has always believed in correcting the ills of the past, especially the unjust treatment of our Igbo friends across the Niger. Kanu has further convinced me that the Biafra project is noble and pragmatic. This long interview held me spellbound. Great oratory skills! |
OdefaGirl:I think so too. Start to ignore him For the following reasons: - he is childish and thinks everything is about money and wealth. I suspect he is so money deprived that it dominates his mind and that makes him take every conversation in the direction of money with the aspiration that someday, he will live the lies he spews as current reality (for crying out loud, he says his father’s mansion has 6 BQs - we know he is only fantasising ) - he has created another ID and replies himself. Every discerning eye will spot his deception. The OP is a chronic liar and deceiver. - I don’t know you but I know you are not at his level cerebrally. Just from reading your responses, I know you are reasonable and Intelligent so I like you. Resist the urge to trade words with him, hard as that may be. You can see I haven’t quoted him directly even though this is his thread. I won’t be drawn into a debate with him because I just won’t dignify him with a response. He quotes me at his own peril! |
But why would even hate anyone? Anyway to your points, - Jesus drank wine. Would you really think the Pharisees and Zacheaus specially brewed non-alcoholic wine for Him when he went to their homes? Like for real? - the early church had communion with alcoholic wine. You cannot dispute that from 1 Cor 11 because these folks were getting drunk in Church and Paul had to curb their excesses - Jesus said nothing that enters a man defiles the man. Nothing. Alcohol does not defile. Evil and wicked thoughts are the real problems of mankind newsynews: |
He has a masters degree in Economics but can’t seem to secure a decent job. This guy is bitter, simple. He is also grieving his late brother but going about it the wrong way by spewing hatred. Pity him, guys. His state of mind is poor |
Aaronsrod:Your God, not the God of the Bible who is compassionate in His ways. Don’t make it seem like He sends His creation to hell with glee. May we not misrepresent a loving God to our generation. Amen |
OP, Let me add my 2 cents from personal experience because my son was like that at his age. Is he verbal? Mine had minimal language at that age - Please keep the smacks to the barest minimum and only as a last resort otherwise you will keep frustrating him. - Let him go out a lot to burn his energy in outdoor activities. Those may actually wear him out for you, which is what you want. - As most people have said, reduce sugar intake. - I found out recently that fish oil is good for children like him. It has a soothing effect on the brain. I use the Artic Sea product from forever living for my son and we have seen noticeable progress. All the best friend. Your son will take his world by storm. He just has a lot going on his mind and hyperactivity is his expression. He will calm down over time. My son is 7yrs now and is becoming a gentleman. |
You haven't said the ages of your children. Could they possibly be keeping her busy after school? Candid advice - be gentle and loving even if the hunger induces anger (understandably so). There is no harm in offering to help in the kitchen to speed things up even after you've had a tiring day at work. I know the generally accepted notion in an African society is that kitchen affair is the sole responsibility of the woman but you don't have to conform with that. Help her out and it'll create some bonding time too, even if it is a temporary corrective measure to have food ready in time. Or you switch roles. She can help kiddies with home work one day while you cook and give the family a dinner treat. You'll gradually and lovingly make her improve |
PassingShot:You captured it perfectly. Dokubo is only an attention-seeker and oftentimes speaks irrationally. When GEJ won Buhari overwhelmingly by a 10 million-vote margin 4 years ago, there was no regional "supremacy". Such a myopic fella. I expect Buhari to clip his wings for good. |
@OP, this problem isn't isolated to Nigeria. It is a problem of the Negroid race. The average Blackman doesn't like the next Blackman and would rather sell him to the white man. Try speaking to an African outside Nigeria and see how much they detest Nigeria and Nigerians. These things ought not to be so but it is what it is. I'm not holding brief for Nigerians and our perceived arrogance but my point is that the problem is deeply rooted in our race, sadly so. |
rasojie:No, you're not alone. When my friends support Jonathan, I wonder what has gone wrong with them because they often sound biased and irrational. I have nothing personal against the man - I just know his leadership doesn't inspire confidence. |
Goshen360:Great to reconnect with you brother. I agree. Something that intrigues me about church is that people can do nothing against the truth but for the truth. So let those who defend politiking continue to do so. The counsel of God - it shall stand. Keep up the good work brother. |
Goshen360:You are right sir! Paul held the churches accountable to their doctrines, not their money. Preach Christ, he told them but he didn't set up a structure to control their money. Where that is practiced today, it is out of apostolic order. Yes, Paul raised offerings for the Judean Christians due to a crisis situation they had and took the money back to Jerusalem from gentile churches but he didn't institute a scheme to collect funds from the churches. They gave to him as they purposed in their hearts. No compulsion, no 10% mandatory collection etc. Just freewill donations |
CityNG: Oh wait, I don't believe it. A post where you did not repeat my userid - gaspA noticeable reduction in your number of words. It's either you're cupping up that 'less is more' or you have run out of steam. Which ever it is, I wish you the best man. No hard feelings. Just had to say as it is. |
CityNG: So when are you going to go all theological on me?I am actually now laughing...starting to see a side of you that is less aggressive yet confrontational. A better version, I dare say. Keep that up (not patronising - just saying) |
CityNG: The truth shall set you free.I promised you a round of applause. Your first 'clean' post void of direct insults. I told you, you can do it! Well done. Talking about truth, you just have to take my words for what they are. I did no research on you. Not yet. But I don't think it is necessary given the rate at which you volunteer unsolicited information on this thread. |
CityNG: Just as I thought.The CityNG I already know from today's interactions would have been quick to say if he's seen more than 4 continents. That was a teaser and of course, you fell for it. Keep it coming. I am watching you and reading you like a book .... and the best part is - this is effortless. You make it easy because folly abound in many words. |
CityNG: 1) Yep. WussIt is what I have been trying to tell you since but you either read too quickly or comprehension may be a challenge for you, sir. I didn't have to do any research on you at all. I haven't even looked at your profile neither have I read you on any other thread. You have a loose tongue so you loosely type and reveal your life on this thread unwittingly with no display of wisdom. I know so much about you already without making an effort because out of the abundance of the heart, you've been spilling the venomous content of your being. You are a hurting man and I should really pity you. |
CityNG: "A paragraph (from the Greek paragraphos, "to write beside" or "written beside"Talking specifically about travel, I have a humble travel experience and I haven't done as much as I'd like. I have only seen 4 of the 6 continents (I will spare you the number of countries and cities). Not a feat that matches yours, perhaps, but that is beside the point. Even if you have been to all 200+ countries of the globe, your travel experience is not reflected in your writing. Simple! |
CityNG: "A paragraph (from the Greek paragraphos, "to write beside" or "written beside"Compare passports with you? Never! That you would even suggest that shows how low you sink to prove a thoughtless needless point. I know people who haven't stepped outside Nigeria that are more articulate and argue more soundly than you do. With the way you write, I already wonder if you are the true owner of the passport you showed us. As I said earlier, you show no decency in your interactions and no reflection of the American spirit. You are a proven sore loser who aims to score cheap points yet can't seem to be tactful in your use of words. If you are truly in America, then you are not one of the Ambassadors Nigeria can be proud of, and you should be ashamed of that. I will personally applaud you if you can score another cheap point without one foul word of insult. Common, give it a try. You are up to the challenge. Refine yourself and argue without bitterness. You can do it.... I'm waiting. ![]() You continue to amaze me. You have no clue who I may be but you are so sure you'd win a 'passport comparison' contest. Who reasons like that in this age? Only a person whose mind never grew beyond the 'local champion' thinking of the 80s. The world has evolved, man. If your biggest achievements are that you left Nigeria and now hold an American passport, then I can now understand the origin of your woes. |
CityNG: Legitimate or not, entry into a country is not automatic like you seem to think. Many legitimate people have been turned back. Boyfriends visiting Girlfriends for a birthday have been turned back for fear of getting married and staying (is that not a legitimate reason to visit?).In your eagerness to respond, you did not carefully read that it's your ally on this thread who mentioned Google (not me). You even turned against him and asked him to expand his knowledge. It's ok for you to conclude I am not a seasoned traveller. I have no point to prove in that regard. Your beef against me is that I set out to clarify why you had to obtain a "visa" to enter Spain. I have never met you and I don't know your background but your uncouth language says a lot about your upbringing and your outlook in life. For argument sake, let's assume you are a more seasoned traveller than I am, your brash style of addressing people who have differing opinions indicates to me that your mind is unexposed. You may have travelled the world but your mind never grew beyond the confines of Ijebu. With due respect, please grow up and act your age. If you left Nigeria in 1986, I imagine you are not a young man. In fact, you are far older than me yet you carelessly throw words around without weighing them. That is a shame, sir, but it is beneath me to call you names or spew hatred towards you. |
aaidel: any citizen can be turned back from any country guess you didn't hear the case of the man turned back from dubai and asked never to return again and some countries despite these agreements require pre approval before traveling which is basically same thing a visa isYou may want to read my comment again. I said the traveller must have a legitimate reason to be granted entry. That goes without saying. |
CityNG: Just as I thought, your angst is with Americans. This was never about America or celebration (only someone with deep anti US sentiments will harbor that), the issue was that a fellow traveller was denied entry solely because he was holding a Nigerian passport.You don't know who I am, where I live or my nationality yet you conclude I am anti-America. Should I really be debating with someone that cannot hold a reasonable healthy argument? My answer is NO. Rather than annoy me, this particular comment actually made me smile and shake my head in pity. Just when I think I have seen the worst of folly, someone out there pulls a surprise on me. Bring it on dude, spring more surprises in your rejoinders and continue to expose who you really are in this public discourse. We are watching. |
CityNG: Why are you getting your skirts all bunched up?I see that you're bent on calling people names when they disagree with you. Can you not have a clean debate without names calling and insults? It says a lot about who you are.... |
CityNG: Don't mind them ojareI don't know what planet you are dude but I don't know how you expect a Nigerian passport holder to be allowed entry into Spain without a EU visa, in this day and age. Yes, we lost our respect over the years but that's not news. I think you made your point that you have an American passport and you even showed us the evidence. That was the crux of your message even though you tried to conceal it by feigning ignorance. For the records, it is normal procedure that you were allowed into Spain as an American citizen without a visa. |
aaidel: allowed entry does not mean you are guaranteed entry and he could also have been refused entry subject on the recommendation of the immigration officer. so he is quite right to say he was granted a visa in to the countryIt's the other way round. A visa doesn't guarantee you entry and it is the prerogative of the immigration to allow you into the country. He wasn't issued a visa. Except there are no legitimate reasons to be visiting, an American citizen cannot be turned away from a Spanish airport. That is normal procedure (based on agreements between both countries) and not a celebrated case like your friend makes it seem. |
CityNG: Nothing was clarified, it's all in your head so no thanks needed.I have seen your comments to others on this thread and it is interesting how quickly you pick up fights at the slightest provocation. I have said nothing to deserve your acerbic comments but I will consciously stay away from playing this in your turf. If you can't handle being challenged when you submit facts, then refrain from using the internet. Some of us will challenge what you spew, and within reason. So deal with it. |
CityNG: It's not my job to educate you.Ok, thanks for clarifying that you weren't issued a visa. As an American citizen, you are allowed entry into the EU for 90 days, so your earlier comment about "visa" caught my attention. I'll ignore your other comments and say nothing about myself. |
CityNG: Oponu, some of your fellow countrymen has sullied your passport to be almost worthless in the international community.Please educate me. You were given a visa to enter Madrid on a US passport even though you were visiting for less than 5 hours? |
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Another assumption, I type using the exact words that I meant to convey. You're just sore that I am not kowtowing to you. You're nothing and remain nothing to me.