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Flytefalls:
What's this supposed to be, a sort of threat or call for karma? Are you married?

Flytefalls:
Anybody here spending time reading this thread should hold this post as the wisest. I feel the OP doesn't understand what her friend is experiencing, where is her empathy? Truth is, and will always remain, that many wives do feel their MIL's involvement in their marriage makes them feel somewhat redundant as a wife. Of course, this will bring up emotions. A women who utters such an ultimatum is probably not telling her husband to be rid of his mother; what woman who loves her husband would ever mean that? But through frustration, she is appealing to him to restore her role in the marriage as a man's wife/complement/partner.

Men, you're so quick to come on threads like this and hail the unbreakable bond you have with your mothers. It's a beautiful bond, but seriously consider this post I've quoted. When you choose to marry, then you have chosen to gain a wife; don't marry unless you are willing to respectfully hold your wife in the position your marriage vows dictate. Your mother is not your wife, and it's your responsibility to keep the roles separate, just as your wife needs to do the same regarding her own mother. There can be harmony between MILs and their DILs, but whenever there is not, look at yourself before you place blame elsewhere.

coogar:
easy for you to say this.....
you especially would be worse than patience ozokwor when your son gets married.....

Khabuqi:
And easy to do

Slimdolly:
[/b] cos someone else will worry about you when you become a success; without you paying them a dime

Vickybee:
It seems all the guys on this thread(both married & unmarried) want to love their mummy than wife.

Well, it's girls that are getting theirselves worked up on trivial issues.

If I notice that my husband love his mother more than me and consult him before taking decisions, I'll love my daddy more than him too and consult him before taking decisions.

The feeling is mutual.

Khabuqi:
Bros wetin you dey yarn?
Leave idiomatic proverb joo. Which kin cake

Why won't I say if? It is their choice if they marry or not. I hope my son leaves my house when he is man enough. Married or not.

Shollypopzz:
@babyosisi: I couldn't agree more. I felt the op denied us of some very important info, like what led to the ultimatum.

I do not support ultimatums because they are manipulative and downright narcissistic in my opinion, but in most cases, the person giving the ultimatum does so out of frustration.

Slimdolly:
brb. Going to check it out
+modified*
I'm not the compu-techy-girl buh whoever that dude is that build that, he's da bomb

Karleb:


But you once said she was learning PHP now?

Karleb:
Why are you laughing?

Karleb:
Just for the benefit of doubt, are you the Godmother that does PHP and also a fashion designer?

Godmother:
Do you mean me or political godmother.
These days I'm not sure anymore. I get so many mentions of political godmother that I don't know when I'm being mentioned for real.

Karleb:
Just when I thought the political metamorphosis will last forever.

I stepped aside since you joined APC, I'm a core PDP member though!

Karleb:
Good one!

One chivita for your throat!

iykofias:
Noting person nv see for ds place, d organ to smell is now d organ smelling. @op, Wen was d last tym u had s£x, i tink u av rotten sp£rm inside ur body.. Or ur anus is akwardly positioned makin d fart to escape tru ur nose..jux relaxe, stop praying, stay calm, d solution is simple. Stop making use of ur nose for d main time

clevvermind:
why are you calling her names? is that what
buhari taught you? to be disrespecting someone
old enough to be your mother?

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iyatrustee:
Na wa oh!Someone wants financial freedom and all you are thinking of is paying him monthly interest?

mattkelly:
Bro,Monday evening..she enter my house 6.45pm.she left by 10pm..And by the way,Am self employed.I fit Bleep on Rapture day sef,if there is any day like that..

mattkelly:
She might have gone for a breast argumentation.But at times,Even with bra's like these,The boobs are still massive until you open it up will you know.Just yesterday,This new babe was at my house the second time,she has the statue of Asa,had this type of bra on.I thought she sef dey package am ni,But menh,i was surprised when i opened everything up..Damm,she was massive..I then remembered obesere's song, A so po to yi,aso ni o fi boo.meaning,Na so he plenty reach,you come use cloth cover am..And she had the baddest ring-tone i have ever ever heard in my Life..The ring-tone gave me the biggest ginja of my life..Yesterday was supper..A remix version is coming on Friday/Saturday night..This is my story about bras..Until when you open would you know the actual size gan gan...

cacali:
How come all the guys know soooo much about bra type & size?