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Jazmiynne:
Ayaf not forgotten o

But y'all forgot me na

How can I take u on a treat when ayam not on ur mind?

Don't even tread that lane...don't try it, amicable09 coman see oo

veevean1:
@cc150615 Been good ooh, me I want that treat as well

Should we postpone it till when you come back?? On another tot we can do this and then have a replay of it to include you...that's IF you're coming back any soon anyways

veevean1:
Yes, where have u been...
@davide.470 so you are part of cheats that they are talking about, so try u have turned to membership parole smh.
@cc150615 I have always admired your insight, you are still as Frank as ever lol!

Dt got me blushing bae...how's it been with you?

Jazmiynne:
Omg you went right into depths of my heart and brought the feelings to words. Another epic opinion m'lady

I LOVE to have an intelligent discourse anytime, anyday and anywhere...
BTW I remember you owe me and Amy a treat abi you've forgotten??

Nobody should come and form holier than thou for us here or point fingers....it's obvious that a lot of ppl cheat in both relationship and marriage even tho I don't agree with the point that it's in anybody's genetic make up to cheat, yeah it's a decision ppl make....
So as for those of US that have decided not to cheat nd are holding on, thank God for us ...and also for those of US that are either still struggling with the decision not to cheat or have even decided to keep cheating....well, God help us too..
But the point of the discussion here is we're trying to analyse systematically what the reason is dt makes anybody want to cheat or unable to stop cheating...nd please I'd like us to leave Bible out of this...

And also on the second question of whether once a cheater is always a cheater?
I stand with Ferdy on this, ppl can go from cheating to faithful and vice versa at any point in time.

Someone has mentioned the quest for variety
Someone else mentioned peer pressure

Let's bring it on...
There's an attitude I always encourage ppl to cultivate ; when you see someone doing sth obviously wrong, don't be quick to point fingers at the person cos you might not know how long the person has maybe been struggling to get out of that shii...so the best is try to find out why the person is doing what he/she is doing and that way you can also devise a means to helping such a person sincerely...Let's not be too quick to castigate ppl for their wrong cos it will only make dem more hardened.
Okay, now I'm feeling like a psychologist.
I really didn't wanna say anything on this topic again but I just couldn't resist th urge to blurt this out..

Y'all have a fabulous week....I feel so good cos I'm sleeping in this Monday morning....

tolutweety:

If I tell you I have been waiting for your response to the question , would you believe that ?!


And you dint fail me. Your response is epic !

Oya, coman be going to church....

Okay lemme talk now, on why men/ppl cheat.....
I asked a guy the question one day and he answered that the reason is because apples taste different from banana and bananas taste different from watermelon...comparing it to what Jaz said that's it's surprising to find out sometimes dt that the cheatee may not even be in anyway better than the man's madam, but if we look at it from my friend's answer...you may say watermelon isn't sweeter than banana but it's just 'different' from banana nd dts all it takes, I actually kinda reasoned with him dt many times its the quest for variety or just adventure that makes ppl to cheat on their spouses generally
Except on some occasions when ppl cheat cos thay have problems in their marriage nd for that period find succor with the cheatee that takes advantage of the problem to gain entrance into the cheaters heart and pants offcos.
Dazall I know....

Holiacid:
, I received a invite for d accessment , any info concerned d test questions

No idea bro

Happy birthday Emasel....
Soar!

adewumiopeyemi:
IN NIGERIA MY BROTHER THE SITATION IN NIGERIA IS GETTING WORST.... WITH OUT CONNECTION U CANT GET UR DREAM JOB FACT#

I didn't expect that from you bro
#NoOffence

Lero15:
Lies from Sambisa Forest, Northern Nigeria, Nigeria, Africa.

Please you ppl should stop this gang up, I don't like it....don't coman spoil my market

Jamean:
Just as you were too busy to notice that I dropped a mention for you on your birthday and never remembered.
Woke up to a bright day, without even faintly remembering if I saw a dark lady while asleep.
#stilljustsaying

I will like to have breakfast now.
Cheers!

Ma'am, find attached

cc150615:
Thanks fam for all the good wishes for me and my twinnie amicable09's birthday ,you guys rock, please don't be offended if I couldn't reply your mention, I really appreciate everyone, been a wonderful day over here....Twinnie don't forget to send the bill
Now I wish I had a diary for the other things I'd like to write......#okbye

I try very hard not to willfully offend ppl.

And on the other matter, I was only trying to have some fun and I promise not to do that again, can we have a drink now?

singlefade25:
Grandma......longtime, we the grandchildren dey hail o.

Now this is so amicable-like, please don't spoil my market I'm still a teenager,
I'm doing great thank you, how you rocking that end?

Jamean:
If you had responded with a quote just like this when I said 'hi' we would have moved beyond this stage.
...and I didn't ask you

#justsayingtho

What if everybody was too busy to notice that day....nd they've remembered now that the day is close by
Btw, you only said hi, how were we supposed to get into your mind to know you wanted to talk about the get together, maybe if you had added a clue to it they'd have all responded sharply...

Anyways I'm still #JustSaying

Jamean:
No plan, I said hi on the day I was gonna suggest it and didn't even get a response, so I withdrew. Maybe someone else should anchor that

That doesn't pass for an excuse if you ask me #JustSayingTho

Jamean:
Bose lo n bere - na so e dey start
I may not get the spelling correctly not being a native speaker but this one wasn't murdered, Ma'am

I actually had a feeling that's what you wanted to say but I wasn't sure cos of the discrepancy, anyway it's cool you've translated it so everybody is happy.
Have a fabulous Monday
I'm gonna be sleeping in.

amicable09:
Lol.
Mej I don't know what this means but the attached smiley made it look funny

Cc150615, please simplify this ede Yoruba for me.

I'm sorry I can't help you this time, it's either there are some new dictions in the language dt I've not heard of or Madam Jamean has successfully murdered my language

karleone:
**********

Learnt a Yoruba word this week :-
Lon Lon! Meaning - far far!

Ehen! What's the meaning of these Yoruba statements: Owo da nbe, O wo le, Ma bo (those words used by danfo conductors)? (Sorry if I didn't get the spellings)

Far far is written Loun Loun and pronounced thus, guess you heard lon lon cos the person was speaking fast
Owo da n be is: Wey your money there?
O nwo le is literally 'he/she is entering' to notify the driver say person dey come wey wan enter the bus so make e never move tho it's a lie half the time
Ma bo is : Come or Be coming

ksstroud:
Greet us too, we the Aliens.

Who dash you alien

Morning ladies an gentlemen

I knew this will get here, RIP sweet Nne.....
There's such a thin line between life and death.....still thank God for the others that survived it

Double Post

Maya2pretty:
Wowwwwwww, this group still dey oh lol. Hi guys, God bless your individual hustle

MaAaaaaaaaaaayaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

buharisbae:
I Dont understand this cake picture ooo has she celebrated an 18th birthday b4

the baker of this cake deserve a knock on the head oooo!

The sarcasm is that she isn't actually 18 years old, just forming forever young, nd dts what he explained in her reply to people asking if she's really 18

Happy birthday Barr. Adeaks, more wins to your wig

I know some fine men but only few of them have a heart as fine as their faces...it's been nice knowing you....on this special occasion of your birthday, I pray that God take you to that peak that He's shown you and then top it with the woman that would make your home a bliss.
Happy birthday Ferdyboss.....
Have fun and don’t forget to break a leg...

Berylsprings:
Obviously this is pure scam. It's very clear, you should be able to read in between the lines. How can an employer ask you to come with your last 3 months pay slip? What do they want it for? This is the recent trend of kidnap. When they see your pay slip and know your worth, then they will know how much to tell you to bring as ransom for your release. Be wise!
I don't even know why people respond to job offers they never applied for. That should be the first sign of scam....

A potential employer may ask for ur payslip so as to help them negotiate better when you guys are bargaining how much you expect to be paid....

Ferdyboss:
cc150615, I didn't mention nor imply that Fulfilment= Working in the line of the course you study

Ookay, dts why I used the clause 'in case' too

yorex2011:
una no wan leave me and my backpack

only problem is that backpacks dont go with suits, not that i like wearing suits like that..
may have to look for a way to redesign a backpack to be hybrid..

Who says you can't keep carrying your backpack, just as long you also have the suitcase...yes I know wat I just said cos many engine ladies around me actually carry both backpacks and handbags, yeah both at the same time....tho it always leaves me wondering why

Ferdyboss lemme correct you in case you're implying that fulfilment = working in the line of the course you study...I'll state 2 scenarios
1.) Let's say I studied engineering but after I couldn't get a job I picked up an audit job and after one year I find out dt I'm really enjoying the job like I enjoy auditing nd all the plenty numbers, maybe luckily the firm I'm working is a good one with good staff welfare, career growth and all those things we want in an employment...won't you say I'm more fulfilled than a fellow colleague who maybe got a job in an engineering firm but somehow there are many circumstances around the job dt doesn't make my friend happy even tho he may be making same amount of money with me or even more ( curled from a true life experience
2.) The second scenario is maybe I even studied dt particular course cos dt was wat Uniben dashed me nd then still got a job in another line because that was what the job market dashed me but now I'm enjoying what the job market dashed me....
Bottomline is just to find a job dt gives you the real inner fulfilment, I understand that the job market isn't fair nd many times we take anyone dt comes but in the 21st century if you had to take a job u don't like and you still remain there grumbling about that job for over 5 years then I put it to you that you don't know what you're doing
Fulfilment in my words is doing a job that you love and you enjoy and dt fulfils your dreams of a job, either along your course of study or not and dt explains why you see someone going to study law after an MBBS, cos maybe he just realised he's more interested in that or his interest has changed over time.
Lemme stop there before they say cc is talking too much

Ladyf and Lastmumu, get a room

Jazmiynne:
I hope Davide470 won't 'comman' ban me sha..

cc150615 about the interview guy who tried to reschedule.... I don't think the ish with him is the idea of rescheduling - sometimes that's inevitable.
But the thing is how he presented his case. I felt there was a pompous undertone, almost as if he was proving to the HR why the HR's method was wrong. Considering the amount of efforts and deliberations that go into the staffing process, his message would have sounded better if he had even asked for a different recruitment method for himself. But to ask that the entire recruitment process be changed to suit his own circumstances doesn't sound fine at all.
While we should not throw ourselves completely at the mercy of interviewers, some tact would have made his point more appealing.

#Anyways...This is just my opinion though. The final decision rests on the HR.
Btw i don't think I'd say anyone was spamming the guy. If he didn't want people's reactions, he wouldn't put it on NL

I really wish I didn't have to reply this buh let's not start dis argument here, I still stand where I stand tho, or maybe we say different strokes for different folks