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You think being a virgin is fun till you marry one that is not interested in sex, oboy na hell be that, you will obviously want to be bleeping outside, some people get what they did not bargain for man

Life, this is really sad to hear. but i would advise you report him to the police and get a proper divorce from the Court that way certain responsibilities would be assigned to him as the father of your kids, also try and speak to your family about the abuse and let them see reasons to help you with finance for a trade or business. i feel your pain, i have a sister who almost went through a similar case of abuse but i stood behind her, warned the husband sent boys to beat him up one time and asked my sister to call it quit, an abuser will never change. today she is doing very well on her own.

Visionless and focus less Governor of all times, we hail thee, may God manage your affairs the way you are managing Delta State

This is pathetic or is it because she a lawyer and works with ministry of Justice. The justice system of Nigeria is gradually encouraging an eye for eye method of justice, if you kill my relatives and justice is not well melted then I take laws into my hand avenge personally

A man got the right to change his mind anytime he wants to, like it or not it's still low key. family and friends and that is what it is

Please make sure you hit him hard where it hurts, let your kids know that is their father that is the real slowpoke, freezer need to be shut up once and for all.

Freeze is an slowpoke, Mr Jollof challenged him some time ago to make same silly comment he has been batching on Christians and pastors on Imam and other religious leaders, and see if he will live to see another day, old man wey no know himself, rant and talk anyhow like an Olosho wey no get shame. dem go gather beat hell out of u one day

Like my Boss will always say, a broken engagement is better that a broken marriage, I was once in your shoes but luckily I discovered on time that she was the devil in a sheep clothing's,. Mine actually started unfolding her demonic attitude after the intro and I was worried sick till my white boss observed and called me to counsel, that was when I knew that I had to let go, then wedding were already fixed, cards has printed, venues and cake paid for, wedding clothes already bought but deep down something kept telling to run for my life undermining how much has been spent. one day I just took a decision and called her one morning before I went to work that it's over, that I cant go through with the marriage as proposed, she immediately came over and was crying and begging that I should forgive her for whatever she has done and the way she treated me, but all fell on deaf ears because I know there is no going back, the Dad later called that day, that he wants to see me, I went but told him all I have suffered in the hands of his daughter he begged me to have a rethink and that I should not shame him before his people but I told him that he will not always be there to caution his daughter hence I had to let go. she eventually got married before me and I got married a year after to a very peaceful woman. yesterday was our another marriage anniversary 7 years and still counting. I learnt from friends that she has been giving the guy issues as well. irony of the whole story is that once you sense danger run for your life do not wait to be told, many people do not care to know the reason you beat your wife, all they know is that you are woman beater and not worthy to be called a man

It was a pool party with naked girls.

And they were there.

Men who have achieved.

Money, power and fame.

Men in their prime who tell time to hold still since they have refused to age and it grudgingly obeys in detente and in temporaneous.

They dress young, they dance young, they act young.

They are current on all fronts.

Most of them married with children but mentally and emotionally single.

At this party they threw in a high brow residence in an exclusive neighbourhood in Ikoyi there was an abundance of food, drinks, drugs and real youth.

The youth came exclusively from the girls that were in attendance.

Girls in their late teens and early twenties.

Well spoken and extensively travelled.

Daughters of the materially blessed.

All of them students.

All of them naked.

Some were in the swimming pool, some at the bar, some danced under the cabana, others were hobnobing with the swimming trunks clad men at various places in the specially lit pool area that stood under the starry night sky.

And I sat with one of them.

She was caramel smooth, finely contoured, delicately featured and doe like.

She was twenty going on twenty one.

And a sophomore at Babcock university.

To every question I asked, she took a drag from the reefer in her hand, blow out the smoke through her mouth and nostrils, took a sip from her glass of Hennessey and coke on ice before she responded.

Her voice was sweet.

And her smile was rapturous.

"I heard students need permission to leave your school. How could you get out this late and stay overnight?"

"We have our ways."

"We?"

"Yeah all of us."

"From Babcock?"

"Not all. Some from Covenant, Redeemers, Madonna, ABUAD, Pan African and stuff."

"No unilag or UI?"

"They ain't boujee."

"Boujee?"

"Yeah. They are crass. Men like you guys don't want to roll with local cats like those right?"

I looked at her silently as she took a drag from her reef.

The aroma assailed it. It was caustic yet not aggravating.

"What's that?"

"Comorado."

"What's that?"

She laughed.

"It's good stuff. Hits you slowly and then makes you soar like superman."

I looked around and saw the girls doing one thing or another in their nudity.

She was staring at me.

"Is this your first party?"

I nodded.

"No wonder you are asking all these hang questions."

"Why do you do this?"

"I'm young. I need to live life before it becomes too serious and I have to be all grown up."

"But why the drugs?"

"Because."

"Because what?"

"Because this is how we roll. Everyone has their poison. If you are not on reef, you do codeine or cocaine or heroin or speed or AZT or ecstasy or royfenol or fentanyl or meth or oxy or worst case you inhale glue and get your high."

I stared at her as she inhaled and exhaled languidly.

"Why the parties?"

"You get your hit for free here. You have fun. You make good money."

"But for you to attend those schools you must be rich."

"My parents are not me."

"But they give you money."

"They pay the tuition and all. Not like they can give me a million in cash."

"Do you get a million here?"

"Well two or three parties can make me that."

"Aren't you afraid of running into your Dad at places like this?"

"Naaaa... my dad is too square and busy but even if he is not then it is his problem after all he came here for what I came here for so he can't tell me nothing."

I fell silent and watched her inhale and exhale smoke.

"But you know, your folks put you in schools like that to protect you?"

"Too protect me?"

"Yes."

"They are too busy to even bother."

"No they are not."

"Yes they are. They think the school will be both my teachers and my parents."

"I think they are just worried about you getting corrupted."

"I was balling like this under their nose and they didn't even notice. Funny thing is that even the innocent Jane get influenced in school, so what was the use of all the headache of keeping us locked up in all these secondary schools that front as universities."

"They did it out of love and with the belief that those schools are way better than the public ones."

"Well they bleeped up."

"bleeped up?"

"Is this an interview or what?"

"No I am just intrigued."

"And I am Hot."

I fell silent.

She dragged, exhaled, took a drink from her glass, sucked on one of the ice cubes in her mouth and asked in a whisper.

"Are you going to do anything about it?"

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The truth is that some women are too money conscious cant you just even borrow your fiancée some cash without expecting any interest in attached, most women the minute they lend you money the relationship automatically comes to a standstill pending when you pay up, avoid such kind of women for those who are yet to be married. Before I got married I once had a GF who lend me money to pay for my apartment , this lady told me to pay when able and that was how it went, she never called or ask me any
day for the money till I was able to pay back. that's how to be supportive in relationship, you call him fiancée and you cant be supportive, your concern is that the business is now running, he may probably be owing others he needs to sort out before yours, he did not pick your calls because you are not showing any sign of how things are going with him rather your money is the utmost area of interest

TheRealestGuy:
Don't mind that girl.

We guys sacrifice a whole lot for relationships and we don't make noise about it.

Obviously, the guy may be yet to fully bounce back from the losses he may have incurred from the production halt for a while and all the babe has been doing since she learnt he's back in production is ask for her money.

To all the men out there, this is a classic example of how many women think.

If you must borrow money, please avoid borrowing from a woman you're romantically involved with cos she'll rub it on your face and spite you if for any reason you don't pay back as agreed.

Yes they do, I know a couple of my colleagues who have gotten new jobs via the platform

This woman is one time suppose Governorship aspirant in Delta state, has big mansion close to the government house

She is 3 months pregnant, the other balloons are shape of sperm

The day you become a political office holder nothing is personal anymore, the people who Nominated, Voted Appointed you have the moral and legal right to know every details of you. you would have just stayed at home and mind your personal business, if you don't want the public prying into your private life

Most of the courses listed are never underrated. When I read the word underrated I was expecting to see courses like Environmental engineering/ Science, Resource management, Petroleum processing and some other course that are hot cake in the oil and gas sectors but persons never thought of studying in school days

Lesbianism and homosexuality is a no no in Nigeria, so the woman has no right or what so ever to complaint openly for harassment, arrest the lesbian and send her to prison for 14 years

Lexus

There is no polite way my friend just ask your employer to pay and resign, some employer are evil, they rather make you work for free

I hope Hush knows what they call groundnut...hmmm oboy run for yah life and stop this unnecessary publicity, many pips got no chill, they will make u get down or stay down.

For those of us who works offshore, Glo is super fast but when u get back to town after work come the epileptic snail like network and data surfing. Solution is to have as many network as possible, swap to whichever is the strongest in town. I have Smile which works better in Asaba, MTN, Airtel and Glo as back up, the only problem is carrying three phone about

I have been married for seven years with two lovely kids but wife doesn't like sex..if its possible to trade wife's, life would have been sweet and simple. one man's food is another's poison, but man got to do what man got to do. Life goes on. just try and manage the situation like am doing mine.

In my own opinion this is one of the most unbiased assessment I have seen in ages, let the truth lead you at all time, forget religions, ethnic sentiment and political affiliations

Few years ago u said and still not married till date, u have lost a potential future hussy, hope u don't end up like some celebrities who think they can buy any man whenever the ready for marriage, ask well my dear they are loners till date, not even a boyfriend they call their own. Who knows if the guy wanted to know your kind of person

I don't feel sorry for him at all, rather it's a cause for celebration, he has been used to impeached legally elected local government chairmen in several LGA's. What you sow you shall rip. Rain no dey fall for only one person roof. Mtcheww

I feel you, this why I hate virgins, the minute u open the door for them the next thing is to try different joystick to know which better, however wait for Paternity test before you decide what to do next but for the time being stopping going to bed with her, if possible send her to live with her parents, explain your reasons politely, not that you don't love her but she broke your heart in two occasions, the clubbing thing and the fake pastor's call

He was never paying salary as at when due before the bombing started, these are just silly excuse, some Civil servant are still being owed since last year till date. 2019 is just is around the corner, your deeds will be the Judge. no tangible development and loans are being collected every now and then with no infrastructure to show for what the monies are being used for, Delta state capital is a write off among all the Niger Delta state, yet we get one of the highest allocation from both Federal and IGR

Dem say see Bishop you say see fada, you obviously don't understand spoken or sign language

This cant be true, did my Governor really say this, Bros where do you belong. amidst the killings in some part of the state. you are saying is unlawful to drive them away. I guess when eventually one of your directly relative is involve you will say a different thing, how about the king that was killed in one of your neighboring clan, does that not call for total evasion of the so call Fulani herdsmen. Irrespective of the fact you are trying to maintain peace,i wouldn't agree with you on this

Then Northern Elder should produce Boko Haram Kingpin and Sponsor, why is it that when its Niger Delta is a different strategy. Boko Haram are busy bombing and killing innocent people, no single Northern Elder has been called for questioning