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Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:49am On Apr 14, 2013
pleep: like i said, its because their government provides everything they need for free. It has nothing to do with feminism

here is a picture of the prison a skandinavian mass murderer is staying in:
that's why the world needs more feminism.
with feminism. men will be less violent and barbaric. they will be tempered by women's nature.
look at the areas of world with most barbaric men: Africa and middle east.guess what,they also have the least rights for women. what a correlation.
where there are more rights for women, their men are also civilized.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:47am On Apr 14, 2013
iceland also had the FIRST ever female president in the world. before other countries became brave enough to elect one.

pleep: The reason why people are happy in iceland and scandinavia has nothing to do with feminism.. its because the government pays for everyones school, healthcare, and even thier livelihoods if they loose their jobs.
and those are the things that affect women the most (children's education, healthcare etc). clearly, even their government is feminist.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:45am On Apr 14, 2013
pleep: Iceland has the highest divorce rate in Europe, as well as millions of bastard kids, extreme sexual immorality, and bare buttholes on T.V

Is that what womens liberation looks like?
duh. divorce is not always wrong. if they can have all those things and still be the best country in the world in terms of quality of life,then they are certainly doing something right.

infact, marriage may probably become a thing of the past in a few decades. who knows?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:43am On Apr 14, 2013
CAMNEWTON4PRES: Go there then can't u see we ain't the same..I don't think lions want to live like giraffes, so spare us and tell us what you are doing to improve your(Nigerian women) situation?
I live in the USA. duh
I wish I could but i'm not really sure what that will entail. I don't even know if they are racist or not. I will have to do a research on that.
CultureRe: A Breakdown Of The Black Man's Nature? by cfours: 6:41am On Apr 14, 2013
just a little bit.
but with black folks, I will pick up pace or even run sef.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:39am On Apr 14, 2013
^feminism is not about female domination. but if men are hell bound on keeping women down, then women will have no choice because it will be a zero sum game.

the ideal of course is 50-50 or as close to it as possible - like the icelandic people.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:36am On Apr 14, 2013
The Icelandic people are very correct in the head. No wonder their men and women live the longest, healthiest and happiest lives in the world! they read the most books and have the highest quality of life, breathe the freshest air etc.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/may/18/iceland
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 6:28am On Apr 14, 2013
pleep: I get the same impression to, women are starting to run through men like hoes.

I see that alot with attractive black chicks. They can have any dude they want, so they just pick a guy they are attracted to, bleep him and move on.

kinda sux in theory, but guys are getting laid much more now than ever before. If you are a skilled mack you can get astromonical numbers of attractive girls, especially in college.
hahaha isn't that what men have been doing for ages? why are you against women doing the same?
CultureRe: A Breakdown Of The Black Man's Nature? by cfours: 6:14am On Apr 14, 2013
The guy is ON POINT.
It's just that they were not raised in a proper family setting. hence their behavior.
most of them are raised in the streets. like animals.
so why won't they behave like animals? a common trait they have is impulsiveness/ seeking of instant gratification.

when I see two or more of them on the street,especially when it's dark out, I cross the street, and pick up pace. Just a safety precaution.
thank God for the police force.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Onila And Mr. Cork Are The Same Person (multiple ID) by cfours(op): 6:02am On Apr 14, 2013
MMM is another one of Cork's ID . how many does he have sef? He has the exact same style of single line double space posting with smileys at the end. His posts also tend to be stupid; he has atrocious spelling hence his sentences are short, simple and dumb. MMM's personality is alcoholic churchgoer. Cork is the light skin lover, Onila is the virgin. A true case of multiple personality disorder.

https://www.nairaland.com/m%20m%20m/posts
HealthRe: Meet Mikel Ruffineli - The Woman With The Biggest Hips In The World! by cfours: 5:56am On Apr 14, 2013
manpo2k: Vowing she’ll never diet, Mikel says her husband of 10 years, Reggie Brooks, 40, a computer technician, adores her figure. Mikel, 39, says: “I love my shape and I see no reason to diet because I don’t have health problems. I love Mexican food, English breakfasts and chips. My husband finds my shape sexy and we have an amazing time in bed – there’s no position we can’t do! He tells me I’m beautiful every day. Men don’t fancy skinny girls, they like an hourglass figure.”
lipsrsealed
CelebritiesRe: PHOTO: Charly Boy & His Entire Family by cfours: 5:53am On Apr 14, 2013
the guy is crazy,God knows. grin.. but this is one instance where I can awwww. the family pic is adorable. his mom especially is the coolest.
PoliticsRe: Picture Of Olusegun Obasanjo And Jimmy Carter by cfours: 8:20pm On Apr 13, 2013
scroll up to the top of the website, you will see a search bar there. jeez
all these silly people spamming the forum with the same topic.

https://www.nairaland.com/565641/photo-obasanjo-jimmy-carter
https://www.nairaland.com/1222368/picture-obasanjo-1978-jimm-carteramerican
https://www.nairaland.com/1222079/obasanjo-u.s-president-jimmy-carter
https://www.nairaland.com/1222108/pic-former-president-obj-us
https://www.nairaland.com/521085/obj-made-jimmy-carter-look
https://www.nairaland.com/1247292/picture-olusegun-obasanjo-jimmy-carter

Imagine, 6 topics created just for this silly pic!! and now you are adding your own.
I have attached a pic of the search bar in case you are blind and can't see it. mtchewww

Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 7:58pm On Apr 13, 2013
0lumide: The reason for female revolt in America was because American women were oppressed and were not economically empowered!!!
Who is Bilikisu? A matriarch in Yoruba land rich enough to be seen as the sole financier of her people.
Only a few "western" women can boast of what Many Nigerian women can boast of.
Nigerian women are powerful and economically endowed.
hehn hehn? na wa o. so it is men that should be revolting in Nigeria then.
women control all the wealth in Nigeria. nigerian men are oppressed and need to get their rights back from these economically empowered women.right?
wetin we no go hear for nairaland.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 5:11am On Apr 12, 2013
CAMNEWTON4PRES: Women are president in Africa
Prime minister
Women are leaders. In Africa ,in any fields..you need to wake up and catch up..if women are being mistreated in your ethnicity just tell us, because the kind of generalizations you are making sound ignorant.

You sound like there are laws in Africa putting women down or fighting their empowerment? huh huh

Women are worshiped and treated like queens in Africa. cool
if you are still in africa, then maybe you need to come abroad. then you will see that women have it much worse in africa.
even most of the so called president and leaders either schooled abroad or had parents who have been exposed to western ideas and motivate their daughters to achieve and be ambitious. ALL of the African female presidents are FEMINISTS
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 5:07am On Apr 12, 2013
pleep: hahaha just shut up c.fours... in skandinavia they had women vikings. Northern european women have never been oppressed.
you are beginning to sound like mr.cork.
scandinavian countries have better gender equality than any other part of the world. they also have better health, education, social, financial marks than any other parts of the world.
in fact, gender equality helps both men AND women (and the children that will grow up to take their place).
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 5:00am On Apr 12, 2013
pleep: The funniest thing is in areas like Skandinavia, where women have the most "equality" the feminists are the most angry and rabid.
you have to fight to keep your right. esp. when you only recently earned it.
Scandinavian countries also have the best quality of life, education attainment for children, health, happiness and pretty much everything else!
even men can take paternity leave from work! it gives women chance to go back to work earlier (things that contribute to wage gap) and also give men chance to bond with their kids. Scandinavian countries truly are on top of the world.

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/04/03/paternity_leave_in_iceland_helps_mom_succeed_at_work_and_dad_succeed_at.html
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 4:56am On Apr 12, 2013
CAMNEWTON4PRES: BLACK WOMEN CAN'T B FEMINIST, YOU CAN'T ADOPT AN IDEOLOGY THAT WASN'T MEANT FOR YOU.
to me, a feminist is an ambitious woman. There are many feminists out there. black feminists, white feminist,lesbian feminists, asian feminists,latino feminist etc. of course each has its own specific issues (ex. an asian woman's problems will be different from a white woman etc) but the underlying ideology is the same cool duh rights for women. simple as that.


feminists from around the world from Burma to Afghanistan to Haiti to pretty much all places where women exist. I will say Scandinavian countries (iceland, norway, finland, sweden) have the most gender equality. and guess which countries/ places have the worst. hahaha your guess is as good as mine! africa and middle east.
http://msmagazine.com/blog/2011/04/29/aung-san-suu-kyi-speaks-to-women-from-burma/
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/10/12/top-countries-for-gender-_n_760012.html#s154763&title=Iceland__1
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 4:47am On Apr 12, 2013
CAMNEWTON4PRES: WHERE IN AFRICA WOMEN HAD/HAVE CURFEWS? huh huh
do you even know what curfew means?
do you think it will be ok for a woman to come back home at 10pm and the husband will not beat her senselessly.
compared to a man coming home at the same time etc same kind of curfew you would place on your kids.
i'm sure things are changing now. especially in families where women are head of households and make more money than their husbands. that way they are freer to make choices.

of course in parts of africa that aren't influenced by the western ideas ,mostly muslim states, there are actual state curfews. ridiculous
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 4:29am On Apr 12, 2013
Black Kenichi: @c.fours:

How have men "dominated" over women throughout history?
is this even a question? or are you that ignorant?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 4:23am On Apr 12, 2013
^ I love how you are trivializing all my points. haha

replace woman with child. and you will see my point being that women were treated like children!
they had curfews and what not, had to ask permission to visit friends, had to even ask permission to buy sanitary pads. God forbid bad thing.

yea women are physically smaller than men but we don't live in hunter-gatherer society anymore.besides our child-bearing capabilities more than compensates for that.
look at the whole abortion issue in USA poliics. really all about trying to control women's wombs.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 4:16am On Apr 12, 2013
pleep: The wife beating etc etc, is highly exaggerated. That was never socially acceptable in the west, even when it was legal. Feminists also never tell you that while it was legal for a man to beat his wife...

It was also legal for the state to hang him for her crimes.

Feminism is all about telling half-truths to create an unrealistic image of gender relations throughout history.
LOL please don't make me laugh in chinese.
yes western men are generally more civilized and humane and don't beat their wives and kids as much as african. but the point remains. the white women didn't like been beaten (even if the beatings were infrequent compared to black women) and demeaned.

and this is another reason why i say the issues black women face are different or even much worse in terms of sexism. black women are exposed more to physical and sex[size=1pt].[/size]ual violence. compared to maybe white women whose main complaint was lack of freedom. etc.
all the same, the idea is that grown women do not want to live/be treated like kids! jeez

are there patriarchical husbands who are every woman's dream? i'm sure.
were there slave owners who were every black slave's dreams? sure.
but does that make slavery right? NO.
neither does it make male domination right.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Feminism - Why Women In General (especially Black Women) Have Been Duped By It!! by cfours: 4:02am On Apr 12, 2013
to me feminism benefits ambitious women or women who do not want to be treated like children. I am an ambitious woman and responsible adult so I 100% support it.

of course the white feminist movement of the 50s was different in terms of race. those white women were bored housewives in the suburbs who were dependent on husbands and terribly unhappy. in fact, most of them drug themselves daily with "mother's little helper" the pill valium!!! you can google it. The feminist movement was partially a reaction to that quest for freedom that they sought.

on the other hand, black women have been breadwinners for generations. working tirelessly everyday and most did not understand why a woman with a nice house and picket fence in the surburbs will want to fight for a right to join the work force.
the reality is, black women also face their own challenges. and there are plenty of ways that sexism exists in black society. but blacks weren't able to voice their own angst. or at least they didn't have the kind of platform that whites had. so they had the double whammy of racism +sexism. but all the same, I think feminism is a positive thing.

some still argue that blacks lived better lives as slaves. they had free food, most had nice owners etc. compared to the life they live now, jail, high poverty etc. so should we say that blacks have been duped by freedom?
sometimes, freedom is worth more than gold. that's why I support feminism. although most times you have to fight to keep your rights. women aren't completely free yet.
yea, I will have someone to "protect me" under patriarch. but the price I will pay will be my freedom. I refuse to be live perpetually like a dependent child.
who ever doesn't like it can move to iraq. where a woman can't even walk the street without being supervised by a man. your choice.
Imagine all the things like wife-beating will come back full force. if not for feminist movement. so many things that women take for granted nowadays.

you only have to read some literature to see the way women lived back then and think about if you will be ok with living that kind of life. esp taking for granted what we have so far.

no thank you.
PoliticsRe: Why Don't We Have BBC Igbo Or Yoruba Service by cfours: 3:42am On Apr 12, 2013
foolish topic.

it is cost-effective for BBC to do things the way it does. Yoruba and Igbo people speak english.
RomanceRe: He Called His Girlfriend "f0cking B1tch" @ The Subway by cfours: 7:47am On Apr 11, 2013
^ LOL. I am coming on to strong hehn? I'll lay off a little bit then... alrighty
CultureRe: The White Manz' Perception Of Black Beauty Is Different From The Black Manz by cfours: 7:37am On Apr 11, 2013
PhysicsQED: Your second picture didn't show up. But I looked at the imdb list. Mostly light skinned African American Hollywood actresses.

That's not my idea of what the most beautiful black women look like. But that's my personal preference and there may indeed be a lot of black men in America or elsewhere who think of that as their ideal.

I was agreeing with Sybellah, more than I was with Royal. Some of the African women featured as models aren't really gorgeous facially and I think it's deliberate.
k good for you. I read all issues of vogue and follow the fashion houses and can tell you that most of the african women there are very attractive. that's just my opinion of course.
I will choose them over that imdb list (mostly mixed women). in terms of representation of black women.
it's ironic but the truth.

i just choose a random woman from the list. happened to be sharon leal (half philipino).I'm sure she probably will not be considered attractive at all in the Philippines! LOL
although many on the list are probably half white.
CultureRe: The White Manz' Perception Of Black Beauty Is Different From The Black Manz by cfours: 7:35am On Apr 11, 2013
you need to explain what you mean by protruding jaws because I do not see any protruding jaws in any of those pics. post white and black models side by side and show us the difference in jaw protrusion that you are talking about.
until then, I call BS!!
CultureRe: The White Manz' Perception Of Black Beauty Is Different From The Black Manz by cfours: 7:23am On Apr 11, 2013
^ well, the topic does say that "the white manz perception of black beauty is diffeent from the black manz"
I personally side more with the white man's perspective. because well, I just find those kind of women more attractive looking.

I prefer this:
[img]http://4.bp..com/-Jj59el32hHE/Tp3HHk5d5aI/AAAAAAAACs0/UHac3KH_8_k/s320/Kiara+Kabukuru+4.jpg[/img]

to this (most black men's preferences):
full list here:
http://www.imdb.com/list/NWozs28qSNw/

it's called "50 sexiest black female stars"
and 2/3 of them don't even look black!

why because black women are supposed to be ugly? rubbish.
abeg leave the models alone jare. at least they all look african. unlike the so called black actresses and "models" promoted by black men. where 2/3 of them are mixed or don't even look black at all!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Onila And Mr. Cork Are The Same Person (multiple ID) by cfours(op): 7:05am On Apr 11, 2013
Chanchit: This Op na Octopus otepu. Their post/ideology is very opposite.
it's d same in opposite ways. each ID has different ideology but it's always the opposite of the same topic/subject line. and they way they post is also the same style. always one liners (mostly) and excessive use of smileys after each line. they will create tons and tons of topics about nothing really. there is no depth to anything they (the two IDs) say. their posts also border on being clownish
if you study the posts more carefully you will see it's the same person.

There are so many examples.I think it is prettyobvious. just click their profiles. they both have over 300 topics each!! that's A LOT of topics both of them are creating everyday. Onila has 600; Cork has 300 (but cork has been banned b4 so this is a second handle for cork). just go through their topics. so many similarities in their style of posting and the kind of topics they create.

https://www.nairaland.com/841857/pretty-girls-disadvantages-being-pretty-girl
https://www.nairaland.com/1119670/how-look-handsome-2013-5
CultureRe: The White Manz' Perception Of Black Beauty Is Different From The Black Manz by cfours: 6:45am On Apr 11, 2013
KidStranglehold: AA's are of the same stock as West and Central Africans...Stop being tribal and get over it.
AAs are mostly mixed (native american, caucasian etc) and space of over 200yrs. it is quite easy to tell most of them apart from africans. srry. even white folks can tell the difference.
so posting a pic of AA and using that as an example of an African doesn't fly. srry

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