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EducationRe: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by chaarly(m): 2:48pm On Jan 03, 2018
leksmedia:
I will blame the parents. So your child is studying in a University for 4 years and you don't think its important to visit the child at School.

here are things every responsible parent should do
1. Visit your in school at least 4 times a year
2. Pay surprise visits on weekends
3. Have their time table so you can easily predict where they are having lectures and pay them a visit during lecture (though I wont advise you go in to look for them, It can be embarassing)
4. Have people that can help you monitor them , be careful you are not putting them in wrong hands
5. Have someone old and responsible like a fatherly or motherly figure they can be accountable to, this has its own disadvantage too, you just
6. Call them often especially at night, you can easily track whether they are in or out
7. Be friendly with your children, give them some flexibility to express themselves

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my bro. . let's use ourselves as a case study. . not all these write ups to promote websites and blogs. pikin wey im mama and papa train well no fit go school go cast. . if at all e cast, at least he go come back with 3rd class or pass. but at all all my brother, this wan no be winch ooo na bad parenting since childhood. shikena
EducationRe: After Four Years In The University, No Certificate From Two Siblings by chaarly(m): 2:32pm On Jan 03, 2018

For if the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do? (Psalm 11:3)
As a parent or guardian, this is heartbreaking! but the parents/guardian are to be blamed! what did the bible say. . . Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
coming home with a 3rd class or even a pass is even better than coming home with no certificate at all. As a parent, if you have this type of children, then you have failed as a parent.
let me be frank with you (o na frank ke'onye) the only solution is 21days fasting and repentance, then maybe God will have mercy
HealthRe: Need Help On Sweating Hands And Legs by chaarly(m): 9:06am On Jan 03, 2018
1) STOP taking too much salt, say NO to sugar and sugar elements (coke, fanta and co.
2) Exercise to remove the ones already in your system, and don't stop exercising
3) Drink warm water
4) Eat fruits
5) use a cream that suits your skin type
CelebritiesRe: Lovely!! Mercy Johnson and Husband Distribute bags of Rice and Foodstuffs to Wid by chaarly(m): 2:06pm On Jan 02, 2018
Jamean:
Feeding the Widows, that's Charity. Posting the pictures, that's feeding your ego.
Word!
PhonesRe: Whatsapp Is Down Again by chaarly(m): 9:03pm On Dec 31, 2017
Beezally:
Same here oo. Why should this happen on new years eve hian
see this geh! so u still dey nairaland
FashionRe: Free Fashion Design Course. by chaarly(m): 3:20am On Dec 28, 2017
WisdonCouture01:
Am a woman no be guy.
ohh. . sorry about that ma'am
FashionRe: Free Fashion Design Course. by chaarly(m): 6:15pm On Dec 27, 2017
ahhh Bros thank you oo. . been looking for where to learn. I just acquired a manual sewing machine (butterfly), don't even know how to set it up. you can start by telling us how to set up a sewing machine Biko. wanna specialise in Male clothes only.
RomanceRe: Dating A Nigerian Man But Having Doubts About Him...Any advice? by chaarly(m): 7:53am On Dec 27, 2017
Corps1000:
I guess so but it's messed up. I am a nice person and don't deserve this undecided

And it's like why on the last day he ask me to come to Nigeria with him, which it seems he didn't go anyway. Like, just end it at that point. Loser.

I guess everyone can't be man enough. I dated an Indian guy for 1 month and I didn't see a future. I contacted him and told him our culture is too different and I wish him luck in finding a decent woman. I could have ghosted but I try to treat people the way I want to be treated.

Oh well.

Taking a break.

And you're right, soon enough i will forget about him.
you will dear.
and you know, there are some things that happens to us that we don't really deserve but I heard my pastor one day saying. . 'if it doesn't happen to you then who should it happen to? if u check it out, the setbacks we have at some occasions in our life are often times not compared to the comebacks we later achieve.

one thing is certain, you don't have to bother yourself. what's yours is yours, what's not is not!

Happy Holidays smiley
RomanceRe: Dating A Nigerian Man But Having Doubts About Him...Any advice? by chaarly(m): 7:38am On Dec 27, 2017
Corps1000:
Looks like my instincts were right! I actually met him on a online dating website.

Well, since Friday, he didn't hit me up. Even when I sent him a Merry Christmas text.

So, I actually went on the site we met and put in the zip code of the area he moved to on the day I left. His profile popped up and it was Active. He even said Kevin Heart was coming into town by the end of the week in his profile. Meanwhile, he is allegedly in Nigeria.

I tried calling him and his phone went straight to voicemail. I used someone's phone and it went straight to voicemail too.

His profile said he's new in the area. So, clearly this was all a game to him. Meanwhile he was talking about being exclusive by the 3rd date, and I wanted to hold off until I got to know him. Mentioning how his dad was strict on him. Paying for the rental when I came to see him, paying for dinner. Talking about school and his family. In terms of his family and school, everything checked out according to his Facebook and Linkedin.

I don't know why was he talking in a future sense if he apparently was gonna ghost on me.

I just don't get it because on my last day when I visited him, he mentioned coming to Nigeria with him. He even said if we lived together, it would be so fun. I even used his car down there, brought his to his job.

It's like what is the point of all this? And he's 35 years old, like wtf. But his facebook said he is still living here, but regardless that is clearly a new dating profile.

If he didn't think it was gonna work, then he should have been man enough to end it.
guess he isn't man enough after all. maybe he couldn't stand telling you in your face and just wanted things to unfold just the way it did so you'll get the message. and its not handwritten on the wall my dear. . he wrote it on your face. lol. move on, it's 4days to the New Year.
all this rubbish should end this year!
CrimeRe: Riot In Bwari Abuja Now by chaarly(m):
the scene alone is CRAZY!

heard it's hausa and bagyi people

#Lord help us
Christianity EtcRe: Share Your Christmas Selfie Here by chaarly(m): 9:48am On Dec 25, 2017
booked
Christianity EtcRe: Share Pictures Of Your Christmas Food Here by chaarly(m):
Merry Christmas Nairaland

RomanceRe: Dating A Nigerian Man But Having Doubts About Him...Any advice? by chaarly(m): 9:32am On Dec 25, 2017
I didn't read the full story buh. . see below

FamilyRe: Mother Ties Up Her Four Kids In A Viral Christmas Photo by chaarly(m): 9:27am On Dec 25, 2017
lovely family smiley
Christianity EtcRe: What's To Get Your Friends For Christmas by chaarly(m): 3:09pm On Dec 24, 2017
what about a student
Christianity EtcRe: "Leave Us The Sheeples (LUTS)" Campaign: By Emusmithy by chaarly(m): 2:20pm On Dec 24, 2017
rosita33:
it is people like you that deceives the weak. why not call a spear a spear instead of otherwise. let the truth speak. tell me what has your pastor done for the poor or how has he affected the lives of the needy, helpless and widows in your church?
so you're now the keeper of the truth and the eye opener of the weak. issokay
I only gave my opinion and you called me mumu blatantly.
madam Solomon issokay. keep wallowing in your wisdom.

your replies goes on to show that you possess no fruit of the spirit

#by their fruits you shall know them
goodbye
Christianity EtcRe: "Leave Us The Sheeples (LUTS)" Campaign: By Emusmithy by chaarly(m): 1:25pm On Dec 24, 2017
rosita33:
can someone tell this mumu to shut up. is God the one spending the money or the pastors and on what are they spending it? exotic cars, jets, their families and enriching themselves why members are suffering. if they want to build church, they will still tax the members for church building. if the money is for the church, why not take from the tithe and do that. thieves.
dearie, there are ways you can air your views without being insulting. on the other side, if your opinion is anything to go by, the mere fact of calling me 'mumu' makes your opinion worthless

#Shalom
Christianity EtcRe: "Leave Us The Sheeples (LUTS)" Campaign: By Emusmithy by chaarly(m): 11:25am On Dec 24, 2017
Flaghouse1:
Good thoughts ,the reason for the ranting may be because of the diversions of the tithes money by some unscrupulous elements in the church for personal use and in same vein enriching themselves,

I really like the part you mentioned :

what does 'meat' signify? quite a number of things. one of which is Abundance. why do you put meat in your stew or soup? because you have the money to. some people even go as far as including fish, kpomo, liver, gizzard, and the likes. The Church of Christ is not supposed to be lacking in anything. you are not paying your tithe to your pastor for God sake! you are paying it to God!!!!![/color]
Thanks bro, God bless
Christianity EtcRe: "Leave Us The Sheeples (LUTS)" Campaign: By Emusmithy by chaarly(m): 11:01am On Dec 24, 2017
jamp:
see hypocrisy........when you pay tithe you are paying to God not the pastor...but when Catholics go for confession you said they are confessing to priest and not God
brother,
the events following the death of Jesus may seem normal to you but however, in the spiritual realm, the significance cannot be overlooked.

the veil in the temple being torn from top to bottom signifies that we all have access to the throne of the father. it breached that bridge between the priest and the believer. well, confessing your sins to your priest may not be wrong in a sense because some persons feel they are not qualified to go before God's presence. however, because of Christ's death and for the fact that he died for everybody, you can go to this throne and ask for mercy. this is the privilege his death brought to us!
Christianity EtcRe: "Leave Us The Sheeples (LUTS)" Campaign: By Emusmithy by chaarly(m): 10:51am On Dec 24, 2017
manmoraskk:
Yes I agree with you , what is house of God ? CHURCH “ who is church me and you not only pastor or any daddy G.O , so my question, why is it that the meat that meant for all church, pastor, dickon, woman and men in the church. brethren..... Why is it that the meat is eating only by daddy G.O making them getting fatter and me producer of the meat getting slimmer. Kindly explain sir?
hello brother,
the fact is that. . whatever they choose to do with the 'meat' . . . this may not appeal to you but really, it's kinda none of our business! for instance, no one dares ask a native priest what he does with the sacrifice that is being brought to his shrine. the charge there is to bring the tithe to the store house. there's no clause which says. . . 'then follow it up to see what it will be used for'

yeahh, as a rational man, you should be kinda bothered about the 'meat' since you're also a family of God .hahaha. but however, in the affairs of God, we don't really have to poke nose. As to the men of God 'squandering' God's money, don't worry bro, on Judgement day, Books will be opened, and another book will be opened, . . . person wey e name nor dey there no go even see the fence of heaven takless of the heavenly barbed wire(smiles) also, the Bible has reiterated that. . 'many will say but Lord, I did this and that in your name but the most high will reply; I never knew you!
#shalom
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerians Would Never “Go Back To Their Huts” In Africa - Trump by chaarly(m): 8:00pm On Dec 23, 2017
Na our leaders dey cause all these tinz. dem go go obodo-oyibo come back. . instead of them to tap into the intelligence of those people they will come back and put only their house in order, loot more billions, go back there and buy houses for themselves and their families.
Baba Trump Biko just bear with us citizens. . no be our fault. if Na me go ur America I will never come back to my hut. e beta ma wash university of Oxford toilet for there than to wash UNIBEN toilet for this side
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Slams Nigerians For Not Returning To Their ‘huts’ After Seeing America by chaarly(m): 7:46pm On Dec 23, 2017
Na our leaders dey cause all these tinz. dem go go obodo-oyibo come back. . instead of them to tap into the intelligence of those people they will come back and put only their house in order, loot more billions, go back there and buy houses for themselves and their families.
Baba Trump Biko just bear with us citizens. . no be our fault. if Na me go ur America I will never come back to my hut. e beta ma wash university of Oxford toilet for there than to wash UNIBEN toilet for this side.
PoliticsRe: EXCLUSIVE: I Will Honor Youth 40% Of My Government- Atiku by chaarly(m): 4:16pm On Dec 23, 2017
Na so!!

politicians giving us shoot bird since 1999
Nairaland GeneralRe: PHOTO: Meet The Largest Cat In The World - A Liger (lion & Tiger Crossbreed) by chaarly(m): 3:50pm On Dec 23, 2017
shocked



this is massive!!
An animal is feeding more than an entire country in the West Africa. can you imagine!
TravelRe: Young Lady Travels Around Nigeria Via Train In 14 Days [photos] by chaarly(m):
Money good oo. . babe you try.
me. . if I get money eh, I'll visit all the states in America via ferrari within 30days
CelebritiesRe: Patoranking: "Snapping Pictures With Rich Men Doesn't Mean You Are Successful" by chaarly(m): 11:26am On Dec 23, 2017
yes oOo
while some take pictures with rich men in other to show off on social Media, others do so because the person inspires him/her. The pic is just a reminder that 'one day, iam getting there'
PoliticsRe: Governor Simon Lalong Buys Fuel From ‘Black Market’ Dealer by chaarly(m): 11:06am On Dec 23, 2017
shocked

haaa! Mr Governor sir, so you didn't loot money and build your own fuel station and hoard the product. wow! you try.
#who no go, no know
Christianity EtcRe: "Leave Us The Sheeples (LUTS)" Campaign: By Emusmithy by chaarly(m):
well, I'll make this as short as possible. I think the problem most people have with tithing is that they actually think that when they tithe they are enriching pastors and are left with nothing substantial for themselves. This is not the case! . . . "bring all the tithes into the store house that there may be 'meat' in my house". what does 'meat' signify? quite a number of things. one of which is Abundance. why do you put meat in your stew or soup? because you have the money to. some people even go as far as including fish, kpomo, liver, gizzard, and the likes. The Church of Christ is not supposed to be lacking in anything. you are not paying your tithe to your pastor for God sake! you are paying it to God!!!!!
CrimeRe: Woman Dips Her Stepson's Hands Into Hot Water For Eating Her Food by chaarly(m): 9:20pm On Dec 21, 2017
shocked
End-time woman!
Lord, when you come to collect your people, remember me oh Lord.
NYSCRe: Join 2018 Nysc Batch A (pcm) Whatsapp Group by chaarly(m): 7:32pm On Dec 21, 2017
09022962970
FamilyRe: Robots And Humans Will Have ‘BABIES’ And Create A New Hybrid Species In The Next by chaarly(m): 2:40pm On Dec 21, 2017
booked

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