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Romance › Re: Wow" She Is Too Pretty [pic Attached] by charlemon: 10:28pm On Jan 30, 2016

Sigh. The person that posted this has definitely not seen women at all. To describe this as too pretty. She is ok but not in any way too pretty even with the make up. This is a normal look (average) and I'm not hating. Just being sincere

Romance › Re: How Do I Tell Him That I Am Not In Love With Him? by charlemon: 2:43pm On Jan 30, 2016

Helloflife:
We started dating last year november.
We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me.
Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him.
I've found out we have literally nothing in common.

Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him.
He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt.

Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel?

Simple!!! I'm sorry but I cannot tell you this in your presence. You are a nice person and I really appreciate the time we spent together. However, if I am not honest it will be bad. I like you as a person but I do not have feelings for you that can result in a long term relationship. I'm sorry and didn't mean to hurt you but hiding this truth from you is more painful than pretending. I hope you understand and hold no grudge. God bless you and hope we remain friends.

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Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 1:02pm On Jan 30, 2016

seyibaale:
just imagine the statement coming outta ur mouth just over questions...and dis is someone you don't even know. ..u don't want a man to hit u? Control your tongue

Smh you are still embarrassing yourself. Go to a civilised country and hit a woman because you were arguing and feel you can say anything but she shouldn't. You think every country is like Nigeria where tradition has put women like items men own to control and treat anyhow they like. In 2016 you think you can hit a woman cos she said things you are not comfortable with? Infact try it with some NIGERIAN women and you will eat your scrotum and d*ck for lunch (you will regret your life). There is no reason to hit a woman. You can't even hit some men that talk to you anyhow but you have seen someone society has made you think is worth nothing. GTFOH with that your archaic mentality.

Romance › Re: Apparently My Bae Thinks Am A Nag....... Just Negodu by charlemon: 11:40am On Jan 30, 2016

Llanthony401:
How did you manage to twist my whole post upside down?

Lol ok bro. Sorry and respect

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Romance › Re: Apparently My Bae Thinks Am A Nag....... Just Negodu by charlemon: 11:23am On Jan 30, 2016

Llanthony401:
Am talking about matured responsible woman.
Not your regular run of the mill average lackluster chick

That's the word -"Responsible". They do it cos it is considered a responsibility and not cos they love it or it is their favourite place in the house. Some love to cook (same with men) while some don't. Cooking or having the kitchen as your favourite place doesn't make you or show responsibility in any form or manner. wink

Maturity isn't judged by being present in the kitchen. Lmao

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Romance › Re: Apparently My Bae Thinks Am A Nag....... Just Negodu by charlemon: 11:11am On Jan 30, 2016

Llanthony401:
Old habits die hard

You are finally startin to see you bae for what she really is.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you did, you should be bothered by her personal hygiene, now who would want to raise a child in that kind of environment? You only left for two week and your kitchen (a womans favorite place) is a mess.

Lol the kitchen is not a woman's favourite place. Infact a lot of women don't like to cook. They just do it cos they feel it is a responsibility

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Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 10:59am On Jan 30, 2016

johnson232:
lol...
u are the one embarrassing yourself...

why are u using embarrassing yourself as smokescreen?
i asked a simple question, answer it.

Smh I said no gender is superior to the other and you are here talking bout kings and queens and mammals. My goodness!!!! You are really embarrassing yourself. Firstly I asked you a question and you replied with a question. Is that an indication of a reasonable man? Smh

Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 10:53am On Jan 30, 2016

johnson232:
Is the king superior to the queen?

give three examples of mammals?

I was correct. You will definitely embarrass yourself. Smh

Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 10:31am On Jan 30, 2016

BumBae:
*gives him chair*
Sir u need cold drink while u wait . Cuz u gonna be her a very long time ..

Lol I'm patiently waiting to see what that MR man has to say

Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 10:27am On Jan 30, 2016

johnson232:
@bold, stop deluding yourself...

common sense should tell u both gender aren't equal...

it doesn't apply to humans alone, but all mammals...

Ok which is superior and what makes it superior.
Embarrass yourself with your answer. I am waiting.
By the way I didn't refer to animals when commenting. Humans and animals are in different leagues. Hopefully you won't use an animal to support your claim or you think the mentality should be the same with humans?

Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 10:04am On Jan 30, 2016

Please ignore those saying you should buy this or that for her. Do not set a precedent that will be a problem later. If you make it seem like she will receive gifts anytime you wrong her then it will be the case everytime. I suggest you win her back with a good attitude and later reinforce with a gift or an outing but make sure the good attitude is what she forgives and accepts you for. Don't make her materialistic by using gifts to bribe her. A smart woman will even take ur gift and still squeeze her face till you show her love from within. Lol

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Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 9:54am On Jan 30, 2016

phreakabit:
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Your wife is your partner not your possession. Sometimes the argument is necessary to show each other what is missing in the relationship. African tradition is built around selfishness of the male that's why you think it is ok for a man to hit a woman but a taboo for a woman to hit a man. No gender is superior to the other. Both are equal. Each is dependent on the other. Hitting your wife won't gain her respect. Respect from fear is temporary but respect that is reciprocal from respect given is permanent. Slapping your woman is as good as slapping yourself and your future. Mistakes occur but the acknowledgment and correction taken is maturity. A man controls his woman with wisdom and not violence

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Family › Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by charlemon: 9:40am On Jan 30, 2016

She won't leave you but she has noticed that she has the upper hand at the moment cos you are now very soft towards her and you are doing everything to please her and make it right. Therefore, she is taking advantage of the sweet treatment; she is enjoying the attention and your loving behaviour and attitude towards her so she is just playing "victim" for sometime to enjoy herself and the loving behaviour you are showung her. Don't be worried she isn't upset. Women dont stay angry at who they love for long. Keep giving her the warm and loving treatment. She is enjoying it and it will make her love you more over time. NEVER hit her again, it is disrespectful and belittling.

Note: she doesn't want space. She wants to see if you are really desperate to make things right. It is a kind of emotional blackmail. Women mean the opposite of what they say most times. Don't bring up the issue of the fight with her, rather do things you will do if you are trying to woo her. Show her more attention from genuine love and not cos u r trying to right a wrong. Trust me she will come around

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Romance › Re: Can You Get Married To Someone Of Same Age With You? by charlemon: 11:30am On Jan 20, 2016

veralu:
,My dear, I use to think age b4, until I dated a guy who was 10 to 15years older dan me, it was den I knew age was just a number, d guy was so useless and so dis focused dat he still stays with his mom and sisters who feed him, now my present guy is 2yrs older dan me and he is so matured and making 2 much sense, so dear, age is just a digit, if she makes u happy and has all d qualities u are looking 4, u beta go 4 it, she is ur friend and knows u wella,dats d most important tin

Hahahhahahahhahaha you have finished me

Romance › Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by charlemon: 11:21am On Jan 20, 2016

viktor01:
About one of the most sensible posts I have read.

"Everybody has a past,"

I hate this phrase, in as much as everybody has a past, the truth is that not everybody has a dirty past.

Some people's dirty past could make Satan jump

Mr viktor01, Everyone has a dirty past for your information. What you think isn't a big deal to you may be considered as a taboo to others. So do not ever think that the standard you use to judge an act is the universal one. The last time I checked, all sins are equal in the bible which means all are dirty to GOD the overall JUDGE

Romance › Re: When Your Beauty Becomes a curse. by charlemon: 9:27am On Jan 20, 2016

I don't know what planet most of you are on but from recent experience, the beautiful ladies are the ones with brains and ambition. Nowadays the beautiful ladies want to enhance themselves to the point of a man being there just for the sake of love, procreation and companionship. Most of the normal looks ( lemme not say ugly) are the ones I see getting married, sitting at home and producing babies as a job. Beautiful women are really beautiful physically, mentally etc nowadays. Trust me

*Note indecent behaviour and laziness is common among the beautiful and ugly.

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Romance › Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by charlemon: 7:33am On Jan 19, 2016

Please kindly ignore some aspects of comments such as "never date an undergraduate" , "Avoid long distance relationships" etc. These have nothing to do with discipline. A woman that's disciplined and loves you genuinely will definitely wait for you and guard her heart for you in various ways.
Every human (married and unmarried) come across an individual they admire for one thing or the other but genuine love and discipline is the difference here. It determines if they will court such temporal attraction or not.
Your girl isn't a baby and we do not know what has been occurring in your relationship. You may have quarrelled severally , she has seen something in you she doesn't like etc that has made her consider other men.
The first thing to do is to sit her down and ask her what she wants. Let her speak while you listen. If she says she wants to be with you then you let her know the conditions necessary to proceed with the relationship. If you notice she is sceptical or unsure bout the relationship; it is better you move on with your life. However, if you have no trust in her please just end the relationship if you don't want to turn to a detective all your life.
Do not be quick to action. Sit her down and talk. Let her do more talking while you do more listening. Ask her bout the person, laugh and tease her over it and you will hear some details that have been hidden. She will describe him either in the most loving manner or not, she will pause or smile when talking bout several things concerning him or she may do none of these and you will really know where her heart is. From there you can take your decision. Never end your relationship in anger or pain. Smile and let her see you leave quietly without any fear or pain (you can cry in ur house ooo lol). It will let her see that you know your worth and have self value and respect. Women are everywhere so take your time before making a decision

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Romance › Re: Benin Prostitute Disgraces Man For Failure To Pay After Romance (Photos) by charlemon: 11:56pm On Jan 09, 2016

The video of this stuff has been online for more than 6 years and it is now someone is posting it. I wonder what the op must have been searching for

Romance › Re: Long Distance Relationships? by charlemon: 4:35am On Jan 03, 2016

If you cannot be in a LDR with a person then it means several things.
1) you don't trust the person
2) you believe the person isn't disciplined
3) immaturity
4) incompatibility

Any relationship where one partner cannot patiently wait, trust etc for the other or where the life of the relationship depends on proximity is a useless one. You should be able to love someone regardless of the distance. Love isn't dependent on proximity. Smh

Business › Re: Ecobank Wants Court To Declare Oba Otudeko Bankrupt Over Indebtedness by charlemon: 3:05pm On Dec 08, 2015

SLIDEwaxie:
u're a dunce bro...

think fast...who is an idiot that throws all eggs in a basket? Your type!

the guy is worth billions of dollars and you think he used all his properties and companies for a collateral of less than 5billion?

Be great assured, Honeywell is no more making him proud, that is why...or better yet, this was his plan all along:

collect loan. set up Honeywell...now. sell shares (imagine the cash), then stop paying loan...rack up profit...let the banks have it.

he can't sell without the paying a loan he doesn't want to pay...why worry if u can keep the loan and let the bank worry abt a new buyer?

wake up, it 2015 baby!

He is not worth billions of dollars so stop exaggerating. Big men know how to package and this packaging has been copied by artists in the entertainment industry to deceive you they are actually worth something which they are not

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Education › Re: Priscilla Ephraim Best Graduating Student-engineering Project Mgt At Coventry by charlemon: 2:13pm On Nov 27, 2015

Walkopet:
C-rated or Z-rated, still far better than ur overhyped Unilag. Mind u, nt every1 have d cash to go to Oxford, manchester uni, or Imperial college. pls learn how to appreciate, 1st class no be bean bro.

Ignore that man. Coventry just won the Times higher Education award for "University of the year"

See pics of the schools that were nominated.

The information in the second pic even shows us that they have risen above many of the "Russell Group" institutions that envious individual was making so much noise about.

Don't mind that very envious and ignorant individual

Romance › Re: Pls!! Is My Girlfriend Using Me? by charlemon: 5:49pm On Nov 26, 2015

People are too stupid nowadays. If you are living with her why can't you marry her. Marriage does not have to consist of all those unnecessary spending people do in recent times. Just see her parents, go to the court and marry quietly and continue living together.

Since you don't have money yet, you should not have kids yet. The situation still remains the same as before (living together till financial breakthrough). The only difference is that the sex is now right in the ways of GOD and she won't resist or refuse you.

When you people make money, you can have a celebration of renewing your commitment in form of a marriage. This is too F**king simple except you don't wanna marry her

Family › Re: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by charlemon: 12:17pm On Nov 26, 2015

I wish I am the one in charge of sending Thunder to fire people. I would have generously sent 4 to fire the OP

Celebrities › Re: Freeze Coolfm Flaunts His N7m Rolex Daydate Wristwatch (Pics) by charlemon: 9:40am On Nov 24, 2015

Rubbish lies. Packaging will kill Nigerians. What do you mean by first NIGERIAN in Nigeria to own one? Because other people that own one did not see any necessity to go to the social media to display stupidity and pride does not make him the first. It may be fake or original no one knows. But if a thief or kidnapper corners that man today you will be surprised that he doesn't have even 5 million in his account. Humility pays. Ignorant youths of today

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Politics › Re: “buhari Was Accused Of N2.8 Bln Scam As Oil Minister” – Madueke by charlemon: 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2015

HALLOWED:
I don't understand how some of you reason at times. How is she trying to divert attention? Was that not an interview? How do you expect Obasanjo to accuse him where he was an accomplice to the crime? That is by the way.

To Allison's case, I have not seen any thing wrong by denying allegations placed on her. I support APC and zero tolerance to corruption. Let everyone with corruption dent be probed. In fact I am losing patience waiting to see substantial evidence against this woman. I can't wait to see her and some others prosecuted but then government should hasten the process. People are getting tired of reading online prosecution and media blackmail without factual evidence.

If they decide to probe without being partial, everyone from the lowest level of government, the house of rep and assembly to the president will end up in jail. NIGERIA's politics is just a game of interests . How can someone say he wants to fight corruption but his campaign team that brought him to power is filled with people that own all the properties in Nigeria but the source of wealth and income cannot account for it. You people really have time for this country's leaders. One day God will release that Angel of death he used to free the Israelites from pharaoh in Egypt on Nigeria. Then we will be free. Not praying for anyone's death ooo but those people responsible for the suffering of Nigerians will soon pay. APC or PDP any name you call it, there is no difference. Pour stout inside a Ribena bottle that's empty and tell me if the taste changes cos the bottle is different. God help us

Gaming › Re: Please Can These My Pc Play High End Games by charlemon: 1:19pm On Nov 20, 2015

mayhead:
And why can't it play it

No need to argue. Try it

Gaming › Re: Please Can These My Pc Play High End Games by charlemon: 5:36pm On Nov 19, 2015

Singapore1:
i dont think yu get me at all

Ok sorry bout that

Gaming › Re: Please Can These My Pc Play High End Games by charlemon: 4:17pm On Nov 19, 2015

Singapore1:
now you didnt get my point in the first first, i didnt mention the resolution, i know he can play on medium settings but certainly not on full screen bro

Bro there is a difference between the resolution and full screen. The resolution of 1024*768 is as good as playing a PS1. Images will be crappy and lines and edges will be jagged. If he decides to select medium settings alongside that resolution it will still be total rubbish like a ps1 (I still believe he won't be able to play it). Let him try it and send us a screenshot. I'm very sure of what I'm saying.

Gaming › Re: Please Can These My Pc Play High End Games by charlemon: 3:56pm On Nov 19, 2015

Singapore1:
if i can play witcher 3 low settings on nvidia gt 460 core i7
why wont he play it on medium, guy dont assume, let him try it am 100 percent sure
besides his system is 3rd generation

I don't assume. I run all my games using fraps. Well this is a pic of low on a resolution of 1024*768 with processing and graphics set to low on witcher 3. 12.1 frames per second!!!! If he drops the settings further and miraculously gets higher frames it will be like a game boy or Nintendo 64. No jokes

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Gaming › Re: What Pc Do You Game On Nairaland? by charlemon: 3:17pm On Nov 19, 2015

AdeLaNa1:
Impressive setup. That GPU is old, but its way better than wat most of us ve on dis thread.

If u dont mind, how much u got ur pc?? Coz i know MSI lapops don't come cheap

I got it around 1200+ pounds some years back.

Education › Re: Priscilla Ephraim Best Graduating Student-engineering Project Mgt At Coventry by charlemon: 1:25pm On Nov 19, 2015

TruthHurts1:
I tire for Nairlanders O! They will find fault in anything NO MATTER HOW GOOD! If Jesus walks on water, Nairalanders will say it's because he can't swim!

Thank you and GOD bless you for this comment.

Education › Re: Priscilla Ephraim Best Graduating Student-engineering Project Mgt At Coventry by charlemon: 1:09pm On Nov 19, 2015

SSGUniport:
Typical display of Juvenile Delinquency...

Run along kid, go and play with your video game, and while at it, try and grow some sense!

Why should I google unis in the UK when I've already mentioned few Russell Group Unis in the UK for you...

You dey make noise say you finish from Coventry, what would you have done if you finished from Imperial or University College

No matter how you paint it, Even Aston is far better than Coventry! At least the few Aston students I know won't even grade Coventry as C-Grade Uni.

Well if you want to meet me in person Coventry is less than 40 minutes from New Street, send me your address and I'll be there!

Lmao. Like I said "Get sense or die trying"

I actually love video games.

What's the name of the uni u will graduate from in December?

You can't even mention your name but you want me to tell you where I live? It is obvious that you are among some Nigerians that gallivant..........definitely a Vagabond. Lmao

I said you are doltish ( an understatement ) and your comments confirm it. You know people that have achieved and yet you think it is right to undermine people's achievement. Lmao you are just a bush-league individual

*NOTE* "GET SENSE OR DIE TRYING"
I'm sure you will die trying but the least you can do is try. Do not be envious. Lmao

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