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The deep piercings of her penetrative gaze.. Bold but calm and lovely

iceberylin:
Some goats will be sending PM

Bros, your comments sha.. Which world you come from self? Lmaoooo

If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don't. It's not that complicated. Love, in most cases, betrays the one feeling it. Don't waste moments waiting and wondering. Don't throw away your time dreaming of someone that doesn't want you. No one is that amazing, certainly not the one who would pass you up.

We must not promise what we ought not, lest we be called on to perform what we cannot perform. Remember, trust is built through a series of experiences shared with others. When behaviour is consistent, faith in the relationship develops. When promises are broken or people are misled, the bonds of trust are breached. Broken promises imply that the offenders either didn’t think before making the promises, or don’t care that they’ve let you down. They’re also implying that their needs are more important than yours. So, be careful about the promises that you make and with whom you make them. Never promise the moon if you can’t keep a promise, don’t make it next time op.

I dedicate ''Undone'' by ''Haley Reinhart'' to all Nairalanders

Bed-time stories

Op, I don't know what to say sha ohh but some ladies these days will just paint themselves to the extent of looking brighter than your future.. The tin dey tire me sometimes..

elantraceey:
Why do i feel your story is fake

Cos my dear, I've was once in a bloody mess like that. Luckily I'm still alive till now and I give God the glory for that. Don't ask why or what happened..

When a man stares and gawks, and makes obvious his sexualized thoughts, that’s a problem. That’s what makes a woman uncomfortable. She feels reduced to a thing. Her only involvement in the moment is to give the viewer pleasure. Her space is invaded by his eyes as they reduce her to naughty bits and pieces. I totally get that. No one wants to make a woman feel that way. Well, I certainly don’t because Beautiful women are like flowers, they turn to the sun. But if they don't receive a certain amount of attention, they wither.

I think that, because things are handed to them and people fawn over them, they also feel they don't have to be universally courteous - only to people they choose to be. Just my own opinion.

Now - to answer your question- Yes there are shallow guys who will judge a girl's attractiveness based on her appearance only. And that's fine, because I suspect you wouldn't want to be involved with them either or otherwise. But, them aside, there are A TON more of other guys who know what's important.
To me, a girl's attractiveness is a combination of many things. Physical appearance, confidence, intellect, attitude, values, etc. Some Guys might not be able to articulate why they are interested in you, but it's a combination of things, it's not an"either, or"situation. You will become far more attractive when you are comfortable in your own skin. Now I know this seems like a lot to ask especially when you are so young. But confidence glows. Nothing is sexier than a girl who knows who she is and what she is about. Don't sweat the small stuff you have. No one can really pinpoint the reasons why things happen or do not happen.
you don't get a bf just to get a bf. Things happen on their own time. Just work on facing your insecurities and developing yourself first.

To be exempt from the passions with which others are tormented, is the only pleasing solitude. My own opinion

There is trouble ohhh

Op, get yourself a Therapist.

There is real magic in enthusiasm. It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment.

olas24u:
Wishing you well!
All the best

You too Miss Ola

olas24u:
You are finished if this is your mind set,get an education and you can find yourself within.it is never over for any body.No champion for ever ,the champions come and go.

. Ola, for the records, I'm not finished. I've got the best education a parent could offer and I thank God for that. Also, I'm living well, having a good time with my family too- btw, what I'm trying to say is that why insulting one another when everyone has the right to say whatever he/she likes. You see, there is real magic in enthusiasm, It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment. I hope you get that..

Those 5 kids who took an oath not to tell anyone about what happened are strong-hearted mehn.. They can kill someone if they are provoked..

I wonder why some NL's would insult each other just because of someone who they will never ever meet in their life till death do them part. Still wondering smh...

Sometimes I wonder why some NL's insult each other online just because of some one they would never meet till death do them part. Smh sha

The one I hate most is when those Edegbe and Ohonba line buses overtake you and put on their double sign inviting you for ''Need for speed hot pursuit''.. Nearly had an accident running on 180km/hr with those 2 buses recently if not for high way patrol officers who stopped us that day.. See passengers insulting drivers and even me too join my own car ohhh. say I be devil incarnate..

Hmmmmm

Op, just let him be and live your life man.. Next time never ever get close to your friend's girl. It's very dangerous and it results to envy.

Tinubu:
Nigerian police sha....



Sometimes I feel that a major criteria which has to be fulfilled in order to get into the Nigerian Police force, is to discard your brain and conscience ....

Bro, the funniest part was that when angry mobs were searching for valuables in the van, all they could find was some wrapped weed and squadron drink(the big-sized bottle... Just imagine

The accident occurred at exactly 12 noon, when a police hilux-van was on a high speed chase with a toyota camry owned by some street guys who saw the police patrolling and decided to make a run only for the van to hit a commercial bus. The conductor of the bus was in pains as his leg was broken and a pregnant woman at the back of the bus is still unconscious along with some other passengers. The police quickly made a run for their dear lives as angry mob decided to set the van ablaze.. Pics below

Lmao, some people are so wicked... Make una free the girl joor abeg..

My own rule- In anything you do or say, never get caught..

Most people think I'm wicked and evil.. Btw it's awesome when one can't predict your next move. Nonetheless I'm cool but never you mistake my silence for weakness, cos no one plans a murder out loud.

Cheating is a common problem in many relationships. When one partner discovers that the other is cheating, there are heart-wrenching emotional effects. Unfortunately, cheating cannot always simply be defined as having sex with someone outside of your relationship.

1- Physical Cheating
Simply put, physical cheating is the act of being sexually intimate with someone other than your spouse or significant other. It is one of the most common forms of cheating. Although physical cheating is common among men and women, it seems to affect men and women in different ways. Men view physical cheating as a form of physical rejection. Women, on the other hand, may be more likely to see beyond the physical indiscretion if they perceive that emotions were not involved.

2- Emotional Cheating
Emotional cheating may include physical intimacy but not necessarily so. Emotional cheating may begin as an innocent friendship. Eventually, an emotional cheater finds herself intimately confiding in the person, sharing thoughts, dreams and an emotional closeness that would normally be reserved for her mate. In some ways, emotional cheating is more crippling to a relationship than physical cheating. With physical cheating, the cheater may still feel emotionally connected to her partner and may only be seeking to fulfil a sexual fantasy. With emotional cheating, however, the cheater's heart may no longer be in the relationship. And most ladies are guilty of the emotional cheating.