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Women- Strange, Complicated and Mysterious creatures.. The more you try to figure them out, the less you know about them..

Op, sometimes a mild degree of realistic jealousy is necessary and may serve to protect a relationship, but the other edge of the sword is that individuals consumed or obsessed with jealousy may become destructive of themselves, the relationship, or their partner and the problem arises when aggression and/or violence accompanies the jealousy. Once you've reached this stage, you obsessively begin questioning her loyalty to you, and that sends you into a rage, maybe even causing you to use physical force. Just try to talk things with her.. She needs your time but has no clue how to pass the message to you man.. Ladies- very funny beings

Lmao... Op, when you said war, I was expecting to see guns, swords and all that kung-fu stuff

Op, Most people think that money is more important than a relationship. Those who think the same don't have good life in terms of relations. Money is just a need, relations are the support to make you grow in terms of everything. According to me MONEY IS NOT AT ALL IMPORTANT over relationship but In the present era we are now, without money we can't even think to have a relation with someone especially if you are a male.,.. But the problem is when poverty knocks at the door, love flies out the window!!!!

Love at it's peak.. Rotfl

As a kid, when my mom would quietly walk into the room and instead of waking me up, whisper"It rained baby, schools are closed, go back to sleep."The content feeling of drifting back off and knowing what a fun day of hot fried pancakes was easily the best feeling in the world. Mum, you rock. Love you so much

Friends by day, and make out partners by night. No clear direction of where the relationship is headed, or if there’s even really a relationship at all. Free to call themselves “single,” yet completely attached to a relationship that sometimes feels like an addiction.
Lust, sex, and physical passion—masked behind the normalcy and innocence of a “friendship.” Op, I think it's time to ask yourself who this relationship is actually benefiting.

Thank God no life was lost.. Some drivers sha

Quarrel everywhere... Walks outta thread

God help us... Man's Inhumanity To Man, where is the love? Smh

Op, never trust anything that can think for itself if you can't see where it keeps its brain.. There's a saying that be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt..

Any woman who you have to spend money on to impress is not really a woman. And any man who has to spend money to impress a woman is not really a man.

Btw, What good is money if you don't spend it? If a woman is special, it is effortless to spend it on her. Women spend their money on you as well. Teamwork, my friend, teamwork.

Enegod:
she gave me a designer watch, Rolex GMT Master II worth $33,000 You girls should also start to give expensive gifts
So, what did you give to him?

.. I saw her buying singlets, boxers and handkerchiefs for her boyfriend..... I wonder if her boyfriend is a cultural dancer.. Smh.../

Old pics... Not funny

EgusiSoup:
She's also a girl and she has her own path to tread upon. I won't defend evil even if its my sis.


All I want to know is what else can they offer?

There are many things a lady can offer if you learn to appreciate them don't try to read them... You see Ladies are like abstract paintings, you'll never get to understand them but you'll love them cos they're beautiful and magnificent

Op, not all girls.. Same thing can be said about your sis... Remember

Hahahah.. These are mates from the coven na

Really

Keep yourself busy with anything you love most or take a sleeping pill... Kidding ohhh, don't try it ohh..

bebe2:
dat looks like ............

Squirting kitten right?

Nothing wa person nor go see for NL these days.. Waiting for a counter-thread...

To me the biggest mistake a man makes in a relationship is falling in love blindly without using your head...

Op, you've made some good points.. You see, sometimes in life Younger women are drawn towards the sense of stability and security that an established older guy can offer, same thing goes with some younger guys find it easier and stress free to communicate with a lady when she's in her prime..

Just me alone

Tales By Moonlight

It's always the cute guy that walks up to you to tell you my friend likes you and then points to a dragon..

Op, I have 3 suggestions
First, I’d ask you to consider your boyfriend’s history with this girl. For example, if the two of them are family friends who’ve been playing Ali Simbi together since 1st grade, their sibling-like relationship should be less worrisome. Similarly, if they’ve already tried dating in the past, and your boyfriend was the one to bow out, it’s not as likely that he’s looking to rekindle. I would be much more suspicious if this “best friend” of his was someone he once met while cruising Looking For A Girlfriend .com, and has yet to experiment with romantically. You have to weigh all the circumstances before jumping to any conclusions.

Secondly, the resolution of this predicament is also dependent upon your individual personalities. Do you often tend to get jealous? Consider what else could be fueling your feelings before accusing your boyfriend of infidelity. On the other hand, it’s just as important for you to be able to trust him. If you don’t have any reason to suspect something beyond what he tells you, the problem could be inside your head. And if you don’t trust him, he might just not be the right one for you in the first place!
However, regardless of whatever is actually going on here, you should not be lying to him. If his hanging out with his friend bothers you, you need to let him know. Not that you should ambush him or tear him a new one on channels TV–but sit him down for a calm, mature conversation about how their interactions make you feel. It’s amazing how many relationship issues can be solved by simply communicating openly with your partner. If he’s a mature, decent guy, he should be able to convincingly reassure you of exactly why there is nothing to worry about!

Lastly, I still think it's unhealthy because you might never tell when the green mean monster in you might unleash itself and do something nasty and that's ''Jealousy''.. Thank You...

As for me, playing these games- ''God Of War Ascension'' and ''Last Of Us''

Op, if you're not comfortable with it of which I know you might have second thought about accepting it, then just say ''NO'' ..keep it simple and stay away from anything drawn out. This shouldn't be a melodrama. A quick, I'm sorry but I cannot accept this or you're very kind but no thank you is all there is to it. The need to explain away why you came to this determination is not necessary. Stand firm. If he truly cares about you, he will fully understand and move on...

What does the trick for me is when she's chubby and curvy and in her night wears... Damn