Romance › Re: What Is Wrong With Me! My Relationships Don't Last Up To 3 Months by Charleshafo(m): 5:18am On Jul 28, 2025 |
Sorry for the disappointment.
What I deduced is that she called you to be in relationship with you so that you can start taking care her responsibilities. Unless you have special connections with her and you feel something great for her, that's just a big red flag.
Someone who does not see you as partner and sees you as only responsibility carrier is a NO for me. Love yourself first, be kind in your little way with people, and keep hoping for the best to come. |
Nairaland General › Re: Nigeria's First Licensed Banking App For Teenagers, Alat Xplore App by Charleshafo(m): 5:24pm On Oct 26, 2024 |
Meadowws: An eye opener for those teenagers in osun, Ilorin and Ogbomosho that are already into Yahoo. Them go show this people shege by hacking and transfer cash 🤣🤣🤣 Try to be reasonable for once |
Romance › Re: Old Discord Accounts Needed by Charleshafo(m): 6:40pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
08107939819 |
Family › Re: What Is The Common Regret People Have As They Get Older? by Charleshafo(m): 4:58pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
Mostly in terms of decisions they made in the past about their choice of career, marital, investment and misuse of significant opportunities Zanzibar1: What Is the Common Regret People Have As they get Older? I saw this post on a foreign group on fb. I must say it has opened up my heart to learn.
I thought it would help the younger folks to learn and work on some patterns in life. People that replied that post were 45 years and above |
Politics › Re: Obaseki Inaugurates 34 Ssas, 152 Sas, Charges On Grassroots Devt by Charleshafo(m): 5:27pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
South West keh! Neduzze5: Wike don give am expo.
E dey prepare for the upcoming election.
All these South West governors sef. |
Politics › Re: Benedicta Daudu Makes SAN Rank Shortlist After Exam Malpractice by Charleshafo(m): 9:55am On Sep 16, 2023 |
Exactly, she has been duly punished for her offence. OgbeniOja1: Hasn't she suffered enough for this offence. She was suspended, she lost her political appointment. Abi do you prefer for her to be killed for this one offence |
Politics › Re: Minister-Designate, Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo Resigns From The House Of Reps by Charleshafo(m): 10:53am On Aug 21, 2023 |
Bye election will be conducted to fill the vacant position. SMARTMOTORS: So who will take over the seat?.... The 2 runner up? |
Sports › Re: Taiwo Awoniyi Welcomes Baby Boy After His Goal Against Arsenal by Charleshafo(m): 2:39pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Congratulations |
Politics › Re: Gov. Seyi Makinde Nominates Promising 27-year-old Bushirah As Youth Commissioner by Charleshafo(op): 9:52am On Aug 04, 2023 |
Maybe there is able hand to fill the ministry already Xscape1993: Why not move her to health? Congratulations to her anyways!! |
Politics › Gov. Seyi Makinde Nominates Promising 27-year-old Bushirah As Youth Commissioner by Charleshafo(op): 9:16am On Aug 04, 2023 |
Meet Governor Makinde's choice for Commissioner of Youth & Sports Atunwa Bushirah Omolara, hails from Ward 6, Ibarapa East Local Government in Oyo State. Her father, Alhaji Atunwa, is a prominent politician in Eruwa. She studied microbiology at the University of Ilorin, Ilorin. Additionally, she holds Master’s degrees in environmental biology and public health from the Federal University of Technology Akure, Akure. Oyo Tribune https://www./1034256786680325/permalink/6168512233254729/
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Politics › Re: Kogi Guber: Gov. Adeleke Leads 120-Member Campaign Team For Melaye(pics) by Charleshafo(m): 1:09pm On Aug 01, 2023 |
Why comparing Lokoja with Ogbomoso? Ozommadu: Yeye bello the criminal and Apc have really destroyed kogi state, no single development.
Imagine lokoja capital city looking like ogbomoso...God forbid Apc in kogi again. |
Politics › Re: OYO NLC Takes A Lead To Protest Against Hardship Result Of Subsidy Removal. by Charleshafo(op): 1:07pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Long overdue MXrep: Oyo and Osun shut down. Ronu land is burning to ashes |
Politics › OYO NLC Takes A Lead To Protest Against Hardship Result Of Subsidy Removal. by Charleshafo(op): 12:50pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Happening now: Oyo NLC block Secretariat entrance, demand to see Governor Seyi Makinde!
#Freshvoice #NLC #oyostate #protest
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Career › Re: I Am Japanese I Am Doing Research On Nigeria For Work. by Charleshafo(m): 7:27pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Is advisable you prepare a questionnaire and share here for filling. You can create google form or any other online form for it. |
Career › Re: I Am Japanese I Am Doing Research On Nigeria For Work. by Charleshafo(m): 7:24pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Most Nigeria ladies do teaching jobs, fashion designing, secretary works and the likes |
Romance › Re: Help! I Can't Stop Masturbating To Pictures Of My Ex by Charleshafo(m): 11:40am On Apr 27, 2022*. Modified: 1:12pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Until you see her as someone that can hurt you, the thing will continue |
Christianity Etc › Re: Those Who Lived Wayward Life In School Get Better Opportunities Than Church Goer by Charleshafo(m): 4:17pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Based on observation, I deduce this:
1. Many churchy students have below average social skill 2. They tend to mostly believe in God but doesn't take action 3. They are too real to believe in terms of character, so people tend to doubt their character 4. Most of them do a triangular activities (from home to church, to school to home. 5. Most of their dressing are bad.
Just need to work on social skills and dress up. |
Career › Re: Which Course Is More Lucrative To Study In Nigeria? by Charleshafo(m): 3:09pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Ask yourself this question? What is my goal in life?
Also consider these factors:
1. Interest 2. Mental ability 3. Financial ability 4. Personality type.
I believe if you explore the above points, options will come to your heart. |
Sports › Re: Haruna Babangida Accuses Nuhu Falalu, Kaduna Judge Of Shaving His Head by Charleshafo(m): 8:39am On Jan 20, 2021 |
Even if he haven't contributed to Nigeria, the judge doesn't have power to call him such name and cut his hair. Sentiment and religion extremity has turned them to beast. This is one the reasons why it will be hard for Nigeria to work again. No respect for human dignity and worth at all. Hope they won't carpet this case too.
What contribution? Has he played for Nigeria before or is it because he lived in Spain? Tell me |
NYSC › Re: Can NYSC Grant A Permit For A Wedding? by Charleshafo(m): 3:53pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
Take along your wedding invitation letter and pictures of your introduction and schedule appointment with Camp Director or State Coordinator. I believe they will grant your request if you can defend your claim. |
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Travel › Re: Italy Tourists & Family Reunion Visa by Charleshafo(m): 9:42pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
Yes, she's right, the best embassy you can apply at is Germany embassy. Try to look for the tourist visa requirements on their embassy site. |
Career › Re: My Mother Talent Is Wasting Please Help Us Out by Charleshafo(m): 8:03pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mama has interest in music which is cool. She should retain her business for now while she gather little money to enter studio. It is also advisable that she get herself acquitted with people in the same music business around there. Promotion and other things will come afterward. |
Travel › Re: Introduction - The diary of one of many tired Nigerians by Charleshafo(m): 6:04pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Thanks for sharing your experience. We await your new post. oludanobi: [size=8pt][/size]First Post :
I started this journey 20 years ago but didn't leave Nigeria for another decade.
I could list many reasons but overall the decision to leave was because I believed there was more to life than the country could offer by the time I left I had a stronger feeling that the country could only get worse . Unfortunately I've been right till date , the country has unarguably and unbelievably gotten worse.
About myself , you can call me Olu ( my online persona) and I would rather tell my immigrant story than allow someone else . I'm doing this in fulfillment of 2 things I enjoy , photography and writing. I'd be sharing my story across multiple phases , a few continents , reflecting giving the gift of hindsight and traveling back and forth in time touching various topics.
The plan is to post at least once a day , please hold me to that if I slip, feel free to share your story too 
You may also follow me on IG:@Olu_dan_obi
There is no structure so anything and everything goes.
Enjoy the ride !!! |
Politics › Re: Obaseki’s University Of Ibadan Certificate Different From Other Alumni - Oshioke by Charleshafo(m): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Na wa for them o, they must keep bringing allegations to ensure their loyalty to their masters. |
Politics › Re: Are There Any Economic Implications Of Sharing Money To Nigerians This Period? by Charleshafo(m): 8:36pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
Is it advisable to allow people to die of hunger? You don't talk about economy when the basic needs (food) has not been met. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pillowcases Full Of Snakes Keep Getting Dumped Outside A UK Fire Station (Pix) by Charleshafo(m): 8:19pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Abeg jump Sikay19: Lala kind of thread. If this thread does not make fp i will jump down from center table |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pillowcases Full Of Snakes Keep Getting Dumped Outside A UK Fire Station (Pix) by Charleshafo(m): 8:17pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Abeg jump |
Music/Radio › Re: Grammy Awards: Billie Eilish Sweeps Five Awards, Sets New Record by Charleshafo(m): 12:22pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
Apology for trying his best? NwaAmaikpe:

Burna Boy should be ashamed of himself. He couldn't clinch just one but a teenager has a deadweight of 5! If he has any decency, he should know he owes all his fans an apology.
Just like Angelique, Billie didn't need to wear blings, brag over millions of Instagram followers or flaunt a celebrity partner. She learnt from Ed Sheeran and simply focussed on creating better music than the world was already used to.
The millions of Instagram followers our Nigerian musicians command and the lavish lives they flaunt is the only reason most American artistes agree to stoop low to feature them and not their talent. Beyonce will rather feature a Wizkid on her album than an Asá or a Lagbaja because they are also in showbiz for more publicity.
But if she were on a Music Award panel, she'd pick Asá over a Wizkid. That's the sadly true reality. |
Romance › Re: Bride In Tears As Husband Cancels Wedding A Day To The Wedding by Charleshafo(m): 11:58am On Dec 31, 2019 |
I can't blame the guy for not marrying the lady for her misdeed. Even if the guy marries her, the trust and love might not be in the relationship.
Notwithstanding, the guy shouldn't have kept it long before blowing the whistle that he no more has interest in the marriage. No one is perfect in life. The more you pay back evil with evil, the more your heart grows evil.
The trauma will always linger in the heart of the bride, her family, groom's family and even the groom. |
Travel › Re: I was Refused Canadian Visa Because I "Supposedly" Withheld Information by Charleshafo(m): 10:51pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Request for GCM note first for you know the exact reason for the ban, and if you are given privilege to appeal, look for a good Immigration lawyer to file your case. Is better you start now because it might be difficult to get Canada visa even after the expiration of five years ban. |
Career › Re: My Experience With Going Back To My Former Workplace. by Charleshafo(m): 8:25pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
I want to encourage you for the courage to speak out.
Basically, most Nigerians employers are creating jobs not to help the employee but to enrich themselves only. Right from the start you are not supposed to inform her that you will be leaving soon.
2. Depression is one of the major factors for forgetting things easily, most especially at work place. I can remembered all I went through when I was suspended for 2 years in school. You need to be open for help, move with good friend and truthful spiritual people that can help you. I pray God will help you to overcome it.
3. Helping the children to do art is not something bad. They don't appreciate you today, doesn't mean people outside will not appreciate. Think of how to make money out of your talent and learn to improve. You are too big to be irrelevant. You are always on point.
If the school still need art service, they will call you and it will be strictly on business |