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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Atletico Madrid Vs Chelsea :UCL (1 - 2) On 27th September 2017 by CHARLOE(m): 8:00pm On Sep 27, 2017 |
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Crime › Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by CHARLOE(m): 2:08pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Lalas247: What basic need so one night is too much to think with his brain Look she may just want company yall need to get it your head company doesn't mean sex ... being there for someone doesn't mean sex Even if he wasn't thinking about it doesn't he have any pride .. he is cheap sorry
So crying mean u must bang her ... even if she begged for it I know guys that will never in the morning they can discuss it and if that's wt she really wanted it could have still happened .. why not wait
Lots of decent guys out there won't touch her till she has calmed down and thinking again Cc djeezy How old are u? Listen young man, if he did not bang her rumours will start flying round d nebourhood that he's gay/impotent, except she no b naija babe. |
Romance › Re: EXPOSED: Reason For Increasing No Of Single Ladies In Nigeria & The Solution by CHARLOE(m): 8:28am On Sep 19, 2017 |
humilitypays: It is a simple fact that the number of guys refusing to marry is directly proportional to the number of ladies that are single and searching, reason being that it is these single guys that have refused to marry that ought to marry the single ladies that are searching and praying for husband.
Now, the question is: why do we have an abnormal increase in the number of single unmarried ladies that are searching for marriage partner today in Nigeria?
Sit back and read the preceding paragraphs and you will find out why and how women (married and single) can help curb this cankerworm eating deep into our modern Nigeria.
Before we forge ahead, you will agree with me that 10 to 20 years ago, men dominated the Nigerian workforce, with fewer number of women occupying top positions, but today, the table has turned as more women now secure better paying jobs than their male counterparts.
My personal study into this recent development showed that most Nigerian organisation boss who are mostly men above 45years, prefer to hirer pretty single ladies for non-engineering positions, which put guys in the non-engineering sectors at high risk of not securing good jobs when competing with ladies for same job position.
I also discovered that most multinational firms have a policy that encourages female gender empowerment, which make their HR team give preferential treatment to ladies seeking for same position with a male job applicant during recruitment exercise.
You can hardly discover this secret organisation policy until you are among the top management.
If you doubt this, try and go to Victoria Island in Lagos during close of work; 5 - 6pm (Monday - Friday), and you will notice higher number of young pretty females leaving their office premises in good cars, with few young guys leaving their workplaces in a car.
If you are observant enough, you will also discover that most of the male workers driving home from work are usually within the age range of: 38 - 60yrs, whereas more ladies within the age range of; 25 - 35yrs drive home from work, showing that more young ladies now have better jobs than guys.
This is also applicable to Abuja: same study was carried out within Central Business District of Abuja, CBD.
To many Nigerians, especially the ladies, it is a good trend; at least to them, it shows that ladies are becoming independent from guys, and to the old working class male directors and managers, it means nothing because they are at the receiving end (sleeping with these young pretty ladies for jobs, promotion, contracts, etc), but not until their own daughter(s) graduate from Harvard University or London School of Economics and returns back home to take up an executive position in her dad's big firm, but only to go to bed every night weeping and soaking her pillows with tears simply because there is no responsible young man in her life ready to walk her to the altar and they live happily ever after like she reads from foreign novels and watch on Telemundo series.
No wonder many rich parents are now arranging marriage for their daughters; yet this doesn't solve the imminent problem of abnormal increase in single young people in Nigeria of today.
Now, what am I blabbing about? The major reason we have increasing rate of single ladies in Nigeria today is not because witches in the villages have increased in number and now pursuing single ladies and stopping them from finding suitable husbands just as many modern pastors make these single ladies to believe in order to extort money from them & to grow their congregation, it is not even because single ladies of today lack good character or manner, neither is it because single ladies now dress indecently....nope, the major reason is harsh economy that is no longer favouring young single guys!
How do we expect a guy who graduated from higher institution and served his fatherland after 3 years and still unable to rent a decent apartment for himself, unable to cater for his own daily needs to think about getting married in this time and age?
How do we expect a young guy who after 4 to 5 years of passing out from NYSC is yet to secure a job that pays him up to a hundred thousand naira, and give him the opportunity of saving at least fifty thousand naira every month to wish to marry and give birth to children?
The earlier we Nigerians realise the dangers of having more young guys without good job, the better for us as a nation that wish to grow and have a happy, crime-free society.
I know some people will say: marriage is not everyone, while others will argue that must everybody marry? And the answer is yes, anybody who desires to marry ought to marry, but is that the case today? No!
Many young men want to marry, but the truth is that their pocket isn't encouraging to take that bold step that marriage requires.
Some will also argue that must you wait till you have millions before you marry? And some will argue that marriage is not about money, but tell me: how do you sustain the kids that will follow after the wedding? How do you plan to pay for house rent, children increasing school fees, etc?
Do you want to plan the future of your kids on one rich relation or friend? That's unfair to the unborn innocent children you want to bring to life, please don't do it!
I know that not every guy or lady will be rich, but being comfortable to provide most of your needs should be compulsory at least!
I still remember the story of Adam and Eve which I read from “The Book of My Bible Stories” while I was a kid, it told us how God created man, Adam and gave him everything he needed and Adam will go to his garden in the morning to return at night lonely, such that God pitied him and said: it is not good for him to be alone, I will make him a help mate, and so God made Adam to fall deep asleep and then God came and removed one of Adam's ribs and made Eve for him.
Adam woke up and saw Eve and was excited and said: this is the bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh (dunno if I quoted those words correctly).
What am I trying to say? God gave Adam his basic needs before sending him a woman!
A man deserves to have his basic needs met before thinking of getting married.
But it is so shameful that old married men in Nigeria occupying top positions in various organisations and firms gave and still giving jobs to single unmarried ladies who most times contribute nothing to the organisation's growth, thereby causing more unemployment and underemployment of young single Nigerian guys, with a resultant effect of late marriage amongst these young single guys.
Shameful enough, many organisations today hire ladies by their physical attraction; once a member of the HR team admires the female applicant, whether she merits the job or not, he must ensure that she gets hired to the disadvantage of her male counterparts who most times have better skills to offer to the organisation.
THE SOLUTION
First, we must tell ourselves the truth: in Nigerian culture and norm, men are believed and expected to be the breadwinner of the family; the woman is only expected to assist and contribute if she has and can.
Bearing this in mind, majority if not all Nigerian single ladies searching for a life partner want and desire to marry a guy earning higher income than them.
All things being equal, no Nigerian single lady prays to marry a guy she's earning more than; very uncommon in Nigeria.
But then, we have few single guys in Nigeria who earn that kind of income most Nigerian single ladies desire from their preferred partner. And as it stands presently in Nigeria, more single ladies between the age range of 25yrs - 35yrs have better paying jobs than single guys of the same age range, which means many single ladies in Nigeria will never find husband to marry except they lower their taste and marry a guy earning below them or they become second wife to older men.
All these anomalies were caused by older Nigerian men who set the wrong legacy for this nation in terms of bad leadership, sex-for-job in favour of single ladies, and more...and for this status quo to change, every Nigerian citizen must play a role to bring the much desired change we dream of in Nigeria, how?
1. As a young single lady working in a company, say no to the maltreatment of young single guys in your organisation because the more these guys are penalised and made not to grow, the more chances of you, your single sister, niece, friend or even aunt not finding a deserving husband to marry.
2. All HR personnel must ensure equity and fairness when hiring applicants for any job position. Stop the female gender empowerment; enough is enough, its not helping Nigeria, neither is it helping the world in general.
Women are happier when their husband or man is in charge financially than when they are in charge...even in Europe!
3. As a single lady, lower your financial expectation from guys- the table is turning, fewer guys now have good means of income compared to ladies; you ladies asked for gender equality, you now have it, please make use of it, don't wait for a richer guy...if you are driving and you see a guy trekking whom you fancy, lift him and don't be shy to startup a focused-relationship with him...waiting for the richer guys driving bigger cars than yours may keep you waiting for eternity and may bring you more heartbreak because such guys now know that they are king to women and so they treat ladies with little/no respect.
4. Encourage your single brothers to work hard, acquire skill, learn trade and explore business opportunities even if they are working. Help them with business startup capital...doing so will help create a deserving husband for a fellow single lady out there.
5. Stop squandering that single guy's money!
Advice him to invest his income wisely! Encourage him to startup a side business to assist his salary because no salary is enough!
6. As a single guy, learn to be financially wise!
Quit those useless habits that drains your income! Quit smoking! Quit drinking! Quit gambling! Quit womanising; its a costly hobby! Quit clubbing around town! Quit squandering money on any girl who isn't your wife! Learn to invest, learn to nurture a business aside your job and learn to spend lesser than you earn! Don't use your last savings to buy a car just to feel among or just to attract irrelevant ladies! Car is more of a necessity until you become rich! For now, buying car should be to aid your financial growth and not for fun or pleasure!
7. As a single lady, pray for your single brothers, boyfriend, lover, or male friends and colleagues. Advice and encourage them whenever you can.
It is no longer easy for single young guys in Nigeria even though most of them won't confess this to you due to male ego!
Let's all wake up to the reality and pray that President Buhari and his team bring about the positive change in Nigeria's economy to help curb this societal press Wish you all a blissful day ahead. 100000000000 likes! All spinsters, pastors, govts needs to read this. |
Romance › Re: “some Nigerian Ladies Have Killed Romance” - Relationship Expert Joro Olumofin by CHARLOE(m): 2:09pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
TINALETC3: Guys ar 2 blame sometimes, I hv met a guy who after chasing me for months later sed even if I dnt like hm, I shud at least like his money and gifts, If I decide to follow hm, of course, I wud prefer iPhone 20 to flowers  Why collect his money n gifts when u don't like him? Material girl! |
Crime › Re: Young Thief In Uyo Almost Burnt Alive (Photos) by CHARLOE(m): 12:03pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
abdelrahman: While our old politicians are going with their pot belly. Still wondering y they can't channel thier anger n thirst 4 blood towards d criminal, unarmed (in obj voice) polithiefchians, cowards! |
Politics › Re: Dead IPOB Members In Umuahia Carried Away In A Keke Napep In Abia (Graphic Pics) by CHARLOE(m): 3:41pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
kitaatita: Every human death is regrettable as it devalues the life of others who are still alive. However, death is an integral part of war. When Nnamdi Kanu went to the USA and solicited for weapons, he didn't say he was preparing to hunt antelope. When he threatened to exterminate Nigeria and Nigerian government establishment, he didn't tell his followers that some of them may die. When he inaugurated his Biafran Security Services and inspected a guard of honour, he did not tell the parade that they were signing up for a job that can take life. When he armed them with petrol bombs and cudgels and machetes, they said that they were going to fight. When they howl 'give me Biafra or give me death' they were not reciting poems. What you see is part of the struggle; part of a war. People actually die in wars. All ipobs shld digest this comment B4 reacting. Nnamdi kanu n his followers committed treason, a serious offence in all countries. |
Properties › Re: Candle Fire Burns Two-storey Building In Lagos, A Tenant Dead by CHARLOE(m): 6:52pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
benosky: Bad news. Emergency response unit in this country is still lagging.
Me: l ike this iPhone X, its cool and sleek...I will like to have it...
Account: They must have called d emergency line late, emergency response in Lagos is just like what u get in America n Europe. Just dial 112/767 for any emergency |
Christianity Etc › Re: Curse Of Canaan: Did Ham Desecrate Noah's Bed By Sleeping With His Wife? by CHARLOE(m): 4:08pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
[quote  author=generationz post=60416415]Smh, because the whites told you Jesus is white and Satan is black you believe right.[/quote]U dey mind d mumu! |
Events › Re: NLDERS Hook Up With Your Birth Day Mate. by CHARLOE(m): 3:37pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: 19-yr-old Pastor Impregnates Female Church Founder (PIC) by CHARLOE(m): 10:26am On Sep 06, 2017 |
malvisguy212: I say this to your muslims brother:
yes, the old testament is part of the bible but it doesent mean ALL the law in it apply to CHRISTIANS,the New Covenant SUPERSEDE and REPLACE the Old Covenant.Christians are only advice to learn from the old testament:
Romans 15:4 “For whatever things were WRITING BEFORE were written for our LEARNING that we through the patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have HOPE”
God has already given us A New covenant and command us to follow . Here what God say in Jeremiah:
Jeremiah 31:31-34 31“The days are coming,” declares the Lord, “WHEN I WILL MAKE A NEW COVENANT WITH THE PEOPLE OF ISREAL and with the people of Judah. 32 It will NOT BE LIKE THE COVENANT I MADE WITH THEIR ANCESTORS when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to[ a] them,[b]” declares the Lord. 33“This is the covenant I will make with the people of Israel after that time,”declares the Lord. “I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people.34No longer will they teach their neighbor,or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord,’because they will all know me, from the least of them to the greatest,” declares the Lord.“FOR I WILL FORGIVE THEIR WICKEDNESS AND WILL REMEMBER THEIR SINS NO MORE .”
In the old testament their are laws that if you break, God will deal with you accordingly, God love required justice, so God deal with them accordingly, but in the book of Jeremiah God say “FOR I WILL FORGIVE THEIR WICKEDNESS AND WILL REMEMBER THEIR SINS NO MORE .”indicating God will have mercy and "FORGIVE THEIR WICKEDNESS" no more only if they ask for forgiveness.
This new covenant was fullfiled in the new testament. The ten commandments no longer apply as law because in the doctrine of Christ they are completely superseded. In the Sermon on the Mount Jesus demands much more of us than the ten commandments. He not only forbids murder and adultery, but also the CAUSE, hate and lust. We are to love God with ALL OUR MIND,if you love God you will keep His commandments, so the key word is LOVE. No wonder Jesus give the TWO great commandments involving love God and your fellow human. So, love for God and fellowman, not just because there is a command: “You shall not kill”.Hope you understand now?.
How do you explained this ? Allah SANCTION PROSTITUTION IN THE QURAN:
There is a type of marriage in Islam that is known as “Nikah Mut’a (Mut’ah)” or TEMPORARY MARRIAGE. Fixed-Term Marriage, Temporary Marriage or PLEASURE MARRIAGE are different names for the Arabic term, Nikah Mut’a. This form of marriage is based on a CONTRACT between a man and woman with a fixed date of expiry. The man and woman will become strangers to each other after the expiration date. Its format is that the woman says the following to the man “I married you to myself on such-and-such a dower and for the known period of time” – where this period is stated exactly. The man’s answer will be: “I accept.” The dower can be in the form of money or something else.
Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62, Number 13o: Narrated ‘Abdullah (b. Mas’ud): We used to participate in the holy battles led by Allah’s Apostle and we had nothing (NO WIVES) WITH US. So we said, “Shall we get ourselves castrated?” He forbade us that and THEN ALLOWED US TO MARRY WITH A TEMPORARY CONTRACT (2) and recited to us: ‘O you who believe! Make not unlawful the good things which Allah has made lawful for you, but commit no transgression .’ (Surah 5:87)
Surah 5:87: “O ye who believe! Forbid not the good things which Allah hath made lawful for you , and transgress not, Lo! Allah loveth not transgressors.” (Pickthall)
Is this not prostitution? When muhammed jihadist was in a war as usual, the urged for sex arrived, they are allowed to marry base on contract just to satisfied their pleasure. Satanic religion. Is it not better than sleeping with themselves, or how do u want them to satisfy their sexual urge at d war front. And I don't agree it's prostitution, if any of d women gets pregnant, everyone will no d father, their temporary husband. I'm a xtian but when it comes to issues of sex n marriage, I think Islam is more realistic n offer better laws, |
Christianity Etc › Re: David Ibiyeomie Welcomed By Female Church Members In Uniform (Photos) by CHARLOE(m): 1:10am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Oko iyabo ojo! |
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Sports › Re: Cameroon Vs Nigeria: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 1 - 1 (Full Time) by CHARLOE(m): 5:56pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
Plz where can i stream the match online? |
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Health › Re: How Can I Burn Belly Fat Easily? by CHARLOE(m): 2:58pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Simple, fast every morning, drink only water + fruirs, start eating around 2pm. I give ur pot belly 2 months pere! |
Education › Re: According To Science, This Is What Jesus Would Actually Look Like by CHARLOE(m): 10:40am On Sep 01, 2017 |
laribari: You are daft....................
I said you can't describe him (making reference to his looks) but i told you there was alot of brightness in his face and had a long falling black hair.
The least thing i will ever lie with is this. If you believe in Jesus at all, on the last day this day will be re-call and we shall know if i'm lying or not. Am i the first to ever see Him? No! Even Thomas doubted when they told Him they saw Him. So why will i be surprised? We shall know who the bloody liar is either you're in hell or manage to make it to heaven. Gerrarahia, mumu sheeple! |
Properties › Re: Residential Building Collapses In Ojo, Lagos by CHARLOE(m): 2:59pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
phayvoursky: I THANK GOD NO LIFE WAS LOST.
DO I ALSO THANK GOD THE BUILDING COLLAPSED? Yes o, cos more people CLD have died! We're content with mediocrity cos it could've been worse. |
Romance › Re: Different Types Of Boobs/breast We Have by CHARLOE(m): 8:28am On Aug 29, 2017 |
@op, y drawing? Where're d pics? |
Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo And Her Children Rock Matching Outfits by CHARLOE(m): 3:12pm On Aug 28, 2017 |
jackie35: SOMEONE IS MISSING IN THESE PICTURES Are u referring to d ph based sugar daddy pastor? |
Education › Re: According To Science, This Is What Jesus Would Actually Look Like by CHARLOE(m): 2:56pm On Aug 28, 2017 |
laribari: See who dey call person mumu. Hahahahaha!
Check everything I said, Na lie? Do you know me? No! Do you know my real name? No! Do you know what church I attend? NO! Do you know if there are pictures there? NO! Have you been to my house? NO! Did I saw Jesus was white and has blue eyes? NO! Did I describe what Jesus look like? NO! Have you seen my own picture before? NO!
Then how did you come about all these mumu things you said? Honestly, you are loosing it now oo and people dey look you. Na sagamu you go face now. #lunatic E pain am! Ha ha ha! Mumu, u claimed u saw Jesus, yet can't describe him, bloody liar! |
Education › Re: According To Science, This Is What Jesus Would Actually Look Like by CHARLOE(m): 6:25am On Aug 28, 2017 |
laribari: Some narialander are so so foolish and talk without reasoning. Do you know me? Do you know what church I attend? How can you tell what pictures are there? You are really fooling yourself not me.
Mind you, the bible says we shouldn't put up an image of anything in heaven or on earth and it reason is obvious. I don't believe in anything outside the bible an the church I attend do not put pictures on the wall.
As stupid as you sounded, you said I have a picture of a blue eyes Jesus in my house and church. Have you been to my house?
You are a lunatic for sure. 
As per saying Christ and not able to describe Him, I don't expect a fetish aaperson like you to understand. Mumu! |
Education › Re: According To Science, This Is What Jesus Would Actually Look Like by CHARLOE(m): 10:39am On Aug 27, 2017 |
laribari: My sister, in fact you have said it all.
Nobody has Jesus' face and that's how God planned it. If common man can wipe away memories of human being, why can't God do it?
Jesus rose up and ascended into heaven flesh and bone, so which stupid scientific evidence do they have? The bible says no man has seen the father at any time and Jesus is the express image of the father (book of hebrews) and also one with the father as He said it Himself. Nobody has the picture or image of our dear king.
I have been privileged to see Him twice but when He came t second time, I didn't see His face as it was covered or emitting a very heavy bright light that you can't look into. You can't describe what he looked like in terms of colour or texture of skin but certainly He appeared with a falling black hair.
Paul said we don't yet know what we will look like but when He shall come, we shall be as He is and also be like Him. In that realm, there is no racial difference.
Does it matter if Jesus was white or black? But trust me, I didn't see a white or a black man. You can't just describe Him using physically materials or earthly description. U saw Jesus yet can't describe him. His colur does not matter, yet u have d pix of a white, blue eyed Jesus in ur house n church. keep fooling urself! |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Is Jesus Coming Back? by CHARLOE(m): 6:38am On Aug 26, 2017 |
MrPresident1: In less than 33 days he will be here. False prophet, u don reach here? After ur failed prophecy in ur thread that Jesus will cum early this yr you're making another 1. Your delusion is baffling! |
Romance › Re: Pastor Ibiyeomie: If You Are Not Married At 35, You Are An Irresponsible Person by CHARLOE(m): 9:37am On Aug 25, 2017 |
shege45: d pastor is irresponsible Iyabo ojo comes to mind! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Atheists Must Preach And Evangelise by CHARLOE(m): 9:35am On Aug 22, 2017 |
shadeyinka: You don't have to believe in Satan. He believes in you. You serve his cause.
How can you be that myopic. Satanism the act of Satan's rebellion predates the creation of man. Satan introduced Adam and Eve to satanism. Satan says to them "when you break this command, you will not die...BUT you will become WISE, knowing everything to become independent of God....you will be like God".
I have paraphrased it in modern English for you since you chose your path of independence, be! Did Satan lie? Even God confirmed what Satan said, according to ur Bible. Go n read d story again |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Atheists Must Preach And Evangelise by CHARLOE(m): 5:24pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
LightandDarkness: So we should just forget the old testament? Watch d guy run to d old testament when he hears tithe! |
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Romance › Re: This Girl Doesn't Want To Leave My Home After Visiting Me (pics) by CHARLOE(m): 10:13am On Aug 20, 2017 |
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Family › Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by CHARLOE(m): 5:42pm On Aug 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: My sisters bride price was returned and paid by another man. She is doing well in her new marriage. Sadly my own is not. Really? Do u mind sharing ur story? |
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