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makydebbie:
Please this post is not for the feeble or dull minds.


Is this life worth anything?

What is life?

Because, I've come to realize that we're just living to die. And is this life worth the whole stress of living? If my question makes any sense.

I've also come to understand you don't live happily at any point. Things will happen and situations will keep stressing you at every point. When you're poor, you want to be rich so that you can solve your problems. But when you're also rich, there'll be stress. You'll start trying to make sure you don't go back to poverty and invest wisely. You can't just sit and enjoy your wealth. Situations will keep cropping up. Sometimes I'm scared to be happy because happiness doesn't last. Something bad must always happen.


What is this life?
Is it worth the stress that issues will keep coming up and you don't even get to sit back and enjoy?


Being a child is the best thing that happened to us all. Because then you had no worries, as we grow, our needs becomes endless. We're insatiable.

What is life? I'm tired of living, living this hard life knowing I'm going to die anytime and my goals and dreams that I'm working for becomes nothing at the end. I'm tired of getting almost everything wrong. Tired of not being happy all the time and the stress that keeps coming up.


What is the essence of life if we're just living and suffering only to die. Because in this life, THERE'S NOTHING LIKE HAPPILY EVER AFTER. We're just going through hell, just to die at the end.

I like that u are thinking, but if really u want to get answers to "What life is" Then u need to Study existentialism, most especially existence and ambiquity. The question u failed to ask is Why "The born?, hmmmm. If I should start I won't stop but however lemme give some light of it all.

According to Buddha
He argues that, Our fundamental existence is suffering, in the sense that when we are giving birth to, it is suffering, in the process of growing it is also suffering, life itself it is suffering. We all strive to live an accomplish greatness by all means, but we should life a life of modracy

According to the existentialists, Most notably of them all Jean paul-satre, he has argued repeatedly that human life is full of nothingness and absurdity, he gave a detail exam of God who was condemned to am everlasting punishment by ruling rock to the top of the mountain and rolling it down (Sylipsis). In essence that is how human life is, we aspire to get to the top and when we get there we see that really there is nothing and then our life start getting diminishing all over again. Now the question is why the born? Why am I here? Do I really have to be here?. Furthermore, according to a philosopher,, he argues, that if the room is smokey, u have the chance to either stay or run away, but if u stay, do not complain. In essence, when life get so tired and meaningless, you have the right to either stay or take away your life, but if u choose to stay alive, do not complain. Complaining will implies that u will be living in Bad faith, bad faith in the sense that u cannot take responsibility for your actions.

In conclusion as Socrates said, man know thyself, an unexamined life is not worth living. I will leave you with this, first of all examine your life, essi e percipi, (to be is to perceive). Know what u want, do u really want to be happy? How can I be happy? Is happiness the ultimate goal of my existence? Above all, if u need more one to one or good online talk u can message me on my e-mail bamipower03@gmail.com. stay sharp and be more sophisticated in your thinking.

bugidon:




If Buhari police can manhandle senators, lawyers and even some well known celebrities just think how Nigeria will be by 2019 if eventually Buhari wins for 2nd tenure


Buhari has succeeded in taking Nigeria from the contemporary period he found it back to the medieval period!!!!

Medieval is even good u would have said pre-Ancient period

Uyiii:
I reserve my disdain for the guy behind the leaked sex video. Recording of their sexcapades was done when they were very much in love and most probably helped built-up intimacy and emotions.
honestly, guys like this are grouped in the category of unapologetic bitches, it's a bitchy attitude to think you can blackmail someone with an act you both were engaged in when things were all rosy.
The man is a fool.

Nevertheless, unless the girl in question is a pornstär who care less about her boobs dangling all over the place, she'll definitely feel hurt about the situation if she holds some reservations for herself.
no matter how we gonna paint it, it's in every way a bad method of exposure little wonder the fool exposed it in the first place because he knows the stigma attached to sturvs like this.

but yah, we can always draw out positivities from what seems to be a negativity, reminds me of pokello and her fiance then before she met elikem in the bba house.
She should be very resilient and resolute in all of her endeavors, although the internet never forgets.
but this time will pass and it'll all be a story.

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Meanwhile, where my Vaseline abeg, see bress
and the link too, so we can link-up for future references

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Modified: I've seen the Link and I've watched the video.
omoo, see riding, both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl.
Thunder go the girl sha, see gruv
anyways, they ended the sexcapade with this style sha;

the link bro. Lemme confirm if it is true

When I say Trump as one of the co-writer, I lost the nerve to read it.

Benz is increasing, ladies are decreasing. Stop following flashy things

AnonyNymous:
Most irritating thing about this trending topic is that Buhari never said Nigerian Youths are lazy.

if someone say u seat at home and do nothing, and that u wait for your mama and Papa to bring money for u and that u don't want to go to school because your family have all it has to take care of u, what does that mean?

papoudaupolos:
The Lazy will always love to get things easy way.They must love past corrupt administration.

ogà oh. What are u now trying to say?

Although he has his flaws, but he was always a defendant of her citizens on international forums. What do u think about GEJ??

midolian:
This #LazyNigerianYouths issue actually proves that the problem with Nigeria is far beyond corruption, intellectual laziness is, and might kill us faster than any other thing..

More than 90% of Nigerians criticizing Buhari on this havent listened or read his statement to know if he truly said and meant it or not..the lazy and mischievious 5% that has circulated this nonsense have taken advantage of this intellectual laziness epidemic

. I will ask what is position because u seem to be on the fence, 5% of the youth circulating this nonsense? Can u imagine, did your president says some of the youth are lazy? He said alot of the youth, which gives 80% youth are lazy and 20‰ not lazy. Have listened to it, it is so barbaric and definitely uncalled for, for a president to say that to her citizens.i regretted the day I campaign for this man. Never again. I will leave u with this

XingXhang:
I've met people who keep going after one lady for over a year, relentlessly. This thread is for them.

As Philosophy Plato once quipped, An unexaminedd life is not worth living.

And as PMB noted, "Nigerian youths are lazy and unreproductive. (Emphasis mine )

Let's examine why you are so keen about your dogged chase

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Plato didn't say an unexamined life is not worth living, Socrates said that. Although Socrates Just like Jesus didn't write anything down. However, this Dictum is associated to Socrates!

My opinion is this, graduates production doesn't necessarily constitute the school you graduated from. But from an angle it does if u have a sound academic advisor and lecturers with a good academic degrees. Howbeit, the disparity between HND and BSC is as old as the problem of Nigeria ethnicity. Personal research and studies has a long way to enhance one's capabilities and innovation. However, self motivation is needed. U can't compare YALE university graduate with OAU not on the basic of the fact that the formal is more sound academically than the later but due to the level of exposure and high level of qualified academians.in conclusion, never allow anyone make u inferior do u your own and enjoy your existence. *All men are born, but some are greater than the other*

Men are learning were women are. Twale

When fellows stop thinking, they allow religion to cloud their judgement. Religion is throwing opium of the masses. If love can be our religion the world will be a better place.

Shadrackmadu:
I Dedicate These To My Missing 100Level Fundamental Philosophy Result That Have Been Delaying My Graduation From Madonna University Since 2016

go and write another one! See it as a missing script and go seat your ass down

Mariangeles:
Wouldn't he be shocked if he had won with such song?

he will be too shocked to be shock to express his schok

Tracypacy:
Boss tf up this year, sis. Don’t let anyone treat you any less than the queen that you are. Don’t settle for bullshit, don’t put up with bullshit. Don’t let peasant bitches upset you. They aren’t on your level, let them be bitter. Don’t chase people, glow up & make them chase you

I wanna start fresh from hello with someone, take it slow, & get to know every little detail about them. I want someone who I can talk to & laugh with all night. Someone who wants to take the time & effort to figure each other out, grow together, & get it right. I’m at peace knowing that not everything is meant for me, & I’m ok with waiting for what I truly deserve. I’ve been focusing on soul searching, finding myself, finding happiness within, and improving myself & every aspect of my life until I attract better opportunities & people

If you’re in my life, u have to learn how to respect my space. Me being distant doesn’t mean I’m losing interest or that i don’t want to talk to you anymore. There’s a lot that goes thru my mind & sometimes it becomes overwhelming, so I need my time to breathe & recollect myself

My last relationship taught me A LOT. It taught me not to ignore signs & my gut feeling. I learned how to love myself & not put anyone above my happiness & my dreams. Now I know my worth, know what I want, & won’t settle for less again. No regrets, I needed to learn those lessons. I want to build a relationship with someone that’s full of effort, but never feels like hard work or a chore. I want a love that I put all of my energy into, but never leaves me feeling empty. I want to find someone that I can exchange energy with & never get tired of it


Someone said, “going back to the same person over & over is like re watching your favorite movie and expecting a different ending” & I really felt that. I'm the type of person that when something means a lot to me, I’ll ask “you promise?”. It might seem childish, but I take promises very seriously. I have a tendency to see the best in the worst people & have been disappointed & hurt a lot.
If you play someone who was loyal to you, held you down, & loved you unconditionally despite all your flaws, you’re really just playing yourself. You’re losing someone who saw forever in you because of someone temporary. Real love is so rare & yall just throw it away. Smh, wil

Are u OK?

Big hole meeting shit hole.....

Wow.. This is so revealing

Hey guys, so, today I was just coming back from church and pastor preached about been of help to our fellow individuals. Then it stroke at me that someone has actually helped our government, the Ikoyi Whistle blower. Have anyone heard anything from him recently??

Look at how Fayemi is talking, during his time, they completed projects, build schools, hospitals and employments etc. Did he forget or just choose not to remember that during 2010-2014 the price of oil was at his peak. Sometimes the way our politicians argues is like kindergarten teacher. However, all eyes are looking at Ekiti election.

Oya make una apply

FOLYKAZE:
The same man that cannot save himself from been killed or force his return to earth after been killed 2000 years ago wants to save a young lad in a faraway Nigeria. The lady is in love and enjoying a Christian diiick. That is the true story

may God have mercy on u, and may you not remain unfortunate in life. Sometimes something are left on said. What goes out of a man defies him.

One day, Nigerians will rise up to fight this nightmares in our society just as France did. The day is fast approaching.

I comment my reserve.

oglalasioux:
A very nice write up but you spoilt it with that 'with the fear of God'. This is the exact tool politicians use; God. People like father Mbaka scammed Nigerians with same God telling him Buhari is the answer. Now Mbaka and 'God' are making u turns condemning Buhari.

Read the Bible. It is full of God anointing people Kings and regretting almost immediately. Is this supposed to be an attribute of a God that created what we can today observe in the universe?

The earlier we admit the fakeness of God the better for all of us. We should jettison religion and that's when we will realize our destiny is in own hands by starting a revolution that will make our leaders accountable instead of leaving everything to a non existent god.

At first u were making sense. But u made a valid point by saying that we should jettison religion is a good view. But why call God fake? The awesomeness of God cannot be comprehend. St Augustine of Hippo categorically argues in the city of God that the believe of God comes from our very possible tools of understanding and there are things we just have to live with in the theory of faith. Although there are counter arguments in this regard. Check Acquinas theory, Avicena these philosophers argues for the genuinity of God. Now we are faced with Politicians who used God as a tool to deceive and oppress, through the use of religion which Karl max have over time emphasizes on as a tool use to oppress. Without religion God will still exist, the existence of God cannot be comprehend using intellect yes some will argue that God existence cannot be prove beyond reasonable doubt coz how can u prove the existence of things that doesn't exist? Well the problem of Evil has been one of the cardinal point been used to emphasize this fact. But come to think if it, have u seen the uniformity of nature? Have u seen things that just beat our understanding?! God here is not the issue, we are, we should stop believing things gullible. Enough is enough. Youth equip yourself with the fundamental understanding that u are the sole owner of your thoughts and life and you cannot be cajole. 2019 is another election year, but your youth into use

Who does all that? In this 21st century. People need to be enlightened, you cannot satisfy a woman. If u like do heaven and earth for her, she will tomorrow say u didn't do anything for her. But to be practical just be yourself and spend within your means. My 2cent though.

Let's see how this will play out

Is like history is just repeating itself over and over again. Same scenario with the other girls that was abducted, how some also escaped.hmmmm.....so many things happening behind the scene that we don't know.

Fayose put your house in order,EKSu is still on strike.

Yesbody:
My problem with you people is when you ask people to pay certain amount of money to your account, you claim you make about 300k naira every month yet you want to sell books to Nigerians, can't you give the information free ?

Nothing is ever free not even in free country. The best one can do is to give u the light and not full light but at least for u to take a step but not to run yet. Life is patience

Indeed the Author of this article is right, now we have seen a problem, the best way is to profound solutions to it. I will like to learn this and add to me skills have learned so far, i can't seem to agree less that it is not all Nigerians that are mostly at home and busy with their phones and laptops are fraudsters. I will forever be grateful to my friend who introduced me to know more about making legitimate money online. Open your eyes, there are alots of opportunities out there, only the few knows it and only the wise take the steps.