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Aaaaarghmed:
I have never cried but I have begged.and since I was born I have never knelt down for any babe.but I have begged a lady not to leave me.but that was long long ago in my ND.but now,omo I be Mr sendless.i dey collect numbers sef but to call na prob,na dem go con dey disturb why I just ghost.i swear I no get woman time,I swear

Oga begging is begging. Stop forming boss man.

Decryptor:
Only SIMPS do that!

If you cry and beg a woman to love you, it means you shouldn't be with such a woman in the first place!

Secondly, relationships favor women more than it favors men in this part of the globe. You are the one as the man who does the spending, provision of security and if it eventually leads to marriage, you pay the bride price so why beat yourself up over someone who probably has nothing to offer you in return rather than sexual gratification.

Cry and beg a woman to come into your life and you will definitely cry again when she leaves because she definitely will!

You never did it when you didn't have sense?

saphiere:
Why ask this question when you know majority here are lairs? No man here will tell you. But we all know the truth.

They act like James Bone on Nairaland and would come begging us for love.

If I show you my DM, you would be amazed how low Nigerian men could be.

Not every man on your DM is begging for love; the majority want to have their way with you.

I think I am the only one who's never begged for love here by the way...

FalseProphet1:
Yes, when I was I secondary school...her name was mgbodichimma, she told me to kneel down for 30 minutes before she will consider my offer, I knelt down after all said and done she told me that she'll give me a reply after 3 months, I got angry and left her and started a relationship with Jesus, now I can see any and everything and I don't have to beg him before he does anything for me, I see myself becoming a world figure in the coming years.

This I have seen.

Why are you still on Nairaland? You vowed to leave.

NOETHNICITY:
I cried, but didn't beg for anything

Why did you cry, strong man?

tunatrezy:
Yes, but I'm not going to explain.

E bi like say the catarrh you cry enter your mouth. Lol

missyojo:
Ohhhh......... Ohhhh........
The girl didn't do well at all and these are the type of girls that are spoiling the good one's image.
I know how hurt and painful it was back then, please find a way in your heart to forgive her. Definitely it's not something you will forget but please, Biko, Edakun. FORGIVE AND LET GO
Even thou you didn't curse her then, karma will surely visit her.

Cheers!!!

Please, what is karma in this?

DropsMic:
Coincidence... If curses do work there would be no politician in Africa because they'd all be dead

Yeah, you are right. It coincided.

younglleo:

back in the days of secondary school, dey werey dey run me street wit our physics teacher, wen we dey date, i found out nd dey she breakup with me!
i jst dey cry dey beg the girl say make i dey mumu for am, but tank God she no gree(if not i for don kpai for dat girl mata)
i spent a week dey cry dey listen to blues
na ogun go kee R KELLY nd his devilish HAND OF TIME music
omoh i mumu dat year!

Lol

Emlekt5:

Why are you laughing, huncle?

Downtime....maybe hacked.

Cindy222:
I have rebooted my phone so many times,switched to different wifi networks yet nothing....

Mine is down too.

Jman06:
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.

Mehn

Congrats oo.

Fine man.

You were just hiding your face down o

SportsHD:
Congrats.

If it's this lady - https://www.nairaland.com/5403537/please-just-discovered-she-been

Once debe, ex always debe.

Cc. Chatinent , ahnie.

Lol.

Swears. A very wise man.

Best graduating students receive mug, and life chicken....porn star receive ₦90m. My people, hello?

AYNL:
as i never get one before,i no be lover guy o,fine face,azz,boob,all that no dey move me o,but this particular girl ehn.......lol,make i no talk much
that's why i dey always look all this redpillers,all of them go dey alright las las

Na for Nairaland dem dey do am jare. Some of them get sense for real life.

obinna58:
I'm too valuable to beg any woman


Every man is.

You want everybody to know about Njideka or not?

AYNL:
yes,never had one,and i can't give any reason why i love her,i just know that i love her

Lol..na so e dey do...esp when it seems like the person doesn't love you, you'll see yourself seeing her in every girl you want to meet.

Baba, na only fufu and better soup can solve this.

Beebah2000:
Wait, make I laugh first.

Lol. No bi now. It was then.

Ocholu:
OP! let me be real with you;

We don't do such. In this hard economy??

These days, boys no even get time to de too much ask ladies out.

Nigerian girls are also getting wiser by the minutes. Always activating Strategies to outplay us. But Mehnn, the street don shine our eyes.

I agree.

My experience was then.

Nowadays, even if we kuku exchange numbers, na status I go just dey read for WhatsApp...and that's if I saved the number...and bad news is I turned off read receipt so you aren't even gonna know I read it.

I no kuku want person wey go come cheat on their boyfriend with me since virtually everyone has sb...so I don't even ask anyone out.

Like I don't see any need to beg for a relationship or ask for it or whatever. The last time I wooed a girl is when I guess, was growing up sha. If we are friends and we grow fond of each other, lines fall into places by itself...and that is if you are creative about it. I translate it to you are single without me asking.

Bad news kwa is I am even a very boring type to be with so I think it is what makes me lose interest in creating an impression. I am also mostly interested in productive discussions and not always 'have you eaten'...too much of 'have you eaten' bores me out...that I may end up using the chat as a draft. I think it's only me who do this. Not proud of it tho but I am very lazy at forcing anything.

It doesn't mean I don't respect the gender. I do. I am just of the opinion to date when I am ready for marriage...plus the fact that many who you may ask if they are single will deny it. So I refuse to be responsible for another man's heartbreak.

Ekejoestar:
Na mumu dey love, make redpillers no catch you @op

You mean your dad was a simp for falling in love with your mom..until marriage?

AYNL:
I go cry and beg florence to be mine if i have the chance(in a secret place though)lol

First love?

iamtardey:
Lol I did ..

Tell me about it.

WoundedLamb:
Many other countries have moved on. Nigeria, on the other hand, is afraid of making amendments even when it's obvious the present constitution has a lot of issues. I believe this is primarily because of the fact that the country sacrifices logic on the alter of emotions and since emotions are individualistic, there are multiple interests to consider.

Nigeria's constitution is just absurd; it is as dilapidated as the country itself. It was imposed on her...what do you expect? The constituted authorities should be ashamed of themselves that no denizen of the expanse then was present during the make up.

It was the remains of the Lyttleton’s flapdoodie from the Clifford's, and his predecessors that those colonial miscreants forced into those present at the 1960 transfer of power.

Those learned illiterates we called our own then were power-hunger and salivating for never-leave positions in the new birthed independent country. Instead of drafting a new constitution, they began to revise partly what wasn't understood to the shores of Nigeria...making the more complex failures of the British constitution in their political favours and adaptation, leaving the country in damnation while all of them were busy plotting coups and killing themselves for General positions.

Yes, since it satisfied their ever-needy pockets and anyone can go to hell, they are comfortable with it.

A change may mean a lot of people will become penury-stricken, and those stolen so-called overheads accounted for, plus those yearly budget we never get to know how it was spent after.

This country is a bunkum; the people never agreed to live together. Nigeria can never be better if the Ghana treatment isn't given to it, and the old imposed British script revamped!

People have to decide to be federated! You don't do it under duress!

Spits.

In junior grade, during preteen age, I cried and begged one girl like that not to leave but she didn't oblige. I was weak. I couldn't walk home. I was sober. I wanted to run into the road at an incoming vehicle.. I couldn't even push myself at it. I struggled to walk..only for me to reach home and eat confirm plate of fufu and nchawu soup with achara, beef, snails and periwinkle to know say na hunger dey do me o no be nonsense heartbreak. Mehn, I chop snail sotey bite my index finger amid scratching my big head in this food happiness. O boy, I eat finish see as boning return my face en. I sat down with my protruding belly angry at how I embarrassed myself earlier.

Next day at school, I didn't even notice her anymore. Was all frowns and big boy.

It took a while and she was coming close but I think, I was fly then, I turned her down. Reverse psychology took place. She was the one begging.

I didn't accept her back because I thought then more pretty and brilliant girls were after me. It took until four years later until we bumped at each other.






How about you?

Nigeria self. Which one come bi blackout again bayi? Nigeria no bi blackout itself?

WoundedLamb:
Hope you realise that Africa does not start and end in Nigeria.



Yes, spousal or marital rape is not known to Nigerian Criminal Justice System probably cause the country is still using what was drafted in the 1960's. But it is in many other countries including some African countries. I wonder the kind of family a man who forcefully has sex with his wife would be expecting to have though.

Sorry, it was not drafted. It was forced on the shit hole.

INVINCIBLECSP1:
Only peck . If you truly truly as in truly love what he said, just give him head or allow him to browse for 5mins.
Don't worry, nobody is telling mummy.

Alaye, ogi and panmi no good for you.

Susily:
That's why some men opt for polygamy, at least none of his wives will weaponize sex cos they know he has other legit options without looking outside the house to satisfy himself

That's not why some men opt for polygamy.

They were only polygamous in decisions.