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Family / Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by cheeseballs: 10:31am On Nov 05, 2023 |
missimelda01:I did a video on this on tiktok. Just search JOSEPHOCONNORS99 you will find the video |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Graduated With 2:1 But This Is Making Two Years Now No Work by cheeseballs: 1:57pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
dobosky:boss abeg u fit teach me how u dey do am? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: IPOB Invades Shops Of Those Who Disobeyed Sit-At-Home Order, Scatters Goods by cheeseballs: 6:27pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
The way u came to the conclusion that these shop owner supported ESN/UGM just baffles me. If u was a white man, am 100 percent sure u would be racist towards d blacks . I stay in the east and am also sure you think I support them too! Chris525: |
Crime / Re: Policeman Kills Policewoman In Rivers State During lockdown Enforcement by cheeseballs: 4:38pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Mtola8:still hold am small,I will soon ask for it!! |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 5:48pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
Your advice is very inspiring! Thank you alot.... frozen70g: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 9:20pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks man.... Finding peace is all am aiming at now! kneehighbootz: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 3:22pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Words of wisdom! God will bless you for this!!! Resurgent2016: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 1:10pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Go and find peace my brother.... This is my gift to you!!! midnighter: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 11:46am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Bro it's too early to start this tribalistic challenge,and don't even have strength for it if I wanted to. The way you guys just misinterpreted the phrase "igbo people and their greed". Which I only aimed at the fact that alot majority of them would never rent out their land to you,except you want to pay millions for it. Upon everything you saw,the only point you could pick out of it was just "five words"! This proves your intelligence...Well thanks anyways! midnighter: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 9:45am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Your story/advise just motivated me... Thank you sir. God bless! Iogobenz: |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 9:31am On Oct 26, 2019 |
I have done alot of study into fish farming in my area. But no one in my area would lease his or her land to anyone (greed of the igbos). And crime is so high that we fear coming back home around 8pm. I also thought of buying an okada or second hand Keke to give to someone, but there are countless of cases where by they run away with it. Even my friends that borrow money from me never return it and still act like all is cool. I would rather invest in myself and bear the loss... I would love to do a business with the money I have and later on pursue my YouTube dream,but it's so small to do any reasonable business with. And come to think of it I already have a business am doing "riding Keke". That 100k I have was raised in less than 5 weeks. It would be a great achievement for me to start this YouTube stuff that has been on my mind now,and before February next year raise money to study a course at the University even if it's a professional course while supporting myself with the Keke. And maybe people will start believing in me and give me the help I deserve.... Thanks for your advice man!!! LilMissFavvy: 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 7:09am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks for your advice! bLacKGoLd3: |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 7:07am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks! Esthered: |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 7:04am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks for you precise advise. God bless you! cococandy: |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 6:57am On Oct 26, 2019 |
God bless you for your advice! theButterfly: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 6:56am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks a million! midnighter: |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 6:54am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Why my heart says YouTube is that,this the last thing I wanna direct all my last energy into. And I won't regret it if I die while on that part. I want to tell stories and inspire people through my story... Thanks for your advice,it's the best. God bless. LilMissFavvy: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 6:47am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks man! thorpido: |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 6:45am On Oct 26, 2019 |
When I ask for it,they kinda blackmail me. ahnie: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 6:43am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Thanks for the advice man. I appreciate! Zzyzxt: |
Family / My Life Or My Family? by cheeseballs: 10:41pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Hello guys! I need your advice on this issue that has been giving me sleepless night for more than a year now. Am a youth below 25yrs. 2016 I dropped out of the polytechnic because I never knew why I was there in the first place. All my life,I follow strict orders from my parents about what I do and how I live my life. The saying has always been "you are the first son,so u must become an engineer". I remember vividly when I wanted to pass over into ss1,I told my father I was going for art. He frowned totally at it and took me to a lecture for counseling. I gave them my reason that "I have always tried my best at maths and am never good at it",even my teachers knows I was very good at Art related subjects. I always top the class in drawings that my work once made it into the art studio. But the lecturer told me that I can still meet up in the future,that am lazy and it's not hard. So I later wrote jamb and barely made it. But my parents worked my way into part-time study auchi poly. Man.... It wasn't funny at all. Everything was purely mathematics. And my parents wasn't the rich type who can afford to always send me money for blocking. I tried all my best,read all night,went for extra tutoring. But I can't still understand simple theories. My GP dropped so bad that I just gave up in 2016. When I dropped out,I was just roaming the street from bet9ta to a random barber shop to gist. Everyone saw me as worthless even my family members. My father made arrangements for me to go and learn mechanic,but after two weeks I stopped. I just knew that wasn't for me. He then asked me to go back to school,I told him that I can't because I have gone too far into science and even if I have to go back to school,I will have to start all over again. Even at that, iam very lost in life because I threw all my drive for art in the thrash many years ago to pursue science. Am just like in the middle of the dessert. 2017 I told him I wanted to do business,with the mind set that I might soon be independent and maybe discover myself/passion then. They didn't support it with their heart at all. I went to learn how to repair mobile phone,after learning my father asked me to go and learn all over again for he is not satisfied. I got angry and left home from a friend's advice to go and work at bet9ja at another state. After two months,I came back home with about 100k and I sent it to that friend of mine who advised me to go and work at bet9ja cos he stays at Lagos and he said he can send me phone accessories at wholesale price so that I can start phone business at small scale. But scammed me. My family judged me for more than a month,cos I was always at home helpless and indoors with regret. So I decided to use the little I had to start a road side repair shop close to my street,but it wasn't paying off after about three months. I had the inspiration to start a YouTube channel,but I never had a camera neither did I know what the channel would be about.... I just had three options about what the channel would be about. Fitness (because am huge and a little bit muscular,comedy(because people always say am funny),short films (because have got alot of stories to tell). So December 2018,i started doing odd jobs. Which my parents didn't support, instead they keep pressuring me to get back to school while I keep telling them I want to do business and need capital to start. 2019 two of my junior sisters got into the university. January 2019 i got a job at a company that pays me less than 20k. The job wasn't easy at all. I always cry when am alone and thinking about where I am in life. After five months,I saved about 95k. Used 55k to apply for Keke for hired purchase at a company,but they said the one left has been driven for two weeks,and I said I would manage it. After a week I noticed it had fault and decided to return it so that the company can give me another one,but my father opposed it that I should return it and ask for a refund,that he and my mother will raise money and borrow money from his relative to buy me a Keke. My parents made sure they borrowed all the refunded money from me and never payed back to me. I was just stranded again for about a month before the Keke was bought. My father's relative gave us the money,but to be paid back with interest. To my surprise my parents said I will also pay them every week,with all sorts of rules that follows it,like telling me "when to leave,when to come back, where to go and where not to go". No matter what I pass through in a week would not stop them from collecting that week's money,rather it would be added to the next. Even when I had an accident due to I wasn't perfect at driving. They never told me sorry,nor asked if I was injured. I spent alot of money putting the Keke into order,and didn't go-to work for about three days,and they still collected that week's money. Depression has eaten so deep into my life. I remember 2017 when I attempted suicide,but woke up at an hospital. All I pray to God now is that I don't want to live long but he should grant me the power to leave a great mark on Earth. Now my father needs 150k to get back a bus he was driving on hired purchase from a company he's driving it for so that it can become his,he's now looking helpless and looking for who to borrow him. The thing is that I have about 100k I have saved and plan on using to buy a camera so that I can buy a camera for me to start YouTube,for I have it deep in my heart and am always telling my friends how I will soon start a YouTube channel. So should I give up this dream and give the money to my father or should I buy the camera and gradually save to give to him cos he has a deadline of December? Please guys I need your advice. 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Politics / Re: Photos Of Buhari's Certificate Issued By Cambridge, UK by cheeseballs: 8:29am On Aug 03, 2019 |
I always said it that our fathers had an edge to life than us. Just look at the little trash subjects he did, and he still performed woefully compared to this generation's kid. Kids in this generation has to bombard them selfs with books after books, subjects after subjects, and that same parents of yours would tell you that your not doing enough. Just imagine that they were actually forced to goto school with free education/scholarship. And after their University, companies would be the one begging them to come work for them. Now a days, after Jamb has bleeped with you and you still made it, you will have to go through hell finding a job. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Buhari: Anybody Who Thinks He Has Any Other Country Than Nigeria, Goodbye by cheeseballs: 10:40am On Jul 25, 2019 |
contigiency:i would love to tell u that "may thunder faya u dia", but because we are online, i will not. Its people like u that has still not realized that, he works for us, not the other way around. When you see the likes of Donald Trump giving a speech to his citizens, you hear stuffs like "lets make America great again!". The only time you hear Trump talk trash is when he is referring to his opponents or his co-politicians or threats coming from other countries. You need a brain formatting slap walai.... 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: EFCC Arrests 9 Suspected Internet Fraudsters In Edo (Photos) by cheeseballs: 3:35pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
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Celebrities / Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Femi Otedola Not Wearing Wristwatch by cheeseballs: 3:31pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
A very humble reaction..... No blasting for today! Lol 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Gunshots At Bannes Wuse 2 Abuja, As Lady Closes Shop (Photos) by cheeseballs: 7:35pm On Jul 23, 2019 |
Gradually.... Nigeria is moving to the current status of Libya, just for a reason that could be easily averted. I am sure that it's when a politician is shot that this matter would be taken serious. It is clear that this is not a peaceful protest. Look at the speed buhari used to declare IPOB a terrorist organization with the full wrath of the Nigerian army and he is just pampering the shiites.... Abeg let them break into the government house abuja and do what they are good at.... It is well! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by cheeseballs: 8:16pm On Jul 22, 2019 |
Pascalville:please follow ur heart and don't break up with her before u even meet her, she sounds like a nice person. If worst comes to worst, u can just break up with her over there. |
Travel / Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by cheeseballs: 6:08pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Pascalville:bros i dont get it. She wants you to impregnate her before anything? What are you waiting for, abi she ugly? |
Politics / Re: BPE To Privatise 10 Remaining Nipps, Nigcomsat by cheeseballs: 1:12pm On Jul 20, 2019 |
GoTv u try oo. U just willingly ruined my chance of making it to FTC! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Sonia Chinonso Ekweremadu Graduates From University (Photos) by cheeseballs: 6:05pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
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Education / Re: Ondo Pupils Invent Machine, Win Trophy In Turkey by cheeseballs: 5:43pm On Jul 19, 2019 |
And where is the so called machine? 2 Likes 1 Share |
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