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sweettease: It's not inces.t...

OrlandoOwoh: It will be inces.t if you do it with her.

And that's my confusion. Whether it's inces.t or not. I have been trying my best to resist her. Most times i lay in my room with boxers on, she doesnt knock, she comes in, sits on my groin region. Many times she's tried for us to make love but i resisted cos even though i feel we don't relate, i don't think it's right doing it with my cousin's cousin in his own house. But for real i love her, yet take her as my sister. She is very beautiful and well endowed. We are both around our middle 20s but i'm about 11days older. I've only kissed her and this i did cos she's always mocks me that i'm too dull. So i had to give in to kissing her and that's just for once.

sweettease: This one is strong

It's not incest but in this kind of relationship, you can only be all in or all out, no games or the scandal will explode in your face.

hmmmm! This comment is quite scary even though it sounds like a parable to me. Please can you break it down a bit? I mean the bold text. Thanks

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slap1: 'Kweston' for the gods.

...and humans too

Mrval20: That's it bro, but don't regret any experience because whatever you passed through taught you a valuable lesson. Not all of them are that way though, there're still few of them who're willing to love you unconditionally. It's just that it'd take a long time to meet one, and I, for one, would rather invest that time in building my precious future (I mean why do I even have to search for true love when it should be as available as the air we breathe?).
@op, I'm sorry for digressing.

nothing do you. All join

rozzay: Choi ur name na unyours abeg leave dem o make dem finishe d thriller cos dis one pass terminator nd e no go good make bullet hit u for fence. Me wan know how d thing go end as dem no gree surrender no retreat no surrender

hehehehe! Babe, i think say you don leave cinema o. I no know say you deh my back deh watch. My fear now na make actor no wan come hit boss now di tin come land me for my face. Sorry unyours, this is your battle.

*takes my seat behind rozzay*

Ceasar1: “Just give me a reason” isn't that emotional for me. I find “Someone like you” much more emotional.

Don't think i know that. Was it sung by Pink too?

Mrval20: This really got me thinking and I perfectly understand what you mean by "have you ever been in love with someone that it makes you cry?"....I've been there! We were both in secondary school, she was my first love while I was hers too. Our official love song was "Treasure" (You're the treasure that I seek, you were close to me yet I did not know....etc. It was popular back then in 2009).
It's so unfortunate that I haven't had time (or perhaps luck) to experience the feelings I shared with her again since we parted ways. Unadulterated love, it was.
These days, all the ladies are all about money and that's why I have to forget them, focus and be successful first. No one falls in love with a broke dude.

wish i knew this on time. All my relationship ended base on that it's really hurting the way our ladies traded love for money. That's why at the end we later find it hard to love again - i mean true love.

It's very common that we have one or two love songs that binds us and our partner together. Song which you both love and play together. Songs that takes you both in the mood. I will start by sharing mine:
1. Stick By Me - by UB40. This song kept my first relationship going
2. Ain't Too Proud To Beg - by Eric Donaldson. This song was a strong hold in my relationship to the extent my girlfriend saw it playing on my BBM that she had to leave her home to come see me saying she began to feel my absence.
3. Just Give Me a Reason - by Pink.
I still cry till today each time i play this song. My ex and last girlfriend - this song made us cry like babies. The love was just so strong and this song took it to another level - just like brandy said "Have you been in love with someone and it makes you cry?". This was the type of love i'm talking about. I simply avoid playing this song till date cos of course big boys don't have to cry.
I'm a lover boy and i love love songs. Lol.
So share yours.

Xenaf: How would i no if hv been circumcised?

you ask your parents

OP is on point. And that's why ladies patronize perfumes and deodorants than guys. Studies also has also revealed in their private closets, guys are cleaner and well organised than ladies

Please read Genesis 1:21-27 also read Genesis 2:18-20

The former stated that all animals were created by God's commandment and this was done before he created man.

The latter stated that animals were created with God taking up soil to form them and this was done after the existence of man.

With an open heart, i will welcome a good and thorough explanation of this. Happy Sunday nairalanders!

kimberluge: Is it my fault you have been job hunting for over five months or so now? You just saw my thread and decided to pour all your frustration here. Didn't you see any other thread? Why are you so bitter towards someone you have never met before? A complete stranger? You can hack my Facebook account from now till tomorrow,it won't prove anything because am just a normal girl like every other girl out there. Your only showing the world how frustrated and bitter you are. People like you can kill! Please go to hell and meet your devil of a father because that's where you belong!

you also accepted you are the one...

kimberluge: Are you this obsessed with me that you had to go and hack my Facebook account? God! This guy is really possessed! What a lunatic! Please,am not interested in your proposal now,it's not by force! Stop hacking my Facebook account or should I delete it before you will get the message? Anyone who sees my picture will know that am nothing of what you described  there,moderators,I need to file a complaint as soon as possible. These are the kind of guys that rape girls simply because they insulted them online! God forbid you! Unyours the beast!

Here, you accepted it was you.

Chai! Unyours don make kimberluge deny herself o. Your friend and you have been taking it so personal. Your friend and you have been crying unyours hacked your facebook. Your friend and you have been claiming you are not ugly by posting your pix. Your friend and your nairaland profile took unyours to your facebook page(yeah, i have also checked you out). Your friend and you have been raining insult for her while she is behind you watching and nodding. Is that your friend paralysed? No vex, I refuse to agree with you. Was it because the guy said he will contact your siblings and parents? So you deh even fear ni? If i were you, i would have just closed my eyes and my mouth in shame and accept defeat. And unyours, please just have mercy on the poor girl for she knows not what she is doing. Abeg! On behalf of everybody here. She's no longer coordinated... Make una help me come beg o. Lol. Madam kimber, and stop calling more names cos if we have two unyours here.... *no comment*

Centrifuge4: It's part of her initial cover-up 4 saying she's 17. I saw her voter's card two days ago wic says otherwise. Besides, i'v neva touched her cos my type dont date let alone eating forbiden fruit.

now see how they wanna devour you. No mind dem jareh

tosyne2much: wisely said padi mi but frm my own unbiased point of view, I dnt think there's no future in dat relationship.. According to d OP, he's now in his 30's and d lady is 17.. The only tin I can see here is dat, if the OP plans to have a late marriage, FINE, but if otherwise, I don't support such relationship because dat wide age difference is a determining factor.. OP, pls do some calculations and statistics and you wld see dat it might jst be waste of tym and resources.. I think for now, you shld be involved in a relationship that would land you in marriage in no time cos age is not on ur side anymore

yeah, i understand you. I'm not even in support of the OP either cos it's glaring there's no future in that relationship. Still i won't blame him. Girls - always looking for wetin pass dem since 95BC. And OP, abeg try free the babe. If na s.ex you want, look for older babes; if na marriage; then wait make she reach 18 or 19.

This is no new trend to me. South african parents don't allow their daughters marry Nigerian men. Have a friend who use to be in your shoes. What she did was to conceive for the guy and the parents had no option. Both of them are happily married today. If you are sure he will marry you, i'll advice you take same path

OP i must confess i no learn anything here. I mean your tutorial was not helpful. You just assume say everyone here deh PhD level when me still deh try learn ABC. Abeg feed us examples especially the startup lines cos na there my problem from deh start. Even from my startup lines sef the babe don already deh look me as if make she land slap for my face.

OP, first of all, the age difference is nothing. Though she's still a minor and shouldn't be involved in any relationship yet. But OP i can't judge you cos many of those who came here to judge you wont say they never had boyfriends or girlfriends at age of 14-17. Even if you don't date her, she might be dating a minor like herself. Assuming you are 50 while she's 35 no one will shout age difference yet both cases are of same difference. People sef ehn. OP just no mind anybody wey yab you here. Na talk dem wan talk... She's a minor, and the age difference is large but OP it's a norm seeing girls of that age in relationships - in fact, most have lost their virginity to fellow minors. As for the age difference, very very much O.K.

*drops mic*

I didn't read all through but from the statistics, i noticed that in the North, males performed better than the female folks whereas the reverse is the case in the South... But that's actually none of my business...

OP, Psquare are 9ja guys so allow them do their own thing in the 9ja way. Let them invade the America market any how it is. I tell you black americans and Africans over there are appreciating their effort. Seriously, you don't know what you have until you lose it. Let's promote our country whether they do it like the americans or not. For me, their style is unique and they are giving it out in the African way. I remember the past when Africa was no where in music but these days we hardly notice the american or foreign music cos we are getting great as well. They are really making us proud. Go boys and come back to share another testimony!

rozzay: I'm fine deary, una com watch film abi

my dear, this one pass film. Choi!

tosyne2much: jst quoted to hear ur voice... Pls let's end it here b4 guys go come accuse me of woman wrapper-ing

hahahahahaha! BURSTED!

tosyne2much: I doubt if God himself understands Nigerian ladies.... I av once lost my gf to an ugly broke asss nigga.... D guy was more less a tout, as she substitute me for a guy becomes a mystery till date

it was a mystery cos the chemystery was not there between both of you. Maybe you no sabi do. You fit don deh form holy Jacob whereas she desires a rough guy-man. Always show attitude that will boost her body chemystery to always want you.

marieolae: . Guess again

Mary Ebola = marieola. You converted Y to I cos they sound alike, then eliminated B

tosyne2much: Rozzay wats up na? Hw u 2day

se you no see me wey call you here abi? Now this is woman wrapper-ing!

kayjasper: Will you just shut your xhildish rant babe, just shut it and learn!!

To be realistic Kimberluge you just needed to be calm and chill to make it in the marketing world. You were been teased by the guys and next thing you started yapping and cursing them out.

If you want to be successful As a marketer you need to learn how to answer the most annoying questions to charm your audience.

Your temper got the best of you and instead of handling the question from the guys well, you turned it into a war zone. You were the one who spoilt your own rep here.

Learn from this very amiable lady MzTyna on how to market online without being brash and razz.

I hope you have learnt a thing or two from this thread.

Cheers in the our future endeavor.

i will respect you forever... You are just superb! Seriously i have learnt alot from this thread. Don't talk to strangers anyhow cos you are hiding under the shadow of being online. Don't be surprise to see the person at your doorstep tomorrow... kimberluge, seriously, i only wish you have learnt something from this. Just calm down and execute you work perfectly. If you are a working class, carry yourself like who you claim you are. Thank you.

kimberluge: Is it my fault you have been job hunting for over five months or so now? You just saw my thread and decided to pour all your frustration here. Didn't you see any other thread? Why are you so bitter towards someone you have never met before? A complete stranger? You can hack my Facebook account from now till tomorrow,it won't prove anything because am just a normal girl like every other girl out there. Your only showing the world how frustrated and bitter you are. People like you can kill! Please go to hell and meet your devil of a father because that's where you belong!

Like seriously? So you know this?

adaobi123: I hate wearing bras, they can be quite uncomfortable. If only I had small bõobs, I would go braless every day.

pishure or ...you know na

Ghen ghen ghen ghen... rozzay, tosyne2much, una deh miss o abi una deh see wetin i deh see? Breeze don blow and fowl nyashes don deh open. But that's none of my business...