Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 6:30pm On Mar 30, 2024 |
labake1: Why? If you are my friend, I will not have any romantic feelings with you So you only have sex with random guys and no strings attached abi. From what I deduce from your submission, it's like you've never been in a relationship before. |
Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 6:21pm On Mar 30, 2024 |
labake1: If you like me, just ask me out because we talked everyday, you just assumed that I am your girlfriend when I am just seeing you like a brother and a friend. Have u ever been in a romantic relationship before? He had access to Ur honeypot. |
Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 6:15pm On Mar 30, 2024 |
labake1: I don't even know if I should call all my past lovers "ex" because I didn't date them but they assumed that we were dating then.
They were just like a brother from another mother to me 🤣🤣🤣. So if I start dating u today, you'd see me as your brother. I have plenty sisters na, why brother-zone me. Chai |
Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 6:09pm On Mar 30, 2024 |
Nicepoker: Even a drunkard will never ask this kind of question. I don't get u |
Family › Re: Paternity Fraud: Will You Still Keep The Children? by Chenzee(op): 5:22pm On Mar 30, 2024 |
Natbrowny: What will you do? Can't say really. Many things could happen, Humiliation, Murder etx etc etc
Will you keep them? F*CK NO
Will you still love them as much as you did? F*CK NO. After discovery, things changes. FOR REAL
Heheheheee! Bro, tamper justice with mercy na. The children are innocent na.
What happens to your wife? Her problem. Its her kids, They will leave my residence with immediate effect. Situations like this requires zero patience and full ruthlessness..
My sacrifices stops when discovery is made. As heartbroken and painful as it can be.
Na why gun violence dey UK be that. Discover shits like dis, open fire straight and go to jail knowing u judged someone as you are been judged too. |
Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 11:16am On Mar 30, 2024 |
Chukwuka319: There's nothing to like again about an ex, once the relationship is over.You have no business living in nostalgia over your ex, unless the relationship breakup was due to circumstances beyond human control, and not due to attitudes, infidelity and all that. But the bottom line is: Avoid being in a relationship with any man or woman who is still nostalgic over their ex, because it never ends well. If they happen to coincidentally bump into their ex, they will cheat on you without hesitation. Gbamsolutely! |
Romance › Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(op): 10:41am On Mar 30, 2024 |
Chrisrare: Why do you care what women want, don't you have a life of your own? Understanding your spouse is one of the greatest secret to a successful relationship or marriage; except if you don't have one and don't intend to have one. |
Family › Paternity Fraud: Will You Still Keep The Children? by Chenzee(op): 10:34am On Mar 30, 2024 |
After years of training and loving your children, you discover they aren't yours.
What will you do? Will you keep them? Will you still love them as much as you did? What happens to your wife? |
Romance › Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(op): 10:25am On Mar 30, 2024 |
STEWpid: What I want is for relationship intruders to be beaten blue-black.
...and for them to be in a very Chai.. situation like the ones below;
Chai.. Heheheheee! Hanty STEW. |
Romance › Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(op): 10:20am On Mar 30, 2024 |
iamtardey: Choosed to be used..??  I know what I want. Yea. Sometimes even if they choose you, they still have a way of using or manipulating u oo. |
Romance › Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(op): 10:14am On Mar 30, 2024 |
stanvesco: 1. Allow the woman to choose you always! The rest is easy! Hmmm! Word. |
Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 10:12am On Mar 30, 2024 |
illicit: Her sex game was top notch... Heheheheee! And now Ur libido is hardly fed to satisfaction. Kpele. |
Romance › Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 10:10am On Mar 30, 2024 |
ignis: what a question Answer na |
Romance › What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(op): 10:09am On Mar 30, 2024 |
Women/ladies are so complex, unpredictable and un-pleasable 😜 that I think they should be studied as a course in our tertiary institutions. You go out of your way to please them. Trying to please a lady is a waste of time. At the end they still go for the highest bidder.
What do women/ladies really want? |
Romance › What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(op): 9:49am On Mar 30, 2024 |
What do you still like about your ex?
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Crime › Re: 14-Year-Old Boy Slumps On The Road In Jos After Taking Tramadol (Video) by Chenzee(m): 1:54pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
geosuzzy: Lolss....bros I stay in Jos retract that statement...me n you know say na them get Jos now ooo U must have stayed in some parts of Jos-north that is Hausa dominated ma'am. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:43pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
franugo: So it's okay for the siblings to tell the man? Then how about op tells a sibling who in turn tells the man, would that then be okay by you? I wonder. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:36pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
BareFacedLies: Why do you want to go and rock the boat?
Can you swear that your friend does not have a sidechick? Are u justifying her dirty and wicked act? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:28pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
Highestpromoton: Listen to this if you really want to help your friend. Thanks. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:25pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
pretydiva: Your friend won’t believe you if you tell him his “Angel” fiancée is cheating on him since you said he’s madly in love with her
Would suggest you gather enough evidence before spilling the bitter pill for him to swallow The man in question calls her name every time he's discussing how sweet she is. The most annoying thing is that she's my mum's namesake. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:20pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
Kobicove: I think you should let your friend find out for himself but you should drop hints for him if you can Thanks. I'll do that. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:17pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
tochez24: Don't tell him any SINGLE thing⚠️
Simps are irrational extremely emotional beings that are even worse than women themselves, he might even add you to his drama if you tell him because they lack masculinity in dealing with issues like real men do!!!
But he's my very good friend. My conscience won't allow me rest.
The only way they learn is through the HARD way⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️
Leave him alone let him raise another man's children 🙄
Avoid simps like you avoid loose women if you want to live long oga. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:12pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
DiskJokeyManic: If dis is not a made-up story ND u didn't tell ur friend something like dis, den u re a very very very wicked person😑... I won't pray to have a friend like u😐....
Listen,,,,, a broken relationship is very much better Dan a broken marriage.... If he can take a day off from his work so he can catch her redhanded. Still better. But all in all, make sure u tell him They aren't married yet. That's why I'm asking for possible ways of letting him know. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:10pm On Mar 29, 2024*. Modified: 1:48pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
DiskJokeyManic: If dis is not a made-up story ND u didn't tell ur friend something like dis, den u re a very very very wicked person😑... I won't pray to have a friend like u😐....
Listen,,,,, a broken relationship is very much better Dan a broken marriage.... If he can take a day off from his work so he can catch her redhanded. Still better. But all in all, make sure u tell him Me wicked? That's very harsh. It won't be easy to tell him. What if it causes a rift between us? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:07pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
MrBrownJay1: @Chenzee if this was "your" babe and your friend knew that she was cheating, what would you want him to do? He adores this babe. And remember she's his fiancée. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 1:01pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
EreluRoz: He should mind his business afterall he's just a friend and not his brother or relative That will be very wicked of me. My conscience will never allow me rest. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 12:57pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
chatinent: Don't leave a brother with regrets. Some will say you mind your business but I say you spill the milk in a way he catches them red-handed. Don't you think it will devastate him? |
Romance › Re: How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 12:53pm On Mar 29, 2024 |
EreluRoz: Mind your business.
Did you catch him red-handed on top of her or did you see his organ going inside of her? So shush it So until I catch him red-handed abi. |
Romance › How Do I Let Him Know That His Fiancée Is Cheating On Him? by Chenzee(op): 9:00pm On Mar 28, 2024 |
My very good friend who works as a security in a bank(though a graduate) and does other menial jobs just to keep head above the waters, has a fiancée whom he adores so much. He would always tell us how he can't wait to marry her, and how she won't allow anyone touch her (him inclusive) until her wedding night (the main reason why He's fallen head over heels for her). He proudly calls her his angel in public.
There is this pompous, dark complexioned married Hausa man. He's not just ugly but dirty, and has this disgusting habit of repeatedly scratching his itchy scrotum even in public places. The irony here is, despite all these disgusting and dirty stuffs; he is highly successful in his place of work.
This Hausa man is a chronic womaniser who is only interested in sleeping with young Christian ladies (mostly from the university or the polytechnic in the city). He's the "kiss and tell type" (most men are). He eats the "forbidden fruit" in his friend's room (the friend who is always not around due tight schedules) which is in the compound I stay.
One fateful evening he brought a lady from the state polytechnic for his usual sexcapade. She wore a black gown and veil that covered her face. I was going out to get myself some cold drinks (as Kano was very hot then), when we coincidentally bumped into each other (myself, Alhaji and the lady). Her veil accidentally fell off her face. I saw a pretty face and passed before she could pick the veil from the floor. The face rang a bell, but because I was in a haste, I couldn't place a finger. After he had fully fed his libido, he'd come out and tell us everything that happened in "za oza room" as if we asked.
He grew fond of this particular lady as though he'd customise her (into his personal LovePeddler). And every time he'd gist us everything that happened. I grew so irritated of him and the lady (though I've never seen her before that time). On a certain Saturday I decided to visit my friend because he had been pestering me to come see his angelic fiancée. Lo and behold! It's Alhaji's intimacy gadget. I recognized her but she'd never seen me before. I was in shock but had to pretend to have never seen her before.
Dilemma. Should I tell him or not? If yes then how do I go about it? Do you think she'd change when she eventually gets married? It will definitely hurt him, but will he believe me? So many things running through my mind. |
Education › Difference Between Pride, Ego And Arrogance. by Chenzee(op): 8:21am On Jan 12, 2023 |
I always confuse one of these for the other, and even use them interchangeably.
Pride: self satisfaction gained from achievements, qualities, or possessions.
Ego: self esteem or self admiration.
Arrogance: to exaggerate one's importance or abilities. Too much ego leads to arrogance.
I once thought and still think pride is for extroverts, while ego is for introverts. And that people with ego are too sensitive to what people say about them, hence they easily get angry.
Need more clarification. |
Family › A Barren Woman Got Pregnant After Been Raped. Should She Abort? (pic) by Chenzee(op): 11:51am On May 14, 2021 |
A barren woman gets pregnant after being raped by robbers. She's been married for 20 years without a child.
Should she abort or keep? What would you do as the husband?
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Romance › A Barren Woman Accidentally Got Pregnant After Been Raped. Should She Abort? Pic by Chenzee(op): 7:23am On May 14, 2021 |
A barren woman gets pregnant after 20 years of marriage. What will you do as the woman? What will you do as her husband?
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