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Romance / Re: What will you do in this situation? by Chenzee(m): 9:56am On Apr 11
Igbofirstson:
you can’t satisfy those creatures they hate hearing the truth once you tell them the truth the silent treatment with start ,they are possessed by demon sad sad

It's very annoying. It irritates me.

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Romance / Re: What will you do in this situation? by Chenzee(m): 9:55am On Apr 11
Sonnobax15:
I understand bro..but that's life for you and me....The better you know now that people are bound to come into our lives and equally bound to leave anytime they deem fit,the better for your heart.

Make he move on abeg..

I pray he understands.
Romance / Re: What will you do in this situation? by Chenzee(m): 9:50am On Apr 11
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
The bitter truth here is that that banny has used you to heal...So now she's been healed,she just wanna end the whole relation-boat both of you were...

Make he move on with him life abeg....At least,he should be wise Enough to know he has been dumped.

It's gonna be a bitter pill for him to swallow considering his condition.
Romance / What will you do in this situation? by Chenzee(m): 9:21am On Apr 11
This guy had been wooing this lady for over 3 years but she repeatedly turned him down. He then had this very horrible accident that paralysed his left shoulder/arm. He couldn't go back to his place of work (a private organisation), as he had to relocate back to his parents house for proper care since he wasn't married.

The lady eventually accepted to date the guy, either because of his continued absence (they say ; absence makes the heart grow fonder) or she was served breakfast in an anonymous relationship. Either ways, it never mattered to him (at least he now has his dream woman)

They were all loved-up until the lady started exhibiting some weird attitude. She''d give him silent treatment for weeks over issues he can't actually place a finger on. If he asks her to tell him what's wrong with her, she'll retort or mumble with a "nothing" (I personally hate such answers). He'd ask if she's tired of the relationship probably due to his continued absence. She'd say she still loves him. It's been months now, she doesn't call, text or chat. She picks offence anytime he asks if she's tired of the relationship. She's never remorseful. If he flares up, another wahala.

I wonder why she's still in the relationship. Is it familiarity (familiarity breeds contempt) or going through some confidential issues. He loves her so much and even intends to marry her. If I advise him to ditch her, he reminds me of how many ladies rejected him because of his condition, if he leaves her; how and where will he start from? That he'd rather she calls it quit, but not him (considering her immense sacrifice).

I think he needs serious prayer.
Or do you think she'd eventually change.
How should he handle this toxic and emotionally draining relationship?
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 7:50am On Apr 11
Bahamas95:
I don't want any of them to come an inch close to me, the "business" is over.

I believe they were still nursing the hope that I would come back and marry them, but after they heard of my marriage reality dawned on them. I can't marry a woman that would give me problem.

You see these Nigerian ladies, they value marriage certificate more than any other certificate in the world but pride/pretence won't make them admit. Forget these annoying nairaland feminists constituting nuisance here, they're only catching cruise. They all wish to get married........Nigerian women take marriage as top priority.

Sure word! A feminist can talk her friend out of a "toxic" relationship and still go after d same guy.
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:17pm On Apr 09
argent412:
Two days ago....I miss him Sha πŸ™‚

Ehyaaa! U still have feelings for him abi... grin😜
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 10:09am On Apr 09
Update147:
We just finished chatting on Whatsapp nai I enter nairaland so.. and we dey plan to Bleep when ever we see again.

Hope none of u is married or hooked up in anyway. That'll be unfair oo. πŸ™„πŸ™„
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:42am On Apr 09
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I recently chatted my immediate Ex up last week.....She was very happy to hear from me,cuz I could feel it my own side .......Tho she's been married,but I thought it'd be nice if I just let bygones be bygones and that was why I chatted her up....I asked about her husband,and her fam,and she equally asked about my fam too and my current banny........We had some funny jokes tho I was very careful,so as not to cross boundaries.......

Las las,life no hard.....I don't nurture grudges and keep malice cuz life no too long........
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:34am On Apr 09
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I recently chatted my immediate Ex up last week.....She was very happy to hear from me,cuz I could feel it my own side .......Tho she's been married,but I thought it'd be nice if I just let bygones be bygones and that was why I chatted her up....I asked about her husband,and her fam,and she equally asked about my fam too and my current banny........We had some funny jokes tho I was very careful,so as not to cross boundaries.......

Las las,life no hard.....I don't nurture grudges and keep malice cuz life no too long........

QED. I admire your maturity.
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:45pm On Apr 08
Bahamas95:
Since I got married few months ago they all started beefing me codedly, they don't call me anymore unlike before......I nor send dia papa!







The reality is hitting them hard. I believe they'll come around, except if u r d one at fault or you r d hit and run type of guy.
Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:38pm On Apr 08
slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

See them emotional men coments everywhere


So what is wrong if I call my ex?

People just think relationship is a do or die thing

If he doesn't work and after break that won't prevent you from reaching out to her and saying hi

Life is not all about relationships there is more to life

Exactly bro.

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Romance / Re: When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:37pm On Apr 08
Savedday2:
Call her for what nah?

because, say them renovate your old primary school come means say, make you go back to primary school again?

Infact, if my ex call me or send me birthday message, e dey vex me.

I never knack new, new girls finish, na you wey I don scatter your kpekus, na him I want call ?

Ur pikin go go d primary school na. And you dey go pick am for school cheesy
Romance / When Last Did You Call Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 2:33pm On Apr 08
I know you sometimes feel like calling to check up on him/her. Why not try, especially if you still miss him/her. Swallow your pride and deflate your ego.

Remember, he/she was once your world. grin
Culture / Represent Your Tribe And State It's Uniqueness. by Chenzee(m): 9:28am On Apr 01
Represent your tribe and tell us what's unique about the culture. It may be special meals/delicacies, attire, way of life etc.
Romance / What Is Your Love Language? by Chenzee(m): 9:14am On Apr 01
What is your love language?
Is it food, money, s*x, respect, beauty etc.
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 9:11am On Apr 01
freeborn02:


It's not kpele. It is Pele

Thanks for the correction.
Romance / Re: Who Are The Bigger Liars In A Relationship; Ladies Or Guys? by Chenzee(m): 8:41am On Mar 31
chatinent:
Everyone lies...even your serious pastor.

Oga, must you include Pastor here.
Who are the bigger liars; ladies or guys? period. Which one come be even your pastor.
You sound like an unapologetic and a blatant liar yourself.

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Religion / Once Saved, Always And Forever Saved. Do You Believe? by Chenzee(m): 8:13am On Mar 31
Once saved, always saved. Do you believe?
Can one lose his salvation?
Back it up with scriptural references.

Happy Easter Sunday to you all.
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:02am On Mar 31
nams77:


Why you no share you own first

Very hardworking, respectful (especially the way she respects my parents ehn), hospitable, decently social. But she was highly promiscuous (she was once regarded as a public toilet by neutral people who had no idea I was dating her) and so many revelations about her.

The way she made my parents fell in love with her ehn! That girl na psychological politician abeg.

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Family / Re: Paternity Fraud: Will You Still Keep The Children? by Chenzee(m): 7:48am On Mar 31
SIMPonPatrol:


So you want to tell me that if you nurture your child from a baby up to the time he graduates from a private university at the age of 22 you will suddenly remember to do DNA test then disown the child if the test is negative?

Is that not foolishness?!

Oga, u do DNA test not so you'd disown the children but to confirm your suspicion. If you are sure they're yours, fine. But once you have any doubt about their paternity, oga you'd never be able to sleep well. It's because it hasn't happened to you sha.
Romance / Re: What Do Women really want? by Chenzee(m): 8:03pm On Mar 30
talk2hb1:

Never take them too serious, let them do the relationship.

Abi. But you have to be serious when it comes to settling down though
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 8:00pm On Mar 30
[quote author=bluefilm post=129188855]Her big booty is still the standard for me[/quote

🀣🀣🀣. Your moniker says it all.
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 7:58pm On Mar 30
Divoc19:
smiley
Thanks. Soon.

Best of luck dear.

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Romance / Re: Who Are The Bigger Liars In A Relationship; Ladies Or Guys? by Chenzee(m): 7:56pm On Mar 30
immortalcrown:
The two genders are equally guilty in this case.

True.
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 7:55pm On Mar 30
Glocee:
Nothing. I can't even remember anything about him πŸ˜‚

🀣🀣🀣🀣. You harsh oo. Applaud him small na.
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 7:48pm On Mar 30
Divoc19:
He looks like my Dad. When am with him I feel secure. But heists self centered and greedy undecided

Ehya! Sorry. Hope you're with someone better now.

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Romance / Who Are The Bigger Liars In A Relationship; Ladies Or Guys? by Chenzee(m): 7:41pm On Mar 30
Who are the bigger liars in a relationship; ladies or guys?

Some said when it comes to lying, that the devil is still an apprentice compared to ladies of this generation.
True or false.
Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 7:25pm On Mar 30
reciprokal:
only confused and damaged people make posts like this and talk about their ex in a longing way

You're spitting rubbish.

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Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 7:22pm On Mar 30
Uniquekriss:
Which of the ex's please. Last ex, penultimate or first, OP kindly learn to be precise in your questions next time.

🀣🀣🀣. The one you deflowered!

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Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 6:30pm On Mar 30
labake1:



Why? If you are my friend, I will not have any romantic feelings with you

So you only have sex with random guys and no strings attached abi. From what I deduce from your submission, it's like you've never been in a relationship before.

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Romance / Re: What Do You Still Like About Your Ex? by Chenzee(m): 6:21pm On Mar 30
labake1:



If you like me, just ask me out because we talked everyday, you just assumed that I am your girlfriend when I am just seeing you like a brother and a friend.

Have u ever been in a romantic relationship before? He had access to Ur honeypot.

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