mubowa:

because you are not good on bed, ask the good guys and they will tell you the girls keep coming back even when d guyz dont want them. a friend use to say. a girl only needs to be taken out once. if u had to take her out b4 u sleep with her again, that means you are not good on bed. he said the girls always comeback with food stuff and other stuff so they can be bang

Then i bet u the girl has no dignity.

Na this type of people dey make dem dey yab naija student. I guess you are trying to make humour from your post right?

nofin wey we no go c 4 naija

i should ask u diz question. waz ur boyfriend worth cheatin on? coz dat is what u r doin.and u cannot love 2 people. i love one and lust for one

Girl, flee abeg. dump him. if all u've said is the truth the writting is very clear. and also no amount of beggin should change ur mind.because u will never be respected if both of u gets married eventually

My guy give her time. if possible delete her number from ur fone n ur head. She wants to compare guys move on with your wife. there is one girl dying to show you her love. abeg free dat babe. she is not worth you. and always remember no matter what u do, people always leave.

the same girl that wants a bad guy will now come and start posting of how bad guys are. How they broke her heart. If she need some1 dat smokes and drinks,and cheats to make the relationship interest in believe she sound quit. and she will see lots of them. But please after misbehaving don't go back begging this guy for forgiveness. I am beggin you now

I just saw the match again. The goal had been scored before the 4th official indicated 4min injury time. If you doubt it see the match again and watch ballamy's celebration you will know what I am talking about. as for those complaining about chelsea's game against stoke. J Bettie was on the pitch for good 7min,while they attended to him. Sorensen also used up the same number of time. so the time was justifiable. Against totham 5min was added as injury time because bousong was injured and it took time to attend to him. As for those talking about keane's penalty against chelsea what then will you say about Asso ekoto's use of the hand when lampard took the free kick I see no reason why the ref should add such a time when there was no serious tackle. also there was no delay with subsitution from man-city's side so why that time.
Against Arsenal a goal was scored within that added time but it was cancelled because it was offside. in 6games, Man u have been given 2penalties.

it not a crime. He can decide to have what his friends has by disvirgining himself with a girl but they can never have what he has. they can never be virgin again

'' I should make my intention of what I’m trying to make out of this issue clear to her’’

for her previous statements. I have not fear about it. But for this particular statement, i might be very suspicious that something is going on. Why will she ever think of a breakup when you just asked a simple question? that is one thing with female. they want to always be right in everything they do.

@poster
How would fill if your wife comes back one day and tells you, she saw her childhood friend and they are in love. and blah blah blah. just the way you did. Don't you reason One thing is for sure. if you definately leave your marriage for this girl, definately you will also leave her for another childhood friend. Why not love ur wife. and see her as your african queen? or is dat too difficult for you to do?

University of MTN. there frank Idoho will make you a millionaire

I strongly support ASUU. even though i am affected i believe i am paying the price for the future generation. In 2007 there was a 3month strike of this same issue. Will will ASUU not want to continue the strike, since this particular issue has been going on since 2001. before the nigerian tunisia match our government organized a fund raising dinner while our school system is not working. for those people arguing can someone tell me one section under this new government that is functioning?

men facebook bad big time. it is just a way to break good relationship. my gf also added comlicated relationship to her facebook statue and when i told her,she said i should check the profile and know the one i will choose,because of that she removed me from her friends list since then i have been cool wiv that. facebook is not a website to gain knowledge rather a place to break relationship. because the websites is based on lies, I love NL

Do, Please i need your advice, its very important to me. I am kind of like noticing some decline in my sexual feeling. I release withing a min and my penis goes down easily,and it take time to come up, i feel i am not getting to the full length whenever it comes up. also my semen is kind of watery. I did STI test last two year and also did the same test last year with XYZ test all prove negative. I don't know what next to do. it is really affecting me. what do you recommend i doHelp a fellow broda doc

well my dear there is nothing more to suggest than you suggesting for yourself. If he beats his wife because of you, then you are wrong even if you try as much as possible to avoid his wife's trouble because he is beating his wife to prove that he loves you. which to me is a big lie. if he loves you, he will allow you to find your own happiness. can't you see what he is doing to you, he is a stumbling block to your happiness, he is a barrier to your future and you need to clear him out of the way for you to see your bright future. do this by prayer and also your brain. let your yes be yes. tell him you have nothing to do with him again, and don't cry in his presence when you tell him that.you can cry later. he knows your weak point and he is using it against you. I want you to try and turn your weak point to your strong point. further more. please send him this massage Jesus christ loves you, please try and find happiness in your marriage because Jesus is in your marraige. talk more about God to him and you will see how he will run away from you immediately

@poster

Do you know the harm you are doing to yourself? I definitely think both of you are lusting after each other and not loving each other. Come to think of it, do you know that every prayer his wife prays that is negative against you comes to you? Now you are her number one enemy and she will be praying God to destroy anybody that wants to destroy her marriage and definitely God will answer that prayer because she is right. Maybe then your heart will let go. He knows he can't have you and he is milking you by having sex with you, that is suppose to be for your future husband and a married man is taken 20% of the juice in you, and you stand here telling me your heart don't want to let him go? When will you grow up? How will you feel if your own husband is doing this to you, and then the girl in question tells you that both of them love each other, I simply call that lust we have mistaken Lust for Love. Please dear consider yourself now that it is early for you, the negative consequences of this relationship with this guy is greater that the positive consequences. Please flee for your own sake. A word is enough for the Wise. Remember God is the ultimate judge

does the fact that she is with you means that she will not cheat or you will not loose her

TheSeeker:

And those partners that are closer to each other, how many of them are faithful? Tell me. You want to tell me you don't see the alarming rate at which people cheat? Take NL for instance, do you know how many problems are posted here every week. A distant relationship may as well work as a close one, it depends on your outset about it.

If you already have doubts before starting it then you will have a problem because every time you'll have it at the back of your mind that it wouldn't work, just like you do now.

What about people who were apart from their girlfriends and boyfriends for more than three years for some reasons, and they still got back together, continued their relationship and subsequently got married? What happened to those?

Like I said, it's from what ever angle you see it from. Some people might be very paranoid (which can be understandable sometimes) but I like to look at the brighter side of every situation, much more like successful people have done and still do. Distant relationship is a challenge on its own and only the bravely courageous can thread on that latitude.

You mentioned presence? How can not being present mar a relationship? The relationships that have gone sour, what caused them even when the presence was abundantly there? Why did so many distant relationships worked? How can you explain that? Again I say, it depends on the set of people involved: Their belief, their goal, their maturity, their comfort level and their understanding. Because in closer relationships, you'll still fail if you lack in any of those areas and don't know what you really want. For real though, what does presence have to do that it's suddenly become the most important factor to making a relationship work?

I think the problem with people is that they can't hold tight and peg down their sexual desire hence, they cheat and sleep with someone else and in their minds, they might or might not feel guilty but will try to console themselves that their partner will most definitely be doing the same - that is where the problem lies for others.

I am with you in this side of arguement. Many individual dating now doesn't know the reason why they are dating. the sexual aspect is their main importance. that is why a girl will comfortable tell a guy in a relationship that he is not satisfying her sexual need. infact short distance relationship has higher probability rate of cheaters than long distance relationship, reasons are because both of you feel you see each other daily, material demands involve from both side, sexual desire, old fashioned, there are several excuses many individaul who involves themselves in short distance relationship gives just to cheat on the other

Thanks Doc, My fears are, hope the drug will not demage anything in her system, also will her period return to normal. because it like she saw her mc twices in a month. also should we have anything to worry about her being pregnant? I really appreciate your advice

Hello doc,

I need your help and advice. My girl friend saw her period on july 25-29 and later this month on the 13th she saw it again. there was a time we had sex without protection and she took postinure 2. i don't know what caused the abnormality in her period. should we have anything to worry about?

this is the highest distraction a man can get. Oboy don't even compromise that for anything. maintain ur ground. don't pick her call anylonger. don't go to her house again except when you are with your friend. and if you notice any funny thing o boy flee. becos this is the earliest and easiest grave a man can dig for himself and future.

what makes ilorin the best. is it her 1month and school and 3months at home?

no doubt about it. the babe is not after your money. but after your love and this are kind of girls you do not let go. she wants your good. atleast if na sucker she be, she for don suck you dry and youself want make dem suck you. But God in his infinite wisdom. gave you a sweet girl. O boy dey thank God ohh

trust me. It better you go back from here than making issues more complicated. Don't even think of marrying him cos who knows ur first child might be the ss. and also stop having sex with him again coz it an abomination. open your heart to another man. who know he might be better for you

sometimes, women just get themselves into difficult situation. It very simple to break. you said both of you broke for 4months and now he is back. What was the coz of the breakup if i may ask?

i will advice you indirectly chip in something lyk dat to your bf. who knows maybe indirectly they are trying to test your fidelity. but when he makes such passes to you again. my dear just tell your hobby sharp sharp

olanajim:

How did you know she is a lesbian? Just curious,

By the way, is your girl also Lesbian?

I do read her post on fb. dat is on my girls inbox on fb since i secretly know her password. My girl is not a les****

hackingisfun:

Track her down and if she really do it then she's addicted

I am still doing some check up on her. I guess she will go to the girls place with her friend. I guess for the remaining day i will try as much as possible not to discuss the matter with her again

she told me she will not do it. The fact was that when she was in boarding house she did not engage in such a thing. i don't know why now. She might end up not doing it. but my fear is that she is giving this girl green light by telling her she also luvs her. both of them are currently discussing about les***** thing now. i appreciate it because she tells me all what they have been writing but she does not know that i am some how reading the
messages on fb. but i pretend and ask her as if i am doing a follow up

Pls I just need advice from you guy/girl. Pls no rude comments.
I have this girl I am currently dating and I love her so much. But I fear she is too venerable. I believe she is letting her hormones control her so much. Recently I have been doing all I can to please her. I know that she loves me but I feel she just wants to taste the waters because she is still kind of young. She is in 100level in my school. Recently I have been doing a check up on her especially on her fb. There is this particular girl she told me about, then they attended the same church and this girl behaves like a guy and in other words she is a les****. Somehow the girl left the church because of what my girlfriend’s mother told her and also because of the feeling she had and could not express it to her then because they were young then. After like about 8year both of them somehow re-united through fb. Somehow both of them have been flirting on fb and I have been begging my girl that she should not do anything stupid. Because I cannot stand same sex intercourse. Recently I called her to my place and asked to promise me and her family that she will never have sex with a fellow girl. I told her that it is better she does it with a guy than a girl because that is the natural order of creation. Somehow she told me she will not do it. But she doesn’t want to promise because she feels promise is a very big debt. Now the problem is that she will be going to visit the girl next week and if she eventually sleeps with the girl, I know I am going to hate her all the rest of my life. Please what do you guys advice me to do. Should I still keep begging her or allow her to do it and tell her I know about it? I don’t want her to make one of the greatest mistakes of her life.

i cannot kiss a girl i don't love now, I know see it as something special and should not be done anyhow.