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Abiagirl777:
I love love your name.will keep it in mind when God finally blesses with an xx.

He will dear, I'm sure He has granted this your desire!

Abiagirl777:
lol,that was then but now children are getting wiser.my 23 mth old has made it a point of duty to always wear his shoes indoors ,so any movt at the door he is prepared.

brandydaniells:
[b][/b] cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

Have you been eyeing your mum? Abeg swerve...

On a more serious note, please allow the woman to be happy, she deserves to be happy.
She really tried to have waited for many years, probably trying to raise you and your siblings well.
Be happy for her too.

cescky:
you wish!

even male animals dont climb male animals
iranu

My dear..... I wish these gays would look at the animals sexual orientation and know that homosexuality is not natural!

LifeIsGuhd:
Lmaooooo
That police no get joy oo

Na the slap open their eyes oo

You got me cracking...

Chaiii!!!!! @ chinology and comrChris, unu abuo emeboo anyi!!!!!

Kedu ihe unu na-azo? Unu were noro n'ebea n'echu anyi.
Biko hichaanu ihe ndia unu dere ebea.
Esekpum ala ayo unu.

Ayotundesh:
Do you know how many children are walking the streets in Nigeria without an education??

Do you know if they got themselves thrown out of school because of their bad behavior??

Is it the woman's salary that you are looking at?
Or the manthat is supposed to take care of his children.
If she pays all the bills, house rent, feeding....
Maybe she is trying to give the husband a wake up call...that the children are suffering because he is not contributing.

So in case you don't have personal beef against these peoplebe ready to see lots of children like these every where in the country and be ready to help.

I don't usually do this, but then, nawao for your reasoning!
What sane woman would leave such young children with a frustrated sick man?
Even if one has a beef with one's spouse, the children should NEVER be used as a bait.

The story is old sef, hope the OP finally did something for those kids.

Inasmuch I don't concur to the way she advertised herself out here, let's be realistic, many married people in Nigeria are so lonely especially the women.
For those of you condemning her, do not throw the baby away with the bath water.

I bet she blurted all that out, out of frustration. A lot of people come to the family section just to get at least consoled or have their problems shared and half solved instead of outright condemnation.

Please let us guard our tongues, 'be a buddy, not a bully'.

As for the OP, I'm having the same problem in my marriage, have tried to work on it with my spouse for years now but nothing seemed to be working. I have never thought of belittling myself as per cheating on my husband, rather I channel that loneliness to having so much on my hands, like; child-rearing, job, hobbies, friends, family, lots of things. Though I am quite occupied, but I must admit that I still have a 'tweeny little' loneliness feeling especially the emotional aspect. For me, once my children are grown, I might consider filing for divorce. I just pray for the strength to hold on still till that time.
Just know that you're not alone. If your spouse is willing to work with you on curbing that loneliness, please do encourage him.

KevinDein:
Messi vs Ronaldo rivalry is a media creation to keep things interesting. It doesn't exist in that a rivalry happens only between equals or almost equals. But Messi in reality is planets ahead of Ronaldo. Messi's real rivals where in other eras; maradona, Pele etc.

Ronaldo is just a very gifted athlete who happens to be fantastic goal poacher. An inzaghi on steroids.

Personally, I believe he's not even the best Ronaldo of all time.

EPIC!!!!

I concur with the rebranding for HIV/AIDS...
But what's with the branding for 'PROSTITUTES'?
It seems they are legalizing prostitution and making it sound morally just!

Inukwa 'NDINKWUGHARI'.. ,smh.

buchilino:
HONESTLY BRO, I WILL ADVICE MOST YOUNG MEN NOT TO MARRY, COS MOST GALS OF NOWADAYS DON'T NO WAT BEING COOL MEANS

Nawao.... How old are you? Mr BAD Adviser

oseka101:
quint Eyes is not owk I will advise you for his sake not yours to go for the surgery early I did mine when I was 15 years old the doctors said I should have done it ealier ..the problem with quint eyes is that one of the eyes muscles will be pulling the other one and it will weaken his eye sight very soon he might not be seeing clearly and also it was kinda traumatic for me back den kids used to make fun of me which affected my self esteem ...i did my surgery @kano eye hospital they have brilliant surgeons there its more like plastic surgery roughly 4hrs and cost abt 60- 80k then 10years back sha don't please just try and do it my elder sister also had hers there too ...

OK dear, his dad has kept telling me about the self esteem ish.... But then we would train him in such a way that matters like that shouldn't affect his self worth. My main concern has always been, the aftermath of the surgery (just like you're experiencing the hearing loss). Though my husband and I would revisit that decision again. Thank you

Maduawuchukwu:
I laugh when people say that Igbo people are hostile to outsiders. Is it the East I know or another East elsewhere? Maybe Middle-East. U have lots of Hausa people doing business in the East but how many times have you had of them being killed? Compare it to the north were every year comes with its own religious killings and which has earned a reputation as a no-go zone in Nigeria. I sometimes wonder what influences pples thinking.

Honestly my brother I shudder at such outrageous claims! That is why I keep telling some e-idiots here to leave their confinements and witness what's going on in other areas. One thing I love about us the Igbos, we don't listen to hearsays whenever it concerns making something out of our lives, we make sure we experience it!

fkj950ax:
Businesses are located in investment friendly environment.
The east isn't.
Ipob rally today
Kidnappers strikeforce tomorrow
Youths demanding community entrance fee next week
Election and government somersault next month
Baby factory raid next quarter
Hostility of indigenes to non indigene daily

Nawao.... Where did you get all the aforelisted in Igbo cities? The Southeast is still a Paradise compared to other zones in Nigeria. Please get your facts right, avoid sentiments!
Landlord travel and see.....

oseka101:
I thought I was the only one who could do that dimming ish but mine I can dim my right eye to boost the left one I suffered from quint eyes "half past 4 eyes "after my surgery to correct it i developed that diming ability...

Thanks for this! One of my sons has quint eyes and someone has been pushing my husband to correct them through surgery. He is just six years old. As for me, I have no qualms with his eyes like that so far its not stopping him from seeing clearly, besides he's a smart and cute boy. Would really show him your post.
I'm sorry about your hearing loss, may the Mighty hand of Jesus restore your hearing, amen!

ifenes:
Marriage is overrated.

It's not, my dear.

so many April fools here, nawao....

Please run as fast as your legs could carry you. With all the evidences you have of his treatment to his ex-wife and even 'his own children', what makes you think he would treat you and your children better especially when the chips are down?
Nnem please be wise and guided, all that glitters is not gold!

mazizitonene:
what more evidence.....can't u see the car....oh! u want to see the dead bodies.....just look @ what your country has turned u to....

She wants to feed her eyes... We have been reduced to a state of insensitivity to other people's pain.
May God help us!

TINALETC3:
U failed 2 show us d evidence of d accident, d pix instead u decided to show ursef, well, we hv seen u, Rip 2 d dead

Much as I didn't like the fact that he put up his picture but it was better than showing pictures of the dead like what's obtained in our local blogs and most recently in nairaland forum!
Most Nigerians have no respect for the dead, had the incident occurred in Nigeria, I bet we would by now had been fed with gory pictures of dead bodies.
Let me borrow a nairalander's favourite quote, "may God help us all!"

Eke40seven:
Nigeria is simply a jungle. Even the police took pictures to upload online.
Yesterday, 5 people died in a terrorist attack in London but the only picture you could find of the victims are their smiling faces and not even a picture of their bloodied bodies. You wouldn't even find a close up picture of the body of terrorist that was shot dead
That's a society that respects the dead. If it were Nigeria, the whole media would be awash with the dead bodies.
In a sane country, the family of the deceased will sue whoever published these pictures online suicide or not.
I plead with Seun and the mods to apply caution in posting pictures of dead people and accident victims. It goes against every ethics of journalism or even against the norms of a civil society.
Many a time, these victims have families and loved ones and these gory pictures do not depict how they would want to be remembered by their loved ones.
Even victims who survive these accidents go through psychological trauma and have life long psychological scars, many never recover from the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Many go through nightmares.
Could you imagine a girl who had gone through great stress to make up and look good, then probably became a victim of an accident, do you think she would want the bloodied mess of her body to be on display everywhere on the internet?
Or may be a mourning mother who just recovered from the sad loss of a loved son on opening a Facebook page, incidentally got to see a religious post with the inscription against the picture of her son's body in a jelly of blood and tissues, "Type "Amen", if you don't want to be a victim of accident this year".
Sad sad! Please, Mods take note.

Why not do some work, look for the names and nice pictures of the victims and upload and still generate traffic instead of showing them online in this gory fashion?

CC: Seun, Lalasticlala i assume you are both well travelled. Please bring civility into your forum.

I concur, this forum administrators should show decorum, class. I believe nairaland is not a blog.
Seun it's up to you.

Diplomaticbeing:
One funny thing about petty people is that they are always quick to initiate mind games but they are bad losers - they never embrace sportsmanship after their perpetual loss. Disingenuously allow them to go away with their shenanigans, you see them erroneously believe that truly they're smarter and more wicked than you're. Resist them and see them resort to disparaging and denigrating you. Then, reciprocate/mete out to them their negative attitudes in equal and opposite proportions and see them cry murder/victim. Pettiness sucks.

You are very correct Sir!

I love the second and third pictures.
go girl.... It is your time to shine!

cstr55:
Mes que un cheat.
You don't know what football is if you think that cheating dubious club is the epitome of football.

hahahaha.. e pain you?

adegeye38:
I will tell my children and grand children that i watched this match.

where Barcelona became the best Team in history

epic quote!
Barca! Barca!! Barcaaaaa...…….....

IYANGBALI:
BREAKING NEWS!!!

The Federal government of Nigeria has warned Nigerians not to switch off their phones for whatever reason. This is because the president may call at anytime of the day the way he called Femi Adesina.

DSS HAS BEEN DIRECTED TO ARREST ANYONE WHO MISSED THE PRESIDENTIAL CALL.

Please be guided accordingly.

hahaha..... werey

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FvckShiT:
Fűck!
Fůcking Multiple crash!

Hope no life was Fűcking lost

This is what Fűcking happens when you tucking wanna do "Need for Speed" on a fůcking crappy road

Fucking this, fucking that....nawao,
wetin "fu..ck" do you?
oh my! no wonder, your monicker says it all.
easy o....
May God have mercy on the injured and I hope no life was lost.

No be Comedian Seyi Law dey Oge side so? Dey look Oge with that mischievous grin in his eyes. That Oge's outfit though....