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healthserve:
Bros Automated productivity is the future o. Minimal involvement is what I do to businesses I setup now. I set a business up get it established I move to the next, next you know we have a conglomerate.

My principle stands, any business that needs my blood to work is using mY life so reduced participation but contnous productivity is my M.O in business establishment Sir
So I won't be involved per she but churn in massive profit.

Just like how loan apps generate moneyed for companies with almost no human involvement. Automation is the key to America's industrial financial strength


Disclaimer : I'm not soliciting for money, private discussions or investments. We're only engaging in business discussions

vibre:
The only way to settle this is to bring Krest back to Nigeria. Krest is the only thing that can calm busola's mind now but our useless leaders won't even think in that direction

Nostradamus:
which kind book be that?

Who's the author??

Leonardo da Vinci?

HealingHeart:
I don't understand your logic. So because you succeed means you implemented it well, while those that failed didn't implement it well?

HealingHeart:
^^^^^^^^^^

I predicted one of the PUA will come to deny it. Let's look at @ChiefGuru24.

He said he used to be shy, even around his female cousins. Obviously, shyness constitutes a barrier to meeting women. So, logically getting some confidence could've been all he needed. Probably all other factors I've discussed were favorable to him, thus explaining his success.

Many have tried and have failed by the techniques of the PUA. I know no case in Nigeria since the local PUA community is not active online. But abroad I know a few cases. Research a bit on "George Sodini" or "Elliot Rodgers". You'll come to my point.

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.
My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf
It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...
That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...
I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.
I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.
When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....
So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.
Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.
Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...
Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

Mekanus:
Oga na oshofree we want.

Kayus4real:
What if she asks if you had sex before?

5naira:
How do I get this book plz. Can u provide a download link?

5naira:
Alright thanks. I think she is avoiding me now. I hope ignoring her for a week won't ruin everything?

5naira:
She seemed interested in me at first but I don't want to ruin things up like I usually do. How do I Spice up our convo. I haven't chatted her up since ystaday after she refused picking up my calls when we initially planned to meet

jonaifame22:
lol@ chic magnet of life

jonaifame22:
okay

tunlaji:
Howfar bros, your tips really work, i`m impressed i wish i knew all this before time. So when you get a gals attention with the line 'i want us to have a hot bleep together but i need your trust and connection first from you', how do u follow up when she responds?

essenceplus:
I'm an old man man. Not everyone is a youth on SM. Btw, the best books to read on women is " women " itself The title na the author, self titled Even the most illiterate woman has two Ph.D in psychology, so a man must never let his guard down when dealing with any woman he wants to settle with . Even if an ant flies by, they have meaing for it. Women are most times restless and needs wisdom and strength of a ma to ease their almost constant fluctuations.


Planet3xi vibes contiues

Tsolutionifede:
fake, u dress well(looking rich), handsome(physically attractive), pretending to be spiritual, and maybe little maturity, not all those ur stories

essenceplus:
Next time don't devalue yourself by telling ladies the story of your life. Ladies need men for emotional support more and not the other way around.

Also, do not be quick to bring up location you stay and your profession in the friendship stage,let it grow so love would grow before you start revealing yourself and when you do this,make sure its gradual


Do not spend weekends at home, go out, go to church,make new cliques outside your teaching environment. Try to meet new people weekly,being a teacher doesn't stop you from meeting ladies in church,supermarket. Join a church,join a department,when you're seen on close range,someone will pick up interest and be the one chasing you instead of the other way around


Don't let it affect yourself esteem. You're only a teacher at work. Outside school, you're not.

Unrated900:
OP you need to travel to Ghana to pick a pretty beautiful bbw who will love you for who you are

And not what you have,like the way our Nigerian ladies do.

Ghana girls are pretty soft spoken easy and calm women.they are family oriented and can plan with ur 500GHC which is 35k here compair to our iPhone girls here

Likes for Ghana women,shares for Nigeria ladies.

Spinojaja26:
please friends I need your advice, I am a teacher that teaches in one of the Govt. technical schools in Imo state. I resides in the rural area due to the current transfer from the ministry, though I can go on transfer to any part of Imo state if I want. my problem is that all the ladies that I wanted to settle down with when I tell them what I do for a living and where I stay, they will quit the relation. it is becoming difficult for me to get a wife here.

lilianofentse:

x6blade:
I still tried na