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I rather my bo tells me how i look in a nice way than me going out n looking like an ass...

@gina34 i feel you.... Men go for the physical that is y there are higher divorce rates.. they think wif the wrong head....

i do not have to test cos i will b observing the individual from day one that is how i know about people and their character. i mean you do not know it but i am already testing you from day one. so there is no point for the major testing because you might think it is weird and then suspect that i am testing you and you would also step up ur game.. so i just do mine stuff on the DL...

hell no that is a wrong statement @nddy. yeah some grls are after money but not all like me for example. i rather we share stuff as in i rather we split the cost. i am very independent thank you very much..... a guy spending money on me makes me worthless. i mean even my bro or sis spending money on me makes me uncomfortable.......... i rather i work my ass off and enjoy my money later...

lets not generalise

did we not have this same topic somewhere else? cos i remember replying to something similar to this before

that is a tough one. it is not a matter of friendship now it is a matter of human dignity and self conscience and all that. i would tell but if you are in the same situation and you are not bold enough to tell. you should always establish that feeling to your friend that you would not stand or take anyone hurting another friend. your best friend should understand the type of person you are and either not tell you cos that would be the better thing not to do. or he should know that you would do anything to set things straight. so he is the one making the choice of if to tell you or not.

so it is about establishing that kind of situation with a friend. letting them know that you would always do anything to set things right bt themselves and their relationship..

men that is really a tough one. Or you could let another friend or person start the rumour so you do not look like the one that let d cat out, but then you have got to face your conscience again...

damn this is a real brain cracker

well i too have got to give this one a through thought

wow this is a tough one. i will answer this from the religious and biblical point of view. fornication is a sin if it is between unmarried couples and homosexuality is definately an abormination. that is from the bible and what is preached to us.

i have to agree with seun on this one people are very pathetic and when it comes to the discussion of fornication and homosexuality. they are all like freely agreeing that fornication is aite like having sex before marriage and all tht and even commenting that being a virgin aint all that is right but then when it comes to homosexuality they are quoting the bible like crazy!!! some even come up with their own quotes too and they condem homosexuality that is just twisted..

i mean i am not saying that you should not have your say but think before you all comment, do not contradict yourselves.....

@klex even if it is wif your bf or gf it is not fornication but the thing is wht d hell is he/she doing with someboby else other than with you

it is still not fornication is we are trying to follow the definition of fornication.............

before my last post was deleted i was trying to say that it is sad tht most guys decide a woman's beauty based on her boobs n ass size sad to say but tht is shallow.... i have got d junk in the trunk considering my body size but i aint big boobed but i still think i am beautiful from evey angle. so guys it aint all bout d boobs n d ass. but it is good to see u all being honest for once.!!..

keep it coming

how come i have a feeling that you guys are all bulls@#$%^... come on be honest. no one mentioned the boobs or the ass? now that to you guys are real beauty and dont lie about that else then why do they interest you?

@ umorotutu men that was freaky and send application sheesh that is already a turn off not that i am interested anyway

wow man this is deep why not you give us a clue as to who she is? and put the pic back so that those that have not seen it will... i have anyway and so have a couple of others ....

y did you remove the pic?

still waiting .....................

i am still waiting to see the six pacs

that is why they say opposeites attract

well sad to say but men or women are attracted to the bad side of the other gender. well for me i am attracted to a bad brodar not bad as in he deals with drugs and all that but more of he is a bad ass with a cool bad attitude but also does not go over board. i mean we all know that they are going to hurt us at one point but i guess i just enjoy having fun. but these kind of people you just can not have a strong relationship just a fling thing but you guys are good friends too.

well you dont have to believe me .. it has not happened to u but it has happened to me i saw it and my friend saw it too i tried to ignore it but he mentioned it to me. dont get me wrong i did not say all tht every freaking guy i meet do that.

i am thinking of knocking some sense into this guy it is a whole complicated situation i will spare you all the detail. but my emotions are in a roller coster ride nonstop.

honestly i was expecting a dude i mean from the way you sounded

where is d six pacs at? n how old are you if you do not mind my asking?

grl the lesbian thing is my favourite line but the thing is that most guys are even turned on by that. they is just no way of getting rid of them. i mean some guys when you just meet them they are like oh i am going where you are heading to let me give you a ride and i am thinking ass man you think i will just get in the car with you. First of all you have scared the shit out of me with your so called pick up line...

yeah another thing that i find funny is some guys see you n they cat call you and when you do not pay them any attention then they call you a bitch or anything else i just laugh at tht. that has happened to me once or twice. i mean i was laughing my head off cos it was like a total change in behaviour....

another thing that i have encountered is when a guy sees you they grb their dick!! i am like men is that supposed to turn me on