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and @ greatpeter why in the worl does it have to be the NIPPLE? have you done that before?
and @mamba i give up!!!

@ chani "NB. if you are pretty am single ,.........................aight "
that was really really cheesy and a total turn off!!

anyway like i said either you love her or you leave her. and about getting a new girlfriend, first of all you definately need better pick up lines!!! for sure

okies when i tell people about my last relationship they are like it is more like i was dating an idea not a person because it was all long distance and we communicated more online than any thing else. but i felt that i was doing everything and tht he was not really serious about it. well tht was what i thought. i broke it off because i could not take the stress anymore. some of you might think that i am such a bitch for doing that but it was not that easy and well i we are still young and we need to meet other people. also i was not sure when next i would meet him again. i mean when next i will travel back home.

well he is a nice guy n well if things work out well in the future we might hooke up again. i still do like him though but tht was the best thing to do... right now i am hapilly single i think . not that they are lots of hotties in this little town anyway!!!

if your partner aint a good kisser just let it out of course lovingly. i mean if you guys are into each other you will both work it out. to me it is sexy when you teach each other some intimate things when the other is not experienced. i kinda find tht kinky like when... nah i will just stop there..

it does not matter who is providing. like i keep screaming they both should be the provider. men a relationship should be based on equality not on one partner dominating the other!!!

keep her or leave her!

@laide O girl do your thing!! i loved it and i am also looking for almost the same thing in a guy.....
@almost everybody else if you aint got any positive thing to say about the post keep it to your self. because she did an incredible job..........

thumbs up girl!!

if i find out that the man i married is impotent (God forbid though), i would still love the guy for who he is. i mean he did not decide to make himself impotent is was biological. there are other ways to get pregnant. i will still help the guy but it would be good for a guy to tell the lady if he suspects that he is impotent before they venture into marriage then is it up to her to decide if she loves him as a person or his dick only. i mean there was a case where a guy fell in love with a HIV patient. she told him he knew it but he loved her and they got married and had a child. well of course he is infected and so is the child. i think it is a bizzare case but love is bizzare and strange at times. people will do anything when they are in love...

@ hot-angle trust me hon i can get smarter than that. That was just a warm up.... dont hate

that does not apply to all the girls. me for one

tall tall tall cos i am tall too, cute not necessary drop dead gorgeous, respects me as a woman, holds intelligent conversation, loves to argue a point not a heated argument but civilised discussion but we are still friends and we make up at the end, someone that has his own opinion. he does not have to agree with me all the time that pisses me off. i like guy that has a mind of his own, and who welcomes my own individuality also a guy that will help out at home, loving and[b] loyal[/b], not a player, someone i can trust and grow old with. will be good if he is built not too muscular though, good teeth, nice eyes and welcoming warming smile.

interesting but like @pinky said you all failed to mention big boobs and ass because that is all most guys wish for deep down but you all just dont want to shout it out

i just had to say something. you are 15 and u love a guy that is 28 there is nothing wrong with that. because she is 15 does not mean that the guy must have sex with her. but that is possible too. the ball is in your court but personally, you are in love with the guy and there is noothing wrong with that. but having sex with him if you are not ready is your decision to make. if he forces you or pressures you to have sex with him and you are not ready then just dump his ass it will hurt real bad but he aint worth it. so girl do your thing but have a clear head about it and think rationally when the need comes

Have you or someone close to you experienced such a husband, father-in-law, or father? What do you think causes them to be this way? What is the positive or negative effect of this kind of behaviour on their wife and children? What do you think a woman who finds herself married to such a man can do? What can a child of such a man do?

wow that is a lot of questions to be answered I will try my best to answer as much as I can. well personally I have not met or had any friend experience such thing to that extent. I mean I do have friends with strict fathers but sometimes I think that they over play the role of the victim. (you know the typical teenage drama...) but I have met someone with such hot temper actually a lot of people I mean not to the extent that they would treaten to kill someone but just people that have very very short circuits and just snap within seconds!!

there are various numerous causes of these behavior but the classical ones that psychologists like to use is that they are following the footsteps of their father or mother. but the funny thing is that while these kids were growing up, they did not want to end up like their parents but that was extactly what happened. they did not like being treated that way and they claimed that they would never treat their own children that way but they ended up doing the same thing and perhaps even more.

another thing I think is the cause is that men see that that is the only way to have power over the family, by putting fear into them that that way their kids will not disobey them but that is not the case and that brings me to my next point.

the kids fear their father or mother whomever is very harsh on them, so they try real hard to disobey them. I mean they might know the right thing to do but since if they did the right thing they are punished for it or if they did the wrong thing they are also punnished for or not rewarded then they just do things the way they like often to disobey the "figure" because the result is the same.

having a parent that is always on your case pushes kids away. and that is not a good things because with the world the way it is parents have got to get their kids to feel free to come to them to discuss issues. because teenagers do go a lot and it is during that period that thry need lots of lecturing and guidance and if a parent pushes the kid away then who are they to turn to for advise, they will end up hiding things from their parents and that is just the road to their downfall both for the parent and the kid. (there is nothing as good as parents creeating that atmosphere where kids feel free and comfortable to talk to their parents about any issue or problem)

if a woman finds herself with a man like that she can try as much to change him but hif he gets too abusive then she should consider divorce because that is not a healthy environment for her and her kids.

for a child they should look for a figure that they trust and a figure that they think would not abuse them and they can talk to that figure for guidance.

lol

dandy

trying to keep my cool (practising the breathing exercise!)

life still goes on. i still will have my mum n sibilings.

what would happen or will you do if it snows in nigeria tomorrow?

@seun but he did not try to nigerialise it like you said (if that was what you meant), it was about an[b] indian[/b] mother writing to her daughter...

(Angelgal, I am female and I love to hug the remote control too. I mean I flip the channel like nuts that drives my dad crazy!! . Me and my siblings just have that habit.)

WOW i heard this song n i fell in love with it!!! like i said before this song deserves an award!!! nah many awards!!! why can't men be more like that and cherish women that way (of course we will do the same too) reciprocal?!!

Personally, I think the dude is not guilty.

I mean he is sick, no doubt, and he had those kids on the bed but I did not think he had sex with them or whatever those alleged "victims" said he did to them. It is very sad that he invited those kids to his home to cheer them up only to have them accuse him of sexual abuse. but then again he should not have had them on his bed in the first place!

Well his verdict was to have been out on Monday but guess it definitely will be out by tommorrow or perhaps by the end of the week and I hope he is not found guilty. But what I find really funny is that Michael often seemed to develop invinsible ailments when things just get too tough to handle. And when the case takes a new angle.

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I second @solo2. it is a blessing that was turned to a curse

It is very sad to hear that in a multi coporation like that things like that still happens. i mean this sounds so primitive (sorry to say) but i mean you had a business deal, and if the transaction was followed properly, why should the guy be harrasing your dad not only that why should the company even hear this guy out the second time. if things were legally recorded then that is their proof, they could easily go to court and have things cleared or they should have receipt of payment, just anything to show that the contract with them had ended. but then the question is who do u trust?!!!