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Fornication is like having sex. Actually, that is wht it is (sexual intercourse). So yeah like you said kissing and doing all those romantic stuff can lead to fornication. But they are not fornication.

ok at pintos if u feel that hot-angel is underaged well i am not and i would like to see dem six pacs for real and let me be d jugde.

@ seun are you saying that we should all post our pictures?

is that a question? duh you can get sincere people anywhere, but the catch is that they are hard to get most of the time. that is because even if they are quite a number of sincere people, we always have that doubt so at first you might conclude that they are not until you get to know them better.. just keep an open mind that is all

everyone is saying see her picture. how sure are you all that the picture that she will show him is the real thing?

not to say that is does not work out .... my friend met her now fiance online too but they did meet up in person like within 3 months of having met online. everything is going great i mean i have met d guy too n he is cute and very nice (they met 2004 June and were engaged last month july they plan on getting married soon)that was a relationship tht was honest from the first day but personally i do not trust those things. also i no longer believe that long distance relationships work.

so all i gat to say is be careful.

sad to say but i have and i still feel bad about it but at the same time i know it was the best thing to do..

wow well if that is the question that you are going to ask well you will get different answers because we all have our different preferencies
i for one am looking for a guy that will respect me and my choice and my mind and way of thinking. he also should have a mind of his own, of course he has got to look good, built okies more like well toned and defined muscles, good teeth smart as in he knows what he wants and he can hold intelligent conversation,tall, someone that knows when to have fun and knows when to be serious too. someone that has his priorities straight.... i could go on

anyway my point is we ladies are going to give you a whole list of preferencies but you can not decide based on what we give you there is no one right answer to your question. so you have just got to read them and you be the best judge of them.

one other question how old are you? because you said "I wish to know more of girls before proceeding with a relationship"

Pretty Interesting i can not wait to read the replies!! guys what are u all waiting for ?!!!

men you made the right call, i dont blame you for that.. i just can not imagine myself doing that. i am very independent and i rather the guy not spend on me at all or rather we split the cost... some way or the other a relationship should be about giving n taking .....

wow the guys had a lot to say about this, that is very interesting or are you guys trying to make up for something?

girl they have said it all. i would leave the guy. you guys are courting almost about married and he cheats on you that tell you a lot about him. aint worth it.......

Men, what is wrong with people? That is just plain wrong!  You just can not sleep with your cousin but if your culture accepts it then it's your call else hell no!!  that just aint right!!

But I do have a confession. When I was younger, I did have a crush on my cousin but now that I think of it, eww! And he is not even all that I used to think he was

that would definately bring a ridge between the sisters or maybe not depending on how the elder sister takes it. she could actually thank the guy for telling her the truth before it was too late. but to me that is just very confusing and sad. he might be lusting and not in love?

the guy has every right to fall in love with who ever he wants to. you can not  control who u fall for but in this situation that is a nut cracker. if it were me, i will not encourage it no matter how madly in love the guy is. i mean he is my sister's bf for crying out loud!! that is just bertayal.  i can talk her into breaking up with her boyfriend because he does not seem like the right person for her but after that i still will not even hooke up with him.
about castrating the guy that is not the best solution.

is it $25 because you said that you would give a calculator worth $25 so is that a clue

@sage trust me most men like girls that play hard to get.. but of course there is a limit.. that is why i said that you have to be smart about it

you have got to show them what they can have but you deny them that.. get what i mean.. you give them a taste only.. and you have got to be charming and not seem affected by them. it is not really playing hard to get but somewhere there........ men that is good stuf. and you have got to look good too just be smart about it.

i for one am not eager to get married actually i am not looking forwards to getting married i mean if there was a way for me to have kids without getting attached and feeling good about it i would do that. i mean i know there are ways to do that but at the same time i would want my child to know who her/his father is. but if there was a way that i would feel good having kids but yet no strings attached then i would do that.

at the moment i feel that marriage is stressful... it is just a lot of work.

It is not right. It  has never been and it will never be right to cheat on your partner. You are not being true to your words.

If you love someone no matter what temptations there are you always keep away from them. You are still hooked up and when you cheat you are only hurting yourself and your boyfriend more and you are more likely to loose him. So it ain't worth it..

It is just plain wrong!

it is your call to make. you are old enough to decide on what to do. we can not live your life for you.
i myself thought of that too but i love my man chocholate. well so far at least.

i am almost 20 but men i aint into that sugar daddy shit. no offense to anyone if they are. no disrespect but that is just not my thing. so not all nigerians r like that. you have got to get your facts right..

@nike4luv am i sensing some hostility because it sounds to me like you are trippin??.....

chigszy it is .
thanks girl

@ DANASCO first of all u said one of my GirlfiendS
and then you said "I love this girl too much because she is very BEAUTIFUL and presentable, also because of her family background."
now i do not blame her for not wanting to leave you. do you love her because of the way she looks or you love her for her. and the many girlfriends is that a grammer mistake or do you have other girls at the sideline?

that jokes was used in the movie "desperado" staring Antonoi banderas ang salma heik (hope i got the last name correct??)!! men, Antonio Banderas is so hot!!!

@danasco is that for real or was all made up??
well tht cracked me up!!

and about the nod and wink at the blind horse men i was left clueless i was like what? there was no indication of that in the phrase. men why do peopl have to make lives so hard. but good posting guys...

a man with a great mind is lovable. that is one of the attributes i would like my man to have..

i like a macho man with brains so he is nice when he needs to n goofy when he needs to too. so both, why settle for one? when women are expected to work hard all day and yet look pretty, not fusttered and yet have energy reserved for other activites. so it would not hurt a guy to be two things...

my friend things i am crazy but i was thinking that there should be a law against short guys dating or marrying tall girls.. that was only a thought no offense intended!!! i dont see myself doing that. i am a pretty tall girl 5: 7and a half" and i have been approached by shorter guys. i mean to me i just do not see myself dating a short guy. but damn a lot of the hollywood hoties are short!!!! . not that i even have a chance with them but u never know

not everyone but most of them. i knew i was