Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 4:38pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
MamaOO: Talk about jumping into conclusions. Ma, I live here. I did not come here to give birth and no, I did not give birth in a substandard hospital or neither did I use inexperienced doctors. Thanks for your observation and prayers. Sis..please dont feel offended.......i did not mean to upset you from my last statement. Just airing my opinion. i am saying what is applicable for most of us in Naija. I am embarking on the birth tourism and I can categorically beat my chest that why i am doing this is for citizenship for my LO, likewise most of the people i know here too and is not a crime....There is still very good medical services here in Naija. Your last statement " cos I am pretty sure the story would have been different if this was Nigeria" looks very slighted to we that live here because I know it is not true and can never be true. You cant be sure when you live in Yankee. Anyway,No pun intended. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 4:19pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
curvilicious: 32weeks! 8 or 6weeks to go
I would've preferred the 6weeks sha Show us backyard naa  Me i no like dey view in parts...na full package i dey like see  |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 4:12pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Goldenheart002: Thanks mama chijiuche, my curvilicious cappo, booqee, olalayo1710, patking, mitche15, bloomingbud, proudmom38, completey, AlphaHandMaiden, kelizosuy, tallar and other mamas that advised me on my leave issue! I've submitted d leave request form to my oga and he's still forming bossman, although I know he will approve it.........Thanks mamas for opening my understanding on d matter 
Congrats cappo Anugod on d arrival of ur princess, speedy recovery ma
Shebi, its still #bumpietuesday, lemme quickly drop my preggy/worwor look+fine bump! Team January, make una no abuse me oh.....we are almost there #dancing one corner# You bump dey portable... All these Mamas wey their bump dey like 16 weeks but they don reach 29,30,31,32 weeks ( una no una selves curvilicious, Goldenheart002 and co..I no call name  . Ok ooo  |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 4:05pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
lioha: At 26 weeks Cute bump |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 4:05pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 3:33pm On Nov 14, 2017*. Modified: 4:04pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
MamaOO: Please please please. I implore all mothers here to insist on a jaundice test for our babies before leaving the hospital to avoid stories that touch. I wanted to share my experience with neonatal jaundice after Liftedhands mentioned her niece's case, but I decided to wait till all of it has passed so that I don't jinx myself....Lol, I know I know, I'm African like that.
Mamas, please, let us always insist on the hospital we birth type baby's blood after birth, compare it to mothers own and then carry out a jaundice test before we get discharged from the hospital. Here is my experience, It was only God that saved us. And thankfully now, everything is behind us. After baby E.J's birth, he was sleepy and lethargic and would not eat. I noticed his eyes were a bit yellow but wasn't too worried. The next day, the yellow was very pronounced and I mentioned it to my mother in law. His pediatrician came and ordered bloodwork and there it was discovered that his bilirubin level was 17!!! Jeez!
Immediately the staff swung into action. He was wheeled into the NICU. 7 bilirubin lights were placed on him and also a bili blanket was placed underneath him. His cord was completely cut off and tubes put in. When I asked why, they said it was because he might need an exchange blood transfusion and they needed to be ready. That was when they told me he would need to be transferred to Valley Children's Hospital in Madera, cos they can't handle the transfusion at the hospital where he was born oo. I nearly cried blood. My baby was sick and I can't do nothing. The doctor called the other hospital and in 50 minutes they were here, they flew in with an air ambulance. My child had to be airlifted the children's hospital. We drove after them and went to meet them there
Give it to American hospitals, before we got to the hospital, treatment was already ongoing. He was placed on bilirubin lights and a bilirubin blanket and had already received a dose of IVIg. They also inserted a feeding tube in his nose. That sight is something I'll never forget. This is my child, barely 24 hours old and already going through this. They were testing his bilirubin levels every 4 hours. And by the next day, his level had reduced to 14 or 15. It continued decreasing everyday and gradually they began to remove the lights until they removed it all. He started eating and became more and more awake and alert and playful. He even removed the feeding tube in his nose three times. Thank God!
We spent almost 2 weeks in the hospital and I do not wish that experience on my enemy. It was especially tough cos I had to leave my newborn in the NICU while I go to my hotel room to sleep, I so much wanted to hold him and bond with him but I couldn't. So mothers, please always insist on a bilirubin test for your newborns. I also got to know what caused him to have so much bilirubin in him. It was because of something called ABO incompatibility. You see, I'm blood group O+ and hubby is B+. E.J got his Dad's B+ and while he was inside of me, his blood crossed through into my bloodstream. Anybody with blood type O+ or O- reacts in a certain way when other blood types are introduced into their bloodstream. They begin to develop antibodies to attack the presumed foreign blood group which in this scenario was my baby's blood. So while he was in-vitro, he was fine. The moment he was born, my antibodies in him started breaking down his red blood cells which caused his severe jaundice. And because his liver was so young, it could not keep up with filtering out the bilirubin.
Thank God he was diagnosed and treated fast and in a timely and aggressive manner. He received tons of phototherapy and 3 doses of IVIg. God bless America Mehn, cos I am pretty sure the story would have been different if this was Nigeria. Congrats dear..we will not lose our young ones....But this is careless act from their end because Jaundice should always be part of the package pediatrics always check for while running routine check on new born. Thank God for His intervention but there are still quite number of Nigeria hospitals that will still do better in terms of putting in proactive measure. The most important thing is when choosing a hospital - whether in Naija or Yankee, choose good one with good and experienced doctors  . Let us even tell ourselves the truth - Most people that birth abroad, they do it not because of good medical service, na because of citizenship for their Lo  Congrats on your successful birth |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:56am On Nov 14, 2017 |
Nimi22: Na this kain leave me dey like o. 5 months leave, na u be enjoyment. Yes Sis... we will not come and die in this life |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:55am On Nov 14, 2017 |
olubankemi: Long time friends.
Sorry about losing your neighbour Lioha.
Aside being careful with all these private hospitals, if you are using HMO, be careful too.
I have discovered this, the problem is not with the HMOs, but with hospitals. They give less of what you ask for, ask you to go and buy prescribed drugs out there but Bill the HMOs for it!
Most people under the cover of HMO is paying are not careful. Because it is free they go for it.
My cases this is for first time mums) I used two hospitals when I was preggy, private (HMO) and government. I gave birth in a government hospital and I thank God I did. I gave birth through CS, if you see my tommy is as flat as I never had twins from it and you hardly will notice the incision part now. I was thought and also sampled on how to treat it.
We did all the tests and kids were certified ok before leaving hospital.
My ugly experience with private hospital after birth; We moved to a different location far away from the government hospital where I gave birth so I started using HMO hospital again. My kids feel ill and were coughing, ordinary antibiotics this naughty hospital said they don't have. ' go and buy', we bought it plus their routine vitamin c and piriton and they continue coughing and no eating. For one week we were parading hospital.
Finally hubby said never he is goin to complain to his office. The HR called the HMO and they referred us to another clinic, waooo, they are first class, in 30 minutes they were diagnosed of whatever I don't really remember now, and immediately were placed on injections. My kids that weren't eating started eatin that day.
Another ugly experience with the same hospital of recent was when my baby contacted infection and instead of doing test the doctor said it is clinical. HMO referred us to another hospital and test was conducted and treated in two days.
My conclusion; always speak with your HMO, they tell you 'not covered by HMO ' but still bill them for it. They get you to sign a blank invoice and proceed to write whatever service they did not render when you leave.
Not all HMO clinics are bad, not all private clinics are bad. I have had five private hospital/HMO experience and from my experience with the five, three are good and one is fair, one is very bad. This bad one is stratiflgically located and very close to us, reason why we still go there but my people, I have decided to rather face the traffic and drive 1 hour down to a good place where my kids will be treated well and better than walk in to the hospital where we had to be referred for even a common case of cold. I really don't want to mention them cos they are popular. The most important thing one need to know about HMO is the package your organisation subscribed for you and what you are entitle to. You cant be on silver and expect to be given all that is covered in Gold or platinum package. Also have all the benefits accrued to you handy and know your right and your privileges. Understand all the clauses in the contract. For instance, Some of my colleagues that birthed abroad never knew that are entitle to some amount to be refunded after childbirth , only on the condition that you submit all documents one month within child delivery. They eventually did not get the money...Others in other units that knew got the money. Also those HMO will not tell you, they will be waiting for you not to ask so they save cost So ignorance constitute major problem in HMO usage. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:30am On Nov 14, 2017 |
Goldenheart002: Happy new week mamas and papas My wonderful team January, how una dey hold body? Cappo curvilicious, mitche15, chijiuche, zino89, mummyAudrey, proudmom38, kelizosuy, mama zaynie, mama completey, eskbabe and other pretty mamas whose name I didn't write, I hail u all oh
Pls mas, I get little question o! Since I enter dis 3rd trimester, I've been feeling very weak and obviously na correct rest I need which I hardly get although I go to work only 3days per week but my workload no be small. Infact I take office work home at times 
Now I have 6weeks leave dis year which won't roll over till next year but as a January mama who is due for 27th, there is some possibility of porting to early February. I don't know if I should just take my 6weeks leave now, resume January and prepare for maternity leave afterwards or I forfeit d leave for d year and focus mainly on maternity leave which is till next year............If I start my leave now, won't it affect my agility for d next few weeks of pregnancy? Yet, I need some rest. Pls mamas, I'm so confuse on what to decide on
P.S....no leave request will be granted for December, expect I start now and end it in December Babe, please take your leave and rest wella... I have my annual 25 working days leave but have option of carrying over 10 days to first quarter next year...So I am starting 1st week in December and will take everything back to back and then commence my maternity leave. Agility or not...You need rest. Abeg no allow anyone brainwash you. Take your leave and have enough rest, then resume back for some time and commence maternity leave. My Own na from December to May next year ( My annual leave and 4 months maternity leave ). If anyone shout, make they come carry the belle dey commute work daily and see how e dey be |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Chijiuche: 9:04am On Nov 14, 2017 |
hotlarry: Congratulations.
My wife will b going by 2ND week of dec. Pls u can mail me so that u can connect with her.
Email - hotkeylarry@yahoo.co.uk
Regards. I will be in houston too by first week in Dec...using Oakbend and Dr Z or Dr F (Have both quotes but distance from their clinic will determine who i will eventually use). We can hook up as well |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Chijiuche: 8:54am On Nov 13, 2017 |
JFline: Morning mamas and thanks for this great thread.
I am a FTM and I plan to deliver in Texas. A friend told me to contact Dr Fagbohun and in the course of searching for his email address I stumbled on this thread.
Since two days now I have read from the first part to this part and though I have seen Dr Fagbohun's name mentioned, I did not see his email address.
I will really appreciate it if someone could post it hear. Thank you in advance, in fact I meant to say thank you a million times. Google Centre for womens health...Is the name of his clinic |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 5:35am On Nov 13, 2017 |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:26pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
curvilicious: Mamas, help I've not been getting strong kicks for some days now. Just brisk movements. Whenever i sit i get thugs up my tummy towards my ribs like when someone is pushing you nd saying oh shift na. Is it normal @ 31weeks? Sometimes i feel the place is no longer big enuf to swim nd tumble as before dunno sha 
Cc: Zaynie Ahnie Alk mamas present You don chop the whole food wey dey warri and baby don big, you wan talk say he no dey kick... Baby dey alright abeg. Na space no too dey again. From 31 sha, they will not be getting enough space to kick because the are seriously adding in size. Even mine now, if I want to check his kick, I take cold water and lie by the side...If you can get 10kicks in 1 hour, baby is ok |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 10:43am On Nov 10, 2017 |
zaynie: Lol! The drama never ends. I think she sits down, thinks for like 2 days and decides on being more foolish.
If anybody is her friend here, biko warn her to desist from her nonsense.
Yabaleftonline likes stories like hers. She might end up losing her home or her job once it comes to light that she's a shady person.
I don't doubt that she has a child. I actually listened to the voice recording of her call with Talltosyne, I could hear kids in the background but she denied her BiL staying with her and immediately she heard nairaland, she cut the phone. But once a liar, always a liar. If rocketsky had simply stopped at throwing shade and didn't go ahead to mention sending money to heroinqc, then maybe I would still believe she needed the help. As I see it, she didn't need help, she needed extra money to shine or do shakara, she got it, it sweet her very well and she wanted more so she decided to endear herself to everyone by cooking weekly super stories for y'all so you could all say "we know her, she's a nice person" but when she brought the useless story of her MiL sleeping on her bed, she saw that we potential MiLs here weren't quick to judge or crucify the woman, she got angry because not only did she feel all her good girl frame was gone, she also felt misunderstood. It didn't soothe her that many other mamas supported her, no it didn't. So she cooked up another fierce moniker to throw shades..... In all rocketsky said, what most annoyed me was "pretenders" she used in her sentence. It was annoying! All of us that spoke against her were mainly firecrackers, we don't hide that we are pepper dem gang. First warning and she slithered away, scared that she had been uncovered. After a few days, Her village people remembered her and she in turn logged in her rocketsky moniker only to finally nail her own coffin with her hand o! Then came the BiL stories...... Girl you lie to much! Is your middle name Lienus? Senseless lies at that. I'm going to assume you're an attention whoree. Let me call the mods to ban your monikers till 2100 
Dominique Mynd44
Heroinqc and Rocketsky are the same person, cooked up a pity story and fleeced unassuming mamas of their money. Please look into it that she doesn't continue with this thievery of hers.
Thank you. Too bad  what a world |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 10:08am On Nov 10, 2017 |
heroinqc: I wanted2 remain silent but for d sake of those mamas dt a6ted me i want2 say dis. Pls i'm nt a scammer, i hv neva scammed any1 n my life. U were nt scammed. U came2my aid during dt period nd I will 4ver remain grateful come what may. Again i'm grateful and wl remain grateful till d end of my life. I wl neva 4get ur kind gestures toward me during dt time. Pls it ws nt a scam. In life thr are at times one passes sm difficulties whc ws wht happened to us and u mamas cm2my rescue, i wl nt 4get dt no mata d insult, i still appreciate dt gudness. My BS ws nt fake, d condition i went thro then ws nt fake it ws real. If it ws fake let all d CURSES melted hr cm2me. But if it ws true nd nt a scam let all d CURSES TURN INTO BLESSINGS FOR ME. Pls u wr nt scamed it ws real u wiped away my tears nd dt is why i will nt 4get. D person dt called me, u hv already resolved in ur heart2 insult me b4d. I've change my password bt wl nt deactivate my acct. Thr is notin i wl explain dt wl be tkn so i wl nt say anytin further. Pls and pls again mamas dt hlpd me u wr nt scammed at all, i'm grateful nd 4ever wl. Thank u nd gud a.m You are not a scammer...Ok?? but the two monikers - do they all belong to you?? What is your aim of staging so many stories especially about your MIL and still came with another moniker to defend your statement?? if you take those your actions on case be case and explain the motive behind each...For the once you have erred, you apologize genuinely. Even Judas used to be disciple of Jesus and Devil enter en head, en auction en Oga sharp sharp but later repented. Likewise Peter wey deny en oga shaperly.It does not make them less a disciple. People fall nd bounce back....Ability to accept your mistake and apologize makes you are greater person. Thee way you still dey put more lies into the matter, E just dey tempt me make I visit the next MFM power must change hand session ontop your matter or be naked by 12am and call your name 7 times in prayer. No verse us oohhh...Please, if your right sense mistakenly throwaway, look for it, wear it back and do the right thing |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 8:33pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
Anugod: Praise God for all team November that have put to bed. We're grateful to God for the journey so far, no sad news recorded. And we shall not record any. Amen. To the remaining November waddling mamas, it will end in praise.
Rant Time! I was at the hospital today and scan was saying I'm 41 weeks already!  I have since been working with my LMP and earliest scan for accuracy, and I still have like 2 weeks by that... But scan recorded post date for me today 
Plus, my baby is on the big side Baby is said to be measuring 4.1kg  And no imminent sign of labour yet 
The head is fully engaged, in fact, doc had to press down on my hoohaa to locate baby's head. How do I make labor start biko?!! This pikin is just there chopping up, despite all my weight control measures 
I'm not tired of the pregnancy o, just scared of the increasing weight. Wetin I go do ooo?! I no believe those scan. DH took me on Saturday to one place around Oshodi they call Clinix for a scan. He asked them whether na 3D, they said yes. We paid and we found out na 1D scanner...my gestational moved by 2 weeks...Baby now weighing 1.7kg. EDD moved from 12th to 4th Jan. Baby will be big..the sonographer screamed. I became a shadow of myself..I no sleep that night..I wan die inside Google..no explanation. On Tuesday, I went to my hospital and they scanned the baby and it was normal week e suppose be and baby weighed 1.45 which is ok for the gestational age. Abeg i will aadvise you don't give yourself headache.. I believe scanner get chinco model sha  |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 12:14pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
myrygurl: Maama the maama ....this one u came for me very hot like this ....
That's why I emphasized on been used genuinely . A lot of people on nl have more than one Monika for different personal reasons u know....So if ones purpose of having plenty moniker is to commit crime then definitely God will surely expose them...Example just happened...
I once pointed out to zaynie that, if someone is soliciting for help, it will be better if the person present a mode of identification like ID card, voters card, drivers licences etc before help can be rendered..
so, having different moniker is not the issue here its the purpose of having it... Sorry dear myrygurl ... No be you i dey verse for. Is people that takes people for granted in the name of saying whatever to attract sympathy. Abeg no vez  |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 11:18am On Nov 09, 2017*. Modified: 11:48am On Nov 09, 2017 |
myrygurl: There is actually nothing bad in having different monikers when used genuinely.... but using it to cause fight on thread, throw shades/clap backs and worst of all scam people of their hard earned resources is not good at all...very lame Common!!! There is everything wrong in having two monikers....Are you two different persons?? Having two monikers looks like you bearing two different names in two instances and that is fraudulent. I suspected the hernioq or whatever moniker but i decide to keep numb when i made my point about his/her preposition that MIL can sleep anywhere and i was washed down by one Mama that said "today is prayer Monday, bla bla bla..." I always raise suspicious on people that comes to social media to make financial appeals indirectly or saying something to attract financial sympathy. If social media never existed, does it mean one cannot meet his /her financial obligations  what happens to relatives and your physical contacts that you have had relationship with overtime before the inception of social media I reserve my further opinions but we should be cautious too and read between lines. Thanks Mama zaynie for speaking up |
Travel › Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Chijiuche: 9:45am On Nov 08, 2017 |
OnJosh1: Thanks a lot Debby516, did you book your ticket directly on their website or through an agent you know or wakanow?
Were you very far gone by the time you travelled? I'm looking at going at 35+1 do you think flight of 16:30hrs Dubai to Houston will be too stressful for me? And do you think the 15hrs Houston to Dubai will be too stressful for me and my baby coming back whether or not I have someone to help out on the flight?
You mentioned you were lodged... I assume it was Emirates that lodged you right? Did you have to do / pay anything extra to get the accomodation?
Just trying to picture the trip using your experience. Thanks a lot. You are not entitle to an accommodation on Emirate with promo ticket. Same with Qatar too....Please ensure you confirm your ticket with them as to whether you are entitle to an accommodation before you pay so you will not be faced with surprise.. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:09am On Nov 08, 2017 |
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:01am On Nov 08, 2017 |
ApotiEriOluwa1: Good morning all.... pls chuk mouth for my matter o, my twin sister is 41wk 5days & she's schedule for an induction today, but she has been in tears since morning because she said it might lead to Cs.. pls mama that has been induced before, Hw is d pain like? is it bearable?
My senior mama's how body dey o, November mama's Hw is d waddling ministry? supernatural delivery to u all o. Dia shall be no loss of any kind Ijn.. Sis..encourage her..Even if na CS, she should just go with an open mind. Let her not argue with the Doctor. She should go with Doctor's recommendation..The most important thing is for Baby and mother to come out sound and alive...The Lord will perfect all that concerns your sister |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 8:58am On Nov 08, 2017 |
LholarB: Off to the Hospital tomorrow,God knows I haff tried (41 wks already). Is well dear... we are awaiting good news |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 7:35pm On Nov 07, 2017 |
Bump Tuesday 30 weeks,4days but scan dey see 31 weeks 5 days  |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 7:34pm On Nov 07, 2017 |
Bumpy Tuesday 30 weeks , 4days but scan dey see 31 weeks 5 days 
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Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 8:28am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Bomgirl: #graphic photos No1: Saturday noon No2: Saturday evening No3: Sunday morning. Didn't snap today cos it had spread and looked eww-ish! I sha used palm oil like you said and the boil-like stuff opened up so I washed with warm water. I can now see empty holes and I feel better. God bless you. Sorry dear....Re you sure you are not lacking some vitamins. Try and check with your doctor |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:42am On Nov 06, 2017*. Modified: 11:30am On Nov 06, 2017 |
heroinqc: Pls read my post very well b4 comentting, which battle will i pick wisely nd who am i battling wit. Pls get it right d bed is nt my personal one neither do i hv my personal room. Its d bed i lie wit dh so i feel thr shld be a limit. If u read my post u wl note dat i'm only xpressing hw i feel, of whch i hv d right to. Did u read whr i said i jump pass any temptation dat wl bring issue btw us cos my prayer i want2 be a gud DIL. I never said i hd a fight with her . Infact i hv never confronted her nd will never do dat. I did'nt say in anyway dat she is dirty. Even if its one room apartment, thr shld be a limit one shld go. She does'nt cuddle d baby on d bed bt only goes to lie him dwn whn he is asleep. Pls thr is no justification for stealing evn if u're starving. Did u read whr i said she is nt staying wit me 4ever, whc calls 4 tolerance. Hv u paid me a visit to knw dat my room is cooler, bed firmer etc. Her son is nt financially bouyant so whtevr he provides 4her to lie evn mat she shld be ok wit dat. Whc DIL wil go2 wake her MIL by 10-11pm from her bed wil nt want2 xpress her feeling. Again i hv every right to xpress hw i feel its nt a crime, and like i said no justification for stealing. So mama ifyalways i dnt no d area u are angry at. Anyway, I and my DH rather lie on a mat that lying on a bed and then relegate the Mat for my mother or mother in law when they visit. They should be more comfortable than us because visitation is a sacrifice from their end |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:20am On Nov 06, 2017 |
laura23: please in which hospital did you get your cerclage done. i am considering doing that on my next pregnancy as i just had a miscarriage at 5 months.. how much does it cost. Sorry dear.....The next one will stay. It is well |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 9:08am On Nov 06, 2017 |
curvilicious: Yes ooooo we are 1month closer! We give God all the glory If you hear your moniker say morning sir! I am not joking with all you teamJanuary2018mamas una too stubborn!
Moniker....................Sex................EDD Zino89......................Blue..............25/01/18 Bomgirl.....................Blue..............29/01/18 Chijiuche..................Blue..............12/01/18 Goldenheart002... ...Blue..............27/01/18 Mbula........................Blue...............7/01/18 MiraclefromGod.......Pink................19/01/18 Curvilicious...............Blue................15/01/18 Gabby18..................... ?.....................11/01/18 MummyAudrey..........Pink..................? Pacypatty...................Surprise........31/01/18 Mafiaqueen...............?......................23/01/18 Jadareese..................Blue................30/01/18 JDQueen...................Pink.................11/01/18 Luvtoteach................Blue.................30/01/18 Mitche15...................Blue.................19/01/18 Derommyvent...........Blue..................17/01/18 Holysteph.................Blue...................05/01/15 Tchidi.........................?......... ..............? Thotiana....................?........................? Momagic.............. ....?........................?
We thank God for the journey thus far. Hope we've bought and parked every every. If you never buy plz start today. Any addition, subtraction, multiplication or division? Plz call my attention to it.
#TeamJ4January4supernaturalchildbirth&healthyLos#
Over&Out! Hallo Cappo....I am always royal  . Somethings just dey worry me now.... hubby said make we to 3D scan for LO and the scan EDD automatically changed from 12th to 4th....Baby is now 31+ as against 30+. Please which one is correct  Abeg experienced Mama, make una help advise |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 3:26pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
AlphaHandMaiden: If you are being induced,....... go for epidural biko, pros include, should induction fail, it is very easy to switch the drugs being administered to a stronger version to allow for CS if required.
Also decide on time, because if you are initially doing hebrew woman and decide you later on, you want to be egyptian woman... the anaesthetist may be busy in theatre at the time you decide and you will have to wait......1 minute will be like 40 days!
the cons of back pain" is debatable as to if it is the epidural itself or just bad posture new moms seem to have mostly from breastfeeding in the wrong position or multitasking while carrying baby... all these things alter our postures so all the bad press is not entirely justified.
there is a small risk of paralysis, however that is why it is usually carried out by a specialist and you have to keep really still when the needle is being inserted - also a good reason to have it done when the pain is still bearable so that you can still keep still when the contraction hits.
it might slow down labour but you will be constantly monitored and ensure this is not the case.
You may not feel the contractions and know when to push, but you should have a monitor that tracks you contractions and the nurse/ doctor will guide you on when you need to push.
Is it worth it.... HELLL yeah! Are you less of a woman? HELLL no.
if anyone starts quoting Hebrew woman to you, tell them to carry their 5000 year practice and shove it where the sun don't shine, no be you give Adam apple chop , why should you suffer unnecessarily. Lol! @ Hebrew woman. Thanks my Sister. Will subscribe for it kia kia. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 1:54pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
PatKing: Had epidural for cs, I guess it is, given in the spine, with a very long needle. Well, though wasn't so effective (painless, but they estimated it wont last through the whole process) on me (had it for 10min, just enough to see my kid, then I was knocked out)... was put on general anaesthesia once baby was out.
My side effect was Back ache. I was pre-warned. On and off back ache for about a year.
Amongst the long lecture I received was the possibility of losing functionality of your waist down for life, but very rarely... please this must be admistared by specialist only... on the whole of Abuja, i learnt they are not up to 3.
Will I do it again... oh yes!!! All this labour room stories.... pardon me Mommas   It is well, i will opt for it....I no get liver to carry pain..Thanks dear |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 1:50pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
jaysmama: Pros Completely pain free labour and delivery. Was busy chewing on ice lolly while watching TV
Cons( My experience ) It slowed down my labour I had body and joint pains for some time after delivery
Cons ( Other people's experience ) Headaches after delivery Backache I am really glad I took the epidural with my last delivery it just made childbirth seem so easy. My first two were without and I just didn't want to experience labour pain a 3rd time. If your hospital is able to do it properly then go for it. Thanks dear jaysmama |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chijiuche: 10:05am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Happy new month my able Mamas especially my wonderful Jan mamas. Cant believe I will be 30 weeks by Friday. How time flies. Please, Is it advisable to use epidural  I want to opt for it ooo....This contraction pain wey i dey hear, e get as e dey do me for body. What are the Prons and cons of Epidural...Abeg, Experienced Mama makeuna chuk mouth for this request. Waiting for expert advise |