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na2day?:
she ready to fight? how dat one take affect the price of garri?


nne, biko add my yansh to that one too

Na me you dey ask? Ask her

0hsisi:
Ara gbachikwe ya nti!
he wants her to begin paying the mortgage even before marriage
Thank God she ran away from the efulefu
If she starts paying mortgage as a girlfriend,what will happen after the wedding.
She may start changing her own oil and giving the cars major tune ups
Some men have no shame at all.
Imagine the likeness

This girl is going to be a pharmacist soon o meanwhile bobo has nothing to show for it o! All in the name of ndi brother church. Ala kubie kwa ya nti!
Oweghi ihe mmadu n'agahi ahu n'ezu a o! Men out there are chaff these days kam gwa kwa gi

Why choose when you can have both! Why are you lot finding her trouble na? She is ready to fight o

0hsisi:
Biko gba wa nno
Ike a gwu kwa la gi
Ma ndi n'aru na candy factory ma ndi n'aru security without papers sef

The annoying part is that these men will be spending the woman's money like no man's business
There's one I know here.
When they bought a house, he won't let us drink water and keep cup, yet we all know his wife is the one feeding him
Lazy man with 3 abi 4 kids,calls himself a business man, in his head I suppose
He even has a business (complimentary ) card
Instead of him to enter school and study something and find a real job, everytime he takes a trip to Nigeria, perambulating all over the place like a lunatic instead of getting a job
Call his house at 1PM in the afternoon (hoping to leave a msg),he picks up the phone
what normal man is home at 1PM
He should thank his stars he married a wife like that his wife who has decided to be a beast of burden,working like Jackie
I would have kicked him out a long time ago
I don't know how a man with hands and feet can get away with this sort of thing.

Awulam o! he heeeeeeeeeeeeeeee heheeeeeeeeeeeee
And elekwanu onye di 36 ga n'agba ahu uforo? Osi ona acho i act movie soon. lol M chia ochi gbalaga. Imasi uduru ndi ahu wu ndi n'acho onye ga akwuru ha ugwo ulo. There's this dude my friend almost married and ima ihe osiri my friend " Eme ka m nye gi mortgage ka ikwutuwa"

Can you imagine nonsense? I know most of these men have nothing to do but to live off their wives ; tomorrow they will say she is insulting and all that crap! Akuko! Nwoke choro kam kwura ya ugwu ulo ebido beghi at all!

0hsisi:
It is very common in this place
Look at the average nurse in this America,what do their husbands do?
Drive cabs, work in warehouses, prison wardens,grocery store workers etc.
Some are even married to doctors and of course many of those marriages don't last
By the time the girl stabilises herself professionally,she will be ashamed to be seen in public with the man or tell her friends what he does.
I have seen it.
Some can't even construct a common sentence in English without one wondering if they were speaking in English or their native Mbano dialect
Poor woman will be feeling humiliated every time her husband Ebenezer opens his mouth to talk in public
Life is too short to marry a man you're not proud of,don't even dare.

He heeeeeeeeeeee! I don die with laugh. There is this guy here who when he speaks English yet it sounds like Igbo even though he is speaking English o! kai! That is something else I swear. Enwere onye nke sim na ona aru na factory campbell soup. Oso atam n'ukwu

0hsisi:

Don't marry a man beneath you
You'll regret it
I have seen it happen
He has to be as educated as you are , preferably more
He has to earn at least as much as you are,preferably more
I'm not saying a woman should leave her husband if he loses his job or she starts earning more than he does
far be it from me
But from the get go,he needs to wear the pants like a man and being financially superior at the time of marriage will place him where he ought to be if not you may have a very insecure man in your hands that'll overcompensate his insecurities by being abusive and intimidating.
That's the way it normally goes.
Be wise
Choose carefully. Weed off the psychos and weed off the jobless

I think that is the worst thing to do actually. Marry a man who is not educationally and intellectually up to par. I believe a man has to be educationally smarter than his woman. I once dated this guy who studied Engineering at UCL and quite frankly if nothing his eloquence speaks volumes and still does till date. Nothing beats having a man one can look up to. Again, I agree with what you've said. Mgbe m huru onye ahu then I will settle down otherwise kam were anyam gbara owem xmas. Umu nwoke di iberibe juru ebe n'ile these days.

0hsisi:
My dear don't mind these people
A woman should pray that her man makes more than her
Nigerian men  in particular can't handle a woman that earns more
Please stick to your convictions but don't forget to look at potentials
A man  that may not be making much today but obviously has the potentials to make a lot more, is also an excellent catch (of course with the other qualities you want in a guy)
But whatever you do,never ever walk down the aisle with a man without a job
Your mother will faint for you
the other men you should flee from are those ones that tell you they are "doing business" and will soon hit it big
Their containers full of merchandise are on the high sea
yet they are borrowing money from you to buy things they need
Please run far far away.

Ima si ndi iberibe juru ebea. I completely agree with what you've got to say.

0hsisi:
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Kitikpa rachaa kwa gi anya dia!
how can you equate a woman wanting a man with a job to her wanting money
who doesn't want money if I may even ask
who wants a jobless suitor?
what will he use to marry the wife? donations or what
Is that not a shameful thing
that a man can't even marry his own wife properly like a man
what's next?
he'll move her in with his parents
beg for money to food and pay the maternity after his wife delivers a baby
beg around for similac to feed the poor baby
he may even have to beg his fellow men to help him impregnate his wife sef since he's now a professional beggar

Owu otu onye iberibe ji si na m di after ego nwoke mmadu maka na m si anaghim alu onye na akpata obere ego.

Well let me know how it goes.

Ebonyeyes:
Hahahaha I wish I was a fly on the wall on that one I was planning to give them a Police stations number Matterfact, I might just do that if I get one of those mails again.

lol my hand no dey o! Should be a fun thing to do though

They actually reply when you ask them? I know someone who once gave them the run around. Had them call a local fast food and all. It was very funny

lol you no well with that reply at all

I know! Was only kidding. I should use emoticons often

justwise:
Just wanted to know if u got ANY serious reason to fall inlove with his money rather than his personality or looks.

Why ask a question when you've already butchered, staked and knifed what I had to say? Surely you weren't asking to know any reasons were you? If so, then you would have worded your reply a tad differently

jellybean:
Na wa o! Ok make i rephrase, If I was to go into this, of course is what people can afford I will bring to the table. There are a million other brand names that have fantastic quality. I wasn't thinking of just High end brand names like Burberry and co. I got my mum a matching silver clutch and shoes from bakers which was approximately $250 together and she loved them and guess what, 3 years later and it's still going strong and kampe!

I have thought about it and still thinking, there are three levels to this whole brand kini;
High end cost brand
Mid end cost brand
and Low end cost brand.

I rest my case

Okay I get it now. Oya no vex o! Carry on then.

justwise:
Done that already.

Then why ask the rhetorical question then? Clap for yourself

justwise:
So in your own case its love of money and not having source of income?

Conclude whatever you wish

Ebonyeyes:
Please Miss cherie by Dior smells like cat pi55 to me Most disgusting piece of expensive cat pi55

My partner in crime? Have you tried Romance by RL? I just got one. Amazing thing!

LDR do work when there are long term goals set in place ie marriage in the works and the two people finally moving in together but to date as in just dating long distance?? Waste of time!

I won't even marry a man who makes a lot less than I do talkless of one without a job! Yeah right! When the pigs fly

Ebonyeyes:
For where? we are becoming more sedentary people drive everywhere these days even if its just round the corner

Even for people in the village?I doubt it.

Why would any sensible woman put those sort of photos on the net to begin with? And why are you lot even voting for such crap??

Sagamite:
Not necessarily. It might be nurture, it might be phobia/fetish/natural instincts, it might be self-expression/fashion statement. All are as frequent a reason as confidence.

Ok then.

ibkaye:
Not a must, rather I'd say a bonus, then there's the guitar, charming

Magz Plays the guitar. You might wanna give him a whirl

We have nothing to worry about in Nigeria. By the time people eat KFC and walk back home; they've burned all the calories already

Sagamite:
No, it does not mean a bad thing, it just means it is a lower down the scale attribute if you don't really require it in abundance.

So it just means chika likes a 5ft 11 smart Harvard Law grad with impeccable fashion style and friends in top places in life but he has average confidence.  

I will take average over being overt anytime. Usually when people pay attention to details and how they look and smell that means their confidence is pretty high. Just saying

Sagamite:
lol

I lie?

No, not necessarily so. It may just be moderate confidence.

So when is moderate a bad thing? Overt is cocky and that is never attractive so what are you saying?

Not everyone in Nigeria can afford big Designer names. We are talking Tom Ford, LV, Prada, Gucci, Burberry,Louboutin and the rest of em. Think deeply about this before you venture out on it. I cannot even afford these brand names sef

OP
Why are you always cynical about everything?? Maybe if you had something a tad more positive to say then people would respond without abusive responses.

Intelligence
Fashion Sense( Someone with a great fashion sense has confidence)
Height
Wealth
Power and Influence

I do have a tiny little bit on my face. It is very weird

jellybean:
Speaking of fake eyelash, I think that will be good as well but please add the adhesive glue along, rumour has it that the babes in Naija use some kind of glue that end up taking their natural ones out LOL!!!!!

Human hair weave and wig will be good too, I dunno where they find those caricature ones they are now wearing in the movies o! The ones i see here are 300% better than those rubbish in naija.

For makeup, I still stand with Mac,Napoleon and Cover girl. Once babes discover the real Mac, I'm sure they will come back for more with their babes and bobos.

I think I just choked on my own laugh! Ha heaha hehehehahahahahaahahahahaahahaha

Fake Mac Ke? Nothing Naija no go fake o! Na wa

Losing baby weight is one of those things that scare me a lot. Like how can one lose all that weight? Would be a good idea to get into Nutris System or one of those diet stuff to at least lose all the baby weight.