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It might be too early to send him packing out but the time for him to start thinking of finding his own place is near.

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Telling a man(typical Nigerian male) that you like him is enough to send him over the edge. But still I like to watch them act like little kids. I like you doesn't mean I am in love with you or anything like that. It simply means "I think you are cool enough to talk to" Nothing more nothing less.

Why am I in shock that we won

platinumnk:
u do care. why do u want to see a pic so bad?

So that he can ask for YIM address

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=386576.msg5383874#msg5383874 date=1264437516]Thank you ma sweetie.
If you remotely know any gold-digging Naija sister, can you kindly direct her my way? [/quote]Surely you have no problems meeting em.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=386576.msg5383845#msg5383845 date=1264437330]They are the ones messing with us and they are by far the cheapest to LAY.
Material things govern them and as long as Naija men dangle those material stuffs, their morals and principles go out of the window.[/quote]Okay then carry on

Fhemmmy:
You think a man should submit to the wife?
I think submission from the man to the wife is respect . . . a man has to protect and respect his wife more than even himself.

This is why I said people should define what it means to them when and before they marry. The meaning changes from person to person

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=386576.msg5383764#msg5383764 date=1264436816]Unfortunately, Naija girls do.
It's all about the material things they can brag about and i ain't talking teenagers here.
I am talking about full blown adults who should know better. I don't have any pity for any Naija woman that gets played.
95% of them asked for it.

Let em get PLAYED until they learn to date with honesty.
Bad guys can spot gold-diggers.[/quote]You men need to stop messing about with materialistic women too. Haba!

The truth is submission means different things to different people from different backgrounds. The best thing is for the two married people to define what it means to them both and go on with it.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=386576.msg5383671#msg5383671 date=1264436185]May God forgive you.


Naija men get married to Naija men in this city every weekend.
It's a MYTH. Girls need to wake up from their dizziness and get the right breed of men.
All that glitters ain't gold. Instead of y'all to pitch tents with the honest security men or ticket officers, you want the ones driving Porsche Cayenne, X6 and McLaren Benz.[/quote]Everyone isn't as fickle minded as the women you've mentioned above. The car a man drives doesn't define who he is or what he is all about. Sauron you know better than that. I am talking about innate qualities here and not material things. You lot over there in Europe don't even need to drive because public transportation is so efficient. So that doesn't even count. No one cares about your car.

Delusions. Highly Impossible.

Those issues that broke you guys up need to be addressed otherwise it will come up again.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=386576.msg5383551#msg5383551 date=1264435356]I wonder o. . . . . .
9ja men from Birmingham, Coventry, Manchester and Leeds come to London to commit and yet we London blokes get blamed for their atrocities.
Life is a Arrow, init?

It's a MYTH but when Naija women date the bad eggs amongst us and generalise then there's nothing the good eggs can do about it.

Make that GREEN. [/quote]When there are many of the bad ones to choose from, the good ones become extinct and hence the complaints. There is some truth to the cliche.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=386576.msg5383511#msg5383511 date=1264435066]Naija men in London are liars, cheats and dishonest?
Cheese n Rice. . . . . . .I musta heard this cliche 4000 times.[/quote]Then there must be some truth to this "cliche"

davidylan:
Most women dont understand this but YOU are the type of men you attract.

I think a lot of them understand this perfectly. Hence the not so worthy men they keep meeting. This is not to say that once in a while one won't meet someone who isn't worth your time.

Why would anyone in their right mind "lend" money to a man whom they barely even know. As a friend yes but as a potential BF then NO!

madlady:
They sound like very nice guys

I know they do sound very nice

That chic wearing studded everything plus the S in studded! I love her shades though. I want it!

His son is not bad looking at all

Men can never be more faithful than women. 95% if not more of married men and those yet to be married will cheat. Almost one-fourth of that will feel no remorse  after doing it. A wise man once said " the only thing wrong with the institution of marriage is that men aren't wired to be monogamous".

Of course there are exceptions to this but how many of the women out there will end up with the rarest of breeds that fall into that 5% that will never cheat?? Odds are not looking good at all.

Uche2nna:
Hahahahahahahaha.

Opinions are like buttholes, we all gat one.


Anyways, back at the pics,
Those styles are definitely unique but they still look faggedy to me. Sue me  

LOL who has the time or money for that? still they look HOT to me

Nothing dey par!

spikedcylinder:
Yea, because most straight men lack style.

Tell THEM!
Most of them think wearing jeans that fit is a crime. I swear Nigerian men have no clue about fashion. Their European counterparts try but the ones in America have no clue!

Those men look very hot and stylish to me

lol@ these wolves! Nah I will do one of these days. Make una chill

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=381794.msg5358351#msg5358351 date=1264033174]Yep . . i do see the tomboyish thing going on but still chic tho [/quote]Don't worry I will put a photo up sometime for you to peep at

Sounds like something I heard a while back. Woman told 3 men to come back home with her as she doesn't know who to pick yet. Told them "" You all better get ready for I might choose either one of you""

stillwater:
I just wanted to show the dress. Isn't it pretty? Better say yes. I'm more brown skinned.

lol the dress is cute. I'm not into African wear either. I have no idea why.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=381794.msg5358294#msg5358294 date=1264032461]your style is kinda oyinbo-ish

@topic
Ri ri all day [/quote]Oyibo ko? More like a European male crossed with a woman. Got the picture now? Some of the things I wear people wonder how I come up with it

The momentum was built up but then the climax wasn't up to it. Spikeycylinder whatever he may have done just forgive and forget. His post did come from the heart.

Chai! I missed the photo.

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=129454.msg5358303#msg5358303 date=1264032535]girl dnt make me puke [/quote]Want to add deodorant to that?

It is the western mentality. Back in Nigeria women that are hairy are considered sexy so as men but not here. The one I cannot stand is under arm hair. Pretty disgusting!!

Stillwater why is your face crossed out? You're pretty light skinned though.

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My style is androgyny mixed with chic, elegant, modern, vintage and everything stylish! This lady here speaks to me